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No. 112: Change Your Environment to Succeed – If Necessary

“America’s environment is what makes achievements like Richie Parker’s possible”. 

That’s a paraphrased version of the comment made on Facebook, by someone who watched the ESPN profile video (on this facebook profile) of the armless 30 year old vehicle engineer’s life.

I believe that statement to be quite right.

No society is perfect, and America (and Americans!) certainly has its shortcomings.

However America (and Americans!) have a long history of giving ANYONE a chance to prove his/her worth.

They were not always like that.

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Publication: Tayo Solagbade’s Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS Page (PSIP) Newsletter

Date: Monday 21st October 2013

No:112

Title: Change Your Environment to Succeed – If Necessary

Author & Publisher: Tayo K. Solagbade [Tel: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic) ]

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Hi,

Please find below the latest issue of my Speaking IDEAS newsletter.

I created this PowerPoint slideshow (and published it on slideshare.net), to give people with poor (or zero!) connectivity, an alternative means of “learning” about Richie Parker.

I created this PowerPoint slideshow (and published it on slideshare.net), to give people with poor (or zero!) connectivity, an alternative means of “learning” about Richie Parker.

I’ll soon upload the actual Power Point file for FREE download from my website. The download link will appear in this blog post (click)once it’s up.

When you download it, PLEASE print and share it FREELY with people who may not have ready Internet access to “discover it”!

YOU KNOW EVERYONE NEEDS TO “HEAR” THIS STORY, and BE INSPIRED!!!!

 

No. 112: Change Your Environment to Succeed – If Necessary

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“America’s environment is what makes achievements like Richie Parker’s possible”.

That’s a paraphrased version of the comment made on Facebook, by someone who watched the ESPN profile video (on this facebook profile) of the armless 30 year old vehicle engineer’s life.

I believe that statement to be quite right.

No society is perfect, and America (and Americans!) certainly has its shortcomings.

However America (and Americans!) have a long history of giving ANYONE a chance to prove his/her worth.

They were not always like that.

It took them time to “evolve” to this level (more on “evolving”, later on).

But today, in America, probably more than anywhere else on earth, anyone can aspire to succeed authentically.

And it will rarely matter who you are or what you look like.

If Richie had been a Nigerian living in Nigeria, it’s very unlikely he would have “made it”. If anything, he would probably have had to “travel out” of Nigeria, to succeed at anything close to this level!

That’s a statement of FACT. And I make it – without apology – as a full blooded Nigerian.

It’s why I relocated from Nigeria to Benin Republic in April 2013.

The environment of erratic power supply, and some other issues made it difficult for me to function optimally in Nigeria.

Since arriving here in Benin, I’ve been much – MUCH!! – better off. And it shows in both the quality and volume of work I’m getting done daily. And in the results I’m reaping as well!!

Like Nana Arnaud Franklin rightly noted in a facebook discussion we had, Rex Stump, the Hendrick Engineering Manager who employed Richie gave him a chance.

In many other cultures, it’s possible this may not have happened. Many people get denied “fair and impartial” opportunities to succeed in my part of the world every day.

And those are people who come complete with the right numbers of body parts.

Imagine therefore a person coming without arms – like Richie? His/her problems really get compounded!

If Richie Had Been UNPREPARED, When Given That Chance, He Would Have Failed!

“Luck is when preparation meets opportunity” – Unknown

One could argue that Richie got a lucky break, but here’s one more thought to ponder.

Rex Stump said he picked out Richie’s resume, from amongst about 20 others.

Rex Stump said he picked out Richie's resume, from amongst about 20 others.

That means Richie’s resume featured some attractive qualities that interested the Engineering Manager in the first place.

In other words, Richie had credentials that matched – even exceeded – those of others. Considering that he has no arms, that must have taken him lots of effort to do.

Keep in mind that “car racing” is a delicate business, with people’s lives sometimes at stake. So the “vehicle designer” position would not be one to take lightly!

Richie obviously did NOT wait for the day to come, when he would meet “a Rex Stump” to give him a chance.

What he did instead, was to take daily intelligent and focussed action to make things happen for himself.

ESPN showed video clips from his teenage years, in which he demonstrated how he rode a bike specially built by him and his parents. And another showing how he kept a rope around a fridge’s door handle, to open it with his armless shoulder!

He learnt (with the help of his parents) to believe he could do anything he wanted to do.

That mental attitude got him to/through college, and helped him win the job at Hendrick.

Richie learnt (with the help of his parents) to believe he could do anything he wanted to do.

But here’s another perspective to consider on this matter of being “given a chance” to prove yourself:

Back in their time, people like Mahatma Ghandi, Nelson Mandela, and Martin Luther King Jr. were not really given a “chance”, to prove themselves.

They basically fought to get what they did, in most cases.

And only afterwards did useful “opportunities” open up for them – or their people.

Life’s not always fair. Each one of us will have to deal with what we’re given.

That’s why we must constantly strive to IMPROVE, and never be SATISFIED with where we are.

That’s what Richie Parkers says drives him. And look where it got him. Wow!

Many of Us Are Living Below Our Full Potentials

It’s so simple that we keep doing it daily. Just look – possibly even at yourself.

I’ve found areas of my life where I’m just as guilty. So, no one’s trying to look superior here :-)

When you avoid “striving” to do MORE than you’re currently able, you’d be living below your full potential.

I believe adults should live exemplary lives, to act as good role models for the impressionable minds of children – who CAN change this world (like Richie’s parents are helping him do).

One way to do that would be to constantly strive to make the most of ourselves.

