To Succeed, You Need a Gut-Level Instinct for Self-Preservation

I once had someone phone me up (in 2002, my first year in business), requesting that I come down to Falomo on Victoria Island from my Gbagada base, in Lagos (more than 30 minute drive on a good day) saying my services were needed. I got there to find that I was only being mocked! The person was nowhere to be found, after two hours, and her husband kept sending me around in circles, smiling impishly all the while!

She did this twice before I caught on to it, and stopped responding.

That same woman called me up many times afterwards, over the following months, to mock me on phone. She would ask questions like “How is business now?” while intermittently erupting into loud laughter.

What did I do to deserve this treatment? Well, I had one time in the past gone to their company to attend a Visual Basic training (which I paid for!), and during the 3 month period, we’d had discussions that touched on how I left paid employment to become an entrepreneur. And I had told them the big plans I had. That was all!

I have since survived the “jungle” that is the world of entrepreneuring in Nigeria for over a decade – before moving to Benin Republic.

Based on my experiences up till date, I have come to the firm conclusion that the definition of a "Nigerian entrepreneur", will not differ much from that of those in other parts of the world – especially America.

And here’s how I would define an entrepreneur, based on my extensive studies and personal experiences:

"A strong-willed, independent minded individual who ultimately achieves financial success and social recognition, by delivering innovative products/services, and/or developing a new way of doing things, that IMPROVES the lives of others. Most times, such persons will have started out with little or nothing. And in cases when s/he may have started out with a lot, s/he will most likely have lost it all and had to start all over before finding success.

Most times, such a true entrepreneur, would have had to depend on nothing more than his/her idea, and an unquenchable thirst to make it work. This is why entrepreneurs have been described in certain quarters as people who create something new out of nothing – taking risks that threaten their very survival, but overcoming all odds via persistence, to do what most would have considered previously impossible."

But Nigerian Entrepreneurs Often Have to Contend With Additional Obstacles Those in Other Climes Rarely See…

Examples include absence of support systems (e.g. social welfare/security systems) that entitle you to some base income/unemployment benefit as obtains for an American for instance.

They can provide a valuable cushion effect. Entrepreneurs in Nigeria get NO such thing.

You simply have to sort yourself out. Having said that, I believe that obtains across most of the African continent – to be fair.

But I will add that from living here in Benin Republic, I know things are significantly less challenging – especially as it relates to feeding.

Food is dirt cheap here, and if you’re not lazy what you earn from doing a few odd jobs will keep you going. And there is constant power supply, which has a multiplier effect of keeping costs of products and services low, since people do not have to generate their own electricity.

In Nigeria, too many things not in place make living costs very high. Entrepreneurs have to run expensive petrol/diesel powered generators to keep their businesses going.

So people find they often in danger of running out of money. And that make "hustling" imperative!

Imagine the dilemma, then, of the entrepreneur yet to achieve stable income!

Another factor is the prevalence of “malicious detractors” who go out of their way to make you fail.

It’s not a pleasant subject I know. But that does not make it less worthy of discussion.

Especially as I have seen it happen just too often!

The crabs in a bucket analogy applies here.

I have seen people try to pull another down (including yours truly), for reasons as petty as ensuring you do not invalidate their alibis for failing to start their own businesses, by succeeding in your chosen endeavour.

Others are actually people who have been in business before you – who may want you to pay them homage. When you don’t they take offence.

I do not exaggerate here.

I had that kind of experience many times when I was starting up (before I learnt how to protect myself)…

That I survived and am going strong today, I believe, is due to my resilience.

As well as the fact that I had other alternative arrangements put in place that kept me going despite the efforts made by certain persons to sabotage me.

And of course, I always kept an unshakeable faith in the Creator, to protect me.

A good example is the short story I began this article with. But let me assure you that it’s actually one of the milder cases I have personally experienced.

During my talks on this theme, my audiences will be regaled with more shocking accounts

The true stories I will share will illustrate, in graphic terms, just how potentially traumatizing it can be, to function as an entrepreneur in Nigeria.

Especially when you are new in the game, have no connections and lack funds (as was the case with me!).

Not surprisingly, NONE of the books that I have read on entrepreneurship, written by foreign authors (especially those from developed societies) have ever given this aspect much – if at all any – attention.

Yet it remains a reality that can STOP you from succeeding, even if you have all the competence of a world class entrepreneur.

Even the BBC recently published an article (authored by a Nigerian journalist working for them) about what I’m saying here.

And the example of NEXT newspapers, run by a Pulitzer prize winning Nigerian born journalist, who tried to apply best practice independent journalism in the Nigerian market was mentioned.

He failed. Woefully. But not due to incompetence….!

Instead, he failed because his adopted approach of journalism with integrity, and objectivity, put off those who had funds to advertise in the paper. So they froze him out – influencing others to toe their line of NOT advertising in NEXT newspapers.

So, without money coming in, the NEXT newspaper, despite aspiring to world class standards, died.

[Read the BBC article, for a real life account of what led to the paper’s demise, and how a Nigerian BIG man predicted it!]

Some people shy away from writing things like this because they do not want to raise “dust” or rub readers the wrong way.

I believe that by forewarning persons who plan to do what I am doing, I can give them a better chance of surviving the rough terrain they have to travel to entrepreneurial success in Nigeria.

You see, there are certain people who are unwilling to do what it takes to achieve entrepreneurial success/significance with honesty and integrity.

Yet they will not let others who are ready do so!!

And this is why I believe, strongly too, that a true (read: honest, authentic, non-corner cutting) Entrepreneur in Nigeria, will (apart from doing all that I mentioned in the definition given earlier) must develop a gut-level instinct for self-preservation.

That instinct that will enable him/her successfully evade the many attempts that will be made to frustrate him/her – via the Nigerian Factor.

It was what drove ME to exploit my multipreneurial aptitude to generate multiple income streams – making it difficult for those who tried, to stop me.

And that is what keeps me going today.

I earn income via both active and passive streams, from a growing variety of channels and activities. And I LOVE doing what I do, the way I do it!

RELATED ARTICLES/USEFUL READING

1. BBC News – Letter from Africa: Doing Business in Nigeria

2. Pulitzer winner’s Nigeria newspaper 234NEXT stops printing

One Major Reason Why People Avoid Entrepreneurship (True Story)

[NB: Names used in the following narrative are NOT real] The Admin Manager in a medium sized company gets an ultimatum to resolve a recurring office photocopier fault. This fault has made it necessary to visit business centres to duplicate sensitive documents at higher costs. Different "trained" service engineers brought in previously had been unable to solve the problem.

The Admin Manager, Richard, decides to ask some associates in other companies. One of them recommends a self-employed multi-skilled young man called Ezekiel(who learnt to repair photocopiers from a friend who is a Service Engineer with a large multinational).

Richard calls Ezekiel the same day. (He knows he needs to get some results, to avoid upsetting the boss.)

