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No. 209: Acknowledge Even the Smallest Person That Helped You Succeed

In this issue, I explain why your success means nothing, if you fail to acknowledge those who helped you on your way up.

This is a pet peeve of mine.

Some people seem to believe there’s nothing wrong with using and dumping others. Funny enough majority in today’s society rarely call those they see doing it to question, or order, even when they see the signs to justify doing so.

I do NOT like it one bit.

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Title: Acknowledge Even the Smallest Person That Helped You Succeed

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – Acknowledge Even the Smallest Person That Helped You Succeed

In this issue, I explain why your success means nothing, if you fail to acknowledge those who helped you on your way up.

This is a pet peeve of mine.

Some people seem to believe there’s nothing wrong with using and dumping others. Funny enough majority in today’s society rarely call those they see doing it to question, or order, even when they see the signs to justify doing so.

I do NOT like it one bit.

I’m a believer in giving credit to whom it’s due – no matter what!

Whether the person is big or small, white or red, tall or short, male or female, rich or poor. Whatever s/he may be, as long as s/he was able to add useful value to ME, towards helping me get what I wanted, I WILL always tell as many others as possible about it.

Now, others may feel I’m over doing it, but I believe the best way to encourage more people to exhibit a particular kind of behaviour, is to reward it wherever and whenever it is seen.

The above mentioned is a simple rule for influencing people, and it’s been used for ages by successful people, to gain a competitive edge.

Sadly, we too often forget to apply it when it matters most, in our personal relationships. This is why we have so much distrust, mistrust, bitterness, resentment around us today.

People who have been used and dumped severally, get to the point that they start second guessing others, and stop being as willing to help as they used to.

Those who have seen good people get used and dumped also take a cue and become wary of being too willing to help others, for fear or getting exploited too.

The result is that fewer people get the help they sometimes badly need to achieve success that could end up helping MAJORITY of people in society.

You’ve probably read the life story of some famous or successful person known in the world today, who revealed that his breakthrough came when someone gave him a helping hand

It could have been a mentor who made a phone call when he was not obligated to, or even a house help who discovered a crucially important contract document that had gone missing, and was needed to close a badly needed deal.

As he saying goes, no one can be an island to him/herself. We use the expression “self-made” but one or two persons probably played roles that helped the person so described to succeed. Without such input from others, tiny it may seem on retrospect, s/he may not have made it!

That’s why successful people who are wise, acknowledge their helpers!

Now, when that person who got helped succeeds, if when asked s/he never mentions the pivotal role played by such individuals, none of his/her admirers will ever know.

That would not be a crime. But it would be an injustice, and a disincentive.

Such a person could see, for instance, the person s/he helped on TV, or the cover of a magazine, or read an interview s/he granted, but hear nothing of the role s/he played.

Instead, s/he could read and hear, for instance, the person s/he helped telling his/her story of rising from grass to grace, as if what transpired between them never happened. Or if s/he admits that it happened, s/he would refer to the person who helped him/her in the third person e.g. somebody helped me out.

It happens in obvious ways like the above described. But it also happens in more subtle ways too…

For instance, when one expert takes another experts original ideas (from the latter’s blog, books, articles, audios, videos etc), and studies them to BUILD material for his/her own work (e.g. private training/coaching of clients).

If in describing how his/her work evolved to its current state, s/he fails to mention the reference he made to the other expert’s works that would be an example of subtle occurrence.

In other words s/he would have presented it to the world as if he had no “help”.

This applies in physical as well as intellectual terms. Imagine a research paper that lists no references of major works consulted.

What I see happening a lot today, especially with the PC and Internet technology, is that those unwilling to acknowledge others, find it easy to do so using the powerful tools we now have.

Yet, giving credit will not take anything away from any achievement you record based on work done by another!

History offers ample proof that this is true.

Here’s one example…

Thomas Edison improved the light bulb. He did NOT invent it. Many people do not know this, but it’s true.

The light bulb was originally invented by another scientist, who used a metal that did not last long before disintegrating. Edison studied that scientists work, and then worked to find a better metal, till he discovered the tungsten filament.

Today, despite the fact that Edison he still enjoys great recognition for the improvement he made to it – because that improvement made it MORE useful to a larger number of people.

And that’s why giving credit to others cannot hurt you, if you come up with IMPROVED concepts, ideas or solutions based on work already done by another.

My argument therefore, is that if we form the habit of giving credit to who it’s due, we will build a society in which people readily give the best of themselves to others – unconditionally.

They will have less cause to fear that their efforts may go unrecognised after they do so.

As an expert-who-speaks, you are a potential thought leader. How you conduct your affairs in this regard can have a major impact on others.

What do you do, when you relate with friends, relatives, kids, co-workers, employees or associates?

If a colleague shares his original idea/concept/solution with you behind closed doors, which opens your eyes to new way for taking your work to the next level…

Acknowledge it. Let him/her know. That will inspire him/her to find more ways to help you.

And if you decide to use what you got from him/her in your work, PLEASE…I BEG OF YOU:

A. Do not fail to ask his/her permission to use it (especially if it’s his/her original creation).

B. And when using it, endeavour to mention/indicate who you got it from, to your audience.

The following apt quote from Burt Dubin (who has mentored experts-who-speak – for 3 decades – to manifest integrity in their dealings) provides a fitting end to this piece:

“Cherish Your Stainless Honour” – Burt Dubin

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Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

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In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly

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and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training

& Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’

competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African

continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your

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Achieving Financial Freedom – Why What You Learnt In School May NOT Be Enough…& What You Need to LEARN [Text Transcript Excerpts from Tayo Solagbade’s MP3 Podcast]

 [Text Transcript Excerpts from Tayo Solagbade’s MP3 Podcast] Achieving Financial Freedom – Why What You Learnt In School May NOT Be Enough…& What You Need to LEARN

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“…How many teachers do you know that are millionaires? This is something I ask my kids all the time. I am not wasting any time at all. I’m taking my kids through this.