As Abel Folaranmi pointed out in our discussion on Facebook, we need to EVOLVE as human beings.

The process of evolving requires that we become better than we are, or were.

To do that, we must refuse to recognise ANY limitations in our abilities…because in truth, there are NONE.

Final Words: Your Abilities Have NO Limits, But The Wrong Environment Can Limit You…So Don’t Hesitate to Change It!

Let me end by pointing out, that even as we recognise no limitations in ourselves, we must intelligently seek environments most conducive to achieving our goals.

I had to do that, to make better progress towards my goals  – by relocating to Benin Republic.

In other words, if making the most of ourselves requires relocating to another environment – even another country – we owe ourselves a duty to do so!

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NEVER Let Anyone Tell You What YOU Cannot Do! (Transcript Slideshow Version of ESPN’s July 21 “SportsCenter” Profile video about Richie Parker)

I created this PowerPoint slideshow (and published it on slideshare.net), to give people with poor (or zero!) connectivity, an alternative means of “learning” about Richie Parker.

NB: To get the Power Point file version, CLICK HERE NOW to download it in a zipped folder (3MB approximately).

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Read the article I wrote about Richie: It’s titled “All You Really Need Is Ingenuity…aka Creative Thinking (True Story: Man Born Without Arms Designs Championship Winning Race Cars)

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Richie was born in 1983, without arms.

Today, he has a college degree, lives on his own, drives his own custom car, and has worked over 8 years as a world class vehicle engineer (with NASCAR’s Hendrick Motor Sport)…designing chassis and body components for championship winning race cars…Using His FEET!

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Watch the ESPN video about Richie Parker at this link:

http://espn.go.com/video/clip?id=9499560

…and, don’t forget to Google “Richie Parker” – there’s lots to read about him on many websites!

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3. On Being a Master (Preview of Burt Dubin’s Forthcoming NEW Book)

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Read the article I wrote about Richie: It’s titled “All You Really Need Is Ingenuity…aka Creative Thinking (True Story: Man Born Without Arms Designs Championship Winning Race Cars)

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Announce Your Goals, and You’ll Be Forced to Achieve Them

Just today, I replied to an enquiry by a facebook friend, about progress I’d made with my Pineapple Peel based drinks production project. He’s not the only one who has been asking me this question. Clients, friends and relatives have intermittently requested to know how far I’ve gone.

Thankfully, I’ve always had significant progress to report(update post coming up on Tuesday, next week). And one reason for this – apart from the natural interest I have in this – is that I announced it on Facebook, and my website some months back. With pictures and even a web page dedicated to it.

So you see, by announcing my plan to the world, I effectively enrolled others in “pushing me” to implement it!

But wouldn’t that amount to either being perceived to be a “show-off” or exposing your plans to your “rival(s)”?

As is the case in all aspects of life, there is possibility that either or both of the earlier mentioned problems could arise if you adopt this approach.

However, having used this technique successfully on numerous occasions to “force” myself to actualize objectives I set for myself, I can tell you with certainty that the benefits far outweigh whatever costs it may attract.

One example: Years ago, while typing the e-book on which this article is based, my wife sat beside me watching. She got me to start writing the book back then because I had once told her I intended to write it.

By telling her my intention I unwittingly enlisted her to “remind” me about the target I set for myself, thereby helping to motivate me to do it.

When you tell people what you intend to do, you are no longer the only one who knows you intend to do it. So it becomes more difficult for you to one day decide to push that target or goal under the carpet and forget about it.

Those you tell will ask you about it. Since you know they will ask you about it, you will want to avoid looking unfocussed by making sure you have a positive progress update to give them!

Simple, yet not-so-obvious – is it?

Maybe just one more example – this time from outside the language-learning arena.

I finished writing a 45 – page management research paper titled “Self-Development As A Tool For Achieving Career Advancement (A Practical Guide Based on Experience)” in December 2001.

Now, that was the same month in which I resigned my appointment as Training and Technical Development Manager of Guinness Nigeria Plc (Benin).

It was a period when I had to combine preparing handover notes, and doing my job with finishing up the paper for which I had to produce/circulate 100 questionnaires across Lagos/Benin.

Out of the 100 questionnaires, over 40 completed ones were recovered and used in deriving my findings. Now, not only did I do the questionnaire design/data analysis myself, but I also typed the entire paper myself in the little free time I could find – which was not much I assure you!

The whole process began in September 2001, and by 31st December 2001, I had a paper that was ready for entry, into the 2002 edition of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s Young Manager’s competition.

That was just as I had planned, and told as many of my friends, colleagues and relatives who would listen!

I’d told them I intended to write a paper with which I hoped to win the national finals of the competition in 2002 (I was placed 5th in 1997 in my debut).

They had, over the months, variously enquired about what progress I had made toward achieving it. This, more than anything else, helped me stay focused on finishing the paper!

In addition, on the questionnaire’s cover letter, I had promised to send an electronic copy of the final paper produced as a reward to each respondent.

Since many of them had indicated interest in getting a copy, it became even more imperative for me to finish the paper.

That offer was made as an incentive to get them to help complete my questionnaire. I therefore had to fulfil my promise or risk looking “bad” in their eyes.

As you can see, announcing your plans can be a great way to avoid taking the easy (or lazy?) way out, when you set bold or “stretching” targets for yourself!

Final Words: Adopt this Strategy, and Coach Your Kids to Use It As Well

This post is based on excerpts from my Proven 5-Step Formula for Learning ANY Language in 3 Months or less ebook.