Next morning, Ezekiel arrives and proceeds to examine the machine.

After 15 minutes, he announces to Richard his diagnosis, and proposed solution – including parts replacement cost and his service fees(N10,000.00 and N2,500.00 respectively). Some negotiation takes place.

Both eventually agree that Ezekiel will effect the proposed solution, and once the machine is confirmed to be running smoothly, payment of Ezekiel’s service fees would be effected.

So, Richard asks Ezekiel to come in the next morning for N10,000.00 cash to purchase needed replacement parts.

Before the day runs out however, Richard makes a point of checking with other sources and, is surprised to learn that the items to be purchased actually cost just about the same amount quoted by Ezekiel. In other words, they were not "padded" by Ezekiel.

So, Ezekiel gets the money the next morning, purchases the needed items, then installs them.

By noon he is standing next to Richard as the machine is test-run and confirmed to be back in order.

Ezekiel turns to Richard and asks for his service fee of N2,500.

Richard responds that the money is not ready, and asks him to pick it up the next day.

Ezekiel calls thrice the next day via phone and each time Richard tells him the money is not ready. A day stretches to a week. Then two. Ezekiel decides to visit Richard’s office again. It turns out to be a humiliating experience.

Richard not only accuses him of being a pest, he also threatens to have him dealt with if he continues!

The most intriguing part of the exchange is when Richard makes the point that Ezekiel is not even a qualified"Service Engineer" and has no formal training or certification to repair photocopiers.

This is a very convenient argument …especially, when you consider the fact that it was this same Ezekiel, the Self-Taught technician who resolved Richard’s nagging photocopier problem AFTER a number of trained/certified engineers had failed!

As a wise service provider with over 3 decades of experience once told me: Never be too eager to deliver your service, especially, if your payment terms have not been firmly agreed upon. Reason is, service, once delivered CANNOT be withdrawn. Ezekiel, for instance, could not – within reason – go an un-fix the photocopy machine. He could have, but it would not be worth the hassle.

Now, while we’re on the subject, does anyone know of a ROAD SIDE mechanic, in Nigeria for instance, who has a certificate or degree in Mechanical, Automobile or ANY other field of Engineering?

I don’t. Any person with such paper credentials would be VERY unlikely to choose the option of working as a ROAD SIDE mechanic…more due to ego considerations, than the fact that s/he has superior problem solving skills to the (mostly unschooled) chaps on the roads!

Yet we ALL know that these same ROAD SIDE mechanics do MOST of the car repair work in this Nigeria!

I can confirm that Ezekiel NEVER got that payment, small as it was…

Yet, he had diligently done a job that he was engaged formally to do.

Now, he could have protected himself by requesting for some papers to be signed – as I had often suggested to him – but the "size" and "scope" made him think doing that would be "over kill".

Having said that, my personal experiences indicate that even getting some papers signed, to commit a client that is determined to be naughty, may do little or no good eventually.

The above narrative is a classical example of a VERY common occurrence of what I call Entrepreneur Abuse™.

And it is the kind of thing that makes many who would have loved to become self employed take the risk of doing it.

I am not unaware that something similar does happen in other societies.

However, the problem with our society, in Nigeria, is that it happens with abnormal frequency – or to put it another way: Rather than be the exception, it tends to be the norm – hence my formal label of Entrepreneur Abuse™.

Starting up and running a business to success, is already a daunting task on its own. When the challenge of getting routinely mistreated by those you serve is added, the business of entrepreneurship (and I mean the honest, non corner cutting kind!) becomes less fulfilling/rewarding than it can be.

Yet for our economy to truly flourish and prosper, we need more people to see venturing into entrepreneurship as a viable and attractive alternative.

Not one that will make them spend half of their begging to be paid profitably, and on time, for products/services they deliver to specification.

The above happens too often in Nigeria, from my experiences and observations.

I say this with every sense of responsibility and integrity, based on over a decade of being an entrepreneur in Nigeria, during which time I experienced it myriad times.

Indeed, that was what made me resolve to use the web MORE to sell my products and services 80% of the time, while taking on face to face clients – by exception/after careful evaluation – the rest 20% of the time.

The example described in this story is one that occurred at a very basic level, to a relative newbie to entrepreneurship.

This abuse is also routinely inflicted on more established, professionally certified entrepreneurs, who run larger operations. Sadly, many of those in this latter group, to whom it happens decline to talk about it openly for fear (I believe) of being marked down.

My attitude is to remind such persons that they are ALREADY being marked down INSPITE of the fact that they REFUSE to talk about or challenge those who do it.

When you bring it up for discussion, like I am doing here, and as I have done for years, at least 2 things are likely to happen:

1. Those who do it, or have a tendency to do it, will KNOW that you are unlikely to accept it being done to you. So, the frequency with you encounter it WILL drop. Which means you get to enjoy doing what you do, and love, MORE. Yippy ;-))

2. Others who can do something to stop it (e.g. regulatory bodies such as government human rights protection offices etc) can become aware, through you, that it is happening. And this can prompt them to investigate and/or set up systems to discourage the practice.

I love helping clients do what they do better, using my skills as an entrepreneur.

However, I will enjoy doing it much less, if clients take advantage of me, and refuse to reward me as agreed, for the value I add to them.

And that can be frustrating.

That is why I have developed a process for identifying the right kinds of clients to work with.

What’s more, over the years, I have refined the use of that system, and it’s helped me dramatically REDUCE contact with persons with a tendency to be abusive in the manner described above.

In doing the above, one need not get aggressive. You can confront without being combative.

A lot of this has to do with how you present yourself, from your very first contact with a “properly screened” potential client. Your ability to assert yourself without being “rigid or insensitive” will determine how your interpersonal exchanges subsequently evolve.

Sadly, most people who end up as entrepreneurs are unlikely to be taught any of the above, while learning their core professions in formal school. As a result, they may have to learn via experience, in the school of hard knocks (like Ezekiel).

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PS: This article is based on excerpts from a write up first published online, in 2006, on Tayo Solagbade’s "Beat The Nigerian Factor" website located on www.spontaneousdevelopment.com.

No. 149: To Succeed, Use Adversity To Become More Creative

Yesterday (6th July 2014) was my 44th birthday. While reflecting, this quote awoke memories in me:

“When man is pushed, tormented, defeated, he has a chance to learn something; he has been put on his wits, on his manhood, he has gained facts, learns from his ignorance, is cured of the insanity of conceit; has got moderation and real skill. Emerson

To get where I am today I have been sorely tested: to paraphrase James R. Cook.

By this I mean I have suffered great visitations of adversity for prolonged periods.

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No. 149: To Succeed, Use Adversity To Become More Creative

Yesterday (6th July 2014) was my 44th birthday. While reflecting, this quote awoke memories in me:

"When man… is pushed, tormented, defeated, he has a chance to learn something; he has been put on his wits, on his manhood, he has gained facts, learns from his ignorance, is cured of the insanity of conceit; has got moderation and real skill.” – Emerson

To get where I am today “I have been sorely tested”: to paraphrase James R. Cook.

