Hmmm…something made me Google for more on this title/theme and suddenly I discovered what would appear to be the ORIGINAL source of the excellent thoughts I shared to my Facebook wall on Christmas Day (screenshot below):
Hmmm…something made me Google for more on this title/theme and suddenly I discovered what would appear to be the ORIGINAL source of the excellent thoughts I shared to my Facebook wall on Christmas Day (screenshot below):
I’ve recently begun writing about Narcissism and how a Narcissistic person can cause great damage to others – especially his/her intimate partner and more importantly, ANY kids they have to parent.
Read PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring “Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions” – from HigherPerspectivesDotCom]
In fact the damage a Narcissistic parent can do to a kid, which I have seen firsthand, can be quite serious – which is why I’ve chosen to draw attention to it.
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Monday 17th December 2018
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I’ve recently begun writing about Narcissism and how a Narcissistic person can cause great damage to others – especially his/her intimate partner and more importantly, ANY kids they have to parent.
In fact the damage a Narcissistic parent can do to a kid, which I have seen firsthand, can be quite serious – which is why I’ve chosen to draw attention to it.
My resolve to do this stems from a scary discovery I have made, that MANY supposed experts/professionals/social workers I have come across out here seem to be completely unaware of what that serious personality disorder is, how to identify it in a person, and the damage such a person can do to those s/he relates within the home.
Their gross ignorance causes them to miss valuable opportunities to STOP the (often emotional/psychological) abuse being visited by a Narcissist particularly on the kids they parent – and also on the partners they co-parent them with (who they sometimes subject to Parental Alienation).
[NB: I argue, in a separate article to be published soon, that if a person is correctly assessed to be Narcissistic, if s/he decides to have kids, the case could be made for his/her parenting of such kids to be closely monitored to prevent possible harm to them.]
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Title: The Real Effect of Narcissistic Parenting on Children [Narcissists raise children who suffer from crippling self-doubt.]
Why does it matter if a parent is a narcissist? How does that hurt a child? You may be asking these questions if you are a person co-parenting with a narcissistic ex; someone raised by a narcissistic parent; one who is in a relationship with a narcissist; or maybe a divorce professional working on a case that involves a narcissistic parent. Given my research and clinical experience, I want to provide some education and awareness about how this disorder hurts children.
Author: Karyl McBride Ph.D. | The Legacy of Distorted Love
I say the above from VERY personal experience with Narcissists in my relationship with a co-parenting Narcissistic partner and also as an offspring to a Narcissistic parent.
Neither of those experiences is one that I wish on my worst enemy (if I had anyone I thought of in that manner).
In other words, they tell cold blooded, brazen lies to your face, about what they did to you, as well as what happened between you and them, in ways that benefit them at your expense (making you look bad).
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The article previewed/linked below highlights a dilemma that a person in dispute with a Narcissistic partner is likely to face.
=========Title: WHAT HAPPENS WHEN SOMEONE LIES UNDER OATH
Preview: The opposing party started making wild accusations. She said I had been abusive. She said I was unsafe with our children. She said I took money. My ex-wife was literally re-writing our history and lying under oath.
How can I disprove something that never happened? Do judges really believe wild accusations with no proof? The worst part is that my soon to be ex-wife would take an event that actually happened and turn it into something it wasn’t. If we went to a family get together and the adults were drinking, now she was saying everyone was fall down drunk.
She is telling the kids I’m an alcoholic, and since they have seen me drink, they believe her. This is the worst sort of deception. What can I do?
URL: https://mymodernlaw.com/what-happens-when-someone-lies-under-oath/
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They simply have no capacity to feel for others. That’s why they speak and act without consideration for their impact on those they relate with.
Like I have said in the past, they have close to zero Emotional Intelligence. This makes them toxic – persons one would be better off not staying in prolonged contact with.
Imagine the challenge therefore, that persons who have to live with them – especially kids that have to be parented by them! – will face every single day.
And this is why I feel this is driven to share as much information and education about Narcissists, to enable others use self-education to empower themselves towards handling such persons they have to deal with in their lives,
This is more so as it relates to protecting kids from serious emotional damage that could stunt their development into healthy functioning adults.
