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Always Wish Others Well. You’ll Succeed Better! (Incl. Lesson from an Amazing Russian Video)

What are your thoughts towards your colleague in the office? That cocky rich guy who lives next door? Your cash strapped relative’s child living with you? What about your younger brother who happens to be doing better than everyone else – including you? Do you honestly wish them well?

What Happens Among Relatives?

Maybe you have a great job, or successful business that enables you send your kids to good schools.

Some people have relatives struggling to send their kids to school. In some cases, such relatives send the children to live with the more successful brother, sister, uncle or aunt.

Imagine the relative’s child begins to show promise in academics, sports or some other useful vocation, and an organisation indicates interest in awarding him/her a scholarship or grant.

They naturally send the child with their offer letter to the guardian – the more successful relative – with whom the child lives. Maybe there’s a deadline for the paper to be returned with approval signature.

However, for some strange reason, the paper never gets back to the organisation!

The successful relative “forgets” to sign and return it until the submission deadline passes. As a result the child loses that opportunity. Similar events like that re-occur, until the child in frustration – if s/he can find the courage – tells his/her teachers in school, and/or calls the parents.

Those found guilty of repeatedly doing the above often vehemently deny that it was deliberate.

Yet, they never forgot (or forget!) to sign similar documents for their own kids!

Strange isn’t it?

Could it possibly be that some affluent relatives desire to keep others – and their offspring – perpetually under? Possibly so they and their kids can be remain “superior” in the family?

Big question. Difficult to answer.

If you’re wondering, the scenario I just painted above is based on a real life occurrence. No, let me rephrase that: REAL LIFE occurrences… that I have personal knowledge of!

What About in the Workplace – Amongst Colleagues, and Superiors?

Imagine hearing through the corporate grapevine, that a direct report of yours is close being elevated to the same management level as you.

Then a week later you receive a 360 degree feedback form you’re to fill on that person. And there’s a note stating that your rating of him/her will strongly influence the final decision, given your respected status in the company/

What would you do? Especially if this is someone you agree is very good on the job, but you personally are not very fond of, because he doesn’t “respect” you enough?

Knowing the process guarantees your anonymity, how objectively would you complete that form?

Would you give the guy a fair and impartial rating, wishing him, in your heart, the best?

Once again, the above painted scenario is based on real life events that I am aware occurred.

People who smile with you can still be mean to you, if they fear you will equal or surpass them!

It’s Time to Rediscover How to Care For Others

Ever walked past an old woman or young child apparently terrified of crossing the busy road by him/herself?

What about driving past someone struggling – at night – to fix a car tyre in a deserted area?

Important Note: I must state this here. My experiences as one born and raised in Nigeria, indicate con artists, (even robbers!) often setup fake incidents to attract sympathisers they can rob. As a result, many compassionate Nigerians generally avoid helping under such situations. Unless they’re really sure!

Having said that, many other opportunities exist to care for others – some mentioned in this article.

What Are YOUR Thoughts Towards Others? (My Suggestion)

Whoever you meet or relate with, always wish them the best – and do what you humanly can, to help them – no matter how far ahead of you they end up as a result.

Do it, and nurse only pure thoughts towards such persons at all times, and you will be amazed by how massive goodwill will be channelled to you by the creator.

This philosophy has guided my thoughts and actions for over 2 decades. I am convinced it is responsible for advancements I continue to experience in my personal and work life.

And that’s despite many attempts by mean spirited others to pull me down!

You see, the creator always supports – and rewards – those who do what I’m proposing you do.

Why?

That’s because he wants us to look out for one another. As his creations we do his will, when we act like Him. And He is NOT mean!

This Russian Video Says It All!

Click here to watch touching examples of people in a society where caring for others is highly valued!

Watching it brought me close to tears. If you watch it, I’m sure you’ll also be touched…and changed!

No. 117: Smart Speakers Build Relationships With Attendees

It is my experience-based opinion, that the most important measure of speaking success is the detectable difference it makes, in the lives of individual or group audiences in the long term.

For me, the business of speaking is LESS about the speaker, and more about those s/he speaks to, and what they are able to achieve using what s/he tells them!

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Smart Exercising Will Keep You Fit, Healthy, and Alive

Yes, that’s the key to good health, looking young, and LIVING LONG.

Sweating enables your body expel many “bad things” that can weaken it!

I took the photo below, this a.m (Friday 22nd Nov. 2013 at 10.00a.m):

Sweating enables you body expel many "bad things" that can weaken it!!
Sweating enables you body expel many “bad things” that can weaken it!!
Above: Photo taken in 2013 – I was 43 at the time
Below: Photo taken in March 2017 – I was 46+  (will be 48 in 6 months from today i.e. July 2018)

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I was doing my usual 20 to 30 minute walk, from my place at Barrière here in Cotonou, to a cyber cafe I frequent at the Etoile Rouge area.

As I approached Agontikon, next to the crossroad, a shop owner friend called out to me.

During our chat he kept asking “Ca va un peu?” (It’s a way of asking: “Everything okay?“) in apparent reference to (and concern about) my sweating.

I kept saying “Oui” (i.e. “Yes”) without adding any details …until it dawned on me to explain…

You see, every day (including Sundays), just before breakfast, I do seventy (70) push-ups – sometimes 100.

That’s followed by some yoga-style exercises for 10 to 15 minutes

After that, I eat and then WALK to the cyber cafe as part of a deliberate strategy to “exercise” my lower body.

When I get to my destination, I wipe myself clean of sweat using a towel I keep in my bag.

And my “exercising mission” for the day would have been accomplished!

I ended my explanation, by making the following statement to my friend:

“Si tu veux rester fort, et tu ne veux pas devenir vieux trop vite, il faut perspirer. C’est très important pour la santé!”

(Translation:If you want to stay strong, and you don’t want to grow old too quickly, you need to sweat. It’s very important for the health!“)

For effect, I added:

“J’ai 43 ans” (Translation: I’m 43 years old”).