By this I mean I have suffered great visitations of adversity for prolonged periods.

No exaggeration.

For those who are curious, THAT "adversity" is what has “COOKED” me into the relentless achiever I am today.

Adversity Is Indeed a “Shrewd Instructor”!

Yes it is. And so are other forms of adversity we encounter in pursuit of success. Again, hat tip to Mr. James Cook, from his New York Times bestselling book “The Start-up Entrepreneur”.

Actually, he was referring to “frequent bad experiences” entrepreneurs undergo, especially in the early years. And he meant that they had a way of forcing people to make PERSONAL changes crucial for them to “qualify” to achieve at a higher level.

In my language (Yoruba) we have a saying that supports the above…

It goes thus: “Eni ti iya o je ni ko gbon”

Contextual Translation: “Only a person who has not experienced adversity or suffering remains unwise/lacking in creativity”.

There is also the English saying about necessity being the mother of invention.

When we lack access to something we value, the psychological and physical “suffering” that comes of it, can drive us to create and innovate – to meet our needs.

But that is for those who choose to do so. Some people decide to resign themselves to “fate”.

Consider the experience of Richie Parker, the armless computer engineering genius who designs components for race cars that have won 7 NASCAR championships.

He was born without arms. Yet, today he excels at world class level as a computer engineer, who designs car components in the most challenging field of car racing!

Using his FEET on a modified mouse and keyboard to design car components. Driving his own car, modified, under his guidance, to allow him use his feet to control the steering wheel! (Click here to watch the ESPN video interview)

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Where On Earth Did He Get The Ideas to Modify Things Like That?

It’s simple. He refused to accept that he had no choice.

Instead, he used the “adversity” imposed by his lack of arms inspire him to THINK of a way to get around that limitation.

Without “adversity” it is unlikely his creativity would have become so finely honed as to enable him beat other “normal” candidates who reportedly applied for the position of computer design engineer at the company that employed him.

In Essence, Exposure to Adversity Stimulates Creativity…If The “Sufferer” Embraces The Opportunity!

I’m living proof of this.

For many years from 2002, when I became an entrepreneur, I got repeatedly exposed to severe lack of money, frequent personal hardships, and periodic humiliation.

What I did was to take the advice in books by James Cook and Napoleon Hill, to let those experiences challenge me to find creative ways to advance towards my goals.

In reflecting on the growing success I now enjoy, it’s obvious, to me, that those experiences of adversity have made me…

When you have to go on without having enough money to do anything, you either learn to develop creative ways to achieve your goals, or you quit (…ehm or you go crooked).

Question: When you don’t have money to print flyers and send out print letters, and you need to promote your products and services, what to do?

Question: When you run out of fuel in your car, and there’s no money to take a bus…yet you need to get to a client’s premises to pick up payment for last week’s talk, what to do?

The answer to both – and other such questions: THINK up creative alternatives. I had to do that countless times.

Ask my kids, my parents or siblings. I have made it clear I’m comfortable with having my story told. Those who attend my speaking events will hear many MANY humorously told – but simultaneously sobering – stories :-)

Final Words: Adversity Has Trained Me to Creatively Develop Real World Relevant Solutions

It’s very rarely how much money, but the quality of ideas you have, that will determine your success.

Indeed, sometimes your ideas will get you the money you need!

When things start going wrong, I often jokingly tell myself: “Looks like it’s LEARNING time!”

Then I dig in, and actively search for the lesson as things unfold. And after it’s over, I make a point of putting it to use.

It may manifest in form of a new product or service I subsequently launch. I may come up with ways to get more done, with much less in some area of useful relevance.

This is why clients often like work I do for them.

They see me delivering MORE value to them than they pay for.

If you want to enjoy constant growth in your personal or work life, I urge you to do the same!

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Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

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Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

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In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

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and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

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Why Farm CEOs Need to Read Non-Farm Related Articles (Hint: Like the multidisciplinry articles on THIS blog)

I believe, from over 2 decades of observation/experience, that one major mistake being made by conventional farm support specialists is that they focus mainly – sometimes exclusively – on farm related issues, in serving farm business owners.

This can be self-defeating, because other aspects of the farm owner’s life can – and do! – interfere with his/her ability to make progress with the farm!

Farm CEOs are human beings like the rest of us: they have to balance different aspects of their lives!

That means virtually everything that we have to contend with in life, outside their core vocation is what they most likely also have to deal with.

Most people do not think about it, but many times stuff that happens in other parts of our lives can – and do – affect our ability to function effectively and successfully in our chosen vocations.

Indeed, many of the most successful people in the world get to be that way because they develop strategies to keep firm control of other areas of their lives, so that nothing interferes with their ability to focus on the core purpose they have.

That’s why many top sportspersons have personal managers, and other people they pass their routine chores to. Down to getting their laundry done, these guys readily pay good money to have someone else handle such tasks.

Farm CEOs can also get very busy, and quite often their work may require spending long periods trying to set standards in place, and study trends to take the right decisions. If they have other areas of their lives going out of control, this becomes more difficult to do.

That’s why this blog’s articles categories are multidisciplinary: I like to see the big picture and offer complete solutions

It goes without saying that some visitors to www.tayosolagbade.com will have wondered why I don’t just write ONLY farm business related stuff all over my website.

Well, the above case in point is the major reasons.

My multidisciplinary write-ups are designed to offer potentially useful best practice information and education, on different aspects of life, in a way that enhances people’s ability to succeed.

Those who pay attention will notice I often use farm related explanations in most of the examples I discuss in my articles.

But as with everything else, the lessons offered can be applied or adapted to suit the needs of people in other fields. And they are. Which is why I also get feedback and enquiries from prospects and clients in non-farm related fields.

Below, I discuss each of my blog categories, and how they are relevant to farm business owners, and their workers.

NB: It’s quite likely that many of them who have visited in the past probably never thought of it this way before. So, I guess I should say: “Now you know!”

1. Parenting

With the exception of those yet to have offspring, Farm CEOs typically have spouses and kids they live with. Whatever happens in that home can – and does – affect the farmer’s state of mind.

Kids in particular, can be a challenge for any adult. I say this as a father of 4 boys and 2 girls. And I also say it as one who has had to endure years of being unable to independently provide for them – while struggling to establish myself as an entrepreneur in Nigeria.

Parenting has little to do with how financially well off you are. After all we know of many people who are financially successful today, whose parent(s) raised them while battling crippling poverty.

However, the training instilled in the kids by the parent(s) helped them develop the character needed to later achieve financial success in life.

The story of Ben Carson, the famed American Neurosurgeon in his book – “Gifted Hands” – describes an excellent example of what I call World Class Parenting – by his mother.