The Narcissist and His Lies: How They’re Different [The psychology of deception and the narcissist’s skillful mirages]
I knew that he and I had a different relationship to the truth but I didn’t really understand it. We joked about it—how I was a moralist and he was more of a relativist—but I didn’t get what motivated him. Because he had been a lawyer for over thirty years, I chalked it up to the hidden costs of his profession—that peculiar zone that resides between truth and what might be true.
At the risk of stating the obvious, Domestic Violence can be physical, verbal, as well as emotional/psychological.
The non-physical dimensions are the kind that readily occurs when a Narcissist is involved. Indeed, it is practically impossible for a Narcissist NOT to be abusive. In other words, they subject those around them to DV frequently through verbal, emotional/psychological means.
This is why those who have to relate with them need all the help they can get, to handle them effectively.
Watch out for more recommended articles to follow on this theme.
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On Wednesday 12th December 2018, I will be using THIS app for the Basic Introduction to Excel-VB Programming training during the workshop for members on Wednesday 12th December 2018.
Attendees will be able to see the back end code that drives the various interfaces in the app. They will be asked to write and run bits of code taken from the app, in blank workbooks they will open on their laptops.
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Monday 12th December 2018
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On Wednesday 12th December 2018, I will be using THIS app for the Basic Introduction to Excel-VB Programming training during the workshop for members on Wednesday 12th December 2018.
Attendees will be able to see the back end code that drives the various interfaces in the app. They will be asked to write and run bits of code taken from the app, in blank workbooks they will open on their laptops.
Below a JPEG version of reports generated from my 2008 data
For those interested, an opportunity to OWN this application, with CODE REMOVED so they can study it, is provided.
See details below.
Pay N2.5k (I sell it for N5k) – and get a specially branded version of this app with your name/details included as Authorized Reseller (and password access to the code).
Click here (or the image below) to download the PDF document containing the rest of this offer.
“Everybody knows some Excel, but stop seeing Excel as an office program that everybody MASTERS and that is used to organize numbers in columns and make a few calculations. Excel is the best reporting application on the market and it is fully programmable with its own PROGRAMMING LANGUAGE within called VBA” – Pierre LeClerc , Microsoft MVP/Veteran ExcelVB Solutions Developer
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Below is a screenshot of website contact form submission by a prospective attendee (and club member) of my forthcoming 4 Hour Training titled How to Use MS Excel Visual Basic to Build Custom Commercial Software You can Sell [BASIC INTRODUCTION]
In this post I share the response I just sent to the question he ended his submission with, which read as follows:
“(Is it) really possible to write and run programs in Ms Excel environment?
My response was to send him links to 2 of my most popular pre-built commercial Excel-VB software, which I have sold to buyers in and out of Africa for YEARS.
LEARN MORE: What is Excel-VB?
Preview: Microsoft Excel is a powerful tool for recording, re-organising, analysing and presenting information. By Excel VB, I refer to Excel VBA – where VBA means Visual Basic for Applications(VBA). VBA refers to the highly extensive and flexible macro programming language developed by Microsoft for use in their MS office applications – Word, Power Point, etc.
VBA is therefore different from the Standalone Visual Basic program used(by conventional programmers) for developing “standalone” or “executable” (.exe) software applications – though it borrows many of the latter’s features.
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“Everybody knows some Excel, but stop seeing Excel as an office program that everybody MASTERS and that is used to organize numbers in columns and make a few calculations. Excel is the best reporting application on the market and it is fully programmable with its own PROGRAMMING LANGUAGE within called VBA” – Pierre LeClerc , Microsoft MVP/Veteran ExcelVB Solutions Developer
How Excel Macros can help your Business
This 4 hour training [FREE for members of my Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club] will be used to get you started writing smart code you can take away and IMMEDIATELY apply to useful ends in your personal or work life.
“I found that Mr. Tayo Solagbade is brilliant in the areas of Web Design and Excel VBA.” – Ibrahim Salau, MD, Environmental Accord
Date: Wednesday 12th December 2018
Time: 11a.m to 3p.m
Venue: Sherryville Arcade
BONUS: 1 Hour Talk – How to Sell Anything to Anyone, ANYWHERE holds from 3p.m to 4p.m
Attendees get Tutorial
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Monday 3rd December 2018
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This 4 hour training [FREE for members of my Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club] will be used to get you started writing smart code you can take away and IMMEDIATELY apply to useful ends in your personal or work life.