I strongly recommend applying the ideas descried above, and also coaching your kids to use them.

Over 2 decades of using this strategy to consistently achieve exceptional outcomes, in various endeavours, convince me they will work for you.

All You Really Need Is Ingenuity…aka Creative Thinking (True Story: Man Born Without Arms Designs Championship Winning Race Cars)

How much effort do you put into doing your JOB each day? And how many times have you told your employer (or boss) you could do MUCH more…IF ONLY s/he would send you on some training, or buy some latest gadget for you to use?

Well, I’m here to tell you (using the amazing achievements of a man born without arms!) that 9.5 times out of 10, you probably already have all you need, to deliver superlative workplace performances.

The Problem Is, You May Not Know You Already Have ALL You Need…

…Until You Meet Someone Who LACKS What You Have, But Is Doing MORE Than You’re Doing!

Indeed, many of us do not know we already have so much going for us, that we need not look for more.

At least, not until we’ve made the best possible use of what we already have!

Yes. And that includes YOU: Mr “I’ve not been promoted since I joined the company”.

And YOU: Ms. “You send me on that new sales negotiation training course, and see if I don’t top the charts this year”.

Who says, madam, that you need anything more than what your creator already gave you?

At the most, you probably need to read a good book on proven sales techniques by Jeffery Gitomer or Brian Tracy. And that’s not likely to set you back more than a few dollars.

In reality, most of the change needs to happen INSIDE you – in terms of how you THINK, basically.

You see, some people started this journey of life with very little compared to us.

And every single day of their lives, things that we do without thought (e.g. opening a door, typing on a PC); require much more effort from them.

Yet they go on doing them, and actually excel in the process, often beyond those of us with MORE!

Many times, they achieve such feats simply through a mental attitude that refuses to recognise ANY limitations. They simply refuse to believe there is anything they cannot do.

And they never listen to anyone who tells them something they wish to do is impossible.

One Such Person is Richie Parker, the Young Man Featured In a Video I Watched Today (Wednesday 16th October 2013)

NB: You’re reading this article on Thursday 17th October 2013, or later. I wrote, and scheduled it to auto-publish on Wednesday 16th October 2013.

Richie was born in 1983, without ARMS.

But today, he works as a vehicle design engineer at Hendrick Engineering/Motor Sports: a company that has won more NASCAR championships than any other.

He designs chassis and body components for ALL their 4 racing teams – USING HIS FEET, to handle the mouse, and type on the keyboard of his PC!

Richer Parker designs chassis and body components for ALL Hendrick Motor Sports' 4 racing teams - USING HIS FEET, to handle the mouse, and type on the keyboard of his PC!

And he’s been doing that job for 8 years – during which time they’ve won 5 championships.

It would also interest you to know, that he drives his own car. It has wonderful modifications, made to the pedals, that let him use his feet to manoeuvre the vehicle, the way we who have arms do ours!

Thanks to Segun Ogunlana – My Amazing Brother-in-Law – for Sharing This Video on Facebook

Since when he sent the link on September 8th, 2013, poor connectivity had prevented me from watching it (it never even loaded), each time I tried.

Until today.

I kept trying to watch it whenever I remembered the link (I’d bookmarked it).

The photo of the armless young man sitting on a car bumper stirred my curiosity. Another reason I kept trying were the comments those who’d watched it made on facebook.

And when I finally watched it, I KNEW others deserved to see it too.

This young man’s creative achievements COMPLETELY invalidate any excuses the rest of us can possibly come up with, for not actualizing our full potentials in life.

Few, if at all any, challenges we face in life can measure up to most of those this guy has found ways to overcome in his short time on earth!

PLEASE watch the video, and START LIVING WITHOUT MAKING EXCUSES from today.

True Story: Man Born Without Arms Designs Championship Winning Race Car

I’ve recorded the video using software I have, for offline viewing, and I intend to play it for my kids to watch, OVER and OVER again.

In addition to that, I have plans to MASSIVELY publicize it, by presenting it in different formats. Those who’ve seen what I’ve done with other videos/audios online, may have an idea of what’s coming…soon!

I may even arrange to visit schools, churches, mosques, and other social organisations.

I BEG YOU – Watch This Video, And Share It!

I never thought I’d ever get to a point in my life when I’d actually BEG anyone to do anything.

But I’m making an exception with Richie Parker’s amazing video.

Believe me, this is probably the closest we’ll ever get to an ENDLESS source of inspiration, AFTER God!

That’s why I’m begging you to – right NOW (don’t wait till you have time…do it NOW) – PLEASE watch the video, then share it with as many people as possible.

…and START LIVING WITHOUT MAKING EXCUSES from today, on your job, and in your personal lives.

Meeting Buyers’ Needs is About Competence, NOT Religion

If you don’t start attending Church we cannot work together“! Yes. A REAL client recently told me that :-) And it was not my first experience. It’s unfortunate that I have to say this. But since 2002, when I became self-employed, ONLY clients who claimed to be “Pentecostal Christians” have ever ever made my religion an issue in this manner.

NB: Everything I describe in this article, is with specific reference to my personal experiences in Nigeria/Benin Republic. Yours may be different.

And That’s Why I Feel Obligated to Write About This Problem

Of all the possible challenges that can arise in interpersonal relationships, I have found the one relating to religion, the most potentially destructive.

First of all, let me state here that I have met and enjoyed wonderful relationships with clients who profess Christianity (some Islam), and live exemplary lives. None of them ever made my religious disposition a condition, for relating with me on a business or personal level.

However, I have also come across phonies/zealots, who made a big issue of religion in their relationships.