I’m not going to let them go through the pains of self-discovery that I had to go through, because of the wrong exposure to schooling that I had. Schooling that was not going to prepare me for life outside salaried employment.

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So then it means you have to begin, after doing a job, maybe after getting to the age of 65, and then getting kicked out, resigning or retiring, you then begin to look for ways to earn income outside of paid employment.

It can be quite difficult to do that in a consistent way that enables you to maintain the lifestyle that you’re used to, when you had a job.

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Question a: I would like to know how one can possibly publish and sell books (not ebooks) at Zero capital?

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I’ve been doing it for myself since 2005.

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I’ve also helped other CEOs get their own PRINT books published in and out of Nigeria. Indeed, I am currently working on doing just that for a UK based business coach.

The above linked page shows pictures, screen shots and other details to help you understand how this works, and where I’ve so far been with regard to doing it.

I’ve tried to get media houses to talk about this powerful alternative to brick and mortar book publishing houses, but for some strange reason, they simply won’t pay attention.

My argument is that ANY smart CEO today should position him/herself uniquely by becoming a published author in his/her area of expertise.

Today, using the technology I describe on the above linked page, ANYONE who knows how, can do it successfully.

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2. How can I get your proven techniques and strategies for starting to finish to write anything?

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Since you’re already on my mailing list, I’ve attached the ebook to THIS email.

Otherwise you would have needed to fill/submit the downloads access form at click here to get it

Filename = writeanything.pdf [Size = 282KB]

HERE’S AN IMPORTANT NOTE:

I published this write-up as an article several years ago on my old domain (spontaneousdevelopment.com.

However, due to its popularity, I decided to convert it to a PDF ebook to boost marketing of my freelance writing service.

Unfortunately due to the large number of such resources I have (over1,000), I have not gotten around to modifying relevant pages in it to reflect my new website (www.tayosolagbade.com).

So, you’ll still see links starting with www.spontantaneousdevelopment.com in it. That’s my 9 year old domain that’s now defunct (full story at click here)

Wherever you see the above URL, simply change it to www.tayosolagbade.com.

Aside from that, I believe every other thing in the Ebook remains valid.

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Final Words

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No. 208: Resist the Seduction of Mediocrity

‘Safety first’ has been the motto of the human race…but it has never been the motto of leaders. A leader must face danger. He must take the risk and the blame and the brunt of the storm” – Herbert Casson

In your personal or work life, a willingness to stand out/be different, and to venture outside your comfort zone, will determine how successful you become. My study of the lives of many successful people in different fields, and across various cultures, convince me exceptional achievers, do NOT get there by habitually avoiding criticisms, challenges, risks, or mistakes!

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – Resist the Seduction of Mediocrity

‘Safety first’ has been the motto of the human race…but it has never been the motto of leaders. A leader must face danger. He must take the risk and the blame and the brunt of the storm” – Herbert Casson

In your personal or work life, a willingness to stand out/be different, and to venture outside your comfort zone, will determine how successful you become. My study of the lives of many successful people in different fields, and across various cultures, convince me exceptional achievers do NOT get there by habitually avoiding criticisms, challenges, risks, or mistakes!

The very act of pursuing success requires stretching one’s self BEYOND what one has been used to doing previously.

No matter how many times you may have won or succeeded, you will often have to dig deeper to win at higher levels, if you want to keep improving.

As an expert in your chosen field of interest or specialization, it’s likely you have colleagues who boast superior competencies to yours at what you do.

You most likely consider them “rivals”, against whom you must put up your best efforts, if you expect to be noticed by the mutual target audience you offer solutions to.

In such a case, your success will depend on your ability to set yourself apart from such rivals in a way that makes decision makers PREFER to hire YOU!

Sometimes that could mean packaging, promoting and presenting yourself in as many new and/or unconventional ways as possible, compared to others.

Richard Branson is an excellent model of what is possible in this regard…

He has made a success of getting valuable media exposure for his businesses by being willing to:

A. boldly conceive and fearlessly implement unusual – often contrarian – business ideas to address an unmet consumer need in a pocket friendly manner.

B. creatively employ potentially risky publicity stunts of ALL kinds to attract useful attention to his unconventional ventures.

C. courageously pick himself up anytime his ideas did not work as planned, and use whatever lessons could be had from the experience, to go back and try again – or start a new venture.

When I say the above, I do so based on deep insights I’ve gained from working VERY closely with CEOs face to face, and via the web, within and outside Africa, for well over a decade.

You see, I’ve learnt that many “conventional” business owners are too concerned about how they “look” to take actions that can benefit their businesses like Branson does.

Things are changing, but even today there are many CEOs I know who would NOT go out without being in a suit and tie. And I always wonder about that, given the fact that NONE of them is even half as successful in business as Richard Branson!

For him, going tie-less is more the norm than the exception, and that’s often how he meets with others who tend to come seriously suited up.

Years ago, I resolved to emulate Branson as much as possible in the ways I go about my own business affairs.

