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No. 192: (a) Don’t Fret Over Fleeting or Fleeing Opportunities (Hint: Why I Rarely Hurry Over Anything – Especially In Business) (b) To Achieve Sustainable Success, Closely Monitor News About Current Affairs and Politics! – [MP3]!

Many people are truly GIFTED at ANALYZING what it takes to succeed …or why failure happens. What most seem to LACK, in my experience based opinion it the WILLINGNESS (and NOT the ability) to unflinchingly persist in APPLYING the insights they possess to achieve their (supposedly) valued goals.

This is why so many people ONLY TALK about succeeding in spite of adversity, but few EVER do it…

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Date: Monday 4th May 2015

No:192

Title: (a) Don’t Fret Over Fleeting or Fleeing Opportunities (Hint: Why I Rarely Hurry Over Anything – Especially In Business) (b) To Achieve Sustainable Success, Closely Monitor News About Current Affairs and Politics! – [MP3]!

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – Don’t Fret Over Fleeting or Fleeing Opportunities (Hint: Why I Rarely Hurry Over Anything – Especially In Business)

Many people are truly GIFTED at ANALYZING what it takes to succeed …or why failure happens. What most seem to LACK, in my experience based opinion it the WILLINGNESS (and NOT the ability) to unflinchingly persist in APPLYING the insights they possess to achieve their (supposedly) valued goals.

This is why so many people ONLY TALK about succeeding in spite of adversity, but few EVER do it…

Very few people are ever willing to KEEP GOING after success in the face of adversity – regardless of how long it takes. Yet many profess faith in the same God, who the bible says “let” a faithful Job experience hardship, just to prove to Satan, that Job would not deny Him (God)!

Most people instead pursue success as if they gave God some kind of SILENT ULTIMATUM to make them succeed!

The attitude with which the carry on is as if they are saying the following to Him (in their minds):

Chairman…abeg make sure I succeed in the next 5 years O, or before my start-up capital finish O. And by the way no forget to provide shock absorber for me O, so that in case my plans enter pothole, you go take am “bo mi ni ashiri” ….make people no go dey see me dey suffer. Ehen, a don tell you O Baba… If not, me I go comot for dat business find another thing do!

For my non-Nigerian subscribers, who may be unfamiliar with Nigerian pidgin (broken) English, here’s a (“funkified” but otherwise literal) translation of the above:

Hey Big guy, I need you to set things up really nicely for me to succeed within the next 5 years or at least before I run out of startup funds. Oh and don’t forget to cushion things for me in all the necessary areas. I don’t want any undue stress, and I certainly would appreciate your protecting me from any embarrassing experiences. Hear me now, Big Guy, or if things get too harsh, don’t blame me if I quit and move on to a different business!.

Some phoney people in business who think along the above stated lines run around claiming to be “Serial Entrepreneurs”(SEs): But they are NOT authentic SEs!

A true Serial Entrepreneur will NOT leave a trail of DEAD businesses behind!

Most times, s/he would have failed quite a bit, but eventually arrived at a stage where s/he sells his/her businesses (or ideas/concepts/innovations) for profit – sometimes in order to move into a new line of interest.

In contrast, phony self-proclaimed SEs will rarely have ONE business from their past that they sold for profit or that has remained operational.

Rather, they are typically to be found – every few years – using a new business name, most likely in a new market, pursuing yet another big, fancy goal, with hefty profits to be made.

They are the typical hurry merchants always looking for fast breaks to success.

Unfortunately, the Creator (contrary to what some who claim to know and believe in him think) rarely interferes in how the “game of life” ends for EACH person.

He has set the stage, defined the rules (natural, spiritual). The rest is up to us. We have to do the work to get the results we want!

It’s just like sports e.g. weight lifting where the rule is: “No Pain, No Gain.”

You cannot lift heavy weights if you do NOT TRAIN to be able to do so. And your ability to do so will NOT improve overnight.

Instead, you MUST expend major time and effort to progressively build the muscle mass needed to progress.

“Very little of the authentic success you desire will happen without some PAIN, and possibly “suffering” of some kind (typically in form of repeated, sometimes prolonged delays, disappointments and setbacks) being experienced by you, and those around you. How you DEAL with those unpleasant experiences that occur as you work towards your desired goal is what will determine if you ultimately quality for success or not.” – Tayo K. Solagbade

Few people ever get to the point that they realize the above stated truth…

Even fewer ever get to the point that they ACCEPT that it applies to them!