My articles are experience based.I draw from what I went through in my childhood years, as a very naught teenager, before I reformed myself. And I add to that what I did to coach other people’s kids to achieve excellence in my early adulthood.

Lastly, there’s the VERY challenging experience I’m, having currently as a parent to 2 teenage boys, and their siblings.

Some of those who have read my articles on parenting have commented on how useful they found them. Several of my articles have been syndicated on parenting websites outside Africa – in the USA for example. I believe that’s a sign that there’s value to be had in them.

As a farm CEO, with kids, these articles are for you to study, in order to do a better job of parenting your kids. Make use of them.

2. Career Development

I have noted in the past that a growing number of Farm CEOs purchasing my products are persons who hold day jobs. A good number actually work with large companies (e.g. oil service multinationals), and run their farm businesses on the side.

They often use the salary they earn – and/or loans or grants from their employers – to finance their farm businesses. It goes without saying therefore, that their continued good performance at work is crucial to the long term survival of the farm.

Of course, at some point, with good management, the farm business is bound to become self-sustaining. However, depending on the kind of enterprise it is (e.g. poultry layers, broiler, piggery etc), some need for the security of “extra income” to meet periodic shortages may remain for a while.

And even if that’s not the case, discussions with some such farm CEOs suggest they are planning to keep running their farms on the side till retirement – which is not due for 5 or more years.

I have a track record of high performing success from my 7 year stay in a world class multinational. I started as process manager, and later become a people manager  – competently holding senior management positions.

What’s more, I received exposure to a wide variety of high profile training on best practice performance improvement and people coaching in the workplace. All of this equips me to help others.

So, Farm CEOs pursuing careers during the day can really benefit from reading my Career Development write-ups.

Many of them have been extensively syndicated online. Some got me invited to speak in places like the Centre for Management Development, while others have been published – with my permission – in international journals.

3. Entrepreneurship

I have written severally in the past about the need for farm CEOs to realize that they need to think like entrepreneurs, if they want to succeed – indeed excel.

My ideas have gotten me invited to speak to audiences at events like Yaba College or Technology’s Centre for Entrepreneurship Development.

That’s apart from many which have been republished across the web, since I began using article marketing in 2005.

With Farm CEOs, I have hammered on the need to develop competent sales and marketing know how. Too many of them still thing traditionally. They focus on producing and then start waiting for buyers to come. If you want the best prices, and you want to make timely sales, so as to maximize your farm output capacity, this is an aspect you cannot ignore.

My articles on entrepreneurship can help you.

4. Writing/Blogging

If you’ve been reading my writing for a while, you will know that I have repeatedly stated that farm CEOs need to adopt writing as a strategy for “farm business promotion”. Apart from being zero cost, more or less, it also helps them develop marketing credibility and ultimately achieve authority status.

Why is this important you ask?

Well, we are not all equally ambitious. But why come to the match if you don’t intend to give it your best shot? I argue that farm CEOs should aim to generate income via multiple channels – including those NOT directly related to farm product sales.

How? Well, sell your expertise as a Farm Business Expert. You are effectively already a consultant, by virtue of your being a farm CEO!

Get started by WRITING regularly, to share your experiences. Use a blog – at the least.

Don’t stay on paper – you’ll achieve less reach and impact. Tell readers about successes and failures and what you did to get there. As your writing evolves, package yourself to offer solutions to those aspiring to do what you do, or others who have begun, but need help.

E.g. business plan preparation, farm start-up consultations, feasibility studies, farm personnel training. You could write manuals to help others who come to you – they would pay – gladly too.

Because you already have a farm, they are likely to take you seriously. And when you ask them to pay, they will.

I say this as someone who still has not started a farm business, and yet get farm CEOs from within and outside Africa sending me payment for products and services I offer them.

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5. Public Speaking

And lastly, people may wonder what concerns Farm CEOs with public speaking. Some may even ask how a farmer can possibly expect to be a speaker.

Well, I argue that if tie-wearing agriculture experts, who only lecture and do not run their own farms, can get paid to address audiences of farmers on farm business, then Farm CEOs can do the same too.

The thing is that too many people fail to think outside the box. Should farm owners, with the right training and preparation, not be able to SPEAK to audiences about what they do. Should they not be able to SHARE their experiences with researchers and farmers from other parts?

Think about it. Some farmers are making smart improvements in the way they run their businesses that others could benefit from.A Farm CEO who can prepare, package, promote and present his/her ideas attractively CAN get invited – as a paid speaker – to international conferences, to share his/her story.

You can plan to do it locally, and also internationally, making intelligent use of the web. And this can open doors to finding better (and bulk) buyers for your farm products in the process.

This is why I offer articles on public speaking. Read them and apply what you learn.

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6. Self-Development

The study of 1 to 5 above will more or less be an exercise in self-development.

But it goes beyond that. Your physical, mental and emotional fitness also need attention. Regular physical exercise, along with diligent investment in leisure to eliminate stress is crucial to keep yourself going. You cannot afford to let yourself break down.

So many of my articles on Self-Development have been widely read and republished. You would do well to study them.

Final Words: As you can see, Farm CEOs will find some of the above useful at various times in life.

As with everything else, you may not have career concerns today, but a parenting challenge could be on your mind as you drive to your farm.

If you’re lucky, browsing through the parenting articles archives on this blog may turn up something useful (try it now).

Some other day, you may have received an invitation to deliver a talk on Poultry Farming to students in a university…..and you may be wondering how to go about it. The archives section of my Public Speaking IDEAS newsletter may come in handy.

In other words, I am saying that if you’re a farm CEO, virtually all the major products and services on tayosolagbade.com are created with YOU in mind. (No offence to my other clients in various industries, but farm businesses are my primary target audience.)

So, even when you see an article title that does not relate with farming, REMEMBER that you are first and foremost a human being. And you well being, your state of mind, will have an impact, directly or indirectly on your ability to run your farm business competently.

As such, anything that can affect you inn that regard needs to be carefully nurtured. This is why feeding yourself with useful tips, and information, to take care of those areas of your life would be a wise thing to do.

www.tayosolagbade.com offers you a continually growing library of potentially useful resources you can tap into.

Don’t be a stranger – visit daily and learn. In fact, go a step further and subscribe/join the mailing list, so you get notified when new stuff is published. You can only get better that you currently are!

Speak Truth No Matter What (Especially When The Wellbeing of Others Depends On It!)

I don’t know about you. But in my part of the world, finding people willing to speak truth regardless of whose Ox is gored, is more difficult these days. Too many “good” people today do not want “trouble”. So, even when they see/hear outright evil being done to others, they keep quiet, and look the other way.

It is not my desire to become the saviour of the world – or “Power Rangers”(as my kids would say)…

However, in my own little way, I KNOW I can make a difference.

