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Publication: Tayo Solagbade’s Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS Page (PSIP) Newsletter

Date: Monday 11th November 2013

No:115

Title: Why Persistent People Succeed (Hint: A Silent But Irresistible Force!)

Author & Publisher: Tayo K. Solagbade [Tel: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic) ]

Blog URL: http://www.spontaneousdevelopment.com/blog

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Hi,

Please find below the latest issue of my Speaking IDEAS newsletter.

No. 115: Why Persistent People Succeed (Hint: A Silent But Irresistible Force!)

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You may have heard about – or read – Napoleon Hill’s book titled “Think & Grow Rich”. In this issue of my newsletter, I highlight what is perhaps the most potent message in that book for ANY reader, to take away. Especially one who desires to know how to succeed, no matter how tough things get!

Here’s the quote:

“There is a silent but irresistible force, that comes to the aid of those who carry on in the face of discouragement.”

You see, I have found from studying human beings – adults especially – that many people are unwilling to endure prolonged hardship, adversity or delays in the “arrival” of that which they seek.

The human nature is such that it seeks the easiest, shortest route to achieve a goal or desire.

People do not like to WAIT long to get what they want.

Technological and industrial advancements in the 21st century have made instant gratification even more fashionable.

The Internet itself further fuels the “habit” through “instant downloads and access” to wide variety of high demand products and services.

In a way, I think our modern world has actually created a “weaker” generation of people.

Many of today’s men and women have gotten used to living “sheltered” lives.

It’s one in which most things they want can be had almost as soon as they “think” about it, or say they want it.

The problem that occurs as a result, is that when things don’t go the way they want them, such people tend to give up quickly/easily.

Or they turn to unethical avenues to achieve the same end.

The message from Hill’s book however is that anyone who can persist, in spite of major delays in the “arrival” of success, will get eventually support from an “unseen” source.

That’s What Hill Called “A Silent But Irresistible Force”

Think about it:

Who or what can possibly successfully anticipate and/or withstand a force that makes no sound, and cannot be resisted?

I say “No one and Nothing” can!

Also consider the fact that Hill says in order for you to get the help of that “force”, all you need to do is carry on in your struggles – making intelligent changes over time.

If you do the above, you will eventually succeed, no matter how much failure, discouragement, delays or setbacks/adversity you experience.

I have experienced many, many – very many – instances of help from this unseen force in truly amazing ways.

And I have many stories I can share i.e. verifiable stories.

E.g Helped by a Beninese TV and Radio presenter, who I did not know, and had never met before.

It was just my third day in Cotonou, Benin Republic.

This happened back in April 2013, when I relocated (despite myriad challenges/setbacks) from Lagos- Nigeria to Cotonou.

He walked up to where I stood asking for directions from a commercial cyclist, and said (in French):

“Hello, what’s the problem? Is there any way I can help?”.

Surprised, I turned towards him and explained that I was trying to locate the office premises, of certain high profile establishments I’d checked out online.

This gentleman said: “Ah, you must be a visitor out here, not to know those places.“

He sent the bike rider off, and motioned for me to follow him into an open air snacks bar, close to us.

Next, he motioned for me to join him at a table, ordered two large bottles of soft drinks, and began asking me questions.

I explained what I did, why I’d come down, and my purpose for wanting to visit those organisations.

To my surprise, he said – among other things: “I like your courage. To move to another country, without knowing anyone. I think I can help you“.

He then told he me ran a weekly show on one of the popular local channels.

And that he had access to top people in some of the establishments I was interested in.

Many of them had visited the studios at some time in the past, for one function or the other. And in some cases, he had interacted directly with them.

Believe it or not, this guy – who barely knew me – went on to make phone calls to his contacts.

By the time we parted, he’d given me direct, personal phone numbers to call.

I’ll never forget the looks of incredulity I got from my new friends back then, when I began calling, and meeting those people.

They asked: “How did you manage to connect with such people in the short time you’ve been here?”

I told them what I’m telling YOU here, in THIS article…about a silent but irresistible force that comes to the aid of persistent people!

It might interest you to know, that we’re friends on Facebook today.

And once in a while, when we meet online, he typically says:

“How are things going? Do let me know if there’s anything I can do to help.”

Wow, one would think he owed me money. Yet I AM the one who owes him!!

In my previous articles and books, I have told other similar stories. I continue to receive help from this “force” in many uncanny ways.

My plan is to share more specific and graphic examples via story telling, via “one hour talks” I offer on-demand.

Interested? Contact me.

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Let Me End by Repeating Myself…

Napoleon Hill’s claim is true.

Even if no single human being is offering to help you – or aware of your need for help.

If you persist inspite of your circumstances, you will eventually find yourself the beneficiary of an uncanny kind of support.

That help will typically come from an unknown, and often unexpected source.

And it will most likely leave you continually baffled!

I Live This Stuff…and One Man’s Words Helped Me Learn to Believe

One more thing I need to say…

Persisting, no matter what obstacles come your way, is NOT easy!

I did not just start getting it right from day one.

Many periods of doubt and frustration occurred.

However, a red-hot desire to succeed made me search for ideas to keep me going.

And I found answers in the writing of many other experts.

But one man stood out, in how he communicated IT.

His name is Burt Dubin.

He coined a phrase that resonated powerfully with me.

A phrase that’s easy to remember, and helps anyone stay focussed on not quitting.

I quickly adopted it as a mental/psychological anchor.

Since 2000, when I first read it on Burt’s website, it’s helped me overcome the storms of adversity I’ve encountered.

What is the phrase used by Burt?

It’s “Have Bulldog Blood“!

Without bulldog blood, you cannot achieve long term success in the face of adversity. (If you’d like to know what he means by that expression, read this article).

Burt is renowned as a veteran mentor of some of the world’s highest paid speakers.

He has been around for over 3 decades!

That’s the kind of person I would pay serious attention to.

Especially now, that he’s launched a web based preview version, of his latest book titled “On Being a Master“!!

Final Words: You Too Can Succeed by Persisting!

Keep the words of Burt Dubin on “having bulldog blood” (see below) in mind – and you will not go wrong!

Need More Ideas on How to Use The Above Information?

If you need more specific details of how to make use of the ideas I’ve shared in this newsletter, send me a message using this request form – with “Re: No. 115: Why Persistent People Succeed (Hint: A Silent But Irresistible Force!)” in the subject line.

Have a lovely week!

Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Sole Agent For Burt Dubin’s Speaker Mentoring Service In Africa

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

http://www.spontaneousdevelopment.com

Self-Development/Performance Enhancement Specialist – Tayo Solagbade – works as a multipreneurial freelance writer providing  zero risk article and report writing support for website owners, while travelling slowly across West Africa as a Location Independent Entrepreneur.

He’s presently based in Benin Republic, where he’s preparing an English-French Language Guide, City Travel Guides, and a Commercial Rabbit Farming Guide.

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Self-Development Nuggets™ blog, and Public Speaking IDEAS newsletter (which he publishes to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

For a limited time, Tayo is available to speak to your group or organization for a moderate fee. Send e-mail to tayo at tksola dot com. You can also visit www.tksola.com to learn more.

Connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

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Comments?

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