Yet, many of the most phenomenal success achievers this PLANET has ever hosted – and who MOST OFUS ADMIRE – have repeatedly shared sentiments consistent with this stated TRUTH!

For instance, here’s what one of them, who happened to overcome being born deaf and mute, to achieve worldwide fame and recognition said:

 “Character cannot be developed in ease and quiet. Only through experience of trial and suffering can the soul be strengthened, ambition inspired, and success achieved.” – Helen Keller

REMEMBER THIS: In order to develop the character needed to achieve lasting, authentic success, YOU SIMPLY CANNOT BE IN A HURRY. ..

Indeed, I have learned the hard way, from YEARS of hard won experience, that HURRYING is rarely a beneficial way to go about pursuing anything, least of all authentic success.

Know that whatever is to be yours cannot be taken from you. That’s a law set by the Creator.

What you should therefore focus on is building yourself, preparing yourself, to make the most of EVERY opportunity that may come your way.

Once you do that, the forces setup by the Creator (God to some), will cooperate with you, to attract what you want to YOU, at the right time, and in the right place.

You can NOT force – or worse chase – success to happen. Your success will happen when the RIGHT conditions for it to do so are CREATED in your life.

So Stop Fretting Over Fleeting or Fleeing Opportunities

Nothing that is yours can be lost or taken by anyone else. Therefore dispense with hurrying.

Instead be patient and LEARN what you need to know to get that which you want. During this period, you may experience delays, and some pain/suffering.

But take heart, because – as Jim Rohn noted – such adversity often forces the human spirit to GROW…and you need that!

This is so because the GROWTH you achieve will better equip you to intelligently pursue the goal(s) you want to achieve.

If you diligently persist in doing the above, with honesty, and integrity, AND FAITH in your Creator, you WILL achieve what is called UNCOMMON SUCCESS that makes others marvel.

What I have said above will work for you no matter what area of endeavor you are engaged in life.

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2 of 2: WEB MARKETING: To Achieve Sustainable Success, Closely Monitor News About Current Affairs and Politics! [FREE MP3 DOWNLOAD]

“If you want to achieve sustainable success in business (especially in a volatile market place like Nigeria), it’s in your best interest to develop interest in current affairs and politics, because those are the two key ingredients that really keep this country from having a stable sociopolitical climate.
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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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Why You Need to Seriously Consider Taking Self Defence Lessons (True Story)

One minute we were all browsing quietly in the cafe. The next minute all hell had broken loose as a hefty chap put off the generator, then came in and slapped the smallish young man who owns the cafe!

My mouth fell open as both men staggered out of the cafe as they wrestled, close to where I was seated outside, using the WiFi connection.

The big guy was cursing aloud all the while making threats of all kinds.Other customers in the cafe hurriedly rushed out, fearful for their own safety.

Knowing he could not match the brute strength of his bigger opponent, the young cafe operator wisely took advantage of his assailant’s clumsiness to extricate himself and run to the road.

But his attacker followed him, making even more threats, while daring him to wait. At a point we lost sight of them, one chasing the other with a heavy piece of wood picked from the ground…a truly bizarre spectacle!

Someone put the generator back on as some people began leaving for home. It was 8.45p.m. The cafe normally closed at 9p.m. A few of us stayed back to guard the cafe against potential looting in the owner’s absence.

At about 9p.m, he returned looking harassed but unharmed. With him were a few friends whose home he’d run to, and who had rallied round to confront the thug.

Only then had the crazy guy retreated, but not without promising to return with his own “boys”.

As he packed up to close, I asked the cafe owner what had caused the fight.

He replied that it was because he’d refused to give the hefty 10 minutes of free browsing time to use!

We were all stunned beyond words. All that drama had been because of a delclined request for a favour?

Unbelievable!

On my way home, I reflected on the incident and an idea I’d been toying with for a few months came to my mind again.

It was the need to become proficient enough in self defence as a means of protecting onesself in situations like this which occur often in Nigeria’s violence prone environs.

You see, I have experienced getting attacked and I know being able to fight back can buy you time for help to come. And it could even save your life!