No matter how hard you try to avoid it in your business conversations, they eventually have to ask you:

“So where do you worship?”

The minute you say you’re not a Christian, or you do not attend church, or you’re not born-again, your problems with them begin!

The typical zealot will consider it his/her duty to “convert” you at all costs.

Now, this should normally be an act of love i.e. to want to help another person get closer to God, the way THEY know how.

However, it must be with consent of that person: If after hearing you out, s/he chooses to stay where s/he is, you must respect his/her decision.

That’s where these zealots fail to get it:

If you, as the person they speak to, do NOT agree to convert, they may go as far as not hiring (or buying from) you.

And they may not even care if you are the most qualified to handle the project (or your products are th best)!

And if they’d already hired you, like in my case with the client mentioned above, they may proceed to threaten you with NOT awarding future jobs to you.

My Ability to Construct a Bridge, Fly a Plane, or Build Software, Has LITTLE to do with My Religion – and EVERYTHING to Do With My Proven Competence!

If these people had their way, they’d go checking to see if the pilot of the plane they are to fly in, is born-again or not.

In fact, make the mistake of putting them in ministerial positions, and they’ll probably announce that the most plane mishaps occur when an “unbeliever” is flying the plane!

By the way, the foregoing may not be far fetched…

Recent reports have it that (following the latest air disaster last week), Nigerian legislators plan a prayer session, to ward off future plane crashes. A shocking example of people blinded by religion, chasing shadows, and leaving the substance unattended!

People Who Give Conditions Based on Religion, Often Aim to Exploit

They frequently have ulterior motives. Typically, they would say “God will bless you” or “Do it for the lord” or “I’m your brother or sister”.

All in a bid to get your products/services at lower rates that will often be unprofitable to you. But they would NOT care how badly your business could get hurt – no matter how much you appeal to them.

That’s why they’ll work hard to “convert” you. So you’ll find it hard to say NO.

If you’re especially gifted in areas they have needs, expect this to happen.

My versatility makes me encounter this often…but I’ve learnt how to deal effectively with them.

What You Can (Indeed SHOULD) Do…Anytime a Client Gives Religion as a Condition

Quote by Tayo K. Solagbade in article titled "Meeting Buyers' Needs is About Competence, NOT Religion"

If you ever come across a client who says If you don’t attend Church I won’t hire (or buy from) you”…or something similar, do NOT give in.

Unless you truly believe that to be the way for you…

I connect with my creator in a way that works for me. That’s why my response to such threats has therefore ALWAYS been the same:

“Do whatever you feel will best serve your interests, Mr/Ms/Mrs. (name).”

(NB: Like I’ve told many people, I depend 100% on my creator to open doors of business or personal advancement opportunities for me. So, nothing ANYONE says or does can stop me getting what is mine!)

Guess what?

In most cases, the same clients assign me additional projects – or even extend my mandates!

Sometimes the individual would later say to me:

“I assure you Mr. Tayo. You’re going to be a pastor one day”.

To which I would respond (with a big smile plastered across my face) with something like this:

“I guess only God himself will decide that. So far though, he’s not told me any such thing”.

And that’s what a true believer in God should do:

After “telling” the (supposed) unbeliever, leave the rest up to God. Don’t demand s/he join your religion (supposedly on behalf of God) as a condition for buying his/her products/services!

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Inorganic (or chemical) fertilizers are now an economic necessity on many soils. Three groups of fertilizer materials – based on their ability to supply “fertiliser elements – commonly used in Nigeria are:

1. Nitrogen (N2) fertilizers

They come in 2 groups – organic and inorganic. However, because of its high cost, the organic nitrogen fertilizers have been largely replaced by the inorganic nitrogen fertilizers. Some of the common nitrogen fertilizers are Sodium Nitrate (NaNO3), Ammonium Sulphate – (NH4)2SO4, Urea, Calcium Ammonium Nitrate (CAN) etc.

2. Phosphorous (P) fertilizers

Include the following: Rock phosphate, Single Super Phosphate (SSP), Triple Super Phosphate (TSP), Ammoniated Super Phosphate etc

3. Potassium (K) fertilizers

Examples are Muriate of Potash (KCL), Potassium Sulphate (K2SO4), Potassium Nitrate (KNO3) etc

Micronutrient Fertilisers: These include Copper Sulphate (CuSO4), Copper Carbonate (CuCO3), Copper Hydroxide – Cu (OH)2, Sodium Borate (Na2B4O7), Ferric Sulphate – Fe2(SO4)3, Sodium Molybdate – Na2MoO4

Mixed Fertilisers: Fertilisers placed on the market contain at least 2 of the so called fertilizer elements (i.e. Nitrogen [N], Phosphorous [P], and Potasium [K]). One of them is “Incomplete Fertiliser” and the other is “Complete Fertiliser”.

When mixed fertilizer is not available, it is possible for the farmer to blend his own fertilizers to the required mixture, but to do this effectively or successfully, he must have a good idea of what his soil’s nutrient requirements are.

Effects of Mixed Fertilisers on Soil Ph

Most complete fertilizers tend to deposit an acid residue in the soil. This is due to the influence of certain nitrogen carriers, especially those which supply ammonia (NH3) or which produce ammonia when added to the soil. The major effect of ammonium ion (NH4+) occurs when they are nitrified.

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And this is why I believe the MOST important chapter in my book, for anyone who wishes to actualise his/her full potential, is Chapter 3: Become An Ant™.