His jaw dropped, as he looked me over repeatedly…then he exclaimed:

“Ce n’est pas vrai” (Translation: Not true!).

As I walked away, I laughingly told him:

“C’est la verité (Translation: “It’s the truth”)

And he kept staring at me in what seemed a mixture of surprise and wonder.

If he’s smart, he’ll adopt a similar simple exercise regimen

And so will you, if you do not already do it.

It will keep your body in good form to withstand the daily wear and tear, from the activities and foods you expose it to!

In case you’re wondering, this strategy makes me super-productive. And I do not exaggerate.

One Example:

Last Saturday (16th Nov. 2013), I worked 13 straight hours from 9a.m till about 10.30p.m (without getting up, NOT even to drink water), to finish my 4,000 word agri-business case study paper – for entry into an international research paper writing contest. The paper is about the use of Excel-VB driven spreadsheet automation for Feed Formulation.

That same night, I sent it to my co-author Professor friend in North West University, South Africa.

From 7.30a.m Sunday morning, we spent about 2 hours on phone agreeing modifications. Then he sent the final version to the organisers in the Netherlands via email.

So now, we wait till Tuesday, when the judges will notify us about whether or not it’s been accepted.

[UPDATE (12th Sept. 2015): Should have done this way back in Dec. 2013, when the payment happened. But it kept slipping my mind. The paper did get approved, and I did get paid for it. Read this article: PDF Agribusiness Research Paper] Adoption of PC-Based Feed Formulation Methods by Farmers, Feed Manufacturers and Extension Professionals, in South West Nigeria – Complete my Questionnaire Survey & Download FREE PDF Copy]

The point I’m making is my diligent exercising enables me near-effortlessly get work done – to meet tight deadlines – even if I have to continue for long stretches of time. And I mean physical, as well as mental work.

You see, I believe that without my disciplined dedication to fitness, I could not have gotten that paper done, in combination with other work I had to do. And that included traveling to Nigeria to administer a questionnaire survey to farm business CEOs, and then returning to Cotonou to collate the data for use in the paper!

In truth, many much younger people often find it hard to keep up with me. As do my peers and older persons.

For instance, I’ve had clients and staff go round farm premises with me, after which we returned to the “farm office/house” for our meals.

Subsequently however, they struggled to keep their eyes open, as I tried to explain how the software I built for them worked :-)

The reason this happened was that they often lacked both physical and mental stamina, aka STAYING POWER.

People who succeed usually have STAMINA. If you want to succeed, YOU WILL NEED IT!

And to have it, you must commit to diligent exercising on a regular basis.

As a writer (or expert in any other field), it will boost your productivity tremendously. And your quality of work will also improve!

By the way, nothing I’ve said here is meant to be bragging.

I simply feel it’s important that I share with you a strategy that’s worked quite well for me, over the past 20 years now.

Yes, I’ve been doing it this way for over 2 decades – with great results to show for it!

You don’t need to become some physical fitness guru or anything.

And you’re not necessarily going to be aiming to win any competition against others here. What I refer to is the adoption of a disciplined habit of daily exercising.

In a past issue of my newsletter, I wrote on this same theme. It was titled: No. 94: Use Physical Fitness to Boost Your Productivity (4 Tips).

You should read it.

One last thing…

It might interest you to know, that ever since quitting competitive handball in 1992 (when I left the university), I’ve used this strategy to maintain my fitness right through paid employment, up till today.

Many who know me will confirm this.

And that’s why I’m this confident, that it works. So do use it :-)

Are Those Who Do Bad Things, From Outer Space…Or From Amongst Us?

[Update 22nd Nov. 2013 @ 11.28: PDF download link to FULL write-up now added!] Everyday I read comments and posts on social media by smart thinking, well educated Nigerians who live in the country, and elsewhere. 99% of the time they seem to be lamenting another gory news item served to them by their trust sources.

Very often, it’s about some naughty act committed by a politician or two.

But probably just as frequently, there’s news about a sadistic act committed by one citizen against another e.g. abduction of aged persons, or children by kidnappers; use of human beings for money making sacrifices; a teenage child smashing an object on his fathers head’ inadvertently killing him, a pastor sleeping with his girl-child.

And so on.

These smart people ask “Why? They also ask “When is it all going to end?”

This PDF report is my contribution to that discourse. I tried posting a contribution to a friend’s recent post on the above theme – and soon saw I had almost 960 words! So, in light of my resolve stated above, it’s morphed from a Facebook comment into this PDF paper!

“Are Those Who Do Bad Things, From Outer Space...Or From Amongst Us? (IDEAS for Making Nigeria Better) – By Tayo K. Solagbade

Frequent Secondments Can Lead to Career Success

Do frequent secondments, transfers or movements in your current workplace bother you? This article offers ideas you can use to make the most of them.

Recognise the Opportunities They Bring, and Use Them

While majoring in Agricultural Extension Services in the University of Ibadan, I took courses in Sociology and Psychology. Exposure to those courses is meant to guide extension specialists in their efforts to influence farmers to adopt improved farm practices and innovations.

The complexities of successfully effecting social change were realities all students of extension education eventually had to face, during social field work. As such, proper grounding in relevant theories and techniques was essential.

I however never got a chance to practise being an extension agent in the field.

But my time in Guinness Nigeria, from October 1994 till December 2001 taught me, that opportunities exist daily for every person to act as an agent of lasting (positive) change. One only needs to be able to recognise and take advantage of such opportunities when they present themselves.

A True Story

Before joining Guinness, I’d spent a few months as a trainee Sales Coordinator in a medium-sized wine manufacturing company, in Lagos. The pay left a lot to be desired, but the experience – particularly in relation to the processing or ripe pawpaw fruits and the fermentation of the resulting juice to produce the wine – prepared me for entry into the brewing industry.

In Guinness, I went from being management trainees, to packaging shift manager, production shift brewer (actually back and forth between production and packaging departments over a 2-year period). Then I was seconded (twice) to act as Technical Training and Development Manager (TTDM).

The above dynamic mix of experiences challenged me to be flexible in my thinking and attitude.

