How to Respond if Anyone Tells You ‘Spiritual Enemies’ Are The Cause of Your Failures :-)) [ 18minute 27 second Performance Improvement podcast – Downloadable as MP3]

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Title: “How to Respond if Anyone Tells You ‘Spiritual Enemