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No. 163: Use These Real-life Business Plans, to Speak With Investors About Your Poultry Farm Start-up

Starting today, I now offer for sale – with free customization – TWO Poultry Layer Farm Start-up Business Plans (prepared for/purchased by a client in South-West Nigeria).

The first is for funding of a 1,000 layer farm, while the second is for funding of a 1,700 layer farm.

Both contain 100% REAL LIFE data.

They were prepared for the client’s use in approaching investors to part-fund his project with him, in exchange for agreed return on investment.

If you’re looking to raise funds to either start your own Poultry Farm businesses or to expand what you already own, take a look at THIS offer.

 

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Publication: Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS Newsletter

Date: Monday 13th October 2014

No:163

Title: Use These Real-life Business Plans, to Speak With Investors About Your Poultry Farm Start-up

Author & Publisher: Tayo K. Solagbade [Tel: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic) ]

Blog URL: http://www.tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets

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No. 163: Use These Real-life Business Plans, to Speak With Investors About Your Poultry Farm Start-up

Starting today, I now offer for sale – with free customization – TWO Poultry Layer Farm Start-up Business Plans (prepared for/purchased by a client in South-West Nigeria).

The first is for funding of a 1,000 layer farm, while the second is for funding of a 1,700 layer farm.

Both contain 100% REAL LIFE data.

They were prepared for the client’s use in approaching investors to part-fund his project with him, in exchange for agreed return on investment.

If you’re looking to raise funds to either start your own Poultry Farm businesses or to expand what you already own, take a look at THIS offer.

It goes without saying, that you cannot go empty handed to SPEAK to a prospective investor.

Even if s/he is a relative, you stand a better chance of being taken seriously, IF you show you’re well prepared. A good way to do that is by showing up with a well prepared formal plan.

This is why my offer comes with a FREE business plan preparation/customization option EACH buyer can take advantage of.

Below this preamble, is a screen shot of the offer page announcing my 2-in-1 real-life poultry layer farm start-up business plan bundle (with ZERO COST customization) offer.

Further down on that page, I also hint at the fact that I’m currently compiling my top performing articles on Farm Business, Public Speaking, Parenting, Career Development & Entrepreneurship, for use in publishing what I intend to be a long running e-book series on EACH of those categories.

In other words, I will be publishing an e-book(s) on each of those categories , by selecting what I assess to be the best performing set of my (over 700) blog articles.

As a subscriber to my newsletter, I’ll be offering YOU a hefty 25% discount to purchase ANY of the new books you choose, once they go LIVE in my online store.

You can view screen shot images, and read details about the 4 new e-books on Farm Business on the offer page.

The screen shots display sets of articles I’m currently reviewing on the each of the following themes:

a. Farm Business Startup (Information, Education & Inspiration

b. Farm Business Feed Formulation

c. Farm Business Marketing &

d. Best Practice Farm Management ( & Performance Measurement) for Profits

The 4 new Farm Business Best Practice Educational E-book should go LIVE in my online store this week.

Learn more on the offer page…!

Click to view offer page - Screenshot of offer page - Get 2 Real Life Poultry Layer Farm Start-up Business Plans (PLUS Customization)!

Click here to continue reading on the offer page.

Have a great week :-))

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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“Tayo, I honestly believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything he does. Your commitment and effort has been outstanding….Thanks for all your hard work since I’ve been here – you will be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. – Andy”(R. Jones)*

*Operations Manager, Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery, December 2001 (Handwritten comments in farewell/xmas cards sent to Tayo Solagbade following his resignation to start his own business).

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Creating Your OWN Original Content is Definitely NOT Beyond YOU (Practical Ideas YOU Can Use)!

In a 2013 article (click here) I said: “The Fast-Food” Mentality Does Not Work in Business Related Writing”. That’s especially true online. This article contains MY near decade long experience based advice for website owners who may be struggling to find new, useful and original content to publish on their sites.

Even if 99.9% of other websites copy and paste other people’s content on their website, it is no justification for YOU to join them in doing it!

YOU were given a fully functional brain by God. Otherwise, you could not venture into an activity like website news “reporting” as a BUSINESS!

For heavens sake, when you’re publishing based on a BBC News report, let’s know it’s a BBC News report. Don’t borrow ALL the wordings from BBC and then say YOU are telling us a BREAKING NEWS STORY!

Incidentally, you can DEVELOP your God-given brain to its FULL potential, to come up with your own ORIGINAL wording for the same bit of news.

That way, when you publish on YOUR website, no one can accuse you of “copying and pasting”.(NB: Even then, you’re still better off stating your source!! )

The problem is our quick-fix culture today makes too many people, TOO much in a hurry to get results. So, they are often unwilling to spare the time to do the needed.

When you paraphrase another person’s original words/thoughts, if you did NOT originally CONCEIVE those “ideas” as your OWN brainchild, you MUST give due ATTRIBUTION: SAY SO e.g. “this was originally written or said by XYZ and I found it so compelling that I had to share it here on my website”.

Also an element of GREED is at play here, in the sense some people want to enjoy PRESTIGE and RECOGNITION from their fans and followers by passing off someone else’s “content” they gain privileged access to, as theirs!