I consequently learnt to maintain a balanced perspective about issues, having experienced on many occasions, what it felt like to be on different sides of the fence. Especially during periods when work-related dispute between different departments of groups had to be resolved.

Moving around a lot helped me identify a need to simplify routine and repetitive operations, to boost productivity. In 1997, I began to develop automated spreadsheet applications.

While a trainee in my first 2 years, I’d learnt Lotus 1-2-3 macro programming from Richard Chambers (the expatriate Training Manager I reported to). I’d done this mainly by studying automated workbooks he created while developing a reporting application for the company.

At a point, monthly reports that previously required a brewer to dedicate 2 to 3 days to fully complete, were easily finished in about 30 minutes using the apps I built.

This was because the menu-driven applications – with in-built spreadsheet formulas – only required raw data entries on a shift-by-shift basis. As long as that happened, relevant reports for different periods were instantly available.

This new situation enabled brewers devote greater attention to managing the brewing process more efficiently, to meet the demands for higher product volume output.

My passion for spreadsheet programming would eventually see me single-handedly automating reports of all kinds in the brewing, packaging, and even engineering departments.

Often times, this would happen at the request of the manager from the other department.

And it got me noticed at the highest levels in the company – even though I never had that as a motive.

The Rewards Eventually Came!

Yes they did. And most I actually never anticipated.

I was promoted TTDM, and sent on a 6 week International Brewing course at the UK’s Institute and Guild of Brewing (IGB).

NB: The IGB course was attended by delegates representing brewing companies from Holland, Japan, Croatia, Argentina, Mexico, and other places.

Few months after returning to Nigeria, and resuming in my new role, I was seconded to act, in my former department, as a Production Manager.

Then after that, I got nominated to attend an international Workplace Coaching Conversations facilitators’ course (in Lagos), and again later in Douala, Cameroon!

So the seemingly unpleasant frequent movements paid off in multiple folds!

And Even After You Leave Work, They’re Likely to Continue Coming…

Outside the workplace, the efforts you make could also yield good rewards.

For instance, since January 2012, when I quit the company to start my own business, my experiences have proved useful to me as an entrepreneur.

Among other things, they enable me view issues from a multidimensional perspective. And this often opens my eyes to potential opportunities that many are blind to.

Final Words

It does not matter how confusing those workplace “redeployments, transfers or secondments” (even seeming demotions) may seem to be right now.

Challenge yourself to look for the learning opportunities waiting to be found in each of them (take it from me – they are there!).

Then think of how you can apply what you learn to make yourself better at the work you do.

More importantly, explore ways to use them to improve the way things are done in your company.

Do so consistently, and diligently.

Eventually, YOUR rewards will come, and some will be way beyond your expectations!

 

10 Frequently Asked Questions About Feed Formulation

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From: “Bello Hassan” <email deleted, for privacy>

Sent date: 06/09/2011 08:55:34 PM

To: “Tayo K. Solagbade”

Hi Tayo,

I have seen that attachments and will go through. I have browsed the book and my iniital impression is that you have succeeded in demistifying poultry feed formulation. I intend to post my full review of the book later through the link you gave.

However, I have the following questions:

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(Note : my answers – sent to him on Wed, June 8, 2011 10:53:46 AM – begin with>>>> inserted under each question)

IMPORTANT! The disclaimer contained in my Feed Formulation Handbook fully applies here:

Responsibility for use of any and all information supplied below is strictly and solely that of the reader. The contents of this page are provided as information only. Your own judgment is required and encouraged.

Click here to download the PDF now…(no password needed).

NB: 2 URLs in the above linked PDF are defunct (a) “boostyourfarmprofits.biz” is now “thefarmceo.net” (b) “spontaneousdevelopment.com” is now “tayosolagbade.com”

No. 116: We Are Poor – Not Because of God (Lessons from 7 True Stories)

As an expert in your field, know this: The creator made YOU. You therefore have the capacity, as well as an obligation, a duty.. indeed a calling (!), to be so creative in doing what you do, as to make the world a better place…and the most of yourself.

You CAN do this regardless of your colour, language, education, race, family history, upbringing, social environment, present circumstances or means.

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No. 116: We Are Poor – Not Because of God (Lessons from 7 True Stories)

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As an expert in your field, know this: The creator made YOU. You therefore have the capacity, as well as an obligation, a duty.. indeed a calling (!), to be so creative in doing what you do, as to make the world a better place…and the most of yourself.

You CAN do this regardless of your colour, language, education, race, family history, upbringing, social environment, present circumstances or means.

Many Ordinary People Have Already Done (and Are Doing) It

“We should’nt be poor. S.B. And don’t ever let me hear you say that it is God’s Will that we are poor. We are poor – not because of God. We a poor because father has never developed a desire to become rich. No one in our family has ever developed a desire to be anything else.” – S.B. Fuller’s mother speaking to him in his formative years. (Source: Success Through a Positive Mental Attitude, by Napoleon Hill)

NB: S.B. Fuller was an African American man born to a father who was a tenant farmer in Louisiana, in the USA. S.B would later in life own controlling interest in 8 companies – including 4 cosmetic companies, a hosiery company, a label company, and a newspaper. And he attributed his success, to the above statement his mother often made to him.

We can all draw inspiration from the achievements of everyday persons, who made yesterday’s (seeming) impossibilities, today’s realities.

Here are examples that anyone can relate to:

1. Thomas Edison

Despite having only 3 months of formal schooling, he created the light bulb – after testing thousands of different metals without success.

For a man who was written off by school teachers as being retarded, and incapable of doing well in school, his life’s achievement of 1093 patents is no small feat!

Regarding the opinion of his teachers, Edison famously noted that his mother “was the making of” him.

This was because, when he told her what he overheard teachers saying to the inspector about him, she went with him to the school.

Then she loudly announced to all around, that her son was smarter than all the teachers put together.

Subsequently, she withdrew him from that school, and proceeded to home-school him.

Today, it’s quite obvious she knew what she was talking about…and what she was doing!

