Category Archives: Career Development

CEO Ineptitude Will Stunt Any Company’s Growth (9 Signs to Look Out For!)

Since 2002, I have carefully compared my experiences as an entrepreneur, with my time in paid employment. Especially with regard to the most frequent cause of failure, amongst senior managers and CEOs of small/medium businesses I interacted with on both sides.

I was shocked to discover that INEPTITUDE – on the part of these top decision makers – was the major cause of failure!

That is, a total lack of skill in the very endeavour they are responsible for managing to profitability or productivity.

If you find it difficult to understand how a CEO can be inept in the manner I have described above, be assured that you are not alone in feeling this way!

I struggled with myself for years to BELIEVE what my eyes saw and ears heard as I worked closely with some (NOT ALL) of these people.

Believe me when I say some mothers – sorry, I mean "companies" – do ‘ave them!

What would you say about the decision making competence of a CEO, who pays well over N250, 000 over a 6 month period, to a software developer, but fails to ensure himself or ANY of his staff can competently make use of the application delivered (And that’s despite extensive efforts by the developer to provide on site, hands on training)?

The above (true story) is just one example of how a CEO can be inept.

Now, if you owned shares in such a company, would you feel confident that your investment would be well managed to yield beneficial returns?

I know I would not – and I am certain most others would feel the same way.

Now, this lack of skill or ineptitude is rarely an accident. Instead it is often the result of a lack of discipline – particularly mental discipline. To be honest, I personally consider it to be evidence of mental indolence or laziness on the part of the "guilty" CEO.

Some companies (especially startup or small/medium) fail to succeed in spite of having talented and competent hands reporting to the CEO, in addition to ready access to financing. One possible reason for this failure could be the problem of "CEO Ineptitude".

But What Are The Signs Of "CEO Ineptitude"?

Below I list nine (9) signs and symptoms a CEO will exhibit that will suggest s/he is inept.

1. Does not (or no longer wants to) know or keep track of operational details that affect the company’s ability to meet its business success goals. The result is that when trends turn bad, s/he rarely notices until it’s too late. The company suffers as a result.

2. Is not (and is NOT keen to become) proficient in using technology s/he pays for (such as a laptop/PC, monthly Internet access etc) to boost his/her ability to make better business decisions.

3. Will not admit it, but is terrified of thinking and/or making "tough" decisions by him or herself. For instance s/he will do almost anything to get even a visiting friend or consultant to help him decide when an unrepentant staff guilty of being repeatedly absent from work should be penalized by way of salary deduction. The business suffers for this, because other staff copy the unpunished staff PLUS diligent staff get frustrated and conclude there is no point sticking to the rules.

4. Always balks at going out and getting personally involved in making sales visits towards generating sales/marketing leads. Instead s/he spends money hiring more sales and marketing personnel than necessary, who then get pushed out to do this unwanted chore – at a higher cost to the company. The worst part however is that the RESULTS they get often never justify the wages "overhead" their presence in the company attracts. Again, the company suffers (this is especially true for a startup or small/medium enterprise)..

5. Hires and pays professional service providers or consultants to develop systems and solutions meant to help the company succeed better, BUT fails to take ownership – and USE – the delivered product, often times to the bafflement of even those s/he paid to provide it (at least those with integrity)!

6. Always pays him or herself lavishly even when the company is still struggling to generate cash flow to meet its business needs.

"The salary of the chief executive of the large corporation is not a market award for achievement. It is frequently in the nature of of a warm personal gesture by the individual to himself" –John Kenneth Galbraith (Annals of an Abiding Liberal)

7. Often allows products or services to be sold to customers on credit without putting in place mechanisms for vigorous redemption of receivables. As a result the company suffers from a growing overload of "debts" owed it by customers, even as production or output is stifled by poor cash availability to finance inventory and other routine expenses. Sometimes, this forces the company into taking overdraft from banks at less than friendly interest rates. Once again, the company suffers.

8. Does not READ (articles, books, magazines) to get new ideas that s/he can apply towards developing better ways of managing the business to productivity and profitability.

9. Pays beggarly wages. Believes in hiring for as little as possible, while trying to get as much as possible out of the same hired hands they UNDER-PAY. Does not believe in employee motivation.

The result is that the staff always feel under appreciated and are constantly on the lookout for what they can get and run off with.

Evidence: a high staff turnover rate, which in turn prevents the company from fully entrenching any initiatives introduced by management. So, the company suffers – AGAIN!

"I don’t want any yes-men around me. I want everybody to tell me the truth even if it costs them their jobs" – Samuel Goldwyn

Final Words: If you know any company whose CEO or key decision maker suffers from the above aspects of ineptitude, I strongly suggest you avoid investing in it.

Except of course you can do something to "correct" the observed inadequacies.

Why do I say this? 

Well, the fact is that you can be sure such is unlikely to display any evidence of steady progress over time.

This will be mainly because of the erratic decision making output arising from inept CEO activity like those earlier enumerated. The company will therefore be more prone to negative influences of the market place and industry it operates in.

No real life/physical business entity can operate 100% successfully on autopilot.

And that’s why human beings are put in charge to actively THINK and ACT based on daily developments to steer it in the direction of greatest returns on investment.

All of these are of course my experience-based ideas. But you may not agree with them – and you have every right not to.

That will however not mean I am wrong, or that they are inaccurate.

My suggestion: THINK carefully before you reject what you’ve read above!

PS: This article is based on excerpts from a write up originally published by Tayo K. Solagbade in his Self-Development Digest Newsletter on Monday 3rd August 2009, via www.spontaneousdevelopment.com

How To Make Yourself IMMUNE To FRUSTRATION!

On Saturday (28th June 2014), I’ll be delivering a paid 1 hour talk to members of the Media Unit of an NGO in Ogun state, on the invitation of the CEO, who I met with yesterday, here in Lagos. Attendees will hear stories of exciting successes I recorded via diligent application of ideas I describe in this article.

[By way of interest, the talk I will be giving is titled “Now That YOUR Website Is Up, What Do You Do Next? Practical Ideas for Making Profitable Use of a Response Generating Website“. Click here to view the PDF flyer]

Below, I use a very interesting interview of a millionaire entrepreneur as a basis for explaining WHY and HOW, having what I prefer to call (as some others do) a – MAGNIFICENT OBSESSION, can make you totally immune to frustration in any form.

(To learn more about what it means to have a magnificent obsession, read my Self-Development Bible titled “Ten Ways You Can Use Self-Development To Create The Future You Want”. If you have not yet downloaded it, sign up for access to my downloads page here!)

If you really want to be able to achieve the goals you set for yourself in life INSPITE OF the obstacles you encounter – like I am currently doing.

If you want to be able to repeatedly surprise the “doubting thomases” who question your ability to achieve your seemingly impossible goals, then you NEED to become OBSESSED with it!

This was the main thrust of the message given by Simon Woodroffe OBE, a billionaire entrepreneur/co-founder of the Yo! Sushi restaurant chain in the UK, in an interview text I read reproduced on page 36 of The Nations Newspaper of Wednesday 19th December 2007.

By way of interest I will mention that I came across this interview because I chose to “find something for my eyes to do.

This happened while waiting in the reception of the Lagos Country Club to see if I would be fortunate to be granted audience by the Club President.

I did not get to see the Club President then (and have not done so till now).

But by borrowing a newspaper from the person seated next to me and reading through it, I discovered this extremely valuable interview of Simon Woodroffe that made the time I spent in that club’s reception worthwhile.

Below I reproduce some of the questions he was asked with paraphrased versions of his answers:

Question 1: How important is it to take risks? 

Simon answered that he has found that there is no right way or wrong way. He added that one thing he found common to all successful people is that they (to quote him) “do not go around succeeding all the time”.

Simon explained that successful people are always prepared to make mistakes, or get it wrong (i.e. fail) and suffer the consequences – which frequently will include being “rejected”.

This by implication means that successful people don’t mind taking risks and sticking out their necks to venture into uncharted territory – trying to do what has not been done before. They adopt this attitude and approach knowing that if they fail, they can always get back up and try again.

Question 2: How did the Yo! brand begin? 

Simon started by stating that he left school without passing his certification exams at the age of 16 (see details via this wiki encyclopedia link :http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Woodroffe ).

He also pointed out that this lack of any formal high school leaving qualification made him adopt a “serious” approach to life early on.

Simon then painted an accurate picture of this situation by explaining that people do difficult things when they have no choice. They do not do difficult things because they want pleasure.