It’s so bad now that many do not even know where/when to stop…

For instance, in another article I wrote 2013, titled “Young People Must Be Taught To Be Original! (click to read)!“, I narrated how I discovered a young blogger in Nigeria’s Anambra state using a “stolen and viciously manipulated” version of my popular Cost-Saving Farm Business Ideas article titled “Producing Good Catfish is Important, But Finding Good Buyers Is Imperative” (click to read).

For instance, in another article I wrote 2013 (click here), titled 'Young People Must Be Taught To Be Original! (click to read)!', I narrated how I discovered a young blogger in Nigeria's Anambra state using a 'stolen and viciously manipulated' version of my popular Cost-Saving Farm Business Ideas article titled 'Producing Good Catfish is Important, But Finding Good Buyers Is Imperative' (click to read).

Not only did he copy and paste it, without including my by-line on his blog, would you believe he also went as far as REPLACING my phone number with his, at the end, where I asked the reader to call me for help in making use of the ideas in my article???

I was so livid that I called him from where I was in a Cotonou cyber cafe and gave him a 24 hour ultimatum to remove the article. And I warned him that if he did not, I would lodge a complaint with regulatory bodies on the web – which would get his host to shut down his site.

Read the rest of the story here…

The truth, as I’ve said in past articles is that in certain climes (e.g Nigeria), there is a VERY severe disregard for intellectual property protection […in case you did not know it, I AM a full blooded 44 year old Nigerian, born and raised there].

Even religious leaders “borrow” other people’s content, and pass it off as theirs for use in preaching to their followers. I KNOW this because I have worked closely with some who did this right before my very eyes!

In order to protect myself (I’ve had many instances in which I had to chase down content thieves online in other parts of the world), about a year ago, I began using the Content Protection service offered by http://www.dmca.com/ on my blog.

Another thing I did to protect myself – from early on – was to DELIBERATELY seek to saturate the web with my articles via a syndication service like Ezinearticles.com

That way, if anyone tried to use my work, the search engines would be more likely to readily link the words with my name – since getting it accepted from me at Ezinearticles.com implied I had been verified to be the original author.

If you own a website, and you know you publish 100% original content, you may wish to do the same things I did.

1. Consider using the FREE version of the http://www.dmca.com/ service.

2. Also try doing some article marketing via Ezinearticles.com

3. Then, if you are willing to challenge yourself, try and be a bit more prolific in your writing. Be sure you write useful, good quality content though – NOT fluff!

4. Use Social Media channels to republish/propagate your content

The above will over time make the search engines, and people who come in contact with your work, recognize you, as the OWNER of your words – and TRUST you. Once that happens,. you should be reasonably safe from content thieves.

Even if a dispute come up, you WILL have a trail of evidence (in form of your relentlessly created volume of past writing/content) to present as proof that you have NO NEED to steal other people’s stuff!

It’s worked fairly well for me so far, which is why I READILY tell others that no website on EARTH can lay claim to ANY of the content on my websites!

On a final note, some funny characters have argued to my hearing, that when people choose to copy from you, it’s a form of flattery.

My answer has always been that when flattery HURTS me, I cannot see it as that (i.e flattery) anymore.

People who pass off my work as theirs DENY me the recognition and reward due to me as the OWNER and ORIGINATOR of that content.

It is certainly NOT something for me to smile about!

That’s why I agree with Debra Gould, who wrote the EXCELLENT article titled “Copying Web Content Isn’t Flattery – It’s Plagiarism(click to read)!”

PS: In case you wonder, here’s what qualifies me to speak competently on THIS issue!

I write a new article daily – from Monday to Saturday (sometimes Sunday) on this blog – and ONE of my key reasons (which I initially chose NOT to announce) was to PROVE to any doubters that I AM the original author of whatever appears on my blog.

Today, a lot of my content is widely syndicated online.

On this website – www.tayosolagbade.com – I have over 1,000 articles.

And each day that passes, at least ONE new article (or my weekly newsletter), or a new PDF report, or a Power Point Slide show, or You tube Video joins them.

One of my reasons for doing this is that years ago, I got emails asking “Are you really the one who writes that volume of stuff?”

That annoyed me a lot.

In reality, I’ve found that people who express such doubts often lack the Emotional Intelligence to stick to their purpose with integrity – especially if they feel they cannot see an immediate reward.

And since they can’t they find it hard to believe any other person can!

What they did not know was that all my life I had been succeeding by excelling in areas where few ventured to dare.

As an employee, over a 7 year period in Guinness Nigeria, I excelled using my self-taught spreadsheet programming skills to single handedly build spreadsheet software that replaced manual data recording and report generation processes in different departments I worked.

No one else could do what I did, and I gained rapid recognition across the company for it – including the IT department. Rapid career advancement opportunities resulted in the process.

As an online entrepreneur, I AM doing the same thing…e.g by building and selling custom MS Excel-VB Driven software, writing creative content for use by clients, on and off the web etc.

Not only do I create new and original content in various channels, I also happen to create stuff that gets me the positive attention and interest of PAYING clients within and outside Africa.