“I found that Mr. Tayo Solagbade is brilliant in the areas of Web Design and Excel VBA.” – Ibrahim Salau, MD, Environmental Accord
Date: Wednesday 12th December 2018
Time: 11a.m to 3p.m
Venue: Sherryville Arcade
BONUS: 1 Hour Talk – How to Sell Anything to Anyone, ANYWHERE holds from 3p.m to 4p.m
Attendees get Tutorial DVD [N5k]
“It has been a tremendous improvement in our weekly and monthly report…my medical director expressed his happiness when he saw the report…Mr. Tayo I am impressed with your talent…You’re thorough in your job, sincere and friendly with your client. Keep it up.” – Rev. M. Inyang, Manager Accounts, Med-In Specialist Hospital and Pharmaceutical Company
Then sometimes when they do, it costs too much. MS Excel Visual Basic offers virtually any user willing to develop needed proficiency, the ability to exploit Excel’s powerful calculation engine in combination with smart Visual Basic coding, to deliver such custom solutions at MUCH lower costs.
I have personally created a niched market in/out of Africa for myself by building custom applications to meet the needs of niche markets I identify e.g my popular Payslip Generator, Ration Formulator, and Poultry Farm Manager.
A medium-sized medical establishment paid me $1,000 USD equivalent in Naira, to build a custom app for its management reporting. That’s apart from income I earn selling my pre-built apps to clients across over 20 states in Nigeria, and other countries (Canada, UK, UAE, Tanzania, Uganda, Ghana, Guinea etc)
“Preparation of staff salary has now been reduced from days to just two days. (The Payslip Generator) has helped me a lot…I really commend the CB Solutions* for (an) excellent job. It has solved my organisation’s accounting problem. More grease to your elbow.” – Adeniyi S. Elegbede, Accountant Motayo Hospital
In teaching what I know, I draw DEEP on my expertise and experience as one who has built high performing Excel-VB software (some adopted for official use in a corporate multinational + others purchased by clients in and out of Africa) to show learners:
(A) How to develop niched, customized spreadsheet applications that solve everyday problems
(B) How to ATTRACT PROFITABLE BUYERS for what they sell (an often neglected yet crucial strategy for product/service marketing)
“Everybody knows some Excel, but stop seeing Excel as an office program that everybody MASTERS and that is used to organize numbers in columns and make a few calculations. Excel is the best reporting application on the market and it is fully programmable with its own PROGRAMMING LANGUAGE within called VBA” – Pierre LeClerc , Microsoft MVP/Veteran ExcelVB Solutions Developer
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As an authentic entrepreneur, I have paid my dues for well over a decade LEARNING the theory and practice of the various solutions I provider.
It therefore goes without saying that I have proven myself capable of delivering what I promise, to clients’ satisfaction. That effectively makes me an AUTHORITY at what I do -and I refuse to be shy in stating that fact, or asserting myself based on it.
For instance, to make it easy for any persons trying to make up their minds, I recently published a blog in which I mentioned a FREE talk I offer on entrepreneurship. The others are PAID.
If I want to teach others how to get paid for what they know, it makes sense that I should DEMONSTRATE that I do it myself.
The author rightly notes that he has unique insights to share and the requesting organisation is charging attendees BIG money but offers to pay HIM, the speaker they are inviting, NOTHING.
Like I always say, YOU NEED TO KNOW WHEN TO SAY NO!
If you are an expert, take a cue from what I’ve said here.
In the long run, you WILL be glad you did.
With the exception of my speaking event on Using Pineapple Peels to Make Drinks You Can Sell, which is ALWAYS FREE ALL my other speaking events are provided for a moderate fee that I communicate to the Event Planner/Decision Makers.
My goal is to make attendees of my events learn what will REALLY boost their chances of success. Below is an outline of multiple benefits attendees will gain access to IN ADDITION to what they hear me say.
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Monday 26th November 2018
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With the exception of my speaking event on Using Pineapple Peels to Make Drinks You Can Sell, which is ALWAYS FREE ALL my other speaking events are provided for a moderate fee that I communicate to the Event Planner/Decision Makers.
My goal is to make attendees of my events learn what will REALLY boost their chances of success.
Below is an outline of multiple benefits attendees will gain access to IN ADDITION to what they hear me say.