Rarely do assault cases get investigated to the point of being resolved in Nigeria. That’s why most people don’t bother reporting.

My argument however is that one can at least learn to protect onesself against bodily harm. And the way to do that is usimg some form of martial arts in self defense.

Many times people who recklessly attack others like that crazy guy did today, do so because they know most people do not know how tight back. If they were in a country like China, where martial arts learning is compulsory from an early ageq, they would think twice before challenging someone not familiar to them to a fight!

Today’s incident has made me resolve to act on my idea of taking self defence lessons. My kids will also be enrolled as well. That ability could just save their lives some day.

I suggest you give some serious thought to doing the same thing too.

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No. 191: (a) How to Keep Your Confidence Up When Your Fortunes Are (Seemingly) Down (b) To Achieve Sustainable Success, Closely Monitor News About Current Affairs and Politics! – [MP3]!

How confident would you be if your plans were failing so badly that everyone around you knew it? What if you had a business setback, and someone who had warned you against going into THAT business made of point of stopping over to say: “I told you so”?

How confident would you feel subsequently, about DOING IT, compared to when everything was going smoothly and everyone admired you for your success?

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Title: (a) How to Keep Your Confidence Up When Your Fortunes Are (Seemingly) Down (b) To Achieve Sustainable Success, Closely Monitor News About Current Affairs and Politics! – [MP3]!

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING: How to Keep Your Confidence Up When Your Fortunes Are (Seemingly) Down

How confident would you be if your plans were failing so badly that everyone around you knew it? What if you had a business setback, and someone who had warned you against going into THAT business made of point of stopping over to say: “I told you so”?

How confident would you feel subsequently, about DOING IT, compared to when everything was going smoothly and everyone admired you for your success?

Most people may NEVER know the answer to that question until failure has hit them: and the unpleasantness of it’s presence has dawned on them e.g via loss of friends, lack of money etc

Failure does NOT attract friends or admirers. Most people draw self-confidence/esteem from being sought out by others. But when a person is failing, few people readlly want to stick around him/her!

That reality however never hits most of us until failure happens!

Many people never recover from that shocking experience afterwards. That’s why we are told many businesses fail in their first few years. The truth is that many of those business owners, did NOT fail. They just LOST confidence in their ability to succeed.

You see, the terrifying experience of seeing all that previously worked for them, no longer working, even after they’d thought they KNEW how to make it work, can be traumatizing.

Only few people are able to climb back up to success after experiencing serious failure.

Those who bounce back from such failure to succeed, and who often do so at a HIGHER level than they were when failure struck, tend to have ONE thing in common.

What they have in common is however NOT related to attributes most people often employ in assessing potential e.g. IQ, educational level, social status etc

It’s the simple attribute of unshakeable SELF-CONFIDENCE i.e. the belief in one’s self, regardless of how badly on falls or fails in the pursuit of authentic success.

Isn’t it funny? Just confidence?

That’s something you need not go to school to learn!

You don’t need money to acquire it either!!

And yet it’s presence or absence can determine the success or failure of ANY human being in the world – sports champions, and even world leaders!!!

Those who are able to CONTINUE being confident – no matter the severity of failure they encounter – ALWAYS defeat failure!

But how does one do that (i.e. STAY confident), when one’s world is (seemingly) falling apart all around him/her?

How do you stay confident, when it feels like you are in a storm that just won’t subside?

How do you stay confident, when setback after setback, bad news after bad news seem to come your way…as if you are a magnet for it? (Especially when you have been previously “blessed” with a run of good luck that’s made you the envy of many?!)

How do you stay confident, when despite your best efforts everything you try doing to turn the tide around simply fails to work…like it used to???

I offer you tested experience based answers in my 2 part MP3 Pod cast series titled “How to Keep Your Confidence Up When Your Fortunes Are Down“.

The first part is available to anyone who requests it (request it here).

The 2nd part is available ONLY to members of my Inner Circle.

NB: This pod cast is the feature for my Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter of Monday 4th May 2015.

I’m reinventing my Web Marketing System. So, unlike in past issues, when I simply put out my stuff for direct and immediate access on my website/this blog, I’ll be periodically changing the delivery format and terms of access in which I make them available.

Why change the format and terms of access periodically?

