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PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring “Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions” – from HigherPerspectivesDotCom]

[DISCLAIMER: This issue of my weekly Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is a special public information and education service. However, nothing I offer here should be taken to be professional advice. It’s simply experience based information and education that I have chosen to share, because sharing done by others has helpe me to deal with my own challenges many times. Consult relevant professionals if you need help]

Narcissists are what I like to call “conscience-less MASTER manipulators”. To be one, you must be a pathological liar and someone with near zero Emotional Intelligence i.e an extreme disregard for other people’s feelings.

I have had to LIVE and relate closely with two different narcissists (one half the age of the other and of a different gender) at various stages of my life.

Mayo Clinic’s definition is particularly useful for painting a clear picture of what a person with NPD is like:

“Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in whi

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Tayo Solagbade's Performance Improvement IDEAS(PI Squared) Newsletter

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Monday 12th November 2018

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PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring “Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions” – from HigherPerspectivesDotCom]

[DISCLAIMER: This issue of my weekly Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is a special public information and education service. However, nothing I offer here should be taken to be professional advice. It’s simply experience based information and education that I have chosen to share, because sharing done by others has helpe me to deal with my own challenges many times. Consult relevant professionals if you need help]

Narcissists are what I like to call “conscience-less MASTER manipulators”. To be one, you must be a pathological liar and someone with near zero Emotional Intelligence i.e an extreme disregard for other people’s feelings.

I have had to LIVE and relate closely with two different narcissists (one half the age of the other and of a different gender) at various stages of my life.

Mayo Clinic’s definition is particularly useful for painting a clear picture of what NPD is:

“Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism”(Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662)dvam-npd-mayo

I assure you, they are the worst kind of TOXIC person one can ever have to deal with.

Most times you’re better of getting away to achieve zero or minimal contact, if your well being (especially psychological/emotional) is NOT to suffer.

Sadly, I have found that sometimes people do NOT even realize they are with a Narcissist, because they do NOT know the signs. Then there are those who know, but feel helpless about what to do.

I say this based on many personal experiences and observations, and the resultant damage on those victims I have witnessed. This is what convinced me of a need to create a resource to help others detect and deal with these kinds of wicked personalities in their lives.

By way of interest, narcissists are particularly bad for kids – so if you have one as a spouse or influential adult in the life of your child, KNOW that your child needs to be protected from that individual, before it is too late.

I believe no one has the right to subject others to such a painful existence as narcissists do. I know what it feels like to be at the receiving end of such person’s negative ministrations. Believe me, it can rapidly turn you into an emotional and psychological wreck.

I survived and fought back successfully because I was relentless in learning ways to do so – even while dealing with them.

However, my ability to handle people I’ve found with Narcissistic Personality Disorder took time to develop. I realize not everyone has the capacity to endure and persist in finding a way out like I did.

This is why I’m preparing a special slideshow presentation that offers information and education to empower others. The damage I have seen narcissists do to people is simply too GREAT for me to ignore!

Click here if you want to be notified when my special slideshow becomes available for download.

For now, I recommend you read the aptly titled article on this theme, previewed and linked below:

Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions

Narcissists are everywhere you turn in life.

You exercise alongside them at the gym, chat with them at the grocery store, worship with them at church, cheer on your kids together at youth sporting events.

They radiate qualities you admire and aspire to like confidence, a sense of humor, and the innate ability to know exactly what to say in any given situation.

Continue reading the above previewed article – click here

PS: Click here if you want to be notified when my special experience based educational slideshow on dealing with persons having NPD becomes available for download.

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Excel-VB Driven Ration Formulator

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1. Click here to learn more about this app - watch demo videos etc

2. Click here to watch a 4 part video in which I demonstrate how to use this app to formulate rations using real life data sent to me by an Algerian PhD student.

Click here to contact me about purchasing this product.

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Click here to download a detailed PDF user guide and watch 15 screen shot user guide tutorials of the Monthly Poultry Farm Manager that I now offer Farm CEOs.

Click here to watch a screenshot demonstration of the Excel-VB Driven Poultry Farm Manager I built for a client farm business in Ekiti state, South West Nigeria.

Click here to contact me about purchasing this product.

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