I draw inspiration from stories about people like Rosa Parks, in the days of racial segregation in the USA. She got “tired of giving in” and decided to challenge what others of her kind had long accepted as their lot.

Such people, and the progress their actions influenced, convince me it’s right to think like I do.

And I am trying – very hard – to pass this kind of thinking to my kids.

To be sure they get it right; I’ve constantly challenged them to apply what I teach them to me. And they do. They challenge me when I do wrong!

I however realize it will not be easy for them to practice this habit in the real world…So what does one do?

I say, do what you know God wants you to do – which is to speak truth and stand up for it at all times!

You see, I believe, from years of self-examination, and interaction with people of different races and walks of life, that God speaks to us all the time.

The problem is most of us have not been taught to LISTEN carefully enough to hear Him.

And I will add that unlike what happens in movies, when God speaks to each person, it is rarely, if at all ever, with a booming baritone voice!

Instead, most times, it can be the silent voice or subtle “prompt” or urge we feel, to do or say something. Very often, if we train ourselves to be more discerning we will find that our instincts are channelled right from our creator to us.

It is my considered opinion, that we tend to let our need to conform with the world, stop us from DOING what God quietly – in our hearts – tells us to do.

That’s why a man who hears someone (or a group of people) lying against a defenceless person, about the events that transpired before an accident, will keep quiet.

Deep inside him, the little voice or impulse to speak truth, would be noticeable.

He would KNOW it would be right to speak up and stop an innocent person from being punished unjustly.

But to avoid rejection or criticism from the larger group, he would say nothing, and later rationalize his action by saying: “It’s not my business”.

This mistake is one I have told my kids NEVER to make, asking them instead, to LISTEN for guidance from God on the inside.

My children have seen me practice what I preach several times (A True Story)

Several times while driving them in the car, I have stopped to intervene in a situation in which a commercial bike rider was getting beaten up by motor park touts, wanting to extort money from him. Quite often, I would get both parties to make up, and the rider allowed to go.

There have been times that I’ve been alone…

For instance, one night in 2012 (when I was till based in Nigeria), at about 10p.m, I was parked opposite a petrol station – just outside a neighbourhood police station.

In front of me was a commercial bike rider with his bike parked, buying something from a kiosk.

Suddenly, a fast moving bike, carrying 2 policemen, swerved off the road, and the officer seated behind, caught his trouser leg on the number plate of the parked bike, promptly tearing a hole in it.

Quickly stopping his bike man, the policeman got off the bike, and rained curses on the owner of the parked bike. Then he and his colleague began dragging both man and bike into the station.

I stood looking at them, not believing what was happening.

I’d seen it all, and knew it was not the fault of the parked bike’s owner.

Now, it was already late, and I was tired. And I could have said it was not my business.

But a voice inside of me told me, I had to do something.

So, I followed them into the station. And I made a point of telling both officers and their colleagues in the station that impounding the bike as they said they wanted to do would be unfair.

For over 1 hour (till close to midnight) we remained there. The bike man was pleading. I was challenging them to see reason. I did not flex muscles or threaten them. But I made it clear I would not leave if the right thing was not done.

At a point, one of the police officers asked me if the bike man was my friend.

I said NO.

He asked if he was my brother or relative.

Again I said NO.

He then asked if I have met him before or gotten to know him somewhere else.

Once again I said NO.

Looking at me as if I was crazy he said “So what is your business in this matter then?”

I replied that I was a citizen of Nigeria, and I had a right to offer help to a fellow citizen I identified to be in need of if – like the bike man. I added that I saw what transpired outside and was not prepared to let the young man be punished for something he did not do.

All this while, even the bike man had been looking at me with a strange expression on his face. It was obvious he was also shocked by what I was saying/doing.

To cut the long story short, he was eventually told to come back the next morning to pick up his bike.

We thanked them and as we went out, I told him to call me the next morning, so we would go together. That way, they would not try to get any money off him – something I had opposed when they muted it.

He agreed, and thanked me profusely after taking my phone number.

The next morning, I did not hear from him until AFTER he had picked up the bike.

When I asked why he did not call me, he said he did not want to disturb me, as I had done so much for him already.

I asked if he paid any money. He said they demanded about N1,000, and he gladly paid it – since it was well below the N2, 500 they had threatened to take from him the night before.

I sighed and told him he actually could have left without paying anything, but I congratulated him all the same on getting his bike back..

He once again thanked me and said all sorts of prayers in Yoruba to God, asking him to bless me.

I in turn challenged him to boldly challenge anyone who tried to exploit him in future, with the assurance that God would back him.

When the call ended, I never imagined I would run into him again…

But, I did – less than 2 months later!

And it was about 100 metres from the area the drama of the other night had happened.

However, I did NOT recognise him: He was the one who saw me from the other side of the road, and changed direction!

I’d taken my kids to visit my sister-in-law and her kids in the estate they lived. While they were having fun, I decided to go by public transport to buy a few things around the popular Berger area.

The bike man rode up and stopped in front of me, then greeted me in a familiar way in Yoruba. Seeing my blank expression, he smiled and said “You don’t remember me?”

I replied that I did not.

Then he reminded me about how I’d helped him at the Police Station. That was when it clicked. He was riding the same bike. It was still looking new.

We exchanged pleasantries, and he asked where I was headed. I told him I needed to buy a few things and return to the estate to join my family. Next thing I knew he offered…no let me rephrase that…he INSISTED on giving me a ride to Berger!

Then he waited till I finished buying all that I needed, and brought me right back to the estate.

I thanked him for his generosity, and tried to pay for the ride. He bluntly refused to accept money, and told me he would never forget what I did for him. Then he rode off!

Final Words: In challenging my kids to speak out and stand up for truth, I have told them this – and many other – stories.

And like I mentioned earlier, they have seen me practise what I preach many times.

I do what I do because I know that is what God expects of me.

What’s more I know that if/when I – or my loved ones – find ourselves in need of someone to speak truth on our behalf, what I do for others, will count in my favour.

Some do not believe it, but there are universal laws set by the Creator, which reward each one of us for our actions…or our inactions.

The rewards will come. They may not happen immediately, but they eventually will.

That’s why it is said that what goes around comes around (I believe that’s called Karma in some circles).

If we all keep the above in mind, and remember that our creator is bigger that ANY person or group, we will ALWAYS do his will, by standing up for truth at all times.

The Secret to Getting Things Done, Even When Busy (3 Tips on Smarter Self-Management for CEOs, Top Managers/Executives & Others)

Some CEOs, top managers or executives get so busy they suffer exhaustion. I make no claims to being perfect, but NO JOB I’ve done in paid employment, or as an entrepreneur, has EVER overwhelmed me. Indeed, despite being often accused of doing too many things, I – very frequently – get it ALL done on time!

I share my “secret”(?) in this article :-)

It was so when I worked in Guinness Nigeria: Yet I outperformed, and got promoted over, those who criticized me…!