That’s because I’m a results focused person: I believe in performance measurement for continuous improvement. That’s why I have a habit of checking to see what’s working and what’s not, and then narrowing down to doing MORE of the latter and LESS of the former.

Since 2005, I’ve used mainly WORDS/TEXT for my web marketing, only employing multimedia (videos/audio) sparingly. Most of it has always been directly accessible.

Now, with over a decade of hard won experience under my belt, during which time I’ve achieve reproducible and repeatable web marketing success that now affords me name recognition on an increasing scale, I’ve decided to shake things up…and like James Brown used to say: Put a spin on it!

That’s why the rest of today’s issue is available ONLY as a 2 part MP3 downloads series.

If you’d like to listen to part 1 of my 2 part pod cast on “How to Keep Your Confidence Up When Your Fortunes Are (Seemingly) Down“, simply click fill/submit this form to let me know.

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2 of 2: WEB MARKETING: To Achieve Sustainable Success, Closely Monitor News About Current Affairs and Politics! [FREE MP3 DOWNLOAD]

“If you want to achieve sustainable success in business (especially in a volatile market place like Nigeria), it’s in your best interest to develop interest in current affairs and politics, because those are the two key ingredients that really keep this country from having a stable socio-political climate.
And for as long as that stable socio-political climate does not exist, every person running a business will probably have to sleep with one eye open.” – Tayo K. Solagbade

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Burt helps those he mentors (experts-who-speak) to Position, Package, Promote, and Present* themselves successfully to clients (*He calls them the 4Ps). That’s why it’s no surprise that on Burt’s website, considerable space capital is devoted to useful business marketing articles as well as products.

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A few years ago, Burt contributed an article to a powerful publication titled “The Most Effective Articles Ever – By The World’s Top Marketers“. That 574 page ebook features timeless marketing advice from 71 of the world’s top marketers – including Jack Trout, Joe Vitale, Yanik Silver…and Burt Dubin.

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But that’s NOT the main reason I represent and recommend him. I have benefited in many ways by learning from Burt. Through his writing, his audio recordings, and from directly relating with him.

Before we teamed up in 2011, I’d been studying his work and adapting it to succeed in my work from way back in 2002. It does not matter what part of the world you’re in. If you know how to adapt them to suit your peculiar local needs, Burt’s ideas and strategies WILL work for you. I am living proof of it!

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“Tayo, I honestly believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything he does. Your commitment and effort has been outstanding….Thanks for all your hard work since I’ve been here – you will be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. – Andy”(R. Jones)*

*Operations Manager, Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery, December 2001 (Handwritten comments in farewell/xmas cards sent to Tayo Solagbade following his resignation to start his own business).

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Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Sole Agent For Burt Dubin’s Speaker Mentoring Service In Africa

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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Become a SUPER Accountant, Engineer, Marketer or Insurance Broker

Many financial reporting apps allows users to EXPORT their data into MS Excel. That’s because it’s data handling and report generation capabilities are unrivalled. But Excel is so versatile that it is also used for many non-financial purposes as well.

Since 2004, Chartered Accountants, Quantity Surveyors, Insurance Brokers, Marketing managers and owners of SMEs have hired me to develop Excel-VB apps.

Many were good with MS Excel, but lacked my ability to “program” Excel. My mission is to coach those interested to program Excel like I do, so as to spawn a new breed of skilled professionals that will expand the market I have created for spreadsheet solutions out here.

NB: For those who may not have the time or interest to learn, I can build the app you need: ( Contact me)

Does your work require you to carry out elaborate data collection and anaysis for formal report generation purposes?

Do you wish you could do so faster, with less effort and in less time?

Do you in fact wish you could AUTOMATE most of what you routinely do with MS Excel so that you could get more work done?

Many professionals, like those I have mentioned above, do their work using MS Excel without knowing how to program it.

I discuss real life examples for EACH group, in a special podcast I’m publishing next week.

Click here to let me know if you want to be notified when it goes live.

Insights From A Yoruba Proverb On Choosing a Leader [Case Study: Nigeria’s 2015 Presidential Elections]

The following DEEP Yoruba proverb came to my mind few days ago:

“Won ti ti òjé bo olosa lowo. Owa ku baba nla baba eni to o bo!”

I explain below, how it gave me interesting insights relevant to General Buhari’s impending presidency.