What follows below, is an excerpt from that chapter of my book about how to develop mental stamina. This (i.e. mental stamina) is what you need to overcome, the routine delays, setbacks and disappointments, likely to come your way, as you pursue your desired goal.

The third way you can use Self-Development to create the future you want, is for you to BECOME AN ANT™ (figuratively speaking of course!).

ANTS Exhibit Focus, Determination and Perseverance

FOCUS, DETERMINATION AND PERSEVERANCE are three (3) key qualities considered essential for success in any area of endeavour.

1. A person with focus knows what he wants, and has his mind set on getting it.

2. One who is determined will not be put off by discouragements or temporary setbacks.

3. The person who can persevere will not give up trying until s/he has achieved a set objective.

Perseverance – according to great achievers like Thomas Edison is the most crucial.

Edison actually called it: “stick-to-it-iveness“.

Considering that he chose to continue his work despite many thousand failures, one can appreciate how he can be so sure about this.

If you have ever tried to stop an ant without killing it, you will know that it exhibits these qualities quite well in the way it responds to obstacles in its path.

No matter what you do (except you kill it), you cannot stop an ant from trying again and again to get around, go over or under whatever obstacle you put in it’s path.

Put the ant in a sealed jar and it will keep moving everywhere, searching for a way out, till it eventually drops dead.

Ants provide a perfect example of focus, determination and perseverance at work.

“Nothing in the world can take the place of persistence; Talent will not; nothing is more common than unsuccessful individuals with talent. Genius will not; the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent” – Ray Kroc (Founder of McDonalds)

Just imagine if you were to adopt the “ant” ATTITUDE, to challenges and setbacks or disappointments you encounter, in trying achieve your goals.

You would become virtually unstoppable!

This “ant” mentality is one major reason why Michael Jordan has become a living legend of American – even world – basketball.

During matches, when the last seconds were ticking away for the buzzer to sound and his team was trailing, Jordan would never give up!

He would continue fighting to score additional points to help his team win!

This fighting spirit saw him pulling his team out of defeat many times – when it mattered most – to win major championships.

So, when next your plan fails to work out or things seem to be going badly wrong, don’t fall apart.

Take a step back and THINK about what you possibly did wrong or need to do better, then make necessary corrections and TRY AGAIN.

Like Napoleon Hill said, you must take failure(temporary defeat) as a sign that your plan still needs some work. In other words, it is not yet good enough.

So go back and re-do the plan, then come right back and try again.

Remember : “Quitters never win and winners never quit”.

True, it’s easier said than done, but it can be done:

Just be an (intelligent) ANT™!

No. 111: Farm Business Owners Can Speak to Influence Research

I recently got another email from my “Professor of Agriculture” friend.

This one contained details of a “Call for submission of brief papers, case studies and synthesis papers”. A quick online search led me to the website where the call originated. It was made by an organisation covering “smallholder agriculture” across Africa, Carribean, and Pacific regions of the world.

In the email, my friend proposed that we jointly submit a proposal (as co-authors) for a research paper on “Feed Formulation”, in response to the call.

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No. 111: Farm Business Owners Can Speak to Influence Research

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I recently got another email from my “Professor of Agriculture” friend.

This one contained details of a “Call for submission of brief papers, case studies and synthesis papers”. A quick online search led me to the website where the call originated. It was made by an organisation covering “smallholder agriculture” across Africa, Carribean, and Pacific regions of the world.

In the email, my friend proposed that we jointly submit a proposal (as co-authors) for a research paper on “Feed Formulation”, in response to the call.

Screenshot of email, in which my friend proposed that we jointly submit a proposal (as co-authors) for a research paper on “Feed Formulation”, in response to the call.

The organisers aim to publish documented experiences and success stories, to encourage “rejuvenation of smallholder agriculture”.

They called for papers in either English or French, on 3 broad categories of issues.

One of the issues (which I chose) was “Extent of ICT adoption by farmers”.

This had to do with analyzing the rate and extent of adoption of PC based (not mobile phones) software applications, for specific agriculture-related purposes.

You May Wonder Why My Friend Chose “Feed Formulation”…and Why He Proposed Co-Authoring With Me (?)

After all, I’m not an academic. Compared to him, all I have is a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services.

He, on the other hand, is a Professor of Agricultural Extension – and Director of his university’s school of Agricultural Sciences in South Africa!

So, why did he choose that topic…and why did he choose me?

NB: I sent him a draft proposal, which – post updates – he submitted to the organisers.  He’s since forwarded their acknowledgement of receipt, to me. If all goes well, and they accept the proposal, we’ll do the field work, and send the final paper in.

And the PAY Is Not Bad :-)

Research write-ups on agriculture, as I’ve said in past articles, can attract pretty remuneration. Below is a screenshot of fees authors of accepted papers will be paid:

Screenshot of fees authors of accepted papers will be paid

What follows below is based on excerpts from a section of the proposal I wrote.

Authors were required to explain “why they were the right persons to write the proposed paper“.

The details below are some of those I gave. And I believe they are what made my friend choose me.

Since 2003, I Have Maintained a Growing Library of Cost-Saving Farm Business Ideas articles – and Information Products.

Many visitors to my website, discover it (i.e. the website) via my articles, which turn up on their search engine results pages.

My popular Feed Formulation Handbook is promoted via such articles (and videos), on the website and via other online channels.

A farm business owner emails me to confirm he's made payment for my feed formulation handbook - 2 weeks after first making contact with me

All of the above brings me in frequent contact with farm business owners, feed manufacturers, policy makers and farm support experts, in and out of Africa.