And it has been so, since I became an entrepreneur. Yet I have often DELIVERED to deadlines on most projects I’ve taken on – WITHOUT needing to stop my own personal activities.

As you read this, I have 2 new client projects I’m working on: It so happens that out here in Cotonou (in addition to clients in Nigeria), I recently won 2 additional client companies.

These 2 opportunities did not come my way by accident. As the saying goes, success leaves a trail.

You see, last year, a legal consultant – who happens to be a director with the above  mentioned private university – hired me to build an elaborate Web Marketing System based website for him.

He  (along with his founding partner who also saw the finished work I did for him) took the decision to hire me to handle the university’s website project.

If I had not impressed them last year, I doubt they would have done that.

That’s not all.

Even the second client company is a result of a referral from the same person!

He is the CEO of the start-up outfit, and again decided he wanted me to handle it.

What’s more, he had no qualms making FULL payment for both projects, to me, 100% upfront!

If that’s not proof of unshakeable confidence in my abilities, I don’t know what else to call it!

The reason my client was so confident in hiring and paying me upfront to start 2 projects (and he’s NOT the only one who’s done so), is that he’s seen me do SO MANY different things at the same time, and NEVER get overwhelmed.

Not that I’m perfect, or a magician.

It’s just that we all have our strengths. Mine happens to be multi-tasking. I am a VERY quick learner, and very early on in life, I trained myself to be a quick thinker.

Then, by leveraging my physical fitness training from over a decade of playing competitive handball, I have enhanced my ability to push myself to deliver superlative work performances literally at will.

Let me try and paint a picture of my typical work week:

Every week I write at least ONE 500 to 2,000 word article per day, which I publish on this blog, each day. Sometimes I customize my Excel-VB Ration Formulator and my Feed Formulation Handbook for a client who orders it.

On certain occasions I may have a meeting with an offline client that requires being away from my work for 4 or more hours. On some days, sometimes consecutive, I have to respond to email enquiries that require a lot of thought, and sometimes a “presentation” page or two.

At other times I may be working on a website project or two (like right now). During the same week, I could travel to/from Nigeria, and still NOT miss publishing ANY articles while on the road!

Then of course I always find time to post marketing material and connect with others on social media. Those efforts on social media periodically yield sales leads that sometimes convert to actual sales.

Here’s a true story that illustrates my point: During a 2 month period late last year, I had to travel and conduct questionnaire surveys in Nigeria

It was for a 4,000 word agribusiness case study paper that I wrote and got paid 2,500 Euros for, by a European Union funded NGO based in Holland.

I wrote that paper and sent it in within the deadline. Then I had to re-write it to address feedback sent me by the reviewers, until it was accepted for publication. Yet, I NEVER stopped writing my daily article, weekly newsletter or any other tasks, all through that time.

Even when I’m feeling dead tired at 11:45 p.m, if I know I need to get an article out before midnight, or that I need to send out a list of names extracted from 89 questionnaires to a client, I NEVER stop until I achieve that goal.

That’s the power of smart self-management!

I could go on, but you get the drift!

How do I do all that and NOT get overwhelmed or exhausted?

The truth is that it’s not at that moment that I do what enables me deliver such performances.

I often do most of what helps me Go The Extra Mile (GTEM) ™ like that, WAY before then…

Indeed, some of the personal routines and “rituals” I engage in early in the morning, and all through the day before, often end up being what enable me succeed like I do, much later on.

That’s why, rather than feel tired, I start each new day rearing to go, and I NEVER need special drinks or medication.

The Problem: Many CEOs/top decision makers, by nature of their roles/responsibilities, cannot avoid being busy…

They often have so many people demanding their time and attention. And when those people depart (say after close of work) they frequently find themselves faced with mountains of paper work they have to plough through.

Most of it can rarely be done absent-mindedly, as doing so could result in potentially costly errors.

So, the tired top man or woman begins to give up some hours sleep, and at a point gives in to the need to depend on Coffee – or some other “helper” – to keep going.

The next day, the lack of sleep, and use of caffeine based drinks leaves the CEO feeling a bit dull on the way to work. To overcome that feeling, and get into the mood for work, s/he may reach for some other “helper” e.g. an energy drink, and is soon feeling ”better”.

But if truth be told, the body will NOT be denied what it needs

No matter how strong or tough you are, and no matter how refined the stuff you ingest is, the truth is that ANYTHING that prevents the human body from getting the proper rest it needs is BAD for it.

It will just be a matter of time before the body takes its revenge on the owner who abuses it that way!

That’s when we hear of the boss landing in hospital from exhaustion, or a mild illness graduating into something that requires him/her to stay away from work for prolonged periods.

But how can one avoid – or overcome – this scary problem?

The solution is to adopt a disciplined NATURAL approach to self-managed performance delivery.

What does this entail?

Simple really. Here are basic steps I recommend, based on what I have done for over 2 decades, in the course of delivering high performing work related output:

First:

Adopt a daily routine of simple, but intense 10 to 30 minutes of physical exercise FIRST thing in the morning.

Combine that with eating strictly natural foods eating all day. Cut down on the fancy fast food stuff!

Add to that, an uncompromising commitment to giving your body SLEEP whenever it asks for it.

Second:

Adopt the smart use of PC and Internet technology to make your personal and work life easier.

Either you commit to learning how to use them to get more work done, as creatively as possible, or you get someone who knows how to become your personal work assistant.

Whatever you decide, the objective will be to REDUCE the hours your spend doing anything routine and repetitive or mundane – especially paper work.

Three:

Make an investment in developing personal productivity skills like Speed Reading, Brain Training, and use of Mind Mapping.

This can boost your ability to think and get work done as much as 4 times over. I do NOT exaggerate.

Many times I have had to explain to others reading on a PC screen along with me, why I’d scrolled to the next page when they were not even half way down.

Busy people at top decision making levels often have to read a lot of documents, which require good comprehension, before action can be taken.

Those who are slow readers suffer a lot because of this. An investment in learning speed reading can make a world of difference to their productivity.

Clients are often shocked at how quickly I consume material they give me, and turn around to creatively use it generating website copy/content for them!

That’s because I am a speed reader. Become one, and you’ll COMPETENTLY get through any pile of papers in record time, compared to how you do now!

And for those who have to remember a lot of things…!

For instance, instructions they’ve given to subordinates, what they promised their kids or spouses, things they want to check online or on the company premises:

Mind Maps can be VERY useful. Especially when combined with what I call “Planned Activity Tracking Sheets”.

The above are key tools and strategies I use in an ever changing series of combinations to continually deliver a high level of performances, without letting my health suffer.

It is because of them that I am ALWAYS able to honour invitations to social events, without suffering any negative effects in my work afterwards.

They are also why I am consistently able to make out time to plan and implement all sorts of coaching exercises for my kids.

Very rarely do I visit home, even when it is for work, without getting them started on something new and exciting that I’ve found out.