But first, here’s a not-easy-to-do contextual translation into English for non-Yoruba speaking readers…!

My time in Unibadan (1987 to 1992) exposed me to some room mates who ate Yoruba proverbs like food. They helped me develop appreciation for proverbs.

But doing accurate translations of Yoruba proverbs to English can be hard to achieve.

One needs to provide a context relevant interpretation to ensure the meaning the English speaking listener gets is that which a Yoruba speaking listener does. That’s not always easy to do.

Fela Anikulapo Kuti, the Afro beat creator and legend, once said in an interview(I heard it on a Lagbaja CD, that I took with me as a gift for family friends in Sheffield, when I visited the UK back in 2000):

“English is not expression. Expression is in all other languages all over Nigeria”

To illustrate, he said to the interviewer:

“Oya tell me what is ‘Eku ile’ in English?”

The journalist had no answer – because there was/is none:

It’s linguistically impossible to accurately communicate what “Eku Ile” really means in Yoruba, using English language, to a non-Yoruba speaker!

There is simply no way to use English words in any combination, no matter how clever, to FULLY communicate what is understood by native speakers when they hear “Eku Ile”!

The above situation applies to the proverb I began this article with…

I’m not sure one can really fully translate it for English speaking others to understand the way one versed in Yoruba would.

And so, for that reason, I apologize to non-Yoruba speaking READERS who may be here, if they still do not “get it” after I’m done below…

So, here’s my humble attempt at a literal translation the above proverb:

“The ring of spiritual authority/power has been put on the finger of the “wizard”. Let’s now see who has the guts (or as Nigerians would say “the liver”) to try take it off him!”

Below, I use General Buhari’s current situation as a basis for providing a contextual interpretation for this proverb.

Here’s the insight I gained about General Buhari’s impending presidency based on the above proverb:

I’ve been reflecting on what’s happening in Nigeria as the date for handover to Buhari as president-elect approaches.

Certain signs strongly suggest to me that many naughty power players in the Nigerian space have come to the realization that it will NOT be business as usual under the incoming General’s government. And they are trying to make the most of the time they have left, so as to move on to other things or to other places.

In the past, with some other “Nigerian” as incoming president, who would NOT have had the squeaky clean reputation of Buhari, and his renowned aversion for all things corrupt, they would have boldly stuck around and plotted/schemed ways to remain relevant or in control.

However, with the MAN they know, who has remained the SAME despite aging over MANY decades after leaving office, they are under no illusions about his incorruptibility.

What’s more, they KNOW that his antecedents prove he cannot be pushed around or led by the nose.

Far from it. They KNOW he is a MAN of his own, who will do what NEEDS to be done, no matter whose Ox is gored. And so, they KNOW the wise thing to do is to FLEE!

That’s why this proverb came to my mind.

You see, if Buhari had not won, they would have continued all the nonsense they did – and said – up till the elections ended.

But now that he has WON legitimate access to the presidency as the C-I-C, it obvious to them the game is up (For instance, look how quickly the Army “found” his certificate that was being “demanded” right up till the elections took place!!).

In other words…

“Won ti ti òjé bo olosa lowo. Owa ku baba nla baba eni to o bo!”

Sai Buhari!!!

PS: By way of interest…ON THE SUBJECT OF LEARNING YORUBA PROVERBS…

To ensure my kids arrive adulthood better equipped to use Yoruba proverbs than I was, I published recently, the first in my audio book series titled “10 Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs for Children – and Other Learners”. Click here to watch/listen to the audio book playback on my Youtube Channel.

It is available as a PDF from my Online Store (click here): Online store buyers are advised to get in touch with me via tayo at tksola dot com, if they want the slideshow version with autoplay audio. You can also use this web form to send a message.

You can also get it as an automated Slideshow with autoplaying MP3 Audio files (click here for details) via direct download from the web or it can be delivered on branded auto run DVD to your doorstep.

BELOW: A screen shot of the DVD’s branded navigation menu, which is always personalized for the owner will be embedded below tomorrow…

Click here to read the true story about how a lady banker called about purchasing my “Ten Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs for Children” – and later revealed she knew me from way back in 2002, my startup year, when we both served with an NGO as volunteer tutors.

In addition to buying my DVD, she had some VERY nice things to say to me, about me, with regard to how I’d influenced her without knowing it.