Today, some are past buyers of my farm support products/services. A growing number are subscribers to my weekly newsletter and blog – while some follow me on Twitter and Facebook.

Following requests by an increasing number of my handbook’ buyers, I used my Excel-Visual Basic programming skills to develop a Ration Formulator software.

It enables persons who understand the principles and practice of feed formulation, to quickly formulate balanced rations for livestock, automatically – using the PC.

I also offer a service to help farmers establish best practice systems, to make their farms run more predictably, and profitably.

It’s called development of a Best Operating Process Management System(BOPMS)™.

A key component of a BOPMS™, is the use of customisable software, for tracking, and analysis of Farm Operations’ Key Performance Indicators (KPIs) e.g. Hen Day Production percentages.

During the last 30 days, I developed a Poultry Layer Farm Management software for a client’s farm – in South West Nigeria – and trained his two farm managers to use it.

My Professor friend is familiar with aspects of my above mentioned work. And I believe that’s what convinced him I could author this paper.

ThatAND the fact that he knows I have formal training, as an Extension Services professional.

You see, we both graduated from the SAME Agricultural Extension Services department, of the SAME university, in the SAME year (1992). I emerged top of the class, and he was second best graduating student.

[NB: Don’t ask me why I didn’t stay in formal academic circles like he did. That’s a story for another article :-) ]

My Experiences Tell Me Farm Business Owners, Need to Do Public Speaking to Influence Farm-Related Research!

The farm business owner mentioned above sends me another email to confirm he's received and downloaded the personalised copy of the feed formulation handbook I sent him about 24 hours after he paid for it.

In the process of working with farmers (as a mulitpreneurial Farm Research & Extension Advisory Services provider with a bias for Best Practice Solutions Development), I’ve gained deep insights into their unique needs and challenges.

That’s why I believe they need to educate those who “serve them”, about the unique experiences they have, and challenges they encounter.

We outsiders are unlikely to see as much as the farmers see, on THEIR farms – in their day to day operations.

Our short visits to interview them for research, and other purposes, are unlikely to reveal enough insights, to develop the best possible solutions – for their real world!

It if for this reason, that I propose farm business owners be formally invited to present, brief experience-sharing papers, at agricultural development fora – and related events.

Specifically, Farm Business Owners Should be Encouraged (Even Challenged):

1. To learn to compile data and information on their farm based experiences, and deliver lectures on lessons learned to the academia, policy makers etc.

NB: Farmers who use Excel-based recording of farm operations data, including chart based trending of KPIs will have no problems collating such data, for discussion in their talks.

2. To learn to THINK up, and SPEAK on, specific areas they want research done, to help them – more frequently.

The above will create opportunities for collaboration, between policy makers, the academia, farm support experts, and farm business practitioners.

This is likely to result in more useful research publications/solutions, that farm business owners can put to immediate, practical, and profitable use, with minimal help!

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He Called Me “Voleur” (Thief)!

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In this article, I discuss one big mistake some non-Nigerian Africans seem to be making in thinking about Nigeria. To do this, I share a true story about a Francophone African undergraduate in his 20’s, who called me a thief – and meant it. Why? Because he daily saw me typing away on an Internet connected laptop, and I never seemed to go out to “work”…LOL!

According to him, working that way (i.e. selling information products, custom Excel-VB driven software, web marketing systems development, and writing services online) was only possible in developed countries.

To him, that meant that I had to be engaged in 419 i.e. Internet scam business.

And since he already knew I was a Nigerian, that made perfect sense…LOL!

It did not matter what I showed him on my website, or where I told him I’d been (as detailed in my 11 page resume).

Indeed, the little effort I made, to educate him about potential opportunities awaiting him online, simply put him off. He repeated – angrily:

“Vous êtes voleur!”

Why Did He Say This? (Here’s What Led to Our Exchange)

Since I’d met him in April, he would once in a while ask me for money – and I’d give him. He was a student. Over 20 years before, I’d been on campus like him. I knew things could be tough for students, away from home.

That day however, I refused to give him money he asked for. This was because I’d noticed he never did anything useful with whatever one gave him. He spent recklessly, and also kept bringing a girl friend to sleep with, in a room he shared with the rest of us.

He left, and we never talked about it. But he kept behaving the same way. I tried to ignore his excesses, but I felt I had a duty, as an older person, to set him right.

So, one day I called him, and told him what I saw. Then I warned about the uncertain future, in terms of a post-university job search – which he needed to prepare for.

He assured me countless jobs awaited him in the labour market of his country:

“It’s not like Nigeria, where you don’t have jobs. Isn’t that why you moved here?”

(NB: In saying the above, he failed to recall what I’d told him in the past: That my clients were either foreigners based in his country, or who connected with me online. I relocated to take advantage of the stable power supply and polity. In reality, most people in his society could not afford my services!).

I told him about a personal friend, who’d graduated for years, and – like many others – had been unable to secure a decent job, despite his qualifications.

(NB: This friend, today, manages a mobile phone shop for an expatriate owner…with a”university degree”. But he’s actually better off than most others!)

My young friend countered that God would not let him have such an experience…!

I asked him if he thought that he alone knew “God”. In addition, I asked him, if all other graduates walking the streets, years after graduating, did not also pray to “God”, like he did (I actually meant to say “IF” he did pray – given his apparent lifestyle!).

That was where I hit a nerve.

He asked “What do you know about God? Do you even have a university degree?

He went on:

“Look, you’ve always questioned the usefulness of traditional formal education. Maybe you feel bitter because you did not attend university.”