That’s why almost NOTHING is sacrosanct in terms of what I feature in the promotional materials I create to get noticed by my target audience.

This is why, for instance, I have publications like my 10 Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs Audio Book, which teaches basic usage of 10 popular Yoruba language proverbs. It is also why my latest book is based on a Christian-religion themed play titled “Defeating the Devil Inside” – despite the fact that I am NOT religious.

The above publications contrast sharply with conventional books in my online store, on self-development, public speaking, parenting, farm business best practice etc.

You don’t have to agree with my approach. For me however, the reach and impact I achieve makes it worthwhile.

Often, whenever I’ve gone the unconventional route in this manner, I’ve noticed a spike in the attention I get from certain quarters. Sometimes that leads to mentions, or inquiries that would otherwise not have come.

And a few have resulted in sales of my more conventional products!

Most important however, is the fact that my adopted strategy enables me remain perpetually unique in terms of how I position myself. The unconventional content creation strategy I use makes it easy for my target audience to identify and talk about me to others.

In other words, I’m hard to mix up with ANYONE else, who provides ANY of the solutions I offer.

Here’s another example: My use of the title “Location Independent Multipreneur” used to cause more than a few eyebrows to be raised when I began using it, after relocating to Benin Republic in 2013.

The result was that people got curious enough to Google for more information about me, and they also closely scrutinized the solutions I “claimed” to offer.

A few went further to “test” me by reaching out via phone/email, and later making “small purchases”, to check (some actually asked me!) if I claimed to be “Location Independent” so as to avoid being tracked down by unsatisfied buyers for instance!

After establishing that I was for real, and could be trusted, they felt safe enough to start talking seriously to others about me. As a result, I find myself getting periodic referrals!

All of the above happens, with payments being sent to me from within and outside Africa by total strangers.

In other words, people who have NEVER met with, or heard about me.

I mean, people who ask me where my office is and get told, by ME, that I have NEVER used an office since 2002!

Those same people feel CONVINCED enough to take the leap of faith to send payment to me, for a product I promise to send them in return!

In other words, my willingness to be BOLDY contrarian is paying off for me.

Way back in 2003, when I first began describing myself as a Multipreneur…it earned me LOTS of criticism.

At a point, I lost count of those who started discussing what I could do for them, but refused to continue when I revealed other solutions I claimed to be able to provide.

Many pointedly told me I was doing “too many things”, and that it meant I was NOT good enough at EACH one, to merit getting hired by them.

It might interest you to know that ALL the solutions I claimed I could competently provide back then, are the EXACT same things I AM doing today i.e. Performance Improvement Speaking Services, Custom Excel-VB Software Development, Freelance Writing, Web Marketing Systems Development etc.

But when I began, no one believed me.

My claims went against conventional wisdom – and some “wise” veterans went out of their way to advise me to choose “one” and drop the others. That all I claimed I could do, was too much for ONE person to do.

I gave serious thought to what they said, but every single time my INTUITION told me to keep doing what I was doing – and to PROVE myself to anyone who gave me even half a chance.

So I kept presenting myself that way. Eventually, some people began to nibble at my bait.

They were willing to look beyond their bias to grudgingly hire me (I think those who chose not to, felt intimidated that I could multitask so productively, when they could not).

Thankfully, on the few occasions I got hired, I did so well (and even went the extra mile), that some even hired me in the other areas I offered solutions! The story remains the same today, as I continue to UP SELL my growing library of other solutions to new clients/buyers.

For instance, last week, I won several new buyers of my Excel-VB Income and Expense Manager. Among them was a Farm CEO who only 2 weeks earlier had purchased a promo offer of my Poultry Farm Manager, Ration Formulator and Feed Formulation Handbook.

See how taking the risk of insisting that I’m a multipreneur helps me earn much more than I normally would??

What I’ve said here does NOT cover all that is possible with regard to the mental attitude I’m advocating YOU adopt…

However, I believe it’s enough to point you in the right direction, especially if you truly want to achieve exceptional success at what you do.

Simply put, you cannot keep doing the same thing others are doing, and expect to get different results from theirs.

The title of this piece challenges you to RESIST the SEDUCTION of mediocrity, because in my experience, that’s really what holds most people back.

When you try doing something new, daring, untested, and unproven…or something simply different, that’s likely to attract criticism from others around you.

This is the reason most of us prefer to avoid taking risks in our personal and/or work lives.

Instead we stick to doing what we know – based on pass successes – will work, and refuse to deviate, even though we may SENSE doing so could lead to new discoveries and/or levels of achievement.

When a person gives in to the above described fear based need, s/he will effectively be taking refuge in mediocrity.

Now, what makes it so easy for many to fall into this potentially harmful psychological state is that majority of people in society live the same way. As a result, they may not easily find someone to give them the truthful feedback they need to get out of the rut.

The truth is however that those who become champions at what they do – including the business of public speaking – are people who NEVER give in to the seduction of mediocrity.

They KNOW that there is superior benefit to be had in constantly challenging themselves to do MORE and try HARDER, to achieve greater outcomes.

If you want to live a fulfilling life, let the above thoughts guide your actions. Start resisting the seduction of mediocrity in ANY area of your life from today!

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Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the

popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm

Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in

various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly

traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training

& Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’

competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African

continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to

SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

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Experience Sharing Boosts Coaching Success

Experience sharing is a powerful way to coach and influence. And it works quite well for people of all ages. I know this from years of using it successfully, both in and out of paid employment.