2. Henry Ford

He led the creation of a 6 cylinder engine that was unheard of in his time. It powered a “horseless carriage” (which we know today as a “car”) that non-affluent persons could afford.

That journey took him, and his engineers, many long months of hard work with repeated and frequent failures.

Note that Ford started out as a stark illiterate (according to Napoleon Hill in “Think and Grow Rich”).

3. The Wright brothers

They showed us how to “fly” – but had to endure many temporary failures before they arrived. Keep in mind that during their time NO ONE had ever made any successful flights.

And they literally had to continue by the force of their own belief – not that they were being cheered on by a crowd of “enthusiastic supporters”.

Yet, despite the risk of permanent injury or death, they continued – till they made it.

4. Robert Goddard

His works provided the foundation for rocket science, and ultimately space travel. But while alive he was ridiculed far and wide for doing that same work.

Only decades after his death, did his work get the recognition it deserved – causing America’s Space Center to be named after him

5. Tim Berners-Lee

He created “HTML” i.e. Hyper-Text Mark-up Language, which remains the fabric of the World Wide Web as we know it today).

That’s why he’s known as the father of the web.

Interestingly, he chose not to reap financial rewards from his creation. Instead he advocated keeping the web “free”.

6. Ben Carson

His world renowned “gifted” brain surgeon’s hands have saved countless kids, that even parents had given up on!

However, to achieve his amazing success, he had to endure years of crippling poverty.

Apart from the creator, he credits a powerfully supportive mother (who lacked formal education) as being his rock of support, during his formative years, and difficult times in life.

7. Fela Anikulapo Kuti

His incredible life story and unique Afro beat music, are now celebrated in a very successful broadway show, and also annually at an event aptly named “Felabration”.

The world’s most successful people in entertainment and human rights advancement (e.g. Jay-Z, Will Smith among others), actively partake.

While alive, Fela applied his God-given creativity to make his music a weapon for fighting oppression, corruption and other societal ills.

He went through great suffering for doing so. But greatness also became his reward.

Most who knew Fela were aware that he held his mother in the greatest esteem, and was devoted to her.

When she was killed during a raid on his Kalakuta republic, he waxed an album lashing out at the government he accused of complicity.

Today, his legacy is carried on by 2 competent sons (Femi and Seun), and other Afro beat and human rights advocates, in America, Europe, the Caribbean, Asia, and other parts of the world.

Two Things to Remember, From the Above Examples…

1. What You Lack Cannot Stop You

Edison did not attend formal schooling. Ford was a total illiterate.

Yet, they both achieved astounding worldwide fame.

And they did it by applying their God-given creativity – with unrelenting persistence.

2. People Who Believe In You Can Make You…Especially Mothers!

I confirm it’s true.

Mothers in particular are quite amazing in their ability to believe in, and inspire their children to super-achieve.

The above examples of S.B Fuller, Edison, Carson and Fela perfectly illustrate this point.

But it’s not just mothers that can have this kind of effect on a person…

Anyone who believes in you will do what s/he can to support you in your creative efforts. And that will lead you to success, eventually.

Final Words: You Are Good Enough!

If we all choose to strive daily to actualize our full potentials, as creative beings, like those mentioned above did, our individual societies would be dramatically transformed in a much shorter time.

Right now, some people seem to (wrongly) believe the creator made a certain group of people smarter. And that they are to WAIT on those people, to create what the rest of the world is to use.

That mentality, if not changed, will make a person a lifetime mediocre, and under-achiever, no matter how many hours s/he spends PRAYING to the creator for greatness.

As an expert in your field, especially when you are one who wants to be a “speaker” who addresses others, you MUST believe in yourself.

In other words, believe that YOU ARE GOOD ENOUGH to stand on the platform, and/or that you’re eminently qualified to speak – face to face – with any important person in your industry, about your subject.

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Here’s wishing you a MASSIVELY creative week :-)

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He’s presently based in Benin Republic, where he’s preparing an English-French Language Guide, City Travel Guides, and a Commercial Rabbit Farming Guide.

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Self-Development Nuggets™ blog, and Public Speaking IDEAS newsletter (which he publishes to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

For a limited time, Tayo is available to speak to your group or organization for a moderate fee. Send e-mail to tayo at tksola dot com. You can also visit www.tksola.com to learn more.

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Why You May Want To Rejoice When Others Mock You!

I’ve relocated this piece from its static html page on my website, to the parenting category on my blog, because I believe every parent needs to tell his/her child this story.

It’s about a visionary scientist who despite widespread mockery and ridicule, courageouly continued his pioneering work in the field of rocket science, that eventually made space travel possible.

It then provides explanations about what made the achievements possible, with reference to proven success principles and philosophies that can be freely adopted for use by any willing persons. The reader will learn – among other things – why when people make fun of you/your ideas, it could be a good sign that you are on the right path!

It does not matter how successful, respected, authoritative, wealthy or famous they are.

For as long as they do not have the passion for, insight into and knowedege about an issue that YOU do, they are unlikely to see what you see – at first. The problem is that because such people tend to feel they already “know”(and many others tend to believe that these people actually do know!), they will not be aware that “they do not know” as much as you do.

Robert Goddard today has America’s Space Center named after him.

But during his lifetime, he enjoyed little in the way of recognition for the work that would win him the honor of immortality. In 1920, The New York Times (and reporters who followed him around, taunting him after each failed test-launch of his first “Nell” rockets) in a stinging editorial played a leading role in mocking Goddard’s scientific publication.

He consequently, developed an aversion for publicity/the press, continuing his work in “near” secrecy, often refusing to supply details of breakthroughs recorded even when asked. Among other things, he wondered why they would not “mind their business”.

Ironically, while his countrymen ridiculed him, the Germans periodically contacted him about his work.

Evidence that he knew what he was talking about later emerged when Germany launched over 1,100 V-2 rockets at London, badly damaging the city. The missiles later examined(and a captured German scientist interviewed) revealed they were modelled after those developed by Goddard – only his were not meant for use as war instruments.