He said the above, in apparent reference to what I’d told him, and his colleagues, about “schools killing creativity” – and why self-education must be embraced, even as one goes through school.

I’d never imagined I would have to show proof of my university level education to anyone!

(In my mind I said “Yepa. Chineke! This guy is challenging me to prove that I have a university degree? Mo baje!”)…LOL!

I was speechless for a few seconds, as I tried to think of how to express myself to get through to him.

You must understand that we were conversing in French, and I still struggled in some areas.

“How could he not know I had a degree, from all the time we’d spent together?” I wondered.

Then I remembered he was Francophone, and could barely read/speak/understand a word of English!

As a result, he would not have comprehended most of my website’s content, all the times he’d watched me updating it on my laptop. (I’ve been reluctant to use an online language translation service on my website, because of the absence of contextual interpretation – which can change intended meaning).

Then it also struck me that, he’d actually never even visited the website once, despite my telling him to!

As far as he was concerned therefore, I could be no different from Nigerians who came across the border to sell things in their country.

In fact, he said we were all the same, and that:

“Ghanaians speak proper English, while you Nigerians only speak Pidgin English!”

Proudly turning to his friend, he added:

“Yes. I was in their country. They don’t know how to speak good English. What they speak is Pidgin!”

“Where did he get that impression from?” I wondered.

A university level student thinking everyone in a country like Nigeria cannot speak “good” English?

“Incroyable!” I said to myself :-)

Then I remembered the story he told me of his one time visit to Nigeria, few years back.

During a long holiday period, he’d visited a distant relative in a remote part of South West Nigeria. They’d passed through Lagos on their way to and fro. And while there, they’d worked with locals and some farm hands.

You can imagine the calibre of people he must have spent his time with under such circumstances. The poor guy never got a chance to move around enough to “hear” anything but Pidgin English!

But drawing conclusions based on that, is NOT smart thinking expected of a “university undergraduate”!

I asked if he realised some of the most competent users of English, in Africa, were from Nigeria. I mentioned Chinua Achebe, Wole Soyinka and others.

He had no clue who they were. And he bluntly told me:

“Forget it. You people can’t speak good English, In fact I speak better than most of you!”.

All this from a guy who needed my help to translate a 300 word message from French to English? That day, because (again) he had no money, I had to use my personal bulk SMS mailing account, to send it to his relative’s mobile number in Nigeria. The latter called him within seconds of receiving the message.

That happened less than a week earlier. So it was not that he’d attended some crash course in English, to justify claiming he could speak English. He was simply deluded (for want of a better word)!

And that was when I knew I was wasting my time with him.

The Entire Exhange Pointed Me to One SAD Realisation

Many young Africans (even some adults) in Francophone Africa, have no inkling of what the web can do for them. They are all so closed up in their ordered, and stable societies. So much so, that they do not know using their creativity online, can have a direct impact on their income earning capabilities.

What’s more, they fail to realise they can START NOW, and need not wait to finish from school!

NB: I said “many” have this wrong orientation. I did NOT say “all”. That means I accept that there are exceptions. And I’ve met a number :-)

This is Why I’m Glad, and Proud, That I Was Born & Raised in Nigeria!

I do not mean to claim superiority over any other nationals. I repeat: my purpose here is NOT to put down people from other nations. Doing so, would serve no intelligent or useful purpose.

However, I believe the propensity of Nigerians to adopt – and make productive, income generating use of PC and Internet technology, is unparalled in Africa.

This is my considered opinion, based on years of experience, and careful observation.

The average Nigerian’s level of Internet awareness, outstrips that of most other Africans – especially in West Africa.

Do I have any specific statistics to back up my claims? Not any that I personally compiled.

But I’ve travelled quite a bit over the years, and actively interacted with people from different parts of Africa, and the world.

In addition, through my web marketing, over the past 10 years, I have related actively with people from various parts of Africa, and beyond.

The truth is that the rate of adoption of PC and Internet technology, for personal and business use, is phenomenally high in Nigeria.

Many surveys published about technology, social media, mobile phone usage etc in Africa, also attest the truth of what I’m saying here.

The only thing holding Nigeria back from using the above strengths, to realise its full potential as a true giant, is its shaky leadership.

BUT…and this is a big BUT…

…The mistake I see some other Africans making, is that they seem to think that Nigeria’s problem will never be solved. And as a result, they believe their economies will keep enjoying influx of EXTRA income, resulting from Nigerian/foreign owned solo-entrepreneurs and “companies” based in Nigeria, relocating to their countries.

Some even seem to take delight in using the “poor reputation” of Nigeria/Nigerians, to discredit honest Nigerians making productive use of the web, to earn a living – LIKE ME.

Well, for anyone guilty of the above, here’s some friendly advice: STOP doing that, and start thinking what you’ll do when things change!

I say this because WHEN (NOT if), Nigeria sorts out its leadership problem, its people will turn its fortunes around in the twinkle of an eye, making it a global leader.

That’s how self-empowered and ready Nigerians are. (NB: The Keyword is: “Self-empowered”!)

By then, Nigeria WILL become a safer and more cost-effective destination for investors. More Nigerians will also stay back and/or return home to do business. AND, as a result, Nigeria will start keeping more of the money generated by its businesses within its borders.

Remember: Nigeria is the largest market in Africa. So that’s a lot of money we’re talking about here!

I doubt the same can be said for many African countries – especially in West Africa – whose manpower remain grossly un-empowered. They’ve remained like that, despite the relative peace, orderliness and stability of leadership, and infrastructure they enjoy in their mostly smaller economies – compared to Nigeria.