1. I Offer Information Products Describing Viable Business Ideas They Can Launch
I personally conduct interviews with established individuals in key fields and publish. The idea is to enable attendees explore ways to start-up with minimal funds. It’s often best to test the waters of entrepreneurship, with low capital overheads business ideas, to retain worthwhile profits.
Attendees will be grateful to have this kind of useful resource – because it will save the money!
2. I Offer Information Products Describing Guiding Philosophies They Need for Entrepreneurial Success
Most retirees or first time start-ups RARELY know many non-technical requirements for business success. Very few trainers talk about it. Attendees just learn the technicalities of the business. And then they launch out.
But they often lack the mental attitude to make it – especially when things get tough (which is often)!
I provide attendees a reliable reference document they can consult to draw inspiration, and ideas, to cope with INEVITABLE adversity in business can help them keep going till they succeed.
Example: My 80 page “Entrepreneur’s Survival Reference Manual” – Written in 2004
I wrote this “manual” originally for myself. I used to read and re-read it to remind myself to retain the right mental attitude in spite of great setbacks.Later, I began offering it for sale (spiral bound and photocopied). A FREE 4 hour workshop is announced on the cover. See www.tinyurl.com/tks25mistakes
3. I Provide a Business Start-Up Support Service for Your Attendees Post-Event
a. I can prepare feasibility study packs for intending start-ups or prospective retirees. And I will offer to help them work through it to implementation.
b. My talk can be prepared to highlight key factors that can prevent start-ups from succeeding in their local environment. I will actually investigate their real life socio-economic environment, to verify what’s worked.
c. I can Setup an Entrepreneur Support Network for Start-Ups for attendees. This goes beyond the learning event proper. I am convinced it’s a crucially important requirement.
I can Setup a coaching support network for attendees who (after attending my speaking event) decide to start their own enterprises. I ALWAYS have an emotional investment in my attendees, hence this opportunity is offered a zero cost.
I strongly believe entrepreneurship learning events MUST offer attendees an opportunity to get long term support and coaching, from competent experts. The journey to success is rarely a short one. I aim to make a massive difference in people’s lives, by being accessible post-learning-events, for the long term – even if only via phone or email.
The idea is to help attendees through the start-up phase, till they can stand on their own. I’ve seen enough for well over a decade of my OWN experiences, to know this is so important.
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By finding creative ways to incorporate elements from virtually every area of society you have interest in, into your marketing content, you will dramatically boost your chances of drawing potential buyers, who would otherwise have missed you, into your “world.
That way they’ll discover you have something that can help them. That was exactly what happened with the diplomat I met at the Nigerian embassy (see the photo/true story in the article linked on the next page).
I did not go there to market my Excel-VB software or my Web Marketing service. But in the process of showing my Pineapple Peel Drinks and cakes, to him and others at the embassy, we got talking and he learnt from asking what else I did, that I offered those solutions!
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Monday 19th November 2018
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Your WMS (Web Marketing System), if developed and implemented the way I recommend, will get you noticed by persons fitting your target audience profile.
That does not however mean they will choose to talk about you to anyone. Indeed, my experiences indicate that lots of them will simply take action to connect with you, to get what they want e.g. the solution you offer.
You will have to go the extra mile to give them reasons to talk about you to others. In other words, getting people to talk about you is easier said than done.
This is especially as it relates to getting them to say something that boosts your name/brand recognition and credibility, thereby increasing potential selling opportunities for you.
In this 9th commandment, I offer experience based ideas you can use, and explain how to tweak them for optimal results.
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This talk is based on an educational weekly email series I created exclusively for members of my Web Marketing for CEOs club.It provides experience based ideas, tips and insights for use by any persons engaged in business, who wish to achieve low to zero cost business marketing reach and impact by leveraging the the power of PC and Internet Technology.It is NOW available in a specially bundled MP3 Audio and PDF Book package that can be downloaded online or accessed offline on a DVD delivered to you.Attendees of THIS LIVE talk however get instant membership of my Web Marketing for CEOs club (N50k value – includes FREE weekly coaching via Private Facebook and WhatsApp groups) + FREE download link to the ebook/audios.Standard FEE for Talk – N100k Promo FEE (Nov/Dec. 2018) – N25k
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I have had to LIVE and relate closely with two different narcissists (one half the age of the other and of a different gender) at various stages of my life.
Mayo Clinic’s definition is particularly useful for painting a clear picture of what a person with NPD is like:
“Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in whi
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Monday 12th November 2018
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[DISCLAIMER: This issue of my weekly Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is a special public information and education service. However, nothing I offer here should be taken to be professional advice. It’s simply experience based information and education that I have chosen to share, because sharing done by others has helpe me to deal with my own challenges many times. Consult relevant professionals if you need help]
I have had to LIVE and relate closely with two different narcissists (one half the age of the other and of a different gender) at various stages of my life.
“Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others. But behind this mask of extreme confidence lies a fragile self-esteem that’s vulnerable to the slightest criticism”(Source: https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/narcissistic-personality-disorder/symptoms-causes/syc-20366662)
I assure you, they are the worst kind of TOXIC person one can ever have to deal with.
Most times you’re better of getting away to achieve zero or minimal contact, if your well being (especially psychological/emotional) is NOT to suffer.
I say this based on many personal experiences and observations, and the resultant damage on those victims I have witnessed. This is what convinced me of a need to create a resource to help others detect and deal with these kinds of wicked personalities in their lives.
By way of interest, narcissists are particularly bad for kids – so if you have one as a spouse or influential adult in the life of your child, KNOW that your child needs to be protected from that individual, before it is too late.
I believe no one has the right to subject others to such a painful existence as narcissists do. I know what it feels like to be at the receiving end of such person’s negative ministrations. Believe me, it can rapidly turn you into an emotional and psychological wreck.
However, my ability to handle people I’ve found with Narcissistic Personality Disorder took time to develop. I realize not everyone has the capacity to endure and persist in finding a way out like I did.
This is why I’m preparing a special slideshow presentation that offers information and education to empower others. The damage I have seen narcissists do to people is simply too GREAT for me to ignore!
Click here if you want to be notified when my special slideshow becomes available for download.
For now, I recommend you read the aptly titled article on this theme, previewed and linked below:
Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions
Narcissists are everywhere you turn in life.
You exercise alongside them at the gym, chat with them at the grocery store, worship with them at church, cheer on your kids together at youth sporting events.
They radiate qualities you admire and aspire to like confidence, a sense of humor, and the innate ability to know exactly what to say in any given situation.
Continue reading the above previewed article – click here
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EXCEL-VB DRIVEN POULTRY LAYER FARM MANAGER SOFTWARE
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In this issue of my Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter, I make you a 3-in-1 offer based on my “MONETIZING YOUR EXPERTISE” solution – download PDF below.
The good thing about this offer is that it involves my setting up a client attracting online presence for you (built around www.yourname.com) from which the product/service I help you develop – in addition to any ones you already have existing – will be offered for sale.
That means that you get to include ALL your other products/services (with my support) into the Web Marketing System I setup i.e you get to eat your cake and have it.
This offer is however NOT for everyone.
You actually have to go through a screening process that will help me determine if you QUALIFY.
You will call to speak with me at an agreed date/time (fill/submit THIS – form click now) so that I can ask you questions aimed at determining if you have expert knowledge, insights, experiences that can be monetized for persons looking for a reliable solution provider.
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Monday 5th November 2018
NB: This PI Squared newsletter will be published weekly, on Mondays, in place of the Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter, starting from today – 15th February 2016. I’m reinventing my Monday newsletter content and theme, to accommodate my vision of serving the growing audience of serious minded individuals and organizations reaching out to me, with information, education. news and research findings designed to help them do what they do better.
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In this issue of my Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter, I make you a 3-in-1 offer based on my “MONETIZING YOUR EXPERTISE” solution – download PDF below.
The good thing about this offer is that it involves my setting up a client attracting online presence for you (built around www.yourname.com) from which the product/service I help you develop – in addition to any ones you already have existing – will be offered for sale.
That means that you get to include ALL your other products/services (with my support) into the Web Marketing System I setup i.e you get to eat your cake and have it.
This offer is however NOT for everyone – and it is time limited (Expiring by Noon Wednesday November 7th 2018).
You actually have to go through a screening process that will help me determine if you QUALIFY.
You will call to speak with me at an agreed date/time (fill/submit THIS form – click now) so that I can ask you questions aimed at determining if you have expert knowledge, insights, experiences that can be monetized for persons looking for a reliable solution provider.