You most likely have had many experiences that would interest, entertain and at the same time educate your child, and other people around you – even adults.

However, if you do not offer to share them, people who can benefit will never know you offer such useful wisdom, and insights.

The world will be a better place if more of us deliberately tap into our wealth of past experiences, especially way back to our childhood years, to coach others.

The growing up period and process can be very confusing from most children.

Hearing stories from established adults about how they also struggled to find meaning, and eventually take their places/make their marks in the world, can be both encouraging, and inspiring to kids, and young people.

I believe we do not currently do enough “Experience Sharing”…

Through my parenting articles and books, as well as my Personal Success Achievement Coaching for Kids (PACK)™ program, I intend to do my bit.

Indeed, I’ve since begun doing it with my kids as the first coachees.

In the past, I’d done it informally. But in observing my kids, I recalled reading that Andrew Carnegie said teaching kids success principles (like those discussed in Hill’s “Think & Grow Rich”), can help them emerge better prepared to excel in life.

And that’s what made me decide to do it formally.

[Fill and submit this form, if you want me to send you details of how I can help you with my confidential Spontaneous Coaching™ support service.]

You’re reading THIS because I’ve resolved to embrace my God-given gift for helping people in this manner.

Testimonials from those I’ve helped in the past (some reproduced below) previously used to strike me as rather exaggerated.

“…I really miss you sir, your words of encouragement, your pressures, your drive, your humor and everything about you. But in consolation, I try so hard to follow your footsteps, which I have been doing little by little, and I am sometimes amazed at the things I do…I look up to you, and really desire to someday dedicate a major success in my life to you, for the little while I spent with you has been a turning point in my life. I will always be grateful to you. “ – Obadiaru, Osawemwenze (2002 email excerpt. Served one year Internship when Tayo was Training & Technical Development Manager in Guinness Nigeria, Benin).

…Through you I knew the difference between Schooling and Education and it’s also through you that I knew that mathematics as a subject can be answered in many ways. I am very grateful.” – Ifeanyi Okeke, SS3 Student, Volunteer Corps (VC) Tutoring Project: Handwritten comment in memoirs section of VC Year Book published in 2003.

“…you made me understand what the world speaks.” – Adepoju Samson, SS3 Student, Volunteer Corps (VC) Tutoring Project: Handwritten comment in 2013 VC Year Book.

Mr Tayo Solagbade…he has educated me so that he had touched that thing in me that motivates me.” – , SS3 Student VC Tutoring Project: Handwritten comment in 2013 VC Year Book.

The speaker, Mr Solagbade, is an authority in his field. (He is) an achiever who is able to carry his audience along with him in his message/speech” – Baker A.T, Confidential Secretary, Centre for Management Development(CMD), Lagos.

There’s a lot more to learn (experience wise) from the speaker(Tayo Solagbade)…Honestly, he gave so much within a short time. I learnt a lot without writing much. It’s amazing!” – Management Trainee, Tantalisers (Fast Foods Restaurant), Festac Headquarters, Lagos. [Handwritten comment on speaker feedback form]

The training was a new dimension to the act of personal effectiveness, was less of theory but of tested and proven principles. Keep it up!“- Oluwakemi, Management Trainee, Tantalisers (Fast Foods Restaurant), Festac Headquarters, Lagos.

This is an academy that will go a long way in helping to develop the youths of this country. Keep up the good work.” – Alake Oluwayemisi, Management Trainee, Tantalisers

(Tayo) is a very good speaker who was able to communicate his (ideas) effectively without boring me and wasting no time. Within the short time he spent, he gave loaded and relevant information/(ideas) which were superb.” – Management Trainee, Tantalizers.

The presenter was superb. He dealt with the topic extensively, citing real life experiences that (were) personal to him.” – Management Trainee, Tantalisers.

The facilitator (Tayo Solagbade) has done so well, and he has made me to feel that the sky is not my limit but the start, if I can apply all the personal effectiveness principles appropriately.” – Onifade Olajide, – Management Trainee, Tantalisers.

In truth, when I got most of the above outline testimonials, I often felt I’d done nothing special.

Back then I wondered why they had to make all the fuss, thanking me in person and sending emails to say even more.

As the years passed however, and I saw the difference my impact made in the lives of people I coached informally, their feedback began to make more sense to me.

Today, I want to help as many other young (and even those not so young!) people willing to walk what today is the least traveled – but surest – path to authentic success achievement in life!

The achievements I’ve recorded in life, since the troubled early years of my youth are based on corrective guidance received from my parents and other well meaning adults while I was growing up.

I built on the hard lessons of my past, and applied the principles and philosophies I learnt by studying books like Think & Grow Rich.

Those actions led me to subsequently record successes in virtually every area of endeavor I’ve ventured since then – with support from the Creator.

And every step of the way, my resolve to continue being a source of pride to my parents has never wavered.

My vision is to inspire others to adopt a similar mental attitude, so they can make the most of themselves, in a manner that causes their parents and the larger society to be proud of them.

That’s why I’m formally launching my confidential Spontaneous Coaching™ support service.

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No. 207: No Substitute for Hard Work If You Want Success

Don’t fool yourself. Authentic long-lasting success in ANY field won’t come quickly or easily. It will take time and HARD WORK. Thinking otherwise can make you end up a frustrated failure! Below, I explain why hard work, when avoided in pursuing success, will often lead to success with a short shelf-life.