I think this is very powerfully insightful – and YOU should ruminate over it a while, calling to mind the lives and experiences of any successful persons you know.

It is instructive to note that Napoleon Hill described this aspect in his success philosophy by asking the success seeker to “burn all bridges”, so as to be able to maintain the “burning desire” to succeed in spite of the inevitable adversity s/he will encounter.

Question 3: How did you go about building something that was quite small to a multi-million pound business? 

Simon answered that a significant factor is the willingness of a person to let him/her self be in the right place to make things happen. That is, in addition to being able to identify the specific things that are holding him/her back.

He added that business does not really require a person to prove him/herself to be “clever” and also that life is not as complicated as many people make it.

One more thing he said which I feel compelled to highlight is that he does not think anyone – including himself – is really “very clever”.

Woodroffe added that the problem is that many people are just “lazy and stupid”, and that if a person can “get obsessed with something” s/he can do anything.

He ended by saying that he never woke up with a desire to be wealthy – instead he always woke up in the morning because he was obsessed with making his dream or goal a reality or afraid that all his plans were going to fail.

In essence what Simon meant was that a person who is truly driven to achieve his/her valued life goal will ACT IT. That’s because that DRIVE to achieve it will manifest as an obsession that will see him/her “hit the ground running” every morning, to continue working towards it from where s/he stopped the day before.

Now, I’ll end as follows: 

That you had a setback does not mean you’re finished. That you’re moving slowly does not mean you will not get there.

You must NOT let others tell you it’s taking too long. They cannot possibly know how long it should take because they are NOT from the future!!!

Your path to success will be unique. Pursue it – with passion and determination, and entertain no doubts along the way.

Believe me when I tell you that soon, you WILL begin to LIVE the life you dream of.

I am doing EXACTLY that already, and sometimes when I think about it, I am still amazed at myself and what I am achieving DAILY.

Your story can be the same too – just get OBESESSED today, and YOU WILL become immune to frustration.

I should know: my entire life – especially in the past 10 years – makes me LIVING PROOF that this is true.

1. Some introductory information about Simon Woodroffe:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Simon_Woodroffe

2. “Be Yo! Self” by Simon Woodroffe

Click HERE to read full article

3. The official company website

http://www.yocompany.biz/

You may find reading my articles linked below, which offer guidance in discovering one’s Magnificent Obsession, useful:

1. http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/how-to-make-yourself-immune-to-frustration/

2. http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/do-you-struggle-to-get-your-writing-done-finding-your-magnificent-obsession-can-save-you/

3. http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/ten-ways-you-can-use-self-development-to-create-the-future-you-want/

4. http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/no-157-deciding-what-you-need-to-write-or-speak-about-3-strategies-you-can-use/

5, http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/if-you-want-to-succeed-your-magnificent-obsession-mo-must-be-your-vocation-hint-let-your-mo-guide-your-choice-of-what-vocationprofession-to-learn/

PS: This article is based on excepts from a write-up originally published in Tayo Solagbade’s Self-Development Digest Newsletter on 17th January 2008, via www.spontaneousdevelopment.com

On Saturday (28th June 2014), I'll be delivering this paid 1 hour talk to members of the Media Unit of an NGO in Ogun state - click to download PDF flyer

The Secret to Finding the Right Vocation to Guarantee Your Success

It was on Sunday 6th July 1997 (my 27th birthday) that this photo was taken, with Nkechi (my wife), using my Olympus Stylus Camera’s timer. She was 22 at the time. It was our VERY first photo together. And it’s the one I LOVE the most! Tomorrow (Sunday 22nd June 2014) she turns 39. I arrived in Lagos today, about 5 hours ago to spend the weekend, and her day, with her.

It was on Sunday 6th July 1997 (my 27th birthday) that this photo was taken, with Nkechi (my wife), using my Olympus Stylus Camera’s timer. She was 22 at the time. It was our VERY first photo together. And it’s the one I LOVE the most! Tomorrow (Sunday 22nd June 2014) she turns 39. I arrived in Lagos today, about 5 hours ago to spend the weekend, and her day, with her.

We’ve now been together for 15 years!

Our first child was born in 1999. Then I was still in paid employment. After I chose to quit my job in 2002 (2 years after we got married), it became more of a roller coaster ride…

Since then, we’ve been through thick and thin together. And the strains stretched us to our limits. But we stayed strong (with support from loved ones) and NOW, with our kids, we’re one strong family building an exciting future.

Looking back now, it’s clear I chose “RIGHT”. 15 years are more than enough proof of it!

Just as in marriage, it’s important that you choose “RIGHT” in your life’s work or vocation…

In my case I scored a double in this regard.

That is, in addition to choosing the right partner to LIVE with, I also chose the right vocation.

And just like it’s was not easy getting this far in my marriage, it was not easy finding my feet in my chosen vocation.

Over 80% of what I do to earn a living today requires that I do a lot of creative thinking (e.g building custom Excel Software, Web Marketing) and writing ( web copywriting, freelance writing etc) for clients in different industries – BUT with special focus on Farm Business Owners.

And I did not settle on my line of work by accident.

Instead, it came from a careful review of my life’s experiences and achievements, dating way back to my time in the university.

After graduating with a degree in Agricultural Extension, I got an offer, as Best Graduating Student, to return and pursue a graduate assistantship in Unibadan, where I’d finished from. However, at about the same time I got an offer from a wine manufacturing company, to work as a trainee sales coordinator.

It was a start-up company. But what really got my attention was the fact that they’d taken the pains to retain a consulting firm to screen candidates through a gruelling selection process that culminated in a selection board final stage.

The 3 of us who made it through were taken to meet the MD/CEO, who turned out to be a retired brewer from one of the country’s large multinationals. We were told how his company used very (mostly over) ripe pawpaw fruits to make fermented table wines of different kinds, sold across the country.

I was immediately excited about being a part of that process.

And so I had no difficulty choosing not to submit my application for graduate assistant program to Unibadan (University of Ibadan).

Over a period of 6 months, despite having to go out on trade visits with the Ghanaian Sales Manager for the company, I found time to hook up with my fellow recruits who were based in the lab, and they took me through the entire brewing, fermentation and filtration process employed in making the wines.

It was so exciting for me.

A lot of what I learnt in 1994, in that wine making company, would in 2013 influence me to develop a process for using pineapple peels to produce drinks, after I moved to Benin Republic.

What I was not to know that by going the extra mile the way I did, I was actually preparing myself for the opportunity of working in a bigger brewing company.

During my 5th month working in the small wine company, I found myself in the final stages of the recruitment process being conducted by Guinness Nigeria, for new Graduate Management Trainees.

They also chose to have a selection board debate preceding the final selection interviews. I was elated. My previous experience had prepared me well. What was more, since I was applying for entry into the technical (brewing) function, I knew my time in the wine company would likely be taken to imply I would learn fast.

A few weeks later, I got a formal letter, from Guinness, offering me employment.

Thankfully the MD of the wine company had always been like a father. I went to him and showed him the letter, along with my resignation. There was little time left in the offer window. I could not do otherwise. I was not surprised that he expressed happiness for me, and wished me well – even giving me tips about how to excel in the brewing world. We stayed in touch for years.

I joined Guinness and enjoyed an exciting 7 years of rapid career advancement.

Again, this was driven by the fact that I brought my passion with me. The work to be done interested me deeply. But at the same time, I had acquired an additional competence while working in the wine company.

Something told me to take part of my salary and register for introductory computer lessons at Lagos City Computer College. MS-DOS, WordPerfect, DBase, and Lotus 1-2-3 were topics covered, at a very basic level.

However, the interest I had made me spend my spare time exploring each subject as much as I could, using other people’s PCs at any opportunity I had.

I had no PC of my own. This was back in early 1994. Indeed I NEVER owned a PC of my own until 2004 – 2 full years after I became an entrepreneur. Before then I’d used computers in Guinness to develop custom spreadsheet software that automated brewers’ data recording and report generation.

As an entrepreneur, I got clients to provide me a PC with power supply and internet connection where applicable. All of that I negotiated into my terms of work with the client. And they always agreed.

What I’m trying to say in essence is that choosing the “RIGHT” kind of work to do, made it easy for me to excel…

And this has been the case at every stage of my life. I’ve always gone with my gut instinct i.e. how I feel about something.

I never let what others thought influence my decision.

It’s so important to get this right if you do NOT want to go through life making other people’s mistakes.

Listening too much to people about what you should choose can be dangerous. Most people do not know how to put themselves in other people’s shoes.