And I also rarely fail to check their progress with past projects, pushing them to move to the next level.

Final Words: It is crucial that we maintain a healthy balance in our personal and work lives!

If you are a CEO, manager, director, corporate executive or just a busy person, in ANY field whatsoever, and you are battling to keep yourself from being overwhelmed, I recommend my ideas to YOU!

If you need help making successful use of them, click here to let me know, and we’ll work out a way I can help you.

That is after all, why I call myself a Performance Improvement Specialist.

Want to invite me to deliver a talk to (or organise a workshop for) members of your club or group/organisation on how to use the ideas described in this article(especially Mind Mapping, Brain Training and Speed Reading)?

Click here to send me a request.

Without Adversity, Meaningful Achievement Would Cease to Exist (Why It Is UNWISE to Wish That You Never Fail Again!)

“If it were not for adversity (which has a habit of getting in our way via delays, disappointments, setbacks and failure), the business of achieving AUTHENTIC success, would progress much more quickly and easily for EVERYONE!” – Tayo K. Solagbade

FACT: If adversity stopped showing up, meaningful achievement would no longer exist…!

That’s the truth – and I’m paraphrasing Jim Rohn using the above phrase.

You see, if everything became so easy, the world would simply get over crowded with mediocre persons parading what would otherwise be questionable success trophies. Sooner than later, we would begin to pay the price.

That’s why I tell those who say “Failure is not my portion” or who get prayed for to NEVER fail again, that they might as well say goodbye to authentic success at the same time. Without failure you’re VERY unlikely to achieve it!

Imagine what it takes to qualify to drive a car on the roads….

In most societies, people have to undergo a series of tests – theoretical and practical – to qualify to hold a driver’s license. This process ensures that those who eventually get the go ahead to drive cars on the road will not constitute themselves into a danger to themselves or others.

I have met people who complained about the strict system run in places like the UK, for assessing competence of persons to hold a driver’s license.

Getting it requires meeting a challenging set of standards.

Now, even after you’ve gotten the licence, misbehaving behind the wheel, while driving, can cost you “points”. And if you make a habit of getting into too much trouble, and lose too many points, you could lose the license!

All of these keep holders of licenses on their toes. It also ensures that the roads remain generally free from chaos, and dangers are kept to a minimum.

Those who complain about the strict regulatory procedures put in place, can be said to see them as some form of “adversity”.

That is, some form of difficulty put in their way, as they try to achieve their aim of getting the license. Those procedures also “annoy” others who already hold licenses, but are not keen to observe the driving rules to the letter.

If such people had their way, a little bending of those rules for their benefit would not be a bad idea. If they found themselves in decision making positions, to effect such modifications to the rules, some of them would probably do so.

And subsequently, all sorts of wrong people would begin to get the go ahead to drive cars on the road. Suddenly, driving mishaps would begin to happen more often. And it would not longer be so safe to drive around or even walk the roads, compared to when things were done right.

Whenever I visit home, I look at driving as it is done on Lagos roads and I see this kind of “chaotic” driving situations playing out daily.

Here in Benin Republic, people drive cars alongside persons who ride motorbikes. Very rarely do you see them cross paths, talk less of hurling insults at one another for reckless driving. And seldom do accidents of any sort (bike or car related) happen.

It’s all about the culture.

The rules that guide qualifying to get a license out here are more diligently enforced than they are in Nigeria – Lagos especially.

They are not perfect here, but those in charge in Benin, endeavour to ensure considerable compliance on the part of those who apply for licences.

In Lagos, there is effort being made to do that, by the Road Safety Corps.

However pockets of unregulated activities still happen on a considerable scale, to enable some people get licenses without even doing any tests.

Since they did not have to undergo the “preparation” needed to ensure they attained driving competence, they naturally end up making all sorts of driving mistakes on the road.

I would add that a person who chooses to NOT take the test, could, for his/her own safety at least make out time to do some self-studying of driving rules, and also self-tutoring in his/her private time. This would enable him/her achieve some reasonable driving competence.

Sadly, too many people feel too much in a hurry to bother about putting in the needed work to acquire the competence required to succeed in a chosen endeavour.

That attitude drives them in every area of life. And it ends up pushing them to cut corners at every opportunity.

The truth remains that anyone who desires to be truly competent needs to embrace adversity or difficulty.

S/he will have to accept that competence is unlikely to “come” to him/her, quickly or easily. That is the requirement for developing the competence needed to succeed. You must have a willingness to invest time, and effort to overcome adversity that will inevitably confront you in one form or another.

Even during a private push up session, adversity shows up in form of the pain you feel in your arm muscles.

When pain comes, it’s a sign that you’re building new muscles. That’s why when you finish, you feel as if your arms/biceps are a bit “inflated”. If you stop before you feel any pain, you’ll notice you don’t feel like you’ve done anything.

That’s why the saying “No pain. No gain” is so apt in every area of life.

If you do not exert yourself, you simply cannot reasonably hope to improve yourself enough to succeed.

Final Words: Farm Business CEOs must also observe this rule!

I’ve written in past articles about how my interaction with many farm business owners has revealed that many lack basic know how about the enterprises they run.

So much so, that they make avoidable –  yet potentially costly – mistakes in a bid to improve farm performance.

This is why I’m now writing a “Quick Start Guide for Poultry Farm Business”

One version will cater to owners of Broiler Farms, and another to CEOs of Layer Farm operations.

If you’d like to be notified when it becomes available, click here to let me know.

Life is NOT a Competition to Be Won at All Costs (Be It In Business or Society at Large)

UPDATE: 4th October 2024

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A client once said to me (not exact words):

“Tayo, over-invoicing will not reduce the money you make from a project. The person who requests that you inflate your invoice amount over your actual fee, simply wants a piece of the action. When payment is approved by the company, you still get paid what you charged.”

I replied to say I would NOT accept to put an amount on my signed invoice, that was different from my officially quoted fee for the job. Anyone who wanted that would have to get someone else to do the job.

I had just finished work on an Excel-VB application I built for his company…

It was an automated spreadsheet based version of a massive 2 part reference document used by professionals in a certain industry. He had engaged me to develop the app, branded in his company’s name, so he could sell it to a large multinational client of his.

As a consultant, he worked with client companies to make use of that voluminous reference document, in tackling a variety of work related crisis or disaster situations.

Due to the sensitive nature of the work to be done, it was imperative that each client’s responsible officers equip themselves with the ability to quickly find needed information in the document.  This was however quite difficult to do using the 2 volume paper version.

When he saw the cost-effective applications I’d built for other clients using MS Excel-Visual Basic, he asked if I could develop an easily retrievable dynamic spreadsheet database version. I told him I could. We negotiated, and he agreed to pay N100,000 in full upfront, so I could deliver the app in 10 days.

On the day our discussion happened, I’d delivered the completed app on CDROM to him. Before then I’d successfully completed a web development project for him, for the same amount.