Thomas Edison once said: “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”

For me, there are 2 perspectives from which Edison’s words can be viewed:

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – No Substitute for Hard Work If You Want Success

Don’t fool yourself. Authentic long-lasting success in ANY field won’t come quickly or easily. It will take time and HARD WORK.  Thinking otherwise can make you end up a frustrated failure!

Below, I explain why hard work, when avoided in pursuing success, will often lead to success with a short shelf-life.

Thomas Edison once said: “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”

For me, there are 2 perspectives from which Edison’s words can be viewed:

1. On the physical plane, when we engage in physically demanding tasks, sweating often results.

2. However one can also perspire psychologically e.g. in doing the serious thinking required to solve problems or create solutions. This latter aspect is more relevant to what Edison was saying, since he was an inventor – and not a labourer :-)

NB: Forgive me if I just stated the obvious in the last paragraph, but I just wanted to make sure.

Now, you have to admit the truth in the above quote, when you consider that the man who uttered those words had only 3 months of formal schooling. That was due to teachers saying he lacked the intellectual capacity to learn effectively.

They called him “addled”. His furious mother on hearing this pulled him out of school, and vowed to teach him at home.

Edison went on to become a renowned inventor by dint of hard work.

At a point he held over 1,000 different patents for inventions he either improved, or conceived entirely by himself!

Yet if you think about it, what he achieved was extraordinary, considering that he had NOTHING in the way of formal scientific training/education to draw on.

His life story reveals that all he did was diligently and persistently CONTINUE DOING what he was doing, despite countless failures – until he made it.

Edison was NO stranger to hard work. But he gained even more fame for his demonstrated attitude to failures that resulted from most of the hard work he did.

There is the well known story of how it took him about 10,000 attempts to refine the light bulb, by testing different metals.

Before discovering the tungsten filament that eventually, worked at the 10,000th attempt, he was asked about the 9,999 failed attempts he had made.

His response provides powerful insights into the way a person who wishes to succeed in spite of failures MUST think:

‘I have not failed. I have just found 9,999 ways that do not work’. – Thomas Edison

What most people who know about Edison’s success often miss…

I’ve studied success and failure a lot, by reading the life stories of successful people like Edison. I needed this especially during the years I struggled to find success as an entrepreneur.

The insights I gained made tell that most people fail to realize Edison, for instance, did not do all those 9,999 tests on different metals in one evening.

Most of us do not think about the fact that every time another metal failed the test, his financial backers must have been wondering if they were wasting their time and money on him.

Few of us stop to wonder, how Edison must have summoned courage to keep trying despite the thousands of failures he kept recording.

And oh, how many of us ever wondered how he faced naysayers that must have existed in his time, each time he failed??

The above is why I think it’s crucially important to ALWAYS try visualizing the CONTEXT in which failure happened for successful people – by diligently studying them.

That will enable us better appreciate the big picture of the experiences they had.

The understanding we gain will equip us to better handle the need to work hard at our goals, and to KEEP doing so, regardless of the failures we encounter (making intelligent changes of course, based on feedback we get).

I’ve used the example of Edison deliberately, because he achieved phenomenal success despite the potential handicap of a lack of formal education.

It’s no surprise that he said “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”!

As a keen student of authentic long-lasting success achievement, I LIVE the stuff I’m sharing with you.

Based on my experiences and achievements, I want to let you in on one little known secret.

When you develop the HABIT of working hard at what you love doing, you get to a point where you can do it virtually effortlessly. Once there, it stops being work for YOU, but continues LOOKING like HARD WORK to those who observe you!

That’s what Edison achieved.

His focus on getting the results he wanted made him diligently form the habit of working hard at it until it came so naturally that he could do it (regardless of the outcome), without losing interest or passion for it.

The above is why I’m able to churn out a 1,500 word article in 30 to 45 minutes, and publish it on my blog every day

I’ve been doing this for YEARS.

Sometimes I draft 2 or 3 more, ready for the days that follow, then later tweak and auto-schedule them to go out on consecutive days.

Many times I’ve been asked “How do you do it?”…sometimes by some clients I ghost-write articles for. They ask because it tends to take them much longer, days even, to finish even ONE write-up that they feel confident enough to put out for others to read.

I tell them I’ve been doing this for over 2 decades, and NEVER gotten bored or tired. If anything, I get a HUGE RUSH, each time my fingers are on the keyboard. The words just FLOW through my fingertips!

In reality I’m able to do so because for YEARS I’ve diligently applied myself to writing even when I did NOT feel like doing it.

My wife and kids will tell you how (when I was still based in Lagos) I used to type 1,000 to 2,000 word articles right into midnight on my Blackberry, when we had no power(and no fuel for the generator).

This was often when I needed to ensure I got my artice for the day out, even though I had no electricity, and had just returned from working on a client’s premises hours away from home.

I would sit outside in the darkness, typing on the smart phone’s tiny keyboard, and then navigate on its browser to post the article on this blog.

Sometimes I would be so TIRED and would repeatedly catch myself dosing off as I waited for the Blackberry to load the browser or display confirmation that the post was published. If that did NOT happen, I would keep at it, until it did.

My commitment to getting it done was fanatical: failure was simply NOT an option!

[Note that I do the above, even while handling multiple client Web Marketing projects, fulfilling orders placed by buyers for my books and software, and even as I travel across borders. And I’m still able to create ample time to spend with my family – especially coaching my kids]

I still work that way today. But it comes VERY easily to me, and I never feel stressed or over worked, because I KNOW how to strike the balance needed (my regular exercise regimen for physical fitness is worthy of note here)

What I’m saying in essence is that once you develop the self-discipline to make yourself function as I’ve described above, working hard will become like play to you. And once that happens, your productivity will go through the roof.