Plus, my work has also earned me “recognition” and acknowledgement from established experts online.

Achieving the above does NOT come easily.

It takes hard work and diligence to relentlessly create new and useful content to publish on such a regular basis.

I spend hundreds of hours THINKING up new ideas, then writing, and building new content based on them to promote my products and services!

It may interest you to know that over 80% of my buyers, find me online, on their own, without having ever heard from, or about me before. And it is my WRITTEN content which they encounter online – often via search engines – that brings them to me!

Let me add here that I have to do my own content creation, while STILL delivering similar material to my clients!

That’s not a vocation for the faint hearted – or lazy…OR intellectually indolent…!

But because I’ve been doing it for so long, and it is My PASSION, I get it done quite well, quickly – seemingly effortlessly.

So much so that I still find plenty of time to spend with my kids – and share valuable REAL LIFE skills with them (see example below)

It is the above – evidence of which is available on THIS BLOG and my other websites – that makes me VERY competent to comment on this pandemic of Content Abuse that plagues us in Nigeria.

I hope those concerned will have the dignity and self-respect to mend their ways from today!

Final Words: Here’s why ANYONE guilty of content abuse in any form should mend their ways…

You have been made in the IMAGE and LIKENESS of the Creator Himself.

Therefore a SMALL task like creating your OWN original content is definitely NOT beyond YOU!

[SNEAK PREVIEW : How We Cheaply Make Cup Cakes without an Oven or Cooker, & Sell Them for ProfitBy Tayo, Fela, Emeka, & Chika SOLAGBADE (FREE PDF Download)]

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This document is password protected. If YOU are able to open and read this document, after downloading, it means you are my web marketing client and had password access that I supplied via phone SMS – at my own expense.

PDF: How to Auto-Schedule New Posts to Appear On Your Facebook Wall At a  Future Date or Time (<em>For BUSY People Who Need to Save Time! Click now to download

[NB: If you have yet to receive your password, let me know and I will re-send: but ONLY to the phone number you have on record with me, and on which I communicate with you.]

If you are my web marketing client, PLEASE respect the terms under which I make this PDF available to you i.e. DO NOT share this tutorial PDF with ANYONE else. Only my paid web marketing clients are eligible to make use of it.

If you are NOT my web marketing client, and wish to gain access to resources like this one, which I periodically create and deliver via email newsletter broadcasts to my clients, click here to send me a message.

I thank you in advance for your kind consideration, and for your cooperation.

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SNEAK PREVIEW: How We Cheaply Make Cup Cakes without an Oven or Cooker (PDF) – By Tayo, Fela, Emeka,and Chika SOLAGBADE

This is a precursor to our forthcoming Quick Start Guide Book titled “How to Cheaply Make Cup Cakes without an Oven or Cooker & Sell Them for Profit” – based on what we do, as a family.

Details of the book’s contents are supplied at the end of this PDF, which – for now – offers some background about why we do what we do, the way we do it.

PLUS, a little peek into an impromptu real life production session we had yesterday – Tuesday 8th October 2014!

This is a precursor to our forthcoming Quick Start Guide Book titled “How to Cheaply Make Cup Cakes without an Oven or Cooker & Sell Them for Profit” – based on what we do, as a family.

Start Something You Never Need to Retire From (Hint: Why We All Need to Emulate Muhammad Ali – the BOXER, and the MAN!)

“When you saw me in the boxing ring fighting, it wasn’t just so I could beat my opponent. My fighting had a purpose. I had to be successful in order to get people to listen to the things I had to say.” – MUHAMMAD ALI, The Soul of a Butterfly

I recently watched a video – click here to watch now – of Muhammad Ali (at age 35) speaking to a large audience (comprising adults and kids). A young boy asked him “What will you do when you retire?” Ali’s answer proved his boxing genius was matched by an acute sense of “life purpose”.

Basically, Ali told the young mane and the listening audience how he’d emerged from deep reflection to realize that after he retired from boxing, the best way to spend his time would be helping others.

Now, he did not just state it simply in a few words. Ali – always a man who practiced what he preached – took the audience on what I would call an intellectual journey of self-discovery. Especially as it relates to finding one’s purpose in line with the creator’s will.

In order to prepare their minds, Ali started by asking if there were people in the audience who believed in God. Then he asked to see the hands of any who did NOT believe there was a God. In both cases there were hands raised.

To one of those closest to him amongst the latter group, Ali then used the analogy of how the different parts of the world came into existence.

But before that he took asked if man made objects we use daily – like cups etc – could have made themselves. The answer was no.

Following upon that, he then asked if those who claimed not to believe in God could explain how such well planned collection of parts that make up the earth came into being.

Ali went on to conclude that the amazing complexity of the earth itself provided ample proof that a superior and supreme form on intelligence, well above ours, was at work.

So, for him, he said that was why he was convinced of God’s existence.

And as a result, he knew there had to be a purpose for which God had made him. Ali added that if Hell – where those who fail to do God’s will are said to be sent – existed, he would rather work to NOT go there after he dies.

In order to achieve that goal of making heaven, Ali said he had thought of the active years in his life outside those spent sleeping etc – and decided he would use his fame and success to help others e.g. by partnering with NGOs and other support groups.

AND THAT, he said was what he would do after he retired from boxing.

What Amazing Foresight from a Man of Real Vision!

Today, everybody knows that Ali has kept his word with regard to what he said on that day. Several decades ago as a young man.

And his fame has not waned up till now. Neither has the respect and admiration AND love he enjoys from people across the world diminished. This is one man with the rare ability to make people forget their differences. The Muhammad Ali Centre continues to carry on the Ali legacy of helping those who need it.

And Ali remains a central figure – even now in his old age, and despite the health challenge he has had to deal with.

His words spoken over the past decades that get shared on the wall of his Facebook page continue to inspire millions across the world. I, for one continue to draw MASSIVE inspiration from this man’s words that I read as a fan on his page.

Each of Us Needs to Emulate Ali – By Choosing to Start Something We Won’t Need to Retire From

Ali did that. He looked beyond his vocation, to carve out a vision – and a mission from the vision.

He had a message for the world, and he was determined to share that message. But he knew the world would not easily pay attention to a person who was not NOTEWORTHY. So, he let that need to make them LISTEN to him drive his boxing efforts.

That led him to explore all sorts of creative ways to draw attention to himself while boxing.

For example, Ali’s habit of using rhyming poems to communicate – especially to opponents – was unique. Till date, no other boxer has succeeded in doing what he did so well.

As a result, even when he was not boxing, he remained in demand.

People wanted not just to SEE him. They also wanted to hear him speak. To know what he thought about issues affecting them. Even to know what his stand was.

Evidence that Ali’s thinking was as described above can be found in material he shares from his archives even today.

For instance, not long ago, he shared a photo of himself, with a quote that helped me better understand why he chose to adopt such a boldly vocal approach to his own brand of boxing.

When you saw me in the boxing ring fighting, it wasn’t just so I could beat my opponent. My fighting had a purpose. I had to be successful in order to get people to listen to the things I had to say. – MUHAMMAD ALI, The Soul of a Butterfly [Click here for source]

Each of us can do what Ali did i.e Use your VISION for the future, to drive yourself to EXCEL at what you do NOW!

No matter what it is. Think of how you can link what you succeed at today, to what you can do well into your later years that can make the lives of others better.

That desire to achieve your long term vision will help you do what it takes to excel in your more immediate pursuits.

Then later on, you will find that the platform of success you arrive on in future, will make it easy to carry on with your bigger vision/mission right into your old age.

That’s why Ali’s impact continues to be felt even today – LONG after he retired from boxing. Each one of us can make our impact felt the same way too – if we emulate the great Muhammad Ali!

“I try not to speak about all the charities I help, because I believe we can only be truly generous when we expect nothing in return.” – Muhammad Ali

 

Every Time You Achieve Success, Find Out Why, So That You Can Reproduce It.

I often groan when I hear a celebrity answer the question about the secret of his/her success by saying something like “Na God O!” (i.e. “It’s God’s handiwork!”).  You see, I also succeed with God’s help. BUT, I KNOW there’s more to success achievement than saying “Na God O!” suggests!

And this is where successful people in developed societies often differ from us.

Read an interview with them, and you’ll come away with practical ideas – sometimes step by step instructions – of how to proceed in trying to replicate the success they are celebrated for.

That is why they are able to write books that offer actionable advice on how to succeed the way they have. It is why they are able to demystify their own success achievement for those following them to learn from, and improve upon.

In our societies across Africa too many successful people rarely offer tangible insights into what made them succeed. But to be fair, sometimes they actually do not know – or have not given it enough thought to articulate it into any useful form.

The truth is NOT all those who say they worship God are able to produce performances that will make them become successful/celebrated personalities!

And that is because there are so many specific actions/steps that successful persons take that those NOT as successful do not take as frequently and/or as diligently.

When The Right Questions Are Asked, More Useful Answers Emerge

I believe that many of the interviewed authentic celebrities I refer to would have loved to give more insight into HOW and WHAT made them succeed, if the right kinds of “probing” questions had been asked of them.

Unfortunately, often times their interviewers are not alert to the need to do this for the enhanced benefit of their viewing/listening audiences.

Anyone who has read transcripts of the popular “Conversations With Millionaires” series will understand what I mean.

I refer to the ability of certain interviewers to ask “probing” questions that get answers OUT OF successful persons, IN A WAY that gives listeners more accurate insight into HOW and WHY the celebrities succeeded.

“Clearer Answers” which would then guide those aspiring to follow the same, proven path, even if with modifications or adjustments.

As they say, “Success leaves a trail…”

Our celebrities need to be “helped” to “remember” what they did (& how), in the manner I propose above.

This is because many of them never really sat down (after having succeeded) to THINK about what they actually did to get the results they wanted – and for which they subsequently became celebrated.

In Africa, We Do Not Currently Investigate & Document Achieved Success ENOUGH

This is a fact.