Forty-Nine(49) years later, in 1969, after the US’ Apollo 11 rocket(built based on Goddard’s work) took off for the moon, a retrospective New York Times editorial admitted that further research evidence and experimentation had confirmed Goddard’s theories(that rockets can fly in a vacuum – such as space – as well as in an atmosphere) to be correct. The editorial ended thus : “The Times regrets the error.” A great lesson, taught by a great man.

The scientist (who had died of throat cancer 24 years earlier) did not get to see the rocket launch or read the apology.

But the FACT that both happened (see Time Magazine March 29, 1999, Vol. 153 No. 12 ) confirms that sometimes people who mock another for his/her ideas do so out of a lack of insight or knowledge that the latter has. The originator of a new or untested idea must therefore follow his/her convictions unflinchingly, till s/he is proved right.

James Cook in his book “The Startup Entrepreneur”, expressed a similar sentiment when he wrote that an entrepreneur should consider him/herself in “good company” whenever his/her ideas attract “doubt or scorn” from others.

To give anyone who faces this kind of challenge further reason to stay resolved towards achieving his/her set goal, the insight offered by Napoleon Hill in the book “Think and Grow Rich” is also quite instructive.

In explaining the fact that defeat is a “temporary condition”, Hill pointed out that we all daily see people who encounter obstacles in their pursuit of a set goal and readily give up, just as we see others who trudge on, again an again, remaining undaunted by repeated setbacks they encounter.

One thing, according to Hill, that most of us do not however notice, is what he called the “silent but irresistible power” that inevitably “rescues” those who refuse to give up in their pursuit of success in a chosen endeavour – adding that if we acknowledge it at all, we call it “persistence”.

He then ends by saying that one fact we all do acknowledge, is that anyone who lacks the quality of persistence CANNOT achieve significant success in any thing s/he does.

Moral: When people mock you, rejoice(!), because it is most likely a good sign that you are on the right path. Keep going, and you’ll succeed!

Life is either a daring adventure, or nothing. Security does not exist in nature, nor do the children of men as a whole experience it. Avoiding danger is no safer in the long run than exposure.” – Helen Adams Keller (1880-1968)

Some people make the mistake of equating consensus with truth. That you, and others who think like you, agree among yourselves that a centipede is a millipede wearing a metal coat, will not make the centipede become a millipede.” – Tayo Solagbade

Even if 50 million people say a foolish thing, it is still a foolish thing” – Anatole France

Writing Is Serious Business. Not Doing It Can Cost You Money!

For the sake of those who may be misled, I feel obligated to write this piece. Especially after reading this status post by Mike, a Facebook friend. In a recent facebook wall post, he noted the comment made by a certain associate of his, about the usefulness (or lack thereof) of “writing”. Hmm???

Sigh.

People in developed societies our people often scramble to “copy”, often wonder why we never copy the really important things e.g. the “know-how”!

That’s why one of them once said:

“If you want to hide something from a (…..) man, put it in a book”

Despite the outrage some of us readily express when the above phrase is quoted, our attitude to life often confirms its accuracy.

How ironic!

Ever Wondered Why Richard Branson – a Word Class Billionaire Entrepreneur – Writes …Regularly?

The man who has bills to pay fails to notice billionaire Virgin brand promoter – Richard Branson.

Despite being too rich to run out of money, Branson STILL writes articles that get widely syndicated – and read – by smart business persons.

Understand that Branson is not doing it because he just wants to be a nice guy.

He KNOWS it’s an effective way to achieve what is called zero cost TIMELESS marketing.

The mentality that keeps many of us from doing intelligent, results-focused writing, is what makes us continue to believe in manual labour…in sweating, in using “muscles” (brawn instead of brains) and…in piling papers on desks to show we’re “working”!

In contrast, people in developed economies, focus on setting up systems to get more work done, with LESS effort, in LESS time, and using much less MONEY.

No wonder they successfully get us, as a people, to buy their franchises, and sell to ourselves…LOL!

If you still don’t get it – ask yourself:

Where does Wole Soyinka get money to feed, clothe and live well?

Or has anyone seen him running a business centre or restaurant to make money????

We all know he has not worked in public service. So he gets NO pay from that end.

Most people do NOT know this…

But from the day a person becomes a Nobel Laureate, his/her written works often become recommended text across the world’s learning organizations.

Do you know how much that comes to in terms of royalties….in dollars most times…for ONE man??

Chinua Achebe was not a Nobel Laureate. But his first book alone (i.e. Things Fall Apart) sold millions from way back when we were kids.

Today it’s still selling.

I hope those who don’t get what “intelligent” writing can do realize that even now, as I type these words, royalty checks still arrive for that book’s sales!

Let’s return to the business plane.

I ask: How can a 21st century business owner say he is too busy trying to get bills paid, to write?

Does he not understand that “Writing is now used for low cost, high mileage and impact marketing“?

The world’s smartest professionals in various fields (including LAW and REAL ESTATE) do it.

Yet some, in Nigeria, cling to stone-age ideas about business marketing.

There is something called Cost of Customer Acquisition (COCA).

And because of the growth of PC and Internet technology, it has become even more important to CALCULATE it.

1. How much do you spend on newspaper adverts?

2. How do you measure the return on THAT investment?

3. How many people buy from you as a result of that “advert” before you have to pay for another?

4. How can you be sure that’s the best way to reach your audience?

5. Should you not be looking to use a COMBINATION of techniques that will let you win more sales at LESS cost.

6. Is that not going to give you MORE profit i.e. higher margins?

7. And when that happens, will it not put you in a better position to pay your bills????

If you STILL struggle to understand why I argue that you can – and should – aim to spend LESS to get more buyers, you need to read my 3 part series titled:

Why You Need a Web Marketing System (WMS)

Whenever I hear someone say he’s too busy trying to make money, to write, 2 things strike me. Neither is good (for him/her):

1. Either the person cuts corners to make money in the business s/he does, and so really has no reason to look for smarter ways to do business…or

2. S/he is too lazy upstairs to think up topics to write, and to put in the effort to do the needed writing

I say this because, all over the world today, we hear of traditional print media organizations moving more online. Brick and mortar stores are doing the same thing.