Sadly, I read and hear too often today, people getting told they can succeed, but not being told that it’s VERY likely to require 99% perspiration from lots of hard work they MUST do!

That’s why I’ve written this article.

To warn as many people as will read this, that short-lived success, which ultimately ends in failure is the most likely outcome to be had from adopting such LAZY thinking.

The following quotable quote underscores the point I’ve made above, providing a fitting end to this piece:

THE “MAGIC FORMULA” FOR WINNING

It’s so simple that it’s “revolutionary”.

The fact is, this formula, or principle, is misunderstood enough and overlooked enough that it can truly be called “magic” by those who understand it.

Ready, here it is:

You beat 50 per cent of the people in America by working hard.

You beat another 40 per cent by being a person of honesty and integrity and standing for something.

The last 10 per cent is a dogfight in the free enterprise system.

I find that this simple concept is the hardest thing to get people to believe.

But I know it’s true.

I’ve seen it time and time again. Just take a minute and let it sink in.

You beat 50 per cent by working hard. I don’t care if you’re building a football team, going into business, starting a company, or running the country as president…

You beat 50 per cent of the people AT ANY LEVEL just by working hard consistently over a long period of time.

I get so mad when I read some of those get-rich-quick books on the market today. They talk about how you need to work smart, nor hard, to succeed.

Wrong!

Nobody wants to tell you about the bone-wearing, backbreaking work it takes to succeed, but I can promise you one thing.

You aren’t going to get to square one if you aren’t willing to work harder than you’ve ever worked in your life.” – A.L WILLIAMS in “All You Can Do Is All You Can Do” – Thomas Nelson Publishers

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work since I’ve been here – you will be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. – Andy”(R. Jones)*

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the

popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm

Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in

various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly

traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training

& Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’

competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African

continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your

personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

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And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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If you’re a regular visitor to this blog (www.tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets), you probably know my primary target audience are Farm Business CEOs – and those aspiring.

But as a multipreneur I have clients in other industries e.g financial consultants, legal experts, hospital owners, restaurant owners, medical consultants, NGO operators, HR consultants etc

A growing number of the Farm CEOs, actually hold full time jobs, while running their businesses part time – often in partnership with their spouses.

The do this typically because they dream one day of settling into a freer life – and safer – outside the requirement of 9 to 5 job, without worrying about  how to make the money to maintain the lifestyle they want.

Based on the above, if you’re reading this, know that I have a wealth of knowledge, and experience based insights from exposure to a variety of market opportunities that I can share with you, in helping you.

In fact, that’s why I’ll be launching my Spontaneous Coaching for Passive Income (SC4PI)™ generation programme next week.

As I said earlier, the purpose is to offer a confidential hand-holding support service designed to help clients conceive, develop , package and promote their own unique range of passive income generating products.

I actually already have clients I’ve been doing this with already – but it is based on a promo offer I made few weeks back. They are the ones who took up my first offer to help them build their own Money Making Product. So, this is not exactly new.

However, it’s the insights I’ve gained from working with the current clients that has convinced me I need to make this a formal offering for members of my target audience to take up.

You see, it’s become apparent to me that people are going to be “coming around” to the realization that they NEED to boost the amount of money they make without necessarily doing more work.

They are discovering that earning passive income, in addition to the money they already make, can dramatically boost their ability to achieve financial security.

As that realization hits them, some may remember what I’ve been saying, and decide to try launching out.

The problem I anticipate is that if they do not connect with professionals that work with integrity, they may do it wrong, and get frustrated. Or worse – they could get exploited and end up NOT achieving the desired end.

So, to assuage my conscience that I’ve done all that I can, and in line with the prompting I continue to get from the Creator, regarding this matter, I’m launching this SC4PI™ programme.

Here’s an offer for Early Sign ups…

The first 10 people to sign up will get EXACTLY the same offer package as that given to those who took up the promo for the trial run I announced on Monday 13th July 2015.

Get full details of the offer I made back then at: No. 201: Your Own Money Making Product Built by Me [Offer Expires MNT Wed 15th July 2015]

The formal announcement will come sometime next week, via my blog and email newsletter broadcast.

Click here to send me a message if you’d like to get a bulk SMS message informing you when it goes LIVE.

RELATED ARTICLES:

1. No. 201: Your Own Money Making Product Built by Me [Offer Expires MNT Wed 15th July 2015]

2. A Tried & Tested Strategy For Achieving Financial Freedom (Hint: Get My Audio DVD Information Product titled “Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income”)

3. The Best Way to Make Money (True Story)

 

Below: Photograph of my latest Audio DVD Information Product titled “Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income” (sitting on my copy of Robert Kiyosaki’s “Why ‘A’ Students Work for ‘C’ Students, and ‘B’ Students Work for the Government”)

Photograph of my latest Audio DVD Information Product titled Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income (sitting on my copy of Robert Kiyosaki's Why 'A' Students Work for 'C' Students, and 'B' Students Work for the Government)

The Best Way to Make Money (True Story)

Would you like to have a never-expiring system that makes people who want what you sell, find, contact and eventually pay you money to get it – with little or no work on your part? Or to put it another way, would you like to make money via passive income generation?

If YES, this article, the true story it tells, and the invitation at the end, may interest you.