What was that saying again: It’s GOOD to be GOOD! Click here to read the full story.

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2. A short Youtube clip showing the DVD in use …

The DVD sells for N5k, and comes with PDF versions of some other books I’ve published as FREE bonuses. Buyer just pays courier fee.

[NB: Read this article (click) in which I first announced this proverbs learning product for sale. It’s available in my online store as a PDF. Those who want the Slideshow audio book version with clickable links to MP3 files, that’s delivered on DVD have to send me a message for details of how to get it using THIS form (click)]

Don’t Let Charlatans Mislead You (Hint: Seek Out Authentically Successful Persons to Learn From)!

Today I took my 9 year old daughter and her 3 older brothers to attend a “mentorship conference” for CEOs where they got to hear some great minds share TRUE stories about success and how failure HELPS to achieve it. I’ll share details in my Monday newsletter to help aspiring/existing CEOs.

Like I tell people, this website – www.tayosolagbade.com – is NOT an ego trip.

It is based on authentic REAL world experiences. If you have doubts about the accuracy or reliability of ANYTHING you see here, ask me directly to request clarification. Jumping to uninformed conclusions can deny you MAJOR access to life changing information and education.

Ask me. Challenge Me. Check with someone else you think may also KNOW, and then use what you learn to take me up on ANYTHING I say here.

Be careful…

Don’t allow the charlatans out there discourage you from using the information offered here to DOUBLE check what THEY are telling you to do in the areas I cover here.

Instead I invite you to use the materials offered here to “TEST” the depth of the knowledge/competence of your “expert”.

By having information that GUIDES you in a way that you avoid making COSTLY mistakes in your pursuit of success in your chosen field, you ultimately increase your chances of succeeding.

Jose Mourinho, who is today a renowned coaching success in international club soccer, did not play professional football prior to becoming a coach.

Yet, very few successful ex-pro footballers can match the results that Mourinho has produced in his career as a coach.

We cannot ALL do the same things, the same way.

In my case for instance, I plan to launch a Farm Business and Extension Advisory Services centre. It will have a pilot scale farm on which I will test ideas and solutions I develop for farm business – my primary target audience.

I already have extensive knowledge and experiences/insight into the business from over a decade of delivering custom solutions to farm CEOs.

When my farm centre is launched I will use it to FURTHER demonstrate the effectiveness of the solutions I offer and also offer MORE support services to those who request them.

Unlike the Chelsea coach, I actually studied what I am engaged in – Agricultural Extension services – for five years at the University of Ibadan – graduating top of my class with a 2nd Class Upper division honors( 5.9 Cumulative Grade Point Average).

But that’s just the book part.

During the last three years of my stay on campus, I was a member of the SFRF, and in my final year served as supplies coordinator of that body. What I learnt from being in that group – comprising 98% Veterinary Medicine students – about livestock farming, many people would spend five years studying animal husbandry and still not know!

Learn more about SFRF by getting a copy of my Feed Formulation Handbook.

That I do not have my farm up and running at the moment does not mean I cannot help YOU with your own farm startup and/or management.

If you do not eliminate this kind of thinking you will LOSE a lot of major benefits you stand to gain from having direct personal access to my unique insight on this subject.

The choice is however yours to make….

For those willing to take the leap of faith to benefit from what I offer, I look forward to helping YOU cost-effectively startup and/or manage your farm business, to reap optimal profits.

A good way I recommend you get started, so you can get ALL I offer at massive discount concessions, is by joining my Inner Circle.

Note: Having said all of the above, please REMEMBER that you DO NOT have to accept my ideas – and I strongly suggest you seek the counsel of competent professionals in making up your mind.

 

Even When Competent, You CAN STILL Fail: 3 Abilities You MUST Develop To Protect Yourself!

People sometimes fail NOT because they are unqualified or incompetent, but because they are unable to manage themselves during hard times. They cave in under pressure. Our schools don’t teach us how to deal with adversity. I think they should. It’s because they don’t, that many true geniuses in poorly regulated environments like Nigeria’s, often struggle, get frustrated, and if lucky to gain access, flee abroad to succeed!

In this article, I share the kind of thinking that will enable you repeatedly overcome adversity and achieve progress in the pursuit of authentic success, with integrity – even if breaking new grounds in a very difficult environment.