And it’s simple common sense.

No company can win a war against the advancement of the digital age.

It is the future, which is now becoming our present day reality – across the world!

Some business people in Africa continue to delude themselves ,that it’s too early to use the web in the same way.

I sell my products and services by using writing as my main marketing instrument. To refuse to accept this new way is to deny yourself useful opportunity for growth.

Even worse, you miss out on the opportunity to become a leader in your market, even if you’re smaller than other players.

Why?

Because the web is the greatest leveler so far known to mankind.

A one man business, can make him/herself look more credible, and so sell MORE, than a much bigger company using the web.

What makes this possible is the fact that the web can be harnessed – on a SHOE STRING budget – to achieve such powerful business outcomes.

Here’s my advice to any who are unable to wrap their minds around this concept, to make profitable use of it:

Go and LEARN how to use your “intelligent writing” as a high impact and LOW COST business marketing tool.

Start by “googling” that phrase!

If you wish, you can contact me. I offer a coaching/support service – for persons who want to learn how to use writing the way I do: to promote products and services at low to zero cost.

Writing Can Be Lucrative, IF You Know Where to Go

Some people even say writing does not reward one adequately on earth.

Bible believers often read the phrase “My people perish for a lack of knowledge. “

Never has it been more apt than in this matter being discussed here!

I find it saddening that people refuse to get off their butts and investigate what the world offers.

NB: Another problem with “us”. We do not like things that take too long to work. We want quick, easy, if possible instant results. Writing is not for people with such “short cut mentalities”.

So, it may be tough for people from our part of the world to break into it, but it’s doable.

I now offer verifiable information anyone can review – below.

1. Writing Research Papers/Publications for Pay

The research paper I’ve been commissioned to write on “Using ICT for Feed Formulation” has payment attached to it.

The organization based in the Netherlands, that made the “Call for Papers” has already sent me the contract and an invoice template to fill my domiciliary bank account details in.

Once the paper is accepted, the 2,500 EUROS payment will be made to the account. 

You do the math.

It may interest you to know that such “Call for paper” events are not one off.

They happen regularly – but it depends on what field you’re in.

My Professor friend knew my work would appeal to the organizers of this contest, so he sent me the papers. I sent my proposal in; they accepted it, and told me to write the full paper and submit.

[Update 21st Dec. 2015: I forgot to return and note here that I got paid in December 2013 – read this article for details: PDF Agribusiness Research Paper] Adoption of PC-Based Feed Formulation Methods by Farmers, Feed Manufacturers and Extension Professionals, in South West Nigeria – Complete my Questionnaire Survey & Download FREE PDF Copy.]

Apart from the above, I, as a non-academic, also earn passive income (click here to see screenshots of royalty payments), from sales of works written years ago, via my online store at www.lulu.com/sdaproducts.

2. Smart Businesses Use “Intelligent Writing” for High Impact Marketing

It is my regular article marketing, which has gotten hundreds of people to contact me about my products and services.

And that regular writing also got me the above mentioned opportunity, to write a research paper for such hefty payment.

My professor friend in a South African university was aware of my feed formulation handbook and software for farmers.

It was he who informed me of the “Call for papers.

And he also proposed co-authoring it with me.

Now, apart from the fact that we knew each other, my writing (which gives me massive visibility in Google – see screen shot below), also convinced him.

My regular article writing gives me useful Google visibility

But he’s not the only one.

A female researcher in another South African university contacted via email, last week, while I was still in Nigeria.

We went on to speak for 30 minutes on Skype.

She excitedly told me how impressed she was with my useful write-ups on farm business.

Among other things, she told me international conference organizers would want to have me speak at their event – and would cover my expenses.

That same day she subscribed to my newsletter mailing list.

Maybe one day, she’ll convince herself to buy my feed formulation software :-))

I’ve had other conversations with prospects from Canada, Tanzania (see screen shot below), and even a Nigerian based in Saudi Arabia. All of them have since purchased my feed formulation software and/or handbook.

I’ve had conversations with prospects from Canada, Tanzania (see screenshot below) and a Niegrian based in Saudi Arabia - all of who purchased my feed formulation software and/or handbook.

NB: In this article I expained major challenges I’ve had trying to setup reliable payment oprocessing on my website. For now, I’m forced to improvise, as shown above.

Yet it only cost me the effort to write the many articles these people found in Google, and followed to my You tube videos, website, and/or blog!

That’s what article marketing, done using “intelligent writing”, makes possible.

It’s a habit that EVERY smart-thinking, results-focused, modern day business owner should develop!

2. Profitable Freelance Writing Is Possible (Hint: A 19 year Old Nigerian Based in Ibadan, Nigeria, Who Earns 5 Figures Monthly in US Dollars!)

Many freelance writing opportunities exist for serious minded persons with integrity.

Most of them however remain difficult to access for people from our part of the world – because people who offer them are scared of getting cheated e.g. they pay and get no write-ups delivered to them.

Too often WE expect “success” to be “noisy”: We are so addicted to the entertainment industry’s kind of success.

If you are successful, people should know you. If you have money, people should see it.

Really? Says who??

We forget that Warren Buffet, despite being in the top leagues of the world’s billionaires, still lives a relatively simple and quiet life.

We are told he still drives the same car he first owned, and has lived in the same house for over 3 decades.

Does that stop him being one of the the worlds richest people.

No!

But if he walked past many of us in the streets today, it’s likely we would not even give him a second look.

Same applies to the late Steve Jobs!

…as it does to a record setting teenage Nigerian I now talk about…

Bamidele Onibalusi‘s Accomplishments Put to Shame Any Doubting Thomas!

At 19 years old, he is a well recognized online celebrity based in IBADAN.

He earns five figures in US dollars monthly!

And today he has up to 7 people in his employ, writing for his website.

Get this: He’s been featured on Forbes.com, among other high profile websites and blogs.