For instance, I create and sell the following range of Cash Flow Generating Assets.to people who NEVER meet with me in person, before they pay:
1. audios (like my Storyfied Yourba Proverbs Audio Book and my Biafran Alternative Feed Formulation Ideas AUDIO Podcast)
2. videos (like my Home Study Feed Formulation Video Series)
3. Information Product DVDs (like my Passive Income Generation Ideas Audio DVD)
4. Excel-VB software (like my Livestock Ration Formulator, Poultry Farm Manager, Payslip Generator, Automated Cashbook/Bank Reconciliation Manager)
5. Print and digital ebooks (like my popular Practical Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook, and many others in my online store)
ALL of the above mentioned items I created using my own computers and smartphones. I have NEVER had to visit studios or professional outfits, to get them done.
This helps me to maintain GOOD profit margins.
It goes without saying that using professional services at some point will be beneficial to me, and I am approaching that point now.
The point I however make is that one does NOT need to start that way, especially when you are working to a tight budget or lack funds – and when you are not yet sure, which solution you have, that your target audience will embrace (which you would then be able to go all out to promote without doubts).
I have found that it PAYS to start small while thinking big when it comes to making money – or indeed achieving ANY valued goal in life.
As you make “small money” and gain experience doing so, you WILL begin to gain insights about how to make “BIGGER money” – and with time, you will make it happen. But starting small would have made it possible!
You can do the same thing. With me at your side, telling you what to do and how, indeed DOING most of it for you, behind the scenes, you will go from concept to market in a much shorter time than would be the case if you did it alone.
Bury your doubts. Don’t for one moment entertain the thought that people will not be willing to pay for what you end up with – or for what you already have, and are willing to sell.
What you know, have and/or can do is valuable. People will gladly pay to BE SERVED by you.
I can help you create a plus a reliable sales leads generating platform via the web to do just that.
Note, however, that what I refer to is unlikely to work overnight and deliver the promised benefits.
As long as you are COMPETENT in your chosen field (and I know you are), it’s simply a matter of time before we find the right way to do it, and the right audience to present it to.
The foregoing can take time, but the web marketing system I will help you setup will make it easier to do.
So, in summary, here’s my 3-in-1 offer to you:
Pay N25k (instead of N50k) to join my Web Marketing for CEOs Club – and you’ll:
No. 1: Get 50% discount to have me create (over the next 12 weeks) a Cash Flow Generating Asset (CFGA) – your own original money making product – branded with YOUR name, and put on sale in 3 months from now, via www.yourname.com – your own branded online presence that I will setup for you..
Required investment = N150k – so at 50% discount you only pay N75k
[See OPTION 2 under ITEM 1 in the PDF linked below, for details]
Payment Terms (What You Need to Do to Get Started With this Promo Offer):
a. You pay the N25k to join the club at once, on or before Noon Wednesday November 7th 2018
b. You pay the N75k for the CFGA via N25k monthly installments over 3 months, starting with the first install-mental payment on or before Midnight 30th November 2018
No. 2: Get 75% discount to have me incorporate your offline business (any product or service you offer) into the online presence (www.yourname.com) I setup for your CFGA
No. 3: Get my Web Marketing Support Service FREE: For 12 full months (1 FULL YEAR), starting from the moment the Web Marketing System I setup for you is up and running, I will manage EVERY aspect of 1 and 2 for you AT NO COST to you, and also coach you to do it yourself. See details of what I will do, for you, on my Web Marketing Support Service Offer page at http://tayosolagbade.com/smclub-nonfarm.html.
If you are even remotely interested in this offer, I recommend you at least TIE it down by paying N25k on or before Noon Wednesday November 7th 2018, to join my Web Marketing for CEOs club for starters.
Then you can take your time to commence payments for Offer No. 1 and No. 2. Note that I will begin certain aspects of the work to be done, once you join the club. For instance, you will receive a questionnaire I use to generate original content for marketing each client.
Click here to send me a message, if you have questions or require clarification.
1. Click here to learn more about this app – watch demo videos etc
2.Click here to watch a 4 part video in which I demonstrate how to use this app to formulate rations using real life data sent to me by an Algerian PhD student.
Click here to download a detailed PDF user guide and watch 15 screen shot user guide tutorials of the Monthly Poultry Farm Manager that I now offer Farm CEOs.
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