Nothing beats earning income via passive income generation i.e. without having to work!

Now don’t get me wrong. There is some work involved and it can be quite hard. But that’s often at the early stages of creating the income generating product. Once that is done, you simply focus on attracting buyers and fulfilling orders. This latter aspect, when done using a intelligent web marketing system, will often be self-sustaining.

In other words, you would do the work once (and it can be hard work!), and reap the rewards for what can be a lifetime. In fact, in many cases, you’ll be able to hand over what you create to your offspring!

The story I share further down, is just one of MANY that I have to tell, from years of using this system.

It illustrates how the system I refer to can earn YOU what some people make in a month, in one evening. That has happened to me countless times since 2012, when I chose to focus 100% on selling my products and services online, instead of physically going out to find buyers.

Today I have no need to go out “hunting” for clients.

Instead I devote the increasing hours of free time that passive income generation affords me, to THINKING up new products and services to offer for sale using the same system that’s working so well for me.

Then I create and refine them, and ultimately put them online for my target audience to discover.

Now, because the system I use is based on the Internet, my overhead costs are close to nil.

As a result, the risk associated with launching my new initiatives is often close to zero, and most times, I am able to keep up the promotion of the solution, tweaking it based on results and feedback I get, until it starts selling.

Today, buyers from within and outside Africa send payment to me, for my Excel-VB software products such as my Excel-VB Ration Formulator and Poultry Farm Manager, Invoice Generator, Payslip Generator etc.

But apart from my growing range of customizable Excel-VB software (some of which are mentioned above), I have other Digital Cash Flow Generating Assets(DCFGA)™ I own today, even as I continue to create more…!

One good example is my popular Feed Formulation Handbook.

There are others in audio and video formats too. I provide links to some of them below to give the reader (what will hopefully be) a useful insight into some of the ways one can create DCFGAs.

1. One good example is the Audio DVD information product titled “Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income

See the article I used to announce/promote it here (click)

2. Another is my Audio Book titled 10 Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs

It comes as a Audio Enabled Power Point Slide show that can be downloaded or delivered by courier on DVD.

See the article I used to announce/promote it here (click)

Here’s the Youtube trailer I created for it:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RZUd4KCDRT8

Notice that ANY subject you have competent knowledge of, or expertise in, can be used to create these kinds of income generating products. So, you need not stick exclusively to your core area – else you limit yourself.

The first buyer I had for this audio book DVD was a senior manager (a lady) with Standard Chartered Bank on Victoria Island in Lagos – Nigeria.

After watching the Youtube demo video, she’d called and paid (via bank transfer) the N5k fee for it, and added N2k for delivery to her office!

3. Yet another is the Home Study Video Tutorial Pack on Feed Formulation.

Click here to view the image flyer I created for it.

See the text transcript of one of the 2 preview videos I use to promote it on Youtube here (the video is linked to/embedded on the same page)

What You Can Do to Get Started….

THINK of what you know well (or know how to do competently) that you can present in a form that people in your target audience are likely to want to buy.

Understand that it does NOT have to be something anyone has done before.

And you do NOT have to do it the way others have done theirs. Follow your gut-level instincts in implementing the ideas that come to you.

In my experience, from over 2 decades of doing so, your instincts or intuition will rarely steer you wrong!

If you do it right, it’s only a matter of time before you come up with something that hits home with your target audience!

In my case, the first “seller” I had was my Feed Formulation Handbook, then my Ration Formulator Software (which buyers of the handbook actually asked me to build!), and later my Poultry Farm Manger (which I first built in 2009, for  a 12,000 poultry layer farm on the outskirts of Lagos – and later put up for sale online) .

In between all of those, I’ve created some other smaller DCFGA™, which are mostly information products sold in my online store. More recently, audio and video DVD information products (see examples above) have joined the library.

You see, you only need to get started. Once you begin to see sales, your creative instincts will naturally get stimulated. You will have tasted blood! That will make you do more, and in the process you’ll gain deeper insights about what areas to further venture into.

Note however, that  you will succeed best with new products you create, ONLY if you PAY diligent attention to feedback you get, as well as new trends/developments in markets you serve!

My ongoing achievements convince me that ANYONE willing to put in the work, can benefit from creating and selling DCFGA™.

And that’s why I’ve launched a special support system to help interested persons LEARN to create and sell theirs.

Like I said, anyone can do it.

Think about it this way:

You will develop the ability to create products, which if well conceived and marketed to the right target audience, will attract buyers with little or no effort on your part, who gladly pay to get them from you.

For instance, imagine being able to offer your DCFGA™ at a promo price to enquirers who call you, and having some of them take it up, so that you go to bed that night an extra N55k richer, in your bank account?

Yet fulfilling those orders would only involve personalizing the products (if needed) and sending it as an email attachment to buyers!

Wouldn’t it be a great way to go through life – knowing that you will always be able to earn decent extra sums with minimal effort on your part (after the initial – often hard – work of creating the product)??

I’m sure you agree it would!

It would make you LESS fearful of what tomorrow will bring, if you’re self-employed or without work. And if you’re a salary earner, you would have extra money to do MORE of what you want. Money that comes even when you don’t do any real work!

Let me share a true story from just 2 days ago i.e. Wednesday 19th August 2015 to illustrate:

About 30 minutes after I finished a Skype phone conversation with a new UK based client for my Book Ghost-Writing service, I got a call from a Lagos based Poultry Farm CEO.