In our society, if we want success to happen for MORE people, MORE frequently, we need to establish and rigorously maintain systems to INVESTIGATE and DOCUMENT what makes celebrated members of society succeed.

This is so that others who aspire can use the information recorded to achieve similar or greater successes – FASTER and with LESS EFFORT.

One over riding benefit is that society will as a result develop faster, contributing to a better world.

The problem is that in our society, we are too much of “DOERS” – and LESS of thinkers!

Each person is so self focused that s/he hardly ever gives a thought to how s/he can make the journey shorter, and less difficult for those who follow.

Tell him/her to GO for a particular goal, and s/he will.

But most often it will be done in a haphazard manner, and with little or no effort to ANALYSE experiences and document lessons learned for future reference/guidance.

The Result of Doing So Much Without Thinking Enough is: Poor Repeatability & Reproducibility Of Achieved Successes

Following from the above, when things fall in place, s/he takes it in his/her stride without sparing a thought for HOW to make those same things fall in place like THAT again in future – repeatedly.

A direct consequence of that inadvertent oversight, is that when things eventually go WRONG, s/he once again has to adopt the trial and error approach used in the past, until, if s/he is lucky, ANOTHER break through occurs.

For many who use this haphazard approach, it possibly works often. However, compared to the alternative proposed in this article, it can be quite costly in terms of time, effort, and even money.

Summary: Below I list three (3) compelling reasons to AVOID using such a haphazard approach:

1. The stress/strain that will arise from recovering from the problems occasioned by the use of a trial and error approach will wear you down – making the “journey to success” more PAINFUL than it should be.

2. You will be inefficient – because it takes you LONGER and costs you MORE time, effort, resources etc, to get the same results.

3. You won’t improve significantly – meaning you may never become good enough to beat your own “Personal Best”. Look at it this way: Only a sprinter who measures and knows her best 100 metres time is 9.99 seconds can AIM to run faster and therefore cross the line at LESS than that time. To achieve that goal, she will then have to CHECK what she can do better or differently to INCREASE her running speed, then TRY it out, UNTIL she succeeds.

The above potentially negative outcome of failing to investigate and understand why you succeed, is that you will LACK the means to EXPAND or GROW.

This could end up giving critics and/or cynics an opportunity to “question” your success.

Evidence to confirm that what I have said in this article is true, can be readily found when one looks at the number of World Champion Long Distance runners that have come out of an African country like Kenya.

Almost yearly, that country produces World Class athletes who gain quick prominence in international circles.

This happens because Kenya has a SYSTEM in place that enables it to REPEAT and REPRODUCE its athletic successes. I have listened to interviews conducted with athletes from that country, and the answers they gave to questions asked confirm this.

Final Words: Check Yourself – Do You Know How to Reproduce Your Success?

If you were to look at yourself, your organisation, your society or your country from a similar perspective, is it possible that there are areas where the success(es) achieved in the past now appear to have been just a “flash(es) in the pan”?

IF YES, maybe it’s time you (and/or others concerned), sat down to INVESTIGATE and DOCUMENT why you succeeded back then, so that you can REPRODUCE it NOW and into the future.

NB: This article was first published Online via spontaneousdevelopment.com on16th June 2008.

How Nigeria Can Manifest Real – & LASTING – Benefits of Independence (Hint: A Proven Zero Cost Strategy that INDIVIDUAL Nigerians Can use to Get Nigeria THERE!)

[Update: Uploaded CORRECTED PDF which now has pics – and NO missing text  at 3.50p.m] Today, 1st October 2014, is Independence Day in my country – Nigeria. In this special issue No. 9, of “My Ideas for Making Nigeria Better” series (downloadable below as a PDF), I explain why I believe Nigeria’s ability to reap FULL benefits from her Independence from colonialists, will depend MAINLY on INDIVIDUAL Nigerians learning to THINK and ACT INDEPENDENTLY at ALL times.

Click the cover image shown below to download the PDF and start reading – no signup needed: HAPPY INDEPENDENCE ANNIVERSARY!

This is Issue 9.0 in the series - 'My Ideas for Making Nigeria Better' Published on Independence Day - 1st October 2014 (CLICK NOW to read full PDF)

To Succeed More, Develop Smarter Farming Methods – Then Teach Others (for FREE or a Fee)

My 7 year stay in Guinness Nigeria opened my eyes to best practice strategies I now use to help farm businesses boost their performance. If you wonder what beer production has got to do with farm production, keep reading, and it’ll soon be obvious.

I joined Guinness Nigeria as a Graduate Management Trainee in Brewing, following the ban on wheat importation, in late 1994.

And I was subsequently privileged to partake in an internally driven initiative to conduct on-site trials for viable alternative brewing ingredients.

They wanted to maintain beer quality at international standard and at the same time lower production costs. The problem was that with the ban, they had to achieve that goal using locally available cereals, which were of a lower quality.

They could have waited for some large research body somewhere to come up with an idea for using locally available cereals.

But the company’s decision makers knew they would be better off taking their destiny into their own hands.

And we eventually did get it right.

So much so that when in 2000, I and a senior colleague were sent as delegates to the International Brewing Course organized by the Institute & Guild of Brewing (IGB) in the UK, we were referred to by Tim O’Rourke (the organizer), as “experts in Sorghum brewing” from Guinness Nigeria!

Why? Well, at that time, we (Guinness Nigeria) were the only ones in the world successful in brewing “international quality” beer using Maize and Sorghum exclusively.

You must understand this: Other brewing companies used those same ingredients – but only as a complement (i.e. adjuncts) i.e. in small quantities.

The main ingredient recognised for beer production worldwide was Malted Barley. It was regarded as the best ingredient to get the best results.

Few people imagined that respectable quality beer could be produced without it – at least not by 100% exclusion of it in favour of poorly regarded ingredients like Maize and Sorghum.

Guinness’ success in doing just that led to a major shift in perspective – earning that style of brewing a mention in the formal brewing documentation.

Proof of that fact was made apparent when Tim asked I and my colleague to read through a draft manuscript being written, which had a section on Sorghum Brewing. He wanted us to check that it was consistent with what we did.

The above story shows it is possible to take ownership of how one’s business performance evolves, by choosing to innovate more actively in running it.

That’s what Guinness did.

Now, beer manufacturing is basically a batch production process. And that (i.e. batch production) is what farm businesses do too!.

In the case of farm business, a farmer who develops a new system for getting more eggs or meat from poultry, on a consistent basics, can – for instance – decide to offer a coaching program.

This could be made available to start-ups and those already established. Except it involves use of some proprietary formula, I do not see why this cannot happen.

And even if you do have to keep an aspect secret, you can still offer the service.

A Farm CEO in Nigeria’s Ibadan that I’ve referred to several times in the past, told me how he discovered a way to use up to 40% inclusion of cassava flakes – locally called “gari” – in rations he feeds to his catfish.

According to him, this has led to significant sustained cost savings with no noticeable drops in farm output!

But like I’ve told him, he’s only doing half of what I believe is possible…

The other half is sharing your discovery, having tested and found it to be enduring, with others – be it free or for a fee.

I happen to know other farmers who are searching for solutions like his. Some who reached out to me, I referred to him. But there are certainly many more who would gladly contact him IF they knew he had such solutions to offer

Two years ago, I mentioned speaking – on phone – with a Nigerian professor, who is a World Bank consultant…

He revealed that he earned additional income by “selling” feed based on a ration formula he derived using linear programming.

And he jokingly noted that many buyers of his feed had asked that he give them the formula, and he had naturally declined.

That proves what I’m proposing in this article is possible.

You just need to go about it creatively!

I recommend that every farm CEO who wishes to make MORE money (outside the direct sale of farm produce) adopt the ideas I advocate here.

In other words, work hard to develop improved cost-saving ways of running your farm production processes.

Aim to lower you cost of producing each batch of farm output for instance.

Then take some of your useful discoveries you make and MONETIZE them.

The ones you choose to share for FREE will inadvertently attract positive attention from your target audience.

That would give you an indirect way to promote your ideas, and get name recognition/credibility.

A timeless and cost-effective platform, to implement this strategy would be a website – with an email newsletter system built into it.

What I refer to above, is what I do with my work. Some aspects of my methods/discoveries I offer for free.

Others I make available ONLY for a fee:

A good example is the Poultry Layer Farm Business Plan I dispatched to a client in Nigeria last week. I’ve now re-packaged it in a generic form, for sale to interested buyers, with an option of including the multi worksheet Excel workbook with projection tables, and formulas. Click here to contact me, if you’d like to get a copy.

And that’s just an example of many that I have done – and still intend to do.

I routinely announce my new discoveries/offers via my blog – which republished via RSS syndication to my website, face book twitter feed to visitors, fans and followers.

Plus, I send broadcasts periodically, via my email newsletter –and subscribers.

If you need help making use of the ideas I’ve offered here, to begin generating passive income outside your main farming business, click here to contact me.

 

Always Stand Up and Speak Truth on Behalf of Those Who Need It!

I spontaneously help others I identify to need it, without waiting to be asked. And I never expect to get thanked for it. I do not need it.

The only way anyone can thank me is by helping others in the same way!

I never let what anyone wants to do (or is doing) for me, influence my self-esteem.

You see, I fear no one, and am never intimidated by anyone’s success, influence or wealth.

That’s why those who know me accept that I will always speak my mind on ANY issue regardless of whose Ox is gored – even if it’s someone who just did me a favour.

I say this especially with reference to instances I’ve seen unfair treatment being meted out to another person by someone I knew.

You see, I believe every living being deserves to be treated with respect and consideration.

But what I have found out about this strange world we’re in is that too many people pay lip service to preserving values like those mentioned above.

It does not matter if a person is handsome/pretty, ugly, rich, poor or lives on the streets – treat him/her right!

I choose to relate with – and acknowledge – people based on who they are, and not some notion of their status.

For instance, back when I still lived in Nigeria, I often went out of my way – sometimes till well after 12 midnight – to help total strangers.

One time, an innocent Okada (commercial motorcycle rider) got wrongfully picked up by Police, just outside their command.