However, before we parted, he noted that I was so good at what I did, but that with the views I held, it was unlikely I would get big client projects that would reward my skills handsomely.

We had been down that road before. I knew what he was getting at.

I had been with him, when a client representative called and demanded  “more” than had been originally agreed, before a discussed project he had put in a bid for, would be awarded to him. After he ended the call, he’d grumbled to me that the man was greedy, but that he had no choice but to give in.

I’d told him we all have choices, noting that personally, with faith in my abilities and the confidence that the creator rewards honestly and integrity, I would resist such advances. But I added that I was not judging him in any way, since we both knew what doing business in the Nigerian society was like.

He was however not satisfied – choosing to literally lecture me about over-invoicing, and why it was not as bad as I made it out to be.

That day, we parted ways smiling. But I’d stuck to my views.

You see, all my life I’d gotten ahead in every endeavour I ventured into, without cutting any corners.

And I was resolute in ensuring that I did that. Today, I remain resolute in ensuring I DO that!

This drive of mine comes from the VERY vivid memories I have of my pre-teen and teenage years when I repeatedly got into avoidable trouble, giving my parents a lot of heartache.

After I got suspended for 2 weeks, for abusing my privileges as Health Prefect, in secondary school, I vowed NEVER to knowingly do wrong again – regardless of pressures.

And I have stayed true to my promise.

But here’s the irony: The society which had rebuked me repeatedly in my formative years, for doing wrong, has dramatically evolved since then to one that no longer holds those values dear.

Back then, even though things were not perfect, people still prided themselves in making money via honest means. They still challenged their children for cheating, stealing, etc.

Today, in Nigeria, most parents do the exact opposite.

Click here to read a recent article I wrote that describes a shocking incident (during the 2014 JAMB exams) that symbolises the widespread decay in today’s Nigeria.

In virtually all facets of society today, it is now almost suicidal to openly or publicly adopt a stance of being incorruptible. And being willing to do the right and honourable thing has a way of making a person more enemies than friends – even among the Nigerians one aims to help by doing so.

A recent example would appear to be the bizarre result of the just concluded Ekiti state governorship elections. Click the preceding link to read a poem by Prof. Niyi Osundare, who ridiculed his fellow Ekiti kinsman (the “winner” of the election), in a poem titled “The People Voted their Stomach-Blues for an Arrested Renaissance”.

The above confirms what I’m saying, that those who do right, with honesty and integrity in Nigeria, (I mean those who actually PRACTICE what they PREACH!) often – though not always – end up being the ones who succeed the least.

Those who cheat, steal, lie, deceive, extort, exploit etc, are today the ones who make more money, who get high exams scores, who gain top admission slots, who pass interviews into the best paying jobs etc.

As a start-up entrepreneur, back when this client of mine spoke with me, I recall many others I interacted with offered me “wise” advice against continuing the way I was headed.

He’d told me I would find it hard to breakthrough. He’d asked me to think of how that would affect my family – in terms of my ability to earn enough to care for them.

The others echoed his “wise warnings” as well. And that included relatives and friends.

One person, a fellow volunteer with an NGO had bluntly told me “Tayo’ people like you end up being frustrated out of Nigeria!”.

[NB: Hmmm…maybe he was right. I am actually doing better today because I moved out of Nigeria. But contrary to conventional wisdom/practice, I did not have to relocate to Europe or America. Just a short trip to neighbouring Benin Republic was enough to enable me get better results for my efforts! And here’s the irony of it all: Over 80% of my clients/buyers are Nigerian CEOs based in Nigeria!]

If truth be told, none of what they said has turned out to be a lie.

I have experienced the full treatment. 99.95% of Nigerians I have had to do business with have displayed the habits I was warned about.

As a result I have suffered great bouts of severe cash shortages, and experienced countless heart-breaking struggles. All because I chose to be upright in my business dealings.

Now, some people will read this article and argue that I’m trying to make myself look like a saint.

They will also claim they have done what I say I’ve been doing.

Well, I can only speak for myself.

However, if you have boldly insisted on not doing any of the dirty nonsense that quietly goes on in the business world and general society of Nigeria, then you cannot deny that those who follow that path often suffer great hardships, and most fail as a result.

Only persons with a rare brand of courage and persistence (to paraphrase James R. Cook, author of The Start-up Entrepreneur), can survive doing business in Nigeria, without cutting corners of any sort.

And they will be people willing to endure humiliation and deprivation on many fronts, for prolonged periods.

In my experience, such people are hard to find in Nigeria. Or indeed across the African continent.

I’m not judging here. Just stating my observations based on 12 solid years of relating with people across this geographical space as I have pursued my dream.

Yet, my success today, proves it can be done: And that my approach ensures LONG TERM repeatable achievement of authentic success.

The only challenge adopting it may pose is that it is SLOW. Often it can be VERY slow…

…Most people out here don’t like THAT!

I still recall my above mentioned client gleefully driving down to show off a new (imported second hand) car he’d bought just after getting paid by his multinational client company.

It amused me to see that he thought doing so would impress or sway me. He did not say so. But his body language shouted it so loud it was deafening.

I felt so sorry for him – because past experience had taught me that anytime one gets something one had not earned, universally applicable laws begin to SILENTLY exert their influence to redress that imbalance.

You may not know it, but one way or another, you will eventually pay the penalty for it. What’s more, since you did not earn it, you will perpetually lack the competence to repeat that “success”.

And so, to record more of such successes, you will be forced to do the crooked things you did before. Sooner than later, you will be unable to do without doing it.

You will effectively become a phoney.

It does not matter if only you know it. What matters is that in your heart the truth will be obvious – and of course your creator will be just as aware as you.

I do not do religion. But I have a VERY close relationship with my creator. And it is with his guidance that I have found the direction to build my brand, and succeed progressively – in spite of great adversity – the way I do today.

My faith keeps working for me. And the results are obvious.

The resulting competence I have, enables me bounce back from setbacks to new heights of success.

This is why I am literally unstoppable today!

And now, more people are discovering me, and reaching out to benefit from my knowledge and expertise, by inviting me to speak to their team members.

They invite me unconditionally. I never need to offer them any gratification, and they readily pay my fees to hear me speak, or to hire me to implement solutions for them.

That says it all doesn’t it?

Final Words: That is what I like to call being AUTHENTICALLY successful!

I’d rather take 12 years to achieve that, than do over-invoicing, or any other naughty things, so I can build a house in 5 years.

Many people do not realize it’s futile to be in a hurry to succeed. There’s no point competing to get to “success” before others.

Life is NOT a competition you have to win ahead of others at all costs.

We all have our roles to play in this world. Be it in business or society at large. What another person does cannot stop you doing what you are meant to do.

I wish you well as you pursue your definition of success in life – and I hope your faith in the creator will make you take the honourable path to achieve it

Good luck!