I’ve been screaming about him since last year here, and here, and most recently, here

At a point, I even posted about this young man on Goodluck Jonathan’s facebook page.

I don’t know if the above had anything to do with it, but he’s since been interviewed by Nigeria’s Guardian newspaper.

Plus, I recently came across this comprehensive interview of Oni, done by the respected Digital Journal.

I Mentioned Oni as Guest Speaker, in May 2012, at Yaba College of Technology’s Centre for Entrepreneurship Development.

I told graduating students of entrepreneurship in the packed hall to visit Oni’s website.

This was to challenge them to see what was possible, if they put their minds to productive use – WITH PERSISTENCE.

Hopefully some of them did. And hopefully they now know anything is possible.

That guy is making waves from the ancient city of I-B-A-D-A-N!

3. Financially Rewarding Writing Contests Also Exist

On a final note, every year there are writing contests in various genres.

Cash prizes range from $100 to as much as $3,000 possibly more.

A number reward the top 3 or more “winning entries”.

Virtually all of them allow – indeed require (for anonymity/fairness) – online submission.

And many actually allow writers from any part of the world to enter.

Sometimes the works will be fiction. But non-fiction entries can also get called for. You just need to know where to find such opportunities.

Many organizers make it clear you need not be a previously published author to send your work in for consideration.

I actually have four(4) such contests I’m aiming to submit entries to, between now and February 2014.

“Imagination is more important than knowledge” …said Albert Einstein.

Einstein was right.

Sometimes I just don’t understand how we let our traditional schooling “mind set” keep us from maximizing our abilities!

The day we start letting our brains do what God created them for (i.e. to IMAGINE!), we will actualize our full potentials like people in developed societies.

Why I Relocated from Nigeria to Benin Republic (Hint: A “Poor” Country Where Even Poor People Live Well!)

If you’ve ever been second-guessed, doubted, and treated with suspicion, you’ll know it can be very unpleasant. As a Nigerian, I’ve had (and HAVE!) to endure the stigma of being from a country renowned for scams – in countries I’ve visited, and – ironically – even back at home :-)))

Like a well traveled Beninese professional once told me”.

“Look Tayo, I’ve traveled all over the world, and met with lots of Nigerians. Even Nigerians don’t trust themselves. So why should people here in Benin trust you?”

And he was right.

Indeed, in my first few months in Benin Republic, I encountered lots of raw distrust from locals, who had bad stories about “Nigerians” to tell me!

ONE EXAMPLE: Read the article below, that I wrote recently…

http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/he-called-me-voleur-thief/

It tells the story of a how a young student in the university at Calavi (outside Cotonou) called me a thief.

And that was because he only ever saw me working on an Internet connected PC!
That happened back in June 2013.

Today, I enjoy great recognition and credibility in a growing number of formal business and social circles – including the NIGERIAN EMBASSY right here in Cotonou.

But it was not easy; I had to prove myself – by being creative and tenacious.

Two major achievements that have really opened doors of opportunities for me are:

1. My Quick and Dirty Guide to English for French Speakers (and French for English Speakers) – which I now sell.

Like I said, today, my perseverance is being rewarded. People now accept me here – even though I offer no solutions most of them can use or afford.

But they want to relate with me – and a few do purchase my products.

For instance the very first buyer of my “Quick and Dirty Guide to English for French speakers” CDROM was Cyriaq – a Beninese medical doctor, and now, friend.

He paid for it in advance, and picked it up 2 weeks later.

See what I mean by the level of trust I now enjoy? That would not have happened in May or June 2013!

Back then I was still working to win people’s trust – as I explained in this article titled “What Do You Do When People Are Scared To Trust You?” :-))

Gaining people’s trust is the key to success in ANY area of life.

I’ve learnt to do it quite well. That’s how I got this far. My ideas can help you do the same – or better!

Since then, I’ve written two other pieces on the subject of trust – all based on my personal experiences and observations.

a.Can You Be Trusted? (Real Life Farm Business Sales Conversations With People Just Like You)

b. Proven Strategy for Succeeding by Winning People’s Trust

Read them. They will help you keep going in times when no one seems to be ready to give you a chance.

2. My Pineapple PEEL based drink which I am working towards offering for sale from a “snacks bar” before the end of the year.

I was already a known face in the Nigerian embassy, here in Cotonou, with at least one senior official, before coming up with this drink.

However when I took a bottled/labeled sample of the drink to the embassy, things went to a whole new level!

Details will come in future articles I’ll be writing.

Now, Some Direct Answers to Specific Questions People Keep Asking Me

Plenty of skepticism is naturally directed at a person like me who claims to earn income selling “his knowledge and expertise online”.

Most Nigerians simply cannot believe that is possible. The socioeconomic environment in our country makes most people feel there are no viable alternatives.

And that’s why I do what I do via this blog, and my website.

I’m using myself to PROVE to people they can pursue and succeed with viable alternatives like those I’ve discovered or developed.

But anyone who wants to use my methods simply cannot be lazy. And you cannot be in a hurry either.

1. Why did you leave Nigeria to Live/Work in Benin Republic?

Answer:

I’ve just returned to my base in Cotonou, Benin Republic, from 2 weeks in Lagos-Nigeria. I went to administer a questionnaire survey to farm industry stakeholders (for the international research paper I’m writing on “Using ICT for Feed Formulation”).

It all began on 1st April 2013, when I implemented my plan to become a Location Independent Entrepreneur – with my base in Benin Republic.

That decision was greatly influenced by a need for steady, reliable power supply and generally conducive environment free from annoyances I totally hated.

I was spending over N800 daily on fuel to power my generator in order to do my work on the laptop. And that did not even let me do as much as I needed to each day. Yet, NEPA would send in crazy estimated bills and insist one pay – other wise you would be disconnected. And this, from people who rarely supplied more than 25% of power supply one paid for.

What really nailed my resolve was when I visited the neighborhood NEPA office, and told them I wanted to be removed from the National Grid.