They are also generally very poor judges of character. In choosing a vocation, if they feel they will not enjoy doing something, they readily conclude others will not either.

In choosing a life partner, if they feel they cannot get along with a particular kind of person, they conclude others will not either.

Here’s my suggestion: Remind yourself at all times that YOU will be the one who has to live with the choices you make about your work or your life partner.

And that FACT should make you realise the need to TAKE YOUR OWN decision, regardless of what others think or say.

Nothing stops you from considering what you are told.

But always let your heart and good sense do the final decision making for you.

And of course, never fail to let the creator guide you as well.

Indeed once you let your heart speak to you, and if you keep an open mind, you’ll find that the creator NEVER stops talking to you…offering the WISE guidance you seek!

The problem is most of us fail to pay enough attention to realise it.

Everything I’ve said here is based on decades of hard won experience, dear reader!

Final Words: Tomorrow, I’ll be taking a special anniversary photo with my wife, to commemorate her 39th birthday anniversary.

And I’ll put up that photo, next to THIS one on this blog (and Facebook), then print out a special framed copy for our home.

For now, I invite you to rejoice with us :-))

To Succeed, Develop Spreadsheet Software for Co-workers (Conversation With a Multinational Employee About My Practical MS Excel-Visual Basic Coaching Service)

This article features excerpts from an online chat session I recently had with a friend who works for a multinational, about learning to build Custom MS Excel-Visual Basic Spreadsheet Apps at work. It’s a skill you can QUIETLY acquire, and use to attract career advancement opportunities of all kinds!

I KNOW, Because I’ve Done It Before!

Many of my past career development articles (here’s a popular one) offer details. My resume also provides case studies (click here to read).

That’s why I won’t waste time discussing the achievements I recorded using this skill. But I will say this.

Having that skill, and being willing to creatively – and selflessly – put it to use for the benefit of my colleagues and our employer (the company) was the key.

Doing so eventually made me a workplace champion who got rewarded REPEATEDLY with amazing career advancement opportunities!

And I earned those opportunities, in a fraction of the time it took others to record similar career. progress.

Why? Because no one else could do what I could do. And no one else was willing to put in the time, effort and sacrifice like I did. All that made me stand out. And the company’s decision makers took notice – eventually.

If you want to achieve the same, or better results, you WILL have to keep the foregoing in mind. Very important!

The gentleman who converses with me below, works with a large multinational. The details of our conversation are useful in that he asked questions and I offered details that basically spell out what ANYONE ELSE (including YOU, reading this now) may find useful.

Especially about how I can help you learn how to develop Custom Automated MS Excel-VB Software Apps, for your employer – or indeed clients!

TIP: SG is simply a place holder for his actual name, which I’ve removed for the obvious need to protect his privacy.

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[3/7/2014 2:26:10 PM] SG: Tayo Solagbade, how u dey now??

[3/7/2014 2:27:23 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Hey SG. I’m good. Nice to connect with you again :)

[3/7/2014 2:27:53 PM] SG: yes ooo, me too.

[3/7/2014 2:28:44 PM] SG: I was looking thru ur self development nuggets and I was amazed at how far u have developed in this area

[3/7/2014 2:28:59 PM] SG: with fact u r also a motivational speaker??

[3/7/2014 2:29:40 PM] SG: I may need your services on Advanced Spread(sheet) usage for my work….what does that look like??

[3/7/2014 2:30:39 PM] SG: I use MS Excel (Spreadsheet) in its basic form but there is d need to apply advanced touch for d sake of efficiency and better output…

[3/7/2014 2:31:33 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Ok. Gimme a moment…

[3/7/2014 2:31:40 PM] SG: ok….

[3/7/2014 2:39:07 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Hi SG. Had to call up a boiler plate response I normally send to enquirers. Take a read through below, then let me know your thoughts. Should take you a minute or two:

[3/7/2014 2:39:21 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Yes, I offer one-on-one coaching, and/or video tutorials and PDF for users of MS Excel in different areas, and at different levels of expertise.

However, most times what I create are custom and “Job Based” learning resources, NOT general/abstract ones.

For instance the learner is asked to specify tasks that s/he wants to be able to use MS Excel to (more) COMPETENTLY carry out on his/her job.

A. What tasks do you want to get done more competently?

B. How do you currently get them done?

C. What MS Excel functions or tools do you feel you need to master, and why?

Then I ask the person to (if possible) supply samples of raw data and/or workbooks s/he uses (dummy data can be posted in them for confidentiality).

S/he would specify what his/her expectations are, in terms of what s/he hopes to learn and be able to do.

Using the information supplied, I am typically able to create:

1. detailed screen shot PDF guides that give step by step instructions, with images, on how to execute each task in Excel.

2. Video tutorials that demonstrate the LIVE process of carrying out each task.

Now, unless the learner does not supply relevant work related sample data and resources (e.g. worksheets), ALL guides and tutorials are created using examples based on the learner’s familiar real life worksheets and data.

This ensures you achieve experiential learning that you can put to immediate use on your job, to achieve your desired goal.

So that’s an outline of my methodology.

Next Steps:

If you decide to take this forward, we need to have a formal “Needs Analysis” Conversation, during which I’ll ask you the above questions, plus others, to get a firm understanding of your needs.

Typically I call you via mobile phone (or Skype if possible).

You will also be able to ask me any questions you have.

Duration: 30 minutes at the most.

NB: Payment of a N10,000 (Ten thousand naira) fee is required to book this needs analysis session.

And it is required 100% in advance.

After the session, I send you a formal PDF report of what I propose to prepare for you as learning resources, and what the required investment is.

I include, in addition, my experience based recommendations of how you can go about learning what you need by yourself, in case the DIY approach appeals to you.

If however, you choose to engage me to prepare the custom PDF guides and/or video tutorials for you, you get a 100% refund of the N10k payment made for the needs analysis session.

Let me know what you think, and/or if you’d like to book the Needs Analysis session.

[3/7/2014 2:40:28 PM] SG: ok, I will be right with you when done reading thru

[3/7/2014 2:40:42 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Ok

[3/7/2014 2:44:48 PM] SG: ok am thru, I will like to book d Needs Analysis Session….but let me inwards and put together the areas I need assistance…..

[3/7/2014 2:45:10 PM | Edited 2:45:48 PM] SG: as for d down payment, it will be handled as required above..

[3/7/2014 3:25:55 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Ok. <text deleted>

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[3/7/2014 4:34:35 PM] SG: I could plan a trip to Cotonou to see you, I’ve been once or twice.

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[3/10/2014 12:06:37 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Just seeing this. Just call +229-66-122-136 when you get in. Interestingly, I just popped in Saturday nite to check details of a hotel in Oko Oba towards Saturday’s workshop on behalf of a Farm CEO who paid to attend from Warri. Wow. The fuel scarcity nuisance’s ripple effect are still being felt out here!! <text deleted>

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[3/10/2014 12:07:39 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Will return to Cotonou this p.m or tomorrow morning. My mobile number in Benin will not work while I’m here, so my number here is best: 08033021263

[3/10/2014 12:08:36 PM] SG: ok

[3/10/2014 12:08:44 PM] SG: I will call u shortly bro…

NB: When the above chat happened, I was in Lagos-Nigeria to see my family. So, about a minute late SG called my mobile line and we spoke a bit more on what he wanted to do, and how I could help. We concluded by agreeing that he would get back to me when he was ready.

Then, late last month, when I was sending out updates to my contacts on Skype, about my domain name change from spontaneousdevelopment.com to tayosolagbade.com, it occurred to me that I had to do same to him – when I saw a Skype prompt that he’d logged on. Note that I was back here in Cotonou by then.

[5/21/2014 10:14:32 AM] Tayo Solagbade: Hi SG.

This is a due diligence update.

Following the events I reported in my email newsletter about poaching of my 9 year old domain (spontaneousdevelopment.com) I’ve moved my website to www.tayosolagbade.com, and reinvented it in line with my new plans.

My new website has links to full details of the events that made me accelerate my plans to launch tayosolagbade.com. Click About Tayo to learn more.

Like I said, this is just an FYI update I’m sending out to ALL contacts – so no one goes looking for me at. spontaneousdevelopment.com

With kindest regards,

Tayo

[5/21/2014 10:15:50 AM] SG: ok, thanks bruv.

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[5/21/2014 10:22:18 AM] Tayo Solagbade: Sorry. Something came up. Have to go offline. Talk later.