1. Keep A Positive Mind Set: Many people today are so good at talking about how to be positive in spite of failure. Never to give up, no matter how difficult things get. How to carry on even if friends or loved ones stop believing in, or abandon you.

I often wonder just how many of the wonderful radio and TV presenters who “preach” while on air about going after your dreams, and never giving up, REALLY walk their talk, when confronted with challenges in their own lives.

Over eight years of personal experience convince me that very few people actually apply these principles in their lives when they are faced with difficult situations. Many people compromise. They say one thing, but do another. They fail to act with integrity.

I am not trying to make myself look good here, but my insistence on leaving a high paying job in a multinational corporation 10 years ago, to pursue my dream of being self-employed, won me little applause amongst those who knew me then.

I lost many “friends” (sometimes I wonder if I ever “had” them?). Most carefully distanced themselves, preferring to wait and see if I would sink or swim. Yet I stayed committed. Today, my work speaks for me.

To achieve similar results, you will need to maintain a Positive Mindset.

2. Visualisation: The ability to imagine what can be; to envision what is possible – regardless of what IS the current reality around you, is one that EVERY person who wishes to achieve his/her dreams MUST develop.

The picture you create in your mind and/or the images that dominate your thoughts, if kept positive, and in tune with your desires or longings, will ultimately attract to you, those things you want.

This is not some fancy theory or hypothesis. It is a concept that has been proven to work in real-life for as long as man has existed. I am able to say this because I have successfully applied the principles and philosophies advocated in a book written in the early 1900s that attested to this fact. The book is called Science of Getting Rich, and is available as a FREE PDF download on the Internet.

I recommend that, if you want your dreams to come true, start imagining in vivid terms what exactly you want to SEE or FEEL when you achieve your dreams -and then take definite steps to work towards achieving them. It is the key to your ultimate success.

3. Develop Mental Stamina: In the course of my work out here, I have studied a lot of people, and come to realise that most of them are really good people – deep down. Many do not want to be crooked in doing business. They do not really want to cheat others, if they can avoid it.

Unfortunately, they have not developed the ability to ENDURE prolonged suffering without seeking undignified outlets to escape from it. Mental stamina makes it difficult for adversity to wear you down or break your resolve or commitment to your goal. No one is born with it – you DEVELOP it.

Incidentally, one powerful way to develop your mental stamina is through visualization. In other words, keeping the vision of your desired “future” in mind, gives you needed mental strength – STAMINA – to keep going, no matter what obstacles come your way.

Summary

I often tell young people I coach that most times out here in Nigeria, many people who fail in their bid to achieve success in chosen endeavours, do NOT do so because they lack the technical competence or “know how”.

Quite frequently, they would have obtained needed training or education to competently function in their chosen endeavours. Unfortunately, they fail to equip themselves with guiding philosophies like those outlined in this article, to help them overcome inevitable setbacks.

It does not matter what you do for a living – Fashion Design, Music or Photography. Bad times will be mixed with good times as you pursue you goals. It is a FACT of life. How you react when things are not going the way you want, will determine to a great extent how successful you become in the long run. This explains why the most talented doctor, for instance, may not end up being the most successful or accomplished amongst peers.

So, study and apply the ideas offered above, and you will be better equipped to succeed.

Automate Your Farm Records Keeping For Profitable Farm Planning

In this article, I explain the importance of establishing and maintaining reliable farm records keeping systems as it is a crucial requirement for successful planning & profitable management of your farm business. As they say, if you do not record it you cannot measure it. And if you do not measure it, you cannot control it. Which is the same thing as saying you cannot plan for it. In essence, I am saying that keeping detailed and accurate farm records  is a crucial requirement for effective and profitable farm planning.

Your Farm NEEDS Diligently Kept Records

One thing lacking in most agricultural entreprises out here is detailed and accurate records of activities that take place as operations are carried out.

For peasant farmers who are usually illiterate, it can possibly be considered pardonable if they can’t say what inputs (herbicide types, quantities etc) they used the past year. But for the growing population of literate farmers, there cannot be any excuse. Then again literate or otherwise, every farm owner who wishes to enjoy reasonably predictable profits MUST as a matter of priority keep and analyse detailed farm records.

Without detailed and accurate records, farm business planning and management effectively becomes a game of guestimations and unguided assumptions which rarely produce desired results with consistency.