Can someone please tell them to wake up, and do MORE, with what they have currently going for them! PLEASE!!!!

FINAL WORDS

I know. It’s true that many Nigerians seem currently more disposed to doing wrong, to get what they want.

But that’s just a phase.

With the growing number of “honest” positive change agents fighting to set Nigeria right, such Nigerians will eventually adopt positive avenues that will be created, to achieve their goals.

Why You Need to Give Your Children “POWER”, Before You Give Them Money

“Give your children power, before you give them money.” – Robert Kiyosaki

I had a completely different article in mind for today, on parenting. But when I shared Robert Kiyosaki’s above quote on Facebook earlier today, Efe Ohwofasa asked a question that made me respond with an epistle of sorts :-) By the time I was done, I realised it would make useful education for other parents.

Below: Screenshot of my posted quote and Efe’s question

Screenshot of my posted Robert Kiyosaki quote on Facebook, and Efe’s question...

He basically posted this question: “Power in what terms?”.

An excellent question. Because, for the un-initiated readers (i.e. those unfamiliar with Kiyosaki’s writing), the word “power” could mean many things.

And that could result in mis-interpretation of that quote – or confusion in the mind of the reader.

What Follows Below Is a Paraphrased Version of the Response I Gave on Facebook

The word “power” in that quote, refers to the ability to make finer distinctions in life.

In other words, one with such power would be able to think independently from the crowd. S/he would consequently be able to take smarter money management decisions, to achieve financial security.

The quote therefore implies that Kiyosaki  believes that’s the kind of power parents need to give their kids.

And I agree fully with him – based on my experiences as a child, and also drawing over 10 years as a parent (to 5 kids).

Giving Children Such “Power” Early In Life, Will Free YOU From “Parenting” Headaches Later In Life!

And that’s something any wise parent should aim to achieve.

No parent wants to worry about his/her grown up children, in old age. I know I don’t!

Empowered children will handle themselves and their affairs proficiently. Even when they encounter setbacks or difficulties in life, they will have the physical and intellectual capacity to recover/progress.

Simply put, a child given such “power” will often make the right choices, to reap success in life.

Virtually every one of Kiyosaki’s books, offers information and education to “EMPOWER” readers – especially parents – and their kids.

I bought the following three (3) books authored by him in 2000, from Amazon.com back in 2000:

“Rich Dad, Poor Dad”, “Rich Kid, Smart Kid”, and “If You Want to Be Rich and Happy, Don’t Go to School?”

I know there are others. But those are the ones that have made the most impact on me.

The 3rd one remains my favourite (i.e. If You Want to Be Rich and Happy, Don’t Go to School?). This is because it validates my argument about major defects in our traditional schooling system.

My argument is that formal schooling as done in most societies today, is NOT enough to prepare kids to achieve BALANCED success in the real world.

Many thought leaders apart from Kiyosaki, have said the same thing in recent times.

Two excellent examples are Sir Ken Robinson – knighted by the Queen of England for his work on education, and Seth Godin himself.

Both have repeatedly called attention to the fact that conventional schooling kills creativity in kids.

Ironically, Kiyosaki’s “If You Want to Be Rich and Happy, Don’t Go to School?” which raised these serious issues, has not gotten as much attention from parents, as the others!

This is especially so in Nigeria/Africa – where I live and was born/bred in.

The reason for this apathy is that “formal education” provision out here has become big business.

As a result, learners are no longer the centre of attention. They consequently emerge from “formal schooling” LESS than empowered. That’s why the typical “graduate” roams the streets, complaining about lack of jobs.

When challenged to consider self-employment s/he further moans: “I have no capital”.

In reality however, s/he struggles mainly because s/he cannot create solutions people want in society!

Creative Thinking is Not Necessarily a Function of Formal Educational Accomplishment

That’s why history has records of many who did not attend school, or who dropped out, that got rich.

And they did so by creating stuff we wanted.

Indeed, as I’ve mentioned earlier, most people who pass through formal schooling, tend to leave with LESS creativity, than they came in with.

It is for this reason, that those who know (like Kiyosaki, Godin and Sir Ken Robinson), are saying our current school systems kill creativity!

A Child Who Can Use His/Her Creativity Productively Has “Power”

S/he will know exactly what to do with money when you give it to him/her – and will not waste it.

I’ve been applying a lot of Kiyosaki’s ideas in coaching my kids. I explain how in my articles. For instance:  The Trick About Parenting (Based on A Tip from Robert Kiyosaki).

I’ve also come up with a few of my own ideas and concepts too. Read my article titled: Schools Can Kill Your Child’s Creativity – IF You Don’t Apply These Tips.

Interestingly, a stunning demonstration of creativity that my kids recently put up, has proven that this approach works. With respect to the foregoing, see a recent article I wrote as a tribute to them, titled: 10 Year Old Uses Dead Laptop Battery, to Build Home-Made Rechargeable Lamp.

The above story proves that “empowered” kids will naturally evolve into self-directed achievers!

To Empower YOUR kids, Start UN-LEARNING Anything From Your Schooling That May Impede You

“The illiterate of the 21st century, will not be those who cannot read or write. They will be those who cannot learn, unlearn or relearn.” – Alan Toffer

I recommend reading my parenting articles on this theme. Also read articles and/or watch videos by Robert Kiyosaki, Sir Ken Robinson, and Seth Godin on the same subject.

Incidentally, I mention, and link to many of the above authors’ works, in my parenting articles.

Here’s wishing you good – “parenting” – luck!