[5/21/2014 10:51:10 AM] SG: ok

[5/21/2014 10:54:38 AM] Tayo Solagbade: Back now. By the way, going by your last conversation with me, you may be interested in the Excel-VB software “bazaar” I’m offering – like I said, I’ve reinvented myself. There’s so much value I’ve kept locked up while conflicted about how to go about giving it out. Now, I’m crystal clear…if you’re interested in this one, let me know…See http://excelheaven.tayosolagbade.com/

[5/21/2014 10:56:56 AM] SG: I am interested but d constraint now is u r not in Nigeria so we can meet and I show u d things I want to b able to do with Advanced Excel VB scripts

[5/21/2014 11:00:29 AM] Tayo Solagbade: That’s not really a problem. I come to Nigeria on agreement with clients e.g. people travel from as far as Akwa Ibom, more recently Umuahia, to meet with me in a feed mill premises at Oko Oba in Agege where I take them through the theory and practice of the science of feed formulation and compounding. Once they pay the agreed fee for materials and training, we simply agree date and time, and make it happen. Most happen via referrals from past clients.

[5/21/2014 11:02:49 AM] Tayo Solagbade: In your case, we can agree to meet. Last time I told you a N10k situation analysis fee would be needed. If you want us to meet in the flesh to review and discuss details in the flesh, a N25k payment is all that’;s needed. We then agree date and time and I come to Nigeria for our meeting, which will be in Ikeja (I have a meeting venue that I use).

[5/21/2014 11:03:54 AM] SG: ok…

[5/21/2014 11:04:15 AM] SG: I need these skills in Excel/VB scripting….

[5/21/2014 11:04:31 AM] Tayo Solagbade: Alternatively if you want me to come to your office, you arrange the transportation to/fro. Either way, you can be sure of getting MORE value than you pay for. There’s a lot I can show you how to do that will make you shine MORE than I did in your company

[5/21/2014 11:04:36 AM] SG: I’ve looked through d embedded video, quite nice snippet.

[5/21/2014 11:06:26 AM] Tayo Solagbade: You should dig into the old videos at http://www.youtube.com/user/TKSolagbadeSDAc

[5/21/2014 11:09:48 AM] SG: so Tayo, its now N50k down payment??

[5/21/2014 11:10:15 AM] SG: last time we discussed, u said its N10k down payment or so….

[5/21/2014 12:36:52 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Hi SG. Our connection went down here. Back on now. I think you should read BACK through this Skype thread to understand the “payments”.

[5/21/2014 12:37:11 PM] SG: ok

[5/21/2014 12:39:15 PM] SG: I’VE READ THRU…

[5/21/2014 12:39:19 PM] SG: its OK..

[5/21/2014 12:42:37 PM] Tayo Solagbade: Just to clarify: For the needs analysis session I told you I would ask you certain questions via phone/email.

Then I would prepare a formal report for you, with which you could embark on a DIY approach.

That was what the N10k was meant for.

We would NOT need to meet.

Now, if you don’t want to DIY, after getting my report, you could choose to hire me to “coach” you, in which case I would give you a fee for that, once we agree what you need to learn.

Then I would create a variety of learning resources based on my assessment of your job based needs.

However if we have to meet for starters to do the needs analysis, it’s N25K for me to meet with a client in person. But Not N50K.

[5/21/2014 12:46:34 PM] SG: ok…got it.

[5/21/2014 12:46:41 PM] SG: clear now..

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For over 18 years, I have used spreadsheet programming to solve real life problems at first in, and later out, of paid employment.

My resume describes case studies in which I automated daily routine data recording and report generation in the departments I worked. That happened during my short 7 year stay in Guinness Nigeria.

As an entrepreneur, since 2004, I have built all sorts of applications initially for as low as N5,000 for individuals…

As time went on, Hotels, Hospitals, Farms, Consultants etc, began paying me N25,000 to as much as N200,000 (Two Hundred Thousand Naira) to build custom MS Excel-VB driven software applications for their use.

At a point in 2006, I decided to begin offering my products for sale to an online audience, after testing them with clients for a few years. The following are most popular at the moment:

1. Excel-VB Ration Formulator (which sells along with my popular Practical Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook)

2. Excel-VB Advanced Payslip Generator (Watch video 1 and video 2)

3. Excel-VB Poultry Farm Manager

The above are the ones which I’ve put up and been getting enquiries about, and selling to clients.

However, so many others remain on my PC, that I’ve built for business of all sizes in different industries. You can browse through a one page listing with preliminary descriptions of some of them at .See http://excelheaven.tayosolagbade.com/.

If you’d like to get started learning to develop apps like those I create, click here to contact me.

Why You Need To Develop A Healthy Respect For Money

Back in paid employment, I was, like many of my co-workers, used to having my salary paid to me in bulk at the month end (almost without fail). I never really understood what it meant to EARN the money that came to me.

Now, don’t get me wrong.

I am not saying that those in paid employment do not EARN the money they are paid.

What I mean is that the fact that they KNOW that their salary will be paid as long as they SHOW UP at work, even if they do not put "stretch" themselves to deliver EXTRA value, makes many salary earners take it for granted.

They get used to expecting to get paid when sometimes they have not even done as much as other colleagues – on the same grade – who go the extra mile.

In contrast, a person who is NOT in paid employment, who works for him/herself, MUST deliver USEFUL VALUE to buyers, commensurate with the monetary payment they make to him/her.

If s/he fails to deliver what is considered adequate/satisfactory value by the client, his/her payment may be delayed – and could end up not being made.

Again, unlike the salaried person s/he MUST actively market his/her products and services to prospective clients to win new paid projects. Otherwise s/he will not be able to earn a decent living!

Simply put, the business person has to constantly search for NEW opportunities to earn regular income compared to the average salary earner.

The latter on the other hand is not under this constant pressure to find NEW income sources for as long as his/her job is "safe".

And this is what leads some people in paid employment – especially those who earn fat income – develop what is called a "LOVE of EASE" that makes them fail to nurture a healthy respect for money.

They get used to having it come too easily into their hands. They rarely have to stretch themselves to get it.

And they hardly ever experience anything close to a LACK of it – something that many people in business, especially start-ups usually have to learn to deal with before they stabilize in their business operations.

The above also helps us understand why business persons tend to be more sensitive to/cautious about spending money.

They are constantly monitoring the channels through which money flows OUT of their hands/pockets. And they will often develop strategies to SLOW down the outflow or cut it off completely where possible, in order to be more profitable. Interpreted as having MORE money left over to spend for themselves.

A notable exception to this of course is the business person who cuts corners and earns income through crooked means.

S/he will rarely be bothered about watching his/her spending being assured that MORE unearned income can always be obtained using the same methods.

But, you already know that THIS article is NOT about such people. There is nothing to learn from them :-))

As a business person, the need to work actively to ADD value to others in order to EARN profitable income, has over time taught me to have great respect for money, so that I can KEEP more of it for my use.

Here are two experience-based ways in which I show respect for money, and which I believe others could learn to do:

1. I treat ALL my profitable paying clients with consideration/respect regardless of the size of business they have done – or say they will do – with me.

When ANY of them call me for support, I respond professionally and ensure I SOLVE their problems to their satisfaction – ELSE I do NOT leave! Their signatures on many pages of my Client Support/Problem Resolution Log Sheets provide ample evidence to support my claims.

It also explains why they not only gladly pay my bills to cover the expenses I incur in providing support, but ALSO why they give me repeat business and even referrals.

2. I build and sell software products that appeal to virtually all segments of the market I serve – especially in terms of affordability.

In other words, I do NOT think or believe any segment offers business returns that are too small to profit from.

My experience with my Income & Expense Manager application (which has been widely accepted by paying customers in various industries) is proof of this. Marketing to low budget market audiences offers HUGE profit rewards for the customer-focused developer who has a TRUE passion for his work.

S/he only needs to aim for high sales volumes to records impressive profit margins in a short period – like I have done.

Many people just LOVE having money to spend.

They do not have RESPECT for it.

People who have respect for money SHOW IT in the way they are thoughtful and painstaking in planning to use it to get the things they want and NEED.

They invest it in acquiring assets that ensure they can get more of it.

Such assets include shares, property and of course NEW money making skills and knowledge.

Signs That Suggest You Lack Respect For Money

1. You readily accept the first price you are give for an item you wish to purchase without checking to see (via negotiation) if a better bargain could be had. Some people do this because they feel a need to impress others with them. As we say out here…"they want to do Big Man!":-)

2. You spend/buy things because you see others do so, and not because you really need them.

3. You do not keep written records of your expenses. You do not review them with a view to tracking your spending against a budget limit for instance.

4. You often engage in impulsive/unplanned spending.People for instance find it easy to get money off you, by springing requests of all kinds on you. And you feel pressured to indulge them because you don’t want to be called "stingy".

With respect to this last point, I want you to think of yourself as being FRUGAL when you choose to mentally check yourself from letting money leave your hands without THINKING carefully about WHY and for WHAT you want to let it go.

It does not matter how rich or wealthy you think you are.

Having respect for money can only help you STAY rich (or get richer), and for those aspiring, it WILL equip them to get there faster.

Sadly, in this society, I continue to see (and hear from) many former paid employment colleagues and current associates demonstrate an alarming LACK of respect for money.

In my opinion, based on the knowledge I have of many of them, they behave in this manner because of the very wrong belief they have that being conscious of their spending for instance would suggest to others that they do not have enough money!

But I ask: What does it matter if others THINK you don’t have much money?

After all the fact that they think so, cannot make you have less money than you actually DO have!

If only those afflicted with this obsessive need to be SEEN to be well off would understand the aforementioned simple truth, and STOP living their lives trying to meet other people’s (moving target) standards/expectations.

Here’s an admonition…

Think of your children at least, and begin to imagine how your spending habits can make or mar their futures.

If the way they see you TREAT money helps them learn to ALWAYS THINK/be painstaking in planning their OWN spending, then they will be more likely to grow up equipped to become wealthy as adults.

Doing the above will also prepare your kids to maintain the riches/wealth you pass on to them.

Which brings me to my final point

Do you have ANY thing TODAY worth passing on to your kids as a form of valuable inheritance they can build on?

Remember that your wonderful job with all its attractive benefits in that blue-chip company is NOT something you can will over to your child. At the risk of stating the obvious, I want to point out that it is NOT yours!

Therefore, except you own the company, you cannot RESERVE that prestigious job title, position, car etc for your child!
One therefore hopes that’s NOT all you have…but if it is, it’s not too late.

You can begin to plan to do something OUTSIDE your salaried job to insure your kids have a bright future.

It goes without saying therefore, that you will need to start by developing a healthy respect for money. Make sure from now on that you can account for every kobo you spend – and make sure every expenditure adds value to your life, and the lives of those you care for, now and into the future.

Why School Prepares People POORLY, to Succeed OUTSIDE Paid Employment

In 1992, I graduated with the highest ever C.G.P.A of 5.9 (First class was 6.0) in Agric. Extension from Unibadan. Then, in Guinness Nigeria, I earned senior management roles in less than 6 years from 1994.

However, as an entrepreneur, I looked like a TOTAL IDIOT – for years – after starting. Yes, IDIOT, in capital letters!

It’s taken a rare brand of stubbornness, and persistence (fuelled by what I learnt by studying people who had the answers e.g. Napoleon Hill, Robert Kiyosaki, James R. Cook, Burt Dubin etc) to find my feet in the real world(outside paid employment).

The above confirms the fact that our schooling systems prepare us to be employees – and NOT entrepreneurs or business owners.

Yet, without entrepreneurs and the businesses they build, jobs would NOT exist for employees to hold!

[NB: I end this article with the download link to a FREE chapter preview PDF of Robert Kiyosaki’s “Why “A” Students Work for “C” Students”. I think parents looking for “more” answers will find it a VERY useful read.]

The problem is that the qualities needed to excel in the real world, as entrepreneurs (especially creative and independent THINKING), are basically “beaten” out of people who attend formal schooling.

This is why those who spend less (or no) time in our conventional schools are often the ones left with the “creative instincts” to excel in the real world (outside paid employment) e.g. by being self-employed or starting businesses that recruit workers!

Thomas Edison had only a few months of schooling, but had over 1,000 patents to his name.

Many Nigerian graduates end up working for less well schooled (sometimes unschooled) “Nigerian” business owners.

These bosses sometimes cannot even make correct sentences in English. BUT they have amassed wealth via big time trade, commerce or other ventures.

[NB: True, some employ crooked means, here in Nigeria. But I have also met some who do straight forward business.]

The issue of speaking correct English, like well schooled people are taught to do so well, reminds me of an anecdote I was once told…about an unschooled Igbo millionaire businessman…

He reportedly made his fortune via import and export and other trading ventures.

One day, he bought a new Lexus, and proudly showed it to a graduate friend who was visiting.

The following conversation ensued…

*****Starts*****

“Nna…see my new Lexoos” (i.e. he pronounced the “U” as in PUSH).

His friend expressed admiration for the car, and congratulated him.

But he went on to say:

“Actually the correct pronunciation is Lexus”.

And the millionaire replied mockingly:

“No problem my brother. Na YOU know the name. Na ME get am!”

*****Ends*****

It’s ironic…how “Nigerian” society “celebrates and recognizes ” you when you get top grades in school (e.g. the kids who score highest in JAMB or get eleven A’s in WAEC etc…)

But when you step into the real world as an adult, you get a rude awakening that what it really cares about is HOW MUCH MONEY you have.

Especially in Nigeria, that’s ultimately what it boils down to!

My friend Chima Ejiofor’s recent Facebook post(which part-inspired THIS article),  and comments in response to it – screenshot below – confirm the accuracy of the foregoing statement.

Chima Ejiofor's recent Facebook post,  and comments in response to it confirm the point made in this article about the paradox of formal schooling's poor preparation of it's products for success in the real world outside paid employment
Chima Ejiofor’s recent Facebook post, and comments in response to it confirm the point made in this article about the paradox of formal schooling’s poor preparation of it’s products for success in the real world outside paid employment

To save your child such pains, YOU, the parent, should be your kids’ NUMBER ONE teacher!

Do not leave that position to ANY teacher or any school, no matter how good!

You are best placed, from reading articles like this, and those by others enlightened on the subject (such as books by Kiyosaki etc) to play this important role.

In 2000, I bought “Rich Kid Smart Kid“, and “If You Want to Be Rich and Happy, Don’t Go to School“, along with “Rich Dad Poor Dad” from Amazon.com, using my Netspend.com Virtual MasterCard.

They were shipped to me in a box. Of those 3 books, the first and the 2nd made the most impact on me.

 [NB: It continues to amaze me that most Nigerians have NEVER heard of the 2nd book – which was published BEFORE Rich Dad Poor Dad, and was an international best seller!]

After reading Kiyosaki’s books, I decided to push my kids to develop income generating vocational skills and start their own businesses, BEFORE they finish school.

Today, despite my frequent travelling, and work load, I discipline myself to study each of my kids and deliberately challenge them with skills building tasks.

I often come home with some new practical thing to teach them, about the real world, and when I leave, they get an “assignment” of sorts that I follow up with them on phone.

This is why today, they are competent in making and selling their pineapple peel based drinks and cakes baked without ovens (See http://tayosolagbade.com/index.php/order-tayo-s-drinks-cakes)

My 12 year old boy now owns a shoe menders kit that he uses to fix things (shoes, bags etc) they used to pay up to N200 to have the itinerant shoemaker do for them in the past.

I simply bought the full roll of thread the metal needle for him. The 10 year old owns his own electrical kit, and conitues to fix things around the house, while building potentially useful contraptions (e.g. a rechargeable lamp box powered by my discarded laptop battery that he somehow revived!).

The purpose is not to make them become shoe makers or electricians. Instead, it’s to help them connect what they learn with the real world. And to see how income earning happens by doing so.

More importantly. these activities are powerful confidence builders, that make a child discover and BELIEVE s/he can do anythign s/he sets her mind to.

And that’s the key to making thre most of what one learns via formal schooling.

It’s the critical element missing from the “education” provided in most of our conventional schools. The reality is the providers may not be willing, or able to make needed changes to help your child.

That’s why rather than complain, the onus is on YOU to take up this role and play it well. Your child’s future success depends on this!

Some argue that I’m distracting my kids by doing all this…

I counter that there is nothing they are learning now that they cannot relearn AFTER school if needed. If that was not so, “adult education” schools would never have happened!

That’s not to say kids should not strive to do well in school.

I’m just saying I prefer to help mine strike an INTELLIGENT BALANCE, by teaching them other important things about the world they are to enter as adults, so they can roll profitably with any punches life may throw at them.

Years of painful – and embarrassing – experiences as a “well schooled failure” in entrepreneurship and other real world activities tell me this is the right thing to do.

Now, I offer real life stories about what I’m doing with my kids, not to brag or gloat.

Instead, I do it to demonstrate that it is possible – and encourage other parents to do same or better.

For those who may not know it, that is why I call myself a Performance Improvement Specialist. This is what I do. Click here to read more Parenting Articles I’ve written over the years.

That’s why I offer coaching for young people, and their parents, to help them develop and implement action plans/strategies, to break this mental barrier that school builds in their minds.

Final Words: A PDF YOU SHOULD DOWNLOAD AND READ – From Robert Kiyosaki

Click here to download the FREE chapter preview PDF from Robert Kiyosaki’s new book aptly titled “Why “A” Students Work for “C” Students

I strongly believe the story told in it, about a meeting of Henry Ford (the start illiterate billionaire owner of Ford Mothers) in his office, with some visiting academics who tried to use question to prove he was “stupid”, – only to get “educated” by him – REALLY says it all.

And if there’s one society where Ford’s quote in that PDF, about “THINKING” being the “hardest work there is” needs to be understood, it is NIGERIA!!!

Related Articles

1. Schools Can Kill Your Child’s Creativity – IF You Don’t Apply These Tips

2. Anyone – Including Kids In School – Can Achieve Success Via Part Time Entrepreneuring

3. A New Generation of Entrepreneurs PROVES That Our Schools Need To Offer a Different Kind of Education!

4. Involve Your Kids in Your Dream, and They’ll Succeed Too

5. When You’re Not Working, Create a Bigger Dream (Hint: New Product – My Pineapple Peels Based Cakes…Made Without an Oven!)

6. Are Your Kids Ready to Succeed in Your World?

No. 145: A Few People Can Make Life NEEDLESSLY Miserable for Many, IF Not Called to Order (Case Study: My Experiences at the Nigeria-Benin Republic Seme Border)

[NB: This issue of my newsletter is a public service edition.] Last Saturday a.m (7th June 2014), I published a blog about my near 12 hour traffic jam ordeal coming from Seme border to Mile 2 the day before (i.e Friday).

What I did not mention was that before that, I’d had unpleasant money-related “disagreements” with BOTH Beninese and Nigerian officials in crossing the border posts.

I Share My Experiences Below, to Warn Intending Travellers About What to Expect….
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Date: Monday 9th June 2014

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Title: A Few People Can Make Life NEEDLESSLY Miserable for Many, IF Not Called to Order (Case Study: My Experiences at the Nigeria-Benin Republic Seme Border)

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No. 145: A Few People Can Make Life NEEDLESSLY Miserable for Many, IF Not Called to Order (Case Study: My Experiences at the Nigeria-Benin Republic Seme Border)

[NB: This issue of my newsletter is a public service edition.] Last Saturday a.m (7th June 2014), I published a blog about my near 12 hour traffic jam ordeal coming from Seme border to Mile 2 the day before (i.e Friday).

What I did not mention was that before that, I’d had unpleasant money-related “disagreements” with BOTH Beninese and Nigerian officials in crossing the border posts.

I Share My Experiences Below, to Warn Intending Travellers About What to Expect….

For over a year, since 1st April 2013, when I relocated to Benin, I’d crossed the border paying N200 at the Benin end to have my passport stamped, and N100 at the Nigerian end.

Yet a few weeks ago – on Sunday 25th May 2014 to be specific – the Beninese official responsible for stamping passports out told me to pay N500!

Surprised, I asked why. He said “C’est comme ça!” When I insisted that I’d always paid N200, he flung my passport at me and bluntly told me if I wanted I could leave without stamping my passport.

He then proceed to pointedly ignore me as I called out to him to at least tell me why.

Another Nigerian I met there lashed out verbally at him as he collected his stamped passport, saying “God will take that money back from you!”

I walked over to 2 armed uniformed officers next to the post, who looked senior to him and complained. They laughed in my face and told me to do whatever the other man told me.

One of them said today, you pay N500, but tomorrow we may ask you to go through without paying anything.

When I told him it made no sense, he angrily asked to move away from their end.

I called a senior officer I knew worked at the Nigerian embassy (in Cotonou) on his mobile line to protest about the treatment I was getting.

He sympathised with me, saying “It’s a pity they are doing that. It’s not supposed to happen.”

At that point I realised I had no choice but to pay up. So I did, making my displeasure clear from the way I snatched my stamped passport from the Beninese officer when he was done.

Still fuming, I arrived at the Nigerian end, and promptly expressed outrage at what had happened to me. The officer there casually told me to go to the Commissaire, if I felt that aggrieved.

Then he held out his hand and said “N100”.

That was what I’d always paid

(NB: It is instructive to note, that I’ve been told by embassy personnel and a lawyer client/friend that we are NOT even supposed to pay anything to get our passports stamped!)

I told myself, at least things were still normal at our end. As for going to the Beninese Commissaire, I decided I did not have the time to spare, since I was running late.

On my return from Nigeria, I got my passport stamped without eventualities. And I paid the normal N100 at the Nigerian end, and N200 at the Benin end.

I told the officials at the Benin check in post about the conduct of their colleague on the day I left the country. The lady officer apologised soberly to me, and asked me to forget it.

So I put it behind me.

But today, the nonsense not only came back, but it also began MUCH earlier – and with extra!

It began even before I got to the passport check-out post…

This was right at the first check point. The Beninese police officer after checking and seeing my passport was in order, asked me for money. I smiling told him I had nothing to give him.

He looked me over, and pointed to my travel bag saying he wanted to see its contents. I opened it up, and he checked. Finding nothing, he indicated my backpack. Same thing. Nothing.

Then he took my “Small Notebook Speaker” box and asked for the receipt.

I laughed in his face and old him he knew quite well that I did not need to carry a receipt for such an item on me.

His countenance showed he did not like my smart ass attitude of having an answer for everything he’d said to me. You see, even as we spoke, I could see my fellow country men being “shaken down” by his colleagues.

And in most cases those ones readily parted with as much as N500, at the slightest request. Now, one would imagine that was either because they were not well informed of their rights, or their travel documents were not in order.

But I actually saw well dressed, well spoken and reasonably schooled people giving in to the “harassment”.

Basically, the mentality of many Nigerians is that they are too busy to let a demand for a few hundred nairas DELAY them.

And so, those intending to get money off them simply play on that mentality.

Hold them back for the flimsiest of reasons, and even when they know they are not at fault, they’ll give you more or less what you ask.

Back to my uniformed friend. After I told him I did not need to show a receipt for my speakers, he went further to say “Now you’ll also have to produce a receipt for the laptop in your backpack”.

Once again, I made a point of laughing. Then I asked him if he would have asked me for a laptop receipt if I’d bought it online using my debit card. He looked at me in annoyance – I sensed he did not even understand what I’d said, but he knew it was something he could not contest.

By this time I was losing my patience. I told him I was going to call a senior officer at the Nigerian Embassy, where I was well known to tell him what I was being subjected to at the border.

As I made to pull out my mobile phone from my pockets, he angrily pushed my hand away, and said “This is my post. You cannot make a phone call here.”

That was of course not true…

But this guy carried a rifle that looked well maintained, compared to those I’d seen with his counterparts in Nigeria. So, I had the feeling it worked quite well.

Since he was this crooked already, I realised desperation could make him resort to doing something crazy.

He said “Look, it’s the way you talk that determines how I feel about letting you go. “

Then he smiled…as if to defuse the tension between us. He knew I was not going to give in.

So I smiled back, and asked him what he wanted to do…:-))

Seconds later, he handed me the speaker and I tapped him on the shoulder saying “A la prochaine mon frère!” (See you another time my brother!).

Getting to the Beninese Passport Stamping Out Post…

The same funny character from few weeks back, who’d asked for N500, was there. And he took one look at my passport and said “N500”.

I was expecting no less.

Paying up, I walked down to the Nigerian immigration stamp out section.

As the uniformed immigration officer recorded my passport details, he asked “How are you Sir?”

Before I could stop myself, my frustration came to the surface, and I said “Actually, I’m not fine at all!”

He looked up in surprise at me and asked what the problem was. I told him what I’d gone through at the Benin end.

Then I asked him why they could not stop their French speaking colleagues from subjecting law abiding Nigerian travellers to such harassment daily.

He shook his head sympathetically, and said “If you feel that strongly about it, just go to their Commissaire over there (pointing to the left of where I stood), and make a formal report.

Then he said “N200”. I felt like someone poured a bucket of cold water on my head.

I said “N200? But I always pay N100 at this end…”

He replied simply by stretching out his hand and saying “N200”.