I followed them into the station, and insisted he be released, because I witnessed what happened and he was not at fault.

For over 3 hours, close to 11.30p.m, I left my car parked outside the police station, and engaged the officers in a debate, over the matter, until they agreed to let him go.

Acts like the above eventually earned me amazingly loyal friendships with some of those I helped.

They would later seek me out, and do things for me that others had to pay for.

Even when I tried to decline, they would insist.

This is what I teach to my kids to do as well…to stand up and speak truth on behalf of those they identify to need it!

Some people dislike me for it, but that’s the way life is.

Everyone cannot like you. But that does not mean we should fail to treat people right – or stand up for them, when we see them being treated wrongly.

My question to you is this…

Those who flock around you, who “like” you…how many are you sure will really stand by you when the chips are down?

I mean in bad times, when associating with you may be perceived as unwise by others, will they STILL stand by you?

What I have learnt is that many people can be amazingly good at hiding their true feelings.

Especially if they feel there is a useful benefit to be had by being on your good side.

So, even when they see you have qualities or faults they detest, they will stick around, and keep telling you they like you.

But that does not mean they will not stab you in the back if they find someone they feel they will benefit more from. Or that they will not look the other way, if they see you getting treated badly.

And what about YOU? Would you stand up for others you identify to be in need of your support?

I certainly hope you do. Like I tell anyone who cares to listen. Every time you do so for someone, you effectively make it possible for someone, at some time in the future, to also do the same thing for you – or for someone you care about!

Know what they about Karma? Well, it’s true. I know, because I have experienced it countless times.

Which is why I’m writing this article and recommending you do what I propose in it.

I’m hopeful that you’ll adopt a positive view of all that I’ve said here, and see if there is any truth in it, that you can act on for the future.

Final Words: This was NOT at attempt to judge or “lecture” anyone.

My purpose was simply to challenge the reader to RESOLVE to be more REAL in his/her interpersonal interactions.

Too many phonies seem to be around in society these days. As a result too few people are speaking and acting truthfully. The result is that we have a lot of dishonesty, deception, happening across society – and especially even within families.

Only those who take the conscious decision to be different, and to remain that way, will emerge unscathed in the end.

The rest, who indulge themselves in these naughty tendencies, will end up wondering why they never achieve sustainable progress at what they do.

This is because whether they like it or not, there are rules, set by the creator, to govern our conduct here on earth. And every person who flouts those rules will attract what could be considered “hidden penalties”.

That will happen because when they begin to manifest, time may have passed so much that we forget the wrong we did, that triggered it.

You don’t want that to happen to you, because it rarely ends well for those who do things that attract such penalties from the creator!

 

Defeat Traitors Using Compassion (Hint: Welcome a Judas into Your Life!)

FACT: You can be a genius and still fail due to a "close friend’s" betrayal.

This week, I’m teaching my kids about this. "Et tu Brutus?!" Caesar’s famous exclamation is one of the classic examples of how great people responded to discovery of acts of betrayal by those closest to them.

In my personal opinion, I believe enduring the betrayal of our closest allies, friends, relatives etc, and going on in spite of it, to achieve our important goals in life, is the greatest way to succeed.

Until you have had to deal with such a situation, you probably may never know for sure just how tough you are, or how much you really want to succeed. This article offers ideas for the interested individual about how to turn this type of situation to his/her advantage.

Have You Ever Had A "Judas" In Your Life?

Have you ever had to associate with certain individuals who you later sensed and went on to discover were in the habit of giving out your personal information, or even telling what you consider confidential or "secret" to others they knew from relating with you, you did not approve of?

Some would do this in order to gain the favour of those they passed the information to. Others could do it to spite you – for instance, maybe they feel they need to bring you down, for being (what they consider) ‘too proud" or "overconfident".

Have you ever discovered that a certain person you allowed to get close to you/confided in, turned out to have sought you out so as to gain your confidence and then betray you to those who "sent " him/her? This happens all the time – especially between people or groups that compete against one another. Individuals and large corporations, nations etc all play this game in one form or the other. This article offers ideas for the interested individual about how to turn this type of situation to his/her advantage.

IMPORTANT NOTE: You may not be consciously competing with anyone. However, those who observe you may feel what you are doing affects them one way or the other. This could make them decide YOU are THEIR competition. That makes YOU a target! How do you deal with that situation when it develops? Read on for some ideas.

Welcome A “JUDAS” Into Your life!™

Let me make what should (hopefully) be a humorous addition to this chapter that might make it easier that story and you will find that it was said that Judas was "chosen".

In life, you can decide to see each person that chooses to play "antagonist", "critic" or "enemy" as the "unfortunate Judas" in your own life who is destined to help you achieve another level of success or greatness though one or more acts of "betrayal"!

Now, I will tell you that in my experience, this really does happen. And many times I have personallydiscovered that the "Judas" of my life at any point in time usually lives or works in fairly close proximity to me – denying me the convenience of avoiding him/her! As a result, I am forced to find a way to relate with the person without compromising my position.

Your Judas Will NOT Be Your "Friend" But S/he Can Help You GROW!