To effectively manage a farm, the farmer needs to have ready access to extensive information concerning past costs and returns, input use, production levels, existing financial situation, including the physical conditions of the farm. S/he also has to know about likely future costs, future returns of production etc. This information can be acquired from farm records and accounts, as well as from all farm sources like research/experimental stations, demonstration plots, universities etc.

In essence, the farmer needs to have records of what has happened before, is happening now and what is likely to happen in future.

What Exactly Can Farmers Do With Farm Records?

The following are specific BENEFICIAL uses farmers will readily find for diligently kept farm records :

1. Farm Planning & Budgetting: The most realistic way to plan farm production and prepare accompanying budgets is to refer to estimates based on historical data available from past periods of operation. If it’s a new farm, then other sources will be referred to.

2. Farm Performance Evaluation: Without accurate physical and corresponding accounting records, it will be practically impossible to accurately establish how well a farm entreprise has performed over a defined period.With accurate physical records and corresponding records, evaluation of the farm performance is easy, simple and a matter of routine, PLUS one is sure of progress of the farm business over a time period.

Specifically, accurate records and accounts show how, within a period of time, labour costs or feed costs for example have either been increasing or decreasing, and how revenue from various entreprises has been increasing or decreasing either because of price changes or changes in physical production.

3. Daily Farm Decision Making: Farm records and accounts are essential for day to day decision making especially because they show the strong and weak points in management. A farm entreprise may not be doing well because of a particular factor of production, but such a factor may be difficult to identify/isolate in the abscence of good records and accounts.

For instance in pig farming, it is reported that good farm performance depends on large and frequent litters, economical use of feed, mortality rate, marketing the pigs at the right weight etc. Without accurate records and accounts therefore, it would be dificult to identify which of these factors is contributing to low profits for instance. The records will show which areas need improving upon.

4. Securing Credit/Loan Support: There is probably no bank which will not require a farm business to produce adequate physical records with the corresponding accounting records and the overall farm plan, before it can give credit/loan support.

Incidentally, this requirement helps both parties: the bank uses it to know the current state of the farm as well as offers advice. The farmer on the other hand will work to achieve his/her goals in order to fulfill his/her obligation to pay back the extended credit.

Banks need to be convinced that money given out will be used for what is being asked for, and that can only be done by presenting records of what one has already been doing.

5. Taxation & Insurance Purposes: To avoid over or underpaying taxes, good records and accounts are essential. Insurance on relevant farm assets can only be done properly if records are available and accurate.

Summary

a. By keeping farm records and accounts, you, the farmer will be equipped to periodically evaluate your overall farm performance using three (3) simple but powerful ratios which I describe in full detail in my customisable on-demand talks on Best Practice Farm Performance Measurement and Improvement (Call 0803-302-1263 for details).

b. You will know where to place emphasis (using the 80:20 Pareto principle), and will be able see dangerous trends earlier and take needed evasive action.

c. Diligently kept farm records and accounts will help you determine where and/or when you are under (or over) estimating your farm costs (or sales/gains).

d. Good farm records and accounts help reliably measure the impact of unexpected market changes on the farm business’ bottom line e.g. policy and price changes announced by government.

In relation to the above last part, the use of custom software automation for records keeping would enable you punch in the new input prices and quickly see how badly it affects your planned/projected production and/or sales margins – as well as other key performance indicators.

Do you own – or plan to own – a farm business? Why not consider automating your farm records keeping and accounting using a custom software application like those that I build for my clients? You will be able to cost-effectively and efficiently realise all the benefits outlined above in the body of this article. Call me on 0803-302-1263 to learn how you can get a low cost software built for YOUR farm business today!

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This article is an educational commercial about an aspect of the Best Operating Process Management System (BOPMS™) that SDAc’s CB Solutions can help you setup for your farm business.

In the BOPMS™, major emphasis is placed on the need to streamline operations(via best practice initiatives) in a manner that allows easy integration of PC automation to reduce time, effort and resources needed PLUS increase output and accuracy in the entire farming process,so that the business becomes MORE profitable. Click here to learn more.

NB: The ideas, concepts, tools and resources described in this article (which was first published online on 7th Feb 2008), can be successfully applied to non-farm businesses. Click here to learn more.