Sighing, I gave him the money. Then I made to walk out, only to be called by anther officer seated just before the exit. He had a large register opened in front of him, into which passport details were entered.

He took my passport and said “N200”.

This time I almost exploded. I said “What this N200 for again? I’ve never paid twice before, in over a year of stamping out at this end! Can you please explain to me why I have to pay again?”

As soon as I said this, he looked me over and said “Take. It’s okay. You can go.”

I said “Look. I don’t mind paying, but I just want to know what I am paying for, because it’s never happened before. Can’t you just let us know what to expect?

Is there not some standard we can work with?”

Now impatient, he replied “Look I said if you don’t want to pay, just go with your trouble. Haba!”

As he said this, I heard another man who just came in telling the officer I was earlier with “No. How can I pay N500 to stamp my passport? What for?

I’m coming all the way from Cote D’Ivoire. You don’t even know how much money I have on me. How can you just tell me to pay such an amount. I’ve never paid such before, and I am not going to pay it today!” he finished, fuming.

And so I left, and soon arrived at the motor park, where I joined a Taxi, which after getting 2 other passengers took off for Lagos around 5.00 p.m.

If you think my ordeal ended there, think again.

I did not get to my home until well after midnight. Click here to read full details of how we got stuck in a crazy traffic jam for over 10 hours.

Why I Choose to Write About My Seme Border Experiences…

My purpose is simple. If what I continue to experience along with other travellers on both sides of the Nigeria-Benin border is in line with official procedures, announcing it here should bother no one.

However, I have also travelled across the Aflao border to Ghana, from Nigeria, just as I have crossed the Nigerian-Cameroon border in the past. At no time did I make ANY of my trips without valid papers. Yet, during my trips I never had an experience of that sort with ANYONE – uniformed or otherwise.

If what’s going on there is however NOT supposed to happen, my hope is that highlighting it like I’ve done here can bring it to the attention of those who can do something about it.

It’s possible writing about all this can get me some negative attention from those I talk about…and/or “others”…

The truth is however that I fear no one and nothing – except my Creator.

So, anyone who has a problem with my truth telling can take ANY action s/he pleases.

I am 100% certain that nothing the Creator has not consented to, can happen to me as I do his will.

Period.

It’s So Sad That Nigerians, and Some Africans Persist In Unedifying Acts

Interestingly, one of the Beninese officers in uniform at the border last year asked me if I was “Jesus Christ” when he tried to make me pay more than N200 to “stamp in”, and I asked why.

He said I was acting as if I did not know that it happened all over Africa!

Arm twisting others to get money, in what has become a vicious cycle, is more or less a way of life in Nigeria.

Some of Nigeria’s neighbours who are not disciplined, “catch the bug” from years of prolonged contact.

That appears to be what’s happening at Seme border. The Beninese guys there, in my opinion have learnt bad habits from their Nigerian counterparts. Contact with them can give a VERY wrong impression about what people in Benin Republic are really like. 

You see, I’ve lived in Benin Republic for over a year now. They are not perfect, but random daylight harassment and extortion does NOT happen in that country. I live AMONGST these people, and I find them VERY humane – a huge contrast to Nigerians!

In this regard, it might also interest you to know that the Beninese officials do NOT subject, Beninese citizens (their people) who cross the border to the treatment they give to Nigerians!

As you arrive at their post, if they are not sure of your nationality, they start by asking “Vous êtes Beninois?” Your response then determines how you are “treated”.

I’ve seen this many times. They apparently have taken a cue from the way our own officials extort money from us, before we get to them.

Plus, many Nigerians are often so ready to just “pay” when asked, without asking questions!

Apart from the needless daily abuse they subject people to, their actions also stifle trade and commerce…

And that’s having serious negative effects on regional economic development.

I’ll end by stating the obvious fact, that if leaders of both countries really want faster progress, they will take pains to eliminate the nonsense happening at the Seme border immediately!

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Failure Does NOT Happen Suddenly…(Hint: It takes time for your inactions to cost you success)

James Cook in his book titled "The Startup Entrepreneur" explained that certain successful entrepreneurs get very uneasy whenever things seemed to be going (in their opinion) "too smoothly". They are rarely comfortable with "good times" and when such times come upon them, they take pains to stay on the alert for things that could go wrong.

These individuals often became that way due to painful past experiences.

They had suffered devastating setbacks because they got carried away with their successes to the point that avoidable failure was visited upon them.

I know what this feels like, because over the years I’ve recovered from may setbacks caused by my making the above mistake.

The good thing is that I have since developed highly effective marketing and sales techniques. This enables me bring in GREATER income from sales of my software built for past clients.

And that’s in addition to creating openings for those who buy my ready-to-use software to hire me to build other custom applications for them.

It was Fran Tarketon who said "A true entrepreneur never stays down".

It is ironic that I once wrote about this mistake of "getting carried away" in my book titled "25 Avoidable Mistakes No One Will Warn You About In Starting Your Own Business".

In that book I referred to the example of some celebrities who achieve local fame and success, but immediately lose their focus, sense of moderation and humility.

Below are some excerpts…

—————Start of Excerpts—————-

"They begin acting out unhealthy fantasies through poor attempts at flaunting what they think suggests wealth – e.g. buy/drive flashy cars, eat/dress expensively, and even become loudmouthed.

Often times this leads to their success being short-lived, as they eventually get into one trouble or the other – be it through financial indiscipline, bad relationships, etc.

TOM Associates have a series of educational tapes, which they routinely produce to meet the personal development needs of people who attend their training programmes. In one of such tapes on “Wealth Building”, highly successful/wealthy people were described as having – among other qualities – the “habit” of “living well below their means”, believing that they do not need to show they have wealth.

Also, the tape explains that a person earning high income, who spends all that he earns as quickly as it comes, will not be wealthy. In other words, wealth comes thorough the careful accumulation and growth (via investment) of that which has been earned.

I went into elaborate detail in my Ten Week e-mail course explaining the importance of understanding the issue of “Money Management and Wealth Creation”. I quoted very successful people who have shared their knowledge in this area.

Now, with this understanding of how to manage the inflow of income resulting from your initial successes, you may also want to ask yourself, what next? Many people have short-term visions for themselves/their businesses.

It is however much better to try thinking ahead, and envision where you would like to be in the distant future in your business. This way, even when you achieve your small victories/short-term goals, you will be able to stay focused on maintaining your performance to achieve the longer-term goals.

It is the absence of long-term planning that often makes many people wrongly conclude that they have arrived, when they suddenly achieve a small success. You should have determined at the start why you are doing what you are doing, and how far you want to go with it. Then plan carefully what you need to make it happen, who can help you get there, what problems could crop up etc.

When you work this way, you will be much less likely to fall into the common trap of getting carried away with your successes. Examples of how people get carried away include:

An actor or actress/entertainer especially preferred for key roles due to his/her good looks/smartness suddenly starts “putting on a lot of weight”. A check reveals that he/she now eats indiscriminately and/or does no exercises.

The result over time – his/her performance drops. For a while, the fame from previous achievements might help to raise “heads”/open doors, but after a while, he/she would become obsolete."

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My experiences confirm the fact, that as humans we are prone to errors and mistakes.

What is crucial is that we learn from them. The message I therefore wish to share here is that you constantly strive to AVOID getting so preoccupied with your successes, that you forget to CONTINUE doing the things that made you successful in the first place.

Failure, as Jim Rohn once wrote, does not happen suddenly – it is very OFTEN the result of a long series of poor decisions and wrong choices/actions you take over time.

Keep this in mind and act based on your understanding of it, and you will NOT have to endure avoidable setbacks in any endeavour you embark upon!

So don’t ever let yourself get carried away with your success. Celebrate every new level, but always stay focused on moving to the next one.

Asked which of his works he would select as his masterpiece, architect Frank Lloyd Wright at the age of 83 replied, “My next one.”

PS: This article is based on excerpts from an issue of Tayo Solagbade’s Self-Development Digest first published online on Monday 1st October 2007 , on spontaneousdevelopment.com.

Treat People As Though They Were What They Ought To Be (A Management Tip from Johann Von Goethe)

The fact that THAT man or woman is sweeping floors today in your company today, does not mean s/he cannot be the owner of a successful business tomorrow. Actually, s/he could one day become YOUR boss, or indeed the CEO of the company you work for! Countless examples abound!!

Where I come from (Nigeria) people like to say “No condition is permanent”.

History has proven this to be so, many times over.

But some people just refuse to stop judging the ability or competence of others by their looks or appearances.