The truth based on the above, about the individuals described is that event they they made out to be your "friends", their actions were not those a friend would take. They were in fact more consistent with what an "enemy" would do!

So, what do you do, when you find them out? I say it depends on the circumstances. In my other articles titled, "Do You Know How To Deal With Those Who Mock And Ridicule You?" and "Why You May Want To Rejoice When Others Mock You", I suggested that the reader consider limiting his/her contact with persons who adopted a negative stance of mockery and ridicule toward him or her.

However, in this article, I am referring to persons who have taken it upon themselves to go against you – not just to taunt, mock and ridicule, but to bring you down or even harm you. Such persons would be correctly described as enemies. But rather than run away from them or hide, I want to ask you to see them as quite useful to have around!

The Dalai Lama Believes We Need Enemies

The Dalai Lama is the spiritual leader of Tibet, who has (I understand) been in exile for some decades now, since the Chinese occupation of his country. There is a quote I read somewhere credited to this great sage, that have personally found quite instructive:

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Enemies test our ability to feel compassion, and strengthen us in doing so” – Dalai Lama.
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The Dalai Lama Is Right

It is my belief that we need "enemies" or antagonists in our lives. They help us to keep our heads from going into the clouds, and by so doing help us stay "human" especially when we’ve been successfully forging ahead in pursuing our magnificent obsessions!(To learn what I mean by "Magnificent Obsession", read the article version of my 113 page self-help print manual titled Ten Ways You Can Use Self-Development To Create The Future You Want.)

Personally, I would “get worried” if everyone around me keeps saying they like me, and I never run into anyone who feels or acts differently. I once heard it said that “a little dose of paranoia is healthy”. My point is that it would be folly for anyone to expect that everyone else would like her. I said this earlier and I’m saying it again: there will always be people who will not like you (or will not want to work or cooperate with you). You MUST prepare – and learn how – to deal with such people.

Also, it is my opinion that we need the periodic ”tests” of our abilities posed by those people who refuse to “like” us and who give us a hard time. Just imagine if everybody liked you and always gave you an easy run. Imagine if everybody said you were their favorite and there was no single person who expressed reservations about you, or was cynical about what you could or could not do (?).

What If We Stopped Having Bad People Or Bad Things In This World?

Maybe I’ll take it a bit further – what if we suddenly stopped having "bad people" or "bad things" happening in the world? It would be quite boring and unchallenging to continue living here wouldn’t it? We lock our cars because someone could gain easy entry if we didn’t. We watch what we say because a mischievous person might report to others when we say things that are not exactly "nice" about them.

Simply put, “bad” people – or the possibility of a bad thing happening – keep us alert and “on our toes”. It is this same consciousness that makes us teach our children what they need to do to stay safe and out of trouble when they are away from us. Without the knowledge gained from the previous so-called "bad" experiences in society, we would not be wiser about how to live in this world – talk less of being able to advise our children – would we?

Now, a person that perpetually antagonizes us might eventually push us to a point where we actually develop an intense dislike (or hatred) for him. The Dalai Lama however challenges us NOT to harbour such feelings towards anyone – even when it is someone that obviously takes delight in causing us pain or discomfort. It’s ironic that most religions actually advocate this philosophy for adoption by believers and YET, many believers find that they are often unable to really practice it!

Why? Because they are human, and it actually takes tremendous effort and commitment to maintain a compassionate disposition to people who make things difficult for us, or do not like us! It’s so much easier, for instance, to read the portion of the bible where the believer is asked to "turn the other cheek" than to actually do what it says. I am sure many who read the foregoing statement will understand what I mean. When it comes to "doing" it , a lot of people “struggle”.

The secret to mastering the art of feeling compassion for one’s "enemies" or "antagonists" is to ALWAYS remember this:

Without the "threat" of a bad thing or person coming around to do us "harm", we are likely to relax to the point where we lose grip of the things we already have in control. Think about sports – the team or individual that usually wins is not necessarily the one that scores first. No, it is often the one that gets in the lead, then STAYS ALERT to – and thwarts – all attempts by the opponent to equalise till the game ends!

Like I said earlier, the Dalai Lama is right because ALWAYS, at the end of it all – maybe when I’m moving on – I find that I have become stronger due to the perpetual presence of my "Judas(es)".

Some typical benefits include increased "mental stamina", "thickened skin", "self-control" etc.

This has been my personal experience.

I am sure you will find that yours will be similar (or better) if you adopt this philosophy towards your "enemies" or "antagonists".

"To Laugh Often And Much, To Win The Respect Of Intelligent People And The Affection Of Children, To Earn The Appreciation Of Honest Critics And Endure The Betrayal Of False Friends, To Appreciate Beauty, To Find The Best In Others, To Leave The World A Bit Better, Whether By A Healthy Child, A Garden Patch, Or A Redeemed Social Condition; To Know Even One Life Has Breathed Easier Because You Have Lived. This Is To Have Succeeded!" – Ralph Waldo Emerson

So, are you ready to welcome a Judas into your life today? It could be the start of your climb to a new level of personal success!

PS: This article is based on excerpts from the original piece written by Tayo K. Solagbade in October 2006.