My argument was that I never got enough electricity and still got issued bloated bills to pay!

The newly appointed power station looked me in the eye and said “Even if we disconnect you, we will still bring you bills every month, and you will have to pay!

At that point I knew I needed to relocate, because I was sure I could literally kill someone, if I kept living and working in an environment like that.

I’ve always believed I should get value for the money I pay.

And that’s why as a service provider I ALWAYS go the extra mile to give buyers of my products and services more than they pay for.

The Nigerian environment had tested my patience to the limits. So I began investigating alternative locations to move to.

Read “You’re Not Crazy to Follow Your Inner Voice” in which I explained the “psychological dilemma I overcame to settle on Benin Republic.

Another article in which I explain is “No. 110: Why You Need to Think With Your Whole Body (and How)!

Yet another is: Change Your Environment to Succeed – If Necessary

Since arriving Benin Republic, it’s been like relocating to heaven from a version of hell.

No exaggeration.

My productivity has dramatically improved.And more online work has come my way as a result of the useful output I’ve been able to produce.

2. But how do you get enough business? There really is not much business in Benin Republic for someone like you who does freelance writing, software development, public speaking, web marketing coaching/support, information publishing etc

Answer:

My adopted approach remains strange to many Nigerians – indeed Africans. To learn a bit about what it means to be a Location Independent Entrepreneur (which is what I now am), read this article: A New Generation of Entrepreneurs PROVES That Our Schools Need To Offer a Different Kind of Education!

Note that my target audience has NEVER been people in Benin. Indeed the only clients I’ve so far had here are foreigners (Nigerians, and a Cameroonian)

My work has always been focused on selling my solutions online.

Since moving here, MORE buyers from in and out of Nigeria/Africa (as far as Canada) have purchased my feed formulation handbook, and software in particular.

For those unable/unwilling to buy my products, who still want to do feed formulation, I recently published a new PDF titled “Using MS Excel® Solver for Least Cost Feed Formulation Can Be Easy – But Also Dangerous (How to Protect Yourself)“.

(NB: Anyone who uses MS Excel for serious work should download that PDF report – or risk making avoidable errors. )

Payment is made to me via transfers to my GTB account or through an alternative arrangement I made to receive online payment.

My efforts to use foreign payment processing platforms have been frustrating. I do NOT use Nigerian payment processing platforms because – for now – I simply do NOT trust that they will remain reliable.

And since I deal a lot with foreign buyers of my offers, I am NOT prepare to risk damaging any hard won credibility by letting any system glitches scare people away!

3. Is your family still in Nigeria?

Answer:

Yes they are. I call them regularly, and visit once in a few weeks. But my plan is now to do the needed work to move them over.

I’ve done the math. And it makes sense to do that.

It costs me half to one third of my normal expenses, to live here (feeding, transportation etc). And that applies to catering to the needs of children.

On food, let me use this analogy:

A full plate of rice with one boiled egg on it, can be had for 300 FCFA. I know this because  I eat it often just next to where I live. Details in another article to follow.

Note that that is NOT the exception. It’s actually the norm.

Food is dirt-cheap here compared to Nigeria.

Look, one boiled egg in Lagos costs N50. If raw, it costs N30.

Now, N30 is approximately, 100 FCFA. That means the full plate of rice, with a boiled egg placed on top (see real life photo of one below) sold in Cotonou for 300 FCFA actually costs N100 approximately.

This full plate of rice, with a boiled egg placed on top sold in Cotonou for 300 FCFA - meaning it costs N100 approximately.

Since a boiled egg in Lagos costs N50, that means the above plate of rice (sprinkled with beans, and spaghetti!) costs only N50!

But we all know it’s impossible to buy any decent plate of food for N100 in Nigeria.

That amount would only get you a small piece or fish or meat!

Then you would need anything from N200 upwards to get your plate full!

I shared one picture above for illustration. There will be more, in a special report I intend to do soon, comparing the cost of living in both societies.

Another thing: In Benin Republic, public tap water is drinkable. I’ve been drinking it – like everyone else – since 1st April 2013.

So there’s no need to buy water to eat a meal. Except you want cold water or prefer it bottled.

That’s so unlike Nigeria, where you dare NOT try drinking water that’s not packaged. And even those can sometimes be “unhealthy” for drinking – as cases of related disease outbreaks have periodically shown.

This is why drinking water adds an extra layer of expense to every meal in Nigeria. Imagine how much a family spends on bags of pure water daily in Nigeria! I say this from personal experience.  A totally avoidable expense!

But Why the Focus on Food, Tayo?

Actually, it’s not only food. Transportation and other basic activities are mostly cheaper here.

I have a vision to help Nigerians achieve financial empowerment, to fight bad governance.

Once they can feed themselves, they will be less prone to manipulation by corrupt people – or politicians.

That’s the situation in Benin Republic.

Even “poor” people eat well in this “poor” country.

In contrast, many who do not consider themselves poor, in Nigeria, struggle to feed their families well!

That’s also why the crime rate is VERY low here.

It’s not a perfect place.They have their own problems – but nothing that makes life a literal living hell like in Nigeria.

That’s why they appear so laid back to the rest of us. You see, their society works for THEM…even when they put in what appears to be little effort!

I’ve always felt that life is not meant to be such a struggle…to be so hard…so brutish…like it is in Nigeria!

Believe me. I’ve visited different parts of Nigeria, and Ghana, Cameroon, and England, Scotland, and now Benin Republic. Nigeria is a tough place to live and work.

Henry David Thoreau reportedly said:

“Most men lead lives of quiet desperation and go to the grave with the song still in them”

For Nigerians, I’d rephrase it this way:

“Most Nigerians lead lives of NOISY desperation, and inspite of it all, still go to the grave with the song still in them”.

I’ll be spelling out what I believe Nigeria (and Nigerians), need(s) to do to change things, in future write-ups.(Hint: What I do today is an example of what more people need to start doing in Nigeria).

Part 2 of this post – with more photos, and answers to questions sent me by enquirers, will be published in a day or two.