The fail to realise that it’s what appears on the surface may not accurately represent what lies below it. They fail to avoid being superficial in their thinking.

In case you wonder how this habit/tendency constitutes a problem…

Consider the possibility that a person(s) fond of judging people by outward appearances, are chosen to handle selection of a new set of Graduate Trainees into your company…

Or maybe in your local council, they are to select “youthful talents” to represent the state in some competitive sporting events.

What is likely to happen is that the initial screening stages would be characterised by random assumptions being made about the abilities of the boys and girls who show up or apply – based on how they “look”.

Among other possibilities, a cross-eyed person would be regarded as “potentially dishonest”…even though s/he may have been born that way!

This could result in non-inclusion of some uniquely talented youngsters whose “looks” or unusual style do not impress the “officials”.

If the “problem” is not immediately apparent to you, let me use some notables historical examples to illustrate:

a. We are told that Julius Caesar was an epileptic, yet his name remains etched in history till this day

b. Charles Dickens was lame, but that did not stop him from becoming a successful author

c. Plato was a hunchback, yet today many of us find it apt to quote him on various subjects that he chose to comment on.

d. Collin Powell started as a floor mopper but is today retired having served in one of the most exalted positions in the American Armed Forces and Government.

e. And then there is the story of Helen (in my opinion “Superwoman”) Keller, who was supposed to be multiply handicapped and yet recorded MORE achievements than most “normal” people!

The list goes on – underscoring the fact that people can overcome their (seeming) outward limitations to succeed in ways NOT expected by those who see them.

Maybe I should bring it even closer home.

If YOU were asked to pick from a group of ten(10) people, one person who looks like an International athletics champion…

a. Wwould you pick a skinny, frail looking guy with (seemingly) sunken eyes (which incidentally is the typical appearance of many world champion class long distance runners)

b. Or would you choose the fierce/aggressive looking guy with rippling muscles(a description befitting most short distance/sprint athletes)?

At the risk of sounding presumptuous, I want to say that I am reasonably certain that MANY people would pick someone fitting the latter description!

People generally assume a muscular, person to be more capable of achievment than a slim/skinny looking person – who may NOT necessarily be weak!

That’s why in real life, few sports persons in the sprints can boast of having the phenomenal endurance and stamina possessed and displayed during races by long distance runners.

To those of us who are uninitiated, they however seldom look the part at first glance.

It is only when they demonstrate their innate abilities on the tracks or field that we recognise their genius and THEN begin to believe!

“Genius does not show itself on a person’s face so that others can see it and then respect or recognise him/her for it. That’s why we must NEVER write people off without FIRST (and as often as possible afterward) giving them a FAIR and IMPARTIAL opportunity to SHOW what they can do” – Tayo K. Solagbade

Just as it is with sports, so it is in life.

Sadly, most of us are often initially unwilling to give others a chance, because their “looks” or appearances suggest they CANNOT. As a result, some unlikely geniuses who come our way get sidetracked by our “screening” panels.

Just imagine what would have happened if Helen Keller had never been given a chance to excel like she did. Our world would NOT have enjoyed the blessing of her talents like it has!

We need to learn to stop using people’s outward appearances to JUDGE what they can or cannot do.

It would be so much better – for us, those we assess, and the rest of society – if we focus on “teasing” out people’s FULL potentials so we can draw accurate assessments of the value they can add to us at any point in time.

The following quote, by a very wise man, provides a fitting end to this piece:

“Treat people as though they were what they ought to be, and you help them become what they’re capable of being” – Johann Von Goethe

PS: This article is based on excerpts from an issue of Tayo Solagbade’s Self-Development Digest first published online on 4th February 2008, on spontaneousdevelopment.com.

5 Ways To Achieve Leadership Success As a Manager

In case you did not know it, being a manager does not automatically make you a leader. To become a leader, a manager must act in ways that bring about desired PROGRESS, by INFLUENCING others.

In this article, I share my personal experience based insights about how to do just that.

At the end, I include a link to Gen. Collin Powell’s excellent paper titled “A Leadership Primer”, from which I gained useful insights to achieve rapid career advancement, as a high performing manager, during my 7 year stay in Guinness Nigeria.

1. Forget What They Teach You In Management Courses.

Okay, maybe you shouldn’t “forget”, but don’t let it hold you back at work.

Management school studies present issues in an orderly manner. Real-life situations often present themselves in the EXACT opposite way, even as they demand YOUR prompt action!

I suggest you identify individuals you look forward to relieving, and focus on studying what they do that makes them competent to occupy their positions.

Also, read books based on real-life studies/true stories about successful career persons. Apply what you learn.

2. Continually Ask Yourself Questions That Remind You Of Your Boss’ Expectations.

Ask yourself what role you need to play to help him/her and the entire team, succeed.

Do this often enough and you will soon be thinking like him/her, and sharing his/her concerns – and taking appropriate action to get the desired results.

It’s only a matter of time before s/he stops “worrying” about following up with you to be sure you’re doing what s/he NEEDS you to do in order that s/he might deliver the results the management expects.

3. Demonstrate(And Act Based On) Keen Awareness Of The Company’s Priorities – And You’ll Get Noticed.

If you can work hard enough to understant WHAT is important to your boss(and/or company), WHY it is important, and HOW you can do YOUR own job to help achieve those important goals, you WILL ALWAYS be a valuable member of the team.

Do this long enough, and s/he(plus “others” who watch) will be unanimous in recommending you for assignments or secondments to higher positions.

4. Master Your Area Of Interest Or Intended Activity – And Word Will Spread About You. 

Your demonstrated competence on the job and proficiency in implementing related tasks will boost your chances of doing well when you get the opportunity to act in a higher position.

This is why you MUST work HARD on yourself – relentlessly. In addition, make it your number one priority to gain as deep an understanding/insight as the person you know to be BEST in each area you expect to be responsible for, while on secondment.

For instance, if there is a particular problematic machine whose performance determines how well your department will perform in terms of output, you want to find out ahead of time.

(a) What is required to keep it working with minimal stoppages?

(b) Who the best hand(s) is(are) to get it back in working order if it does stop working?

(c) What alternative options are available to you in the event that it REFUSES to work despite efforts to revive it?

Pssst: Here’s a secret about learning “valuable but hidden insights” from subordinates/others with YEARS of experience

Many times the old hands, usually in the lower cadres or rungs of the ladder know the answers you seek.

Not because they have more education, but because they’ve been around so long, and seen so much of it happen again and again, with the benefit of also witnessing what solutions worked and WHO came up with them.

Get them on your side, and they will open doors of insider information/pockets of wisdom frequently inaccessible to persons unwilling to get down from their high-horses.

5. Show That You Are NOT Scared Of Taking Tough Decisions, Intelligent Risks And/Or Initiating Change.

Collin Powell once said “Being responsible sometimes means pissing people off.”

To convince decision makers that you can hold important positions, you MUST show that you can take needed decisions/actions – regardless of who is affected.

Also, you must not suppress your creative instincts in doing the things outlined in 1 to 4 above. Successful companies know progress depends on periodically re-inventing themselves internally and externally.

That’s why they value people with the guts to break from established tradition to develop new ways of thinking and doing things – which inevitably help the company.

Actively(and responsibly) explore opportunities to introduce useful change.

Sometimes your instincts will tell you the recommended “way” will not yield the best results, and a different solution would pop into your head. If you have worked hard enough on yourself as suggested above, you will KNOW when it would be right to follow YOUR instincts. Anytime you feel that way, DO IT! When you succeed, the news will get around.

Sometimes you may not succeed :-).

But that would not be bad. You would have learnt something useful. If your boss is smart, s/he will acknowledge you for taking a decision that required courage. Decision makers could even take that to be evidence that you have the makings of someone who can lead others/occupy higher positions(YOUR desired goal)!

Final Words: The following quotes provide a fitting end to all I’ve said in this piece.

Keep them in mind, and apply them always, and you will not go wrong:

‘Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.’- Anonymous

“All successful employers are stalking people who will do the unusual, people who think, people who attract attention by performing more than is expected of them.” — Charles M. Schwab

Powell’s Rules for Picking People:” Look for intelligence and judgment, and most critically, a capacity to anticipate, to see around corners. Also look for loyalty, integrity, a high energy drive, a balanced ego, and the drive to get things done.

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PS: This article was first published in the Monday 12th June 2006 issue no. 2 of my Monthly Self-Development Digest Newsletter, then hosted on spontaneousdevelopment.com – my former domain (Click here to read “What happened to Spontaneousdevelopment.com”).

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