I recall telling him that I found it strange that he got through to me on my Nigeria mobile line (+234-803-302-1263), even though I was here in Cotonou, Benin Republic. It was the first time anyone had ever gotten through to me here, without using my Benin line (+229-66-122-136). Normally, once I cross the border, I’ve often found that I am only able to send and receive SMS messages using the line for the country I’ve left.

But back to the story…

The Farm CEO told me he had just watched the Youtube video for my Excel VB Poultry Farm Manager, and wanted to know what the price was, and if I could customize it for his farm.

I answered both questions and offered some details on what to expect.

Then I told him of a promo offer I’d just sent out, via bulk sms to my subscribers that same Wednesday morning, which was due to expire at midnight. I noted that if he was ready to buy, he could take up the product at the promo price…BUT only if he filled and submitted my website contact form to join my mailing list.

This was because the offer was ONLY meant for people who had signed up as subscribers.

The guy wasted no time in doing that, and I sent him account payment details. About 10 minutes later, he sent me an sms that he had done bank transfer!

But it DID not end there…!

Just as I finished replying the SMS, I recalled that another Poultry Farm CEO, had called me while holidaying in London, but had since returned to Nigeria. He had also indicated interest in buying the Poultry Farm Manager.

It occurred to me that the promo offer might interest him. I called his mobile line, but kept getting a “Not Available” message from a recorded voice. My purpose was to inform him of the promo offer, in case he would want to take it up.

When I could not reach him on phone, I could have simply stopped there. However, my keenly honed selling instincts made me think of sending him an email, as I’d noticed during our past correspondence that he used a smart phone, and appeared to be often online.

It was a good thing I did, because less than 30 minutes later, he sent an email thanking me for the heads up, and confirming that he had done a bank transfer to take up the promo offer! (See screenshot below)

It was a good thing I did, because less than 30 minutes later, he sent an email thanking me for the heads up, and confirming that he had done a bank transfer to take up the promo offer! (See screenshot below)

Less than 24 hours later, I had sent both buyers the promised promo versions of the products.

Each CEO had paid N27.5k, making it a total of N55k paid into my bank account in ONE single evening!

[NB: You must remember that what I sell are 100% digital products. So I have no production or delivery costs to worry about…]

Isn’t it amazing how having the solution people want, in form of a product you can sell, promoted using an intelligent web marketing system, can enable one make repeat sales with little or no effort?

The best part is that it’s timeless marketing.

That is, it NEVER expires – and I mean that with reference to the product marketing.

The narrative I just shared above is a reality I experience on a regular basis. So this is not just some theory based recommendation I’m making to you about Digital Cash Flow Generating Assets™

It’s a tested and proven strategy that has WORKED for me for YEARS.

And I’m not the only one who uses it – as I also studied others to develop the variant that is mine today.

However, it is my vision to help as many others as would like to, learn how to make money in this same way.

If that interests you, click here to request details of my Spontaneous Coaching for Passive Income (SC4PI)™ generation program!

I look forward to working with you :-)

NB: The term Digital Cash Flow Generating Assets™ and the acronym DCFGA™ are trademarks of Tayo Solagbade’s Self-Development Academy.

RELATED ARTICLES

1. No. 201: Your Own Money Making Product Built by Me [Offer Expires MNT Wed 15th July 2015]

2. A Tried & Tested Strategy For Achieving Financial Freedom (Hint: Get My Audio DVD Information Product titled “Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income”)

Below: Photograph of my latest Audio DVD Information Product titled “Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income” (sitting on my copy of Robert Kiyosaki’s “Why ‘A’ Students Work for ‘C’ Students, and ‘B’ Students Work for the Government”)

Photograph of my latest Audio DVD Information Product titled Proven Ways to Generate Useful Passive Income (sitting on my copy of Robert Kiyosaki's Why 'A' Students Work for 'C' Students, and 'B' Students Work for the Government)

 

[NEW BOOK!] How to Bust Loose: and use Mental Alchemy™ to take command of your life – Paperback By Burt Dubin (Creator of the Speaking Success System)

I’m excited: But Dubin‘s new book “How to Bust Loose: and use Mental Alchemy™ to take command of your life” is on sale at Amazon.com (click here). When he began writing it, he told me.

I'm excited: But Dubin's new book

Full disclosure: Burt – a renowned mentor of some of the highest paid speakers in the world – is my mentor…AND I also represent him as SOLE AGENT across Africa, promoting his speaker mentoring products and services.

As one who has learnt from Burt for years – and also corresponded with him while he was writing THIS book – I can tell you it offers timeless wisdom for achievement of self-actualization by ANYONE no matter you status.

If you want to achieve your God-given potential in life, get this book and read it. Take it from me, as one whose success today stems from over a decade of adapting a LOT of the wisdom from Burt’s written works to achieve my goals.

Without any attempt at exaggeration, I make bold to say that if I had NOT encountered Burt’s writing, I would NOT be where I am today, succeeding the way I do. There is NO doubt in my mind about that!

Below is a preview of the book, with a link to the full copy in Burt’s Amazon.com store

This book is a treasure trove of wisdom.

Within its pages you discover how to make yourself the master of your life experience. You see how to assert your autonomy, how to liberate yourself from imposed imperatives and how to master the real power of your mind.

And that’s just the start.

When you apply the principles within the ten Parts of this book you proceed to live the life your heart desires.

For 37 years the author researched and emulated the thinking processes of Thomas Edison and Albert Einstein.

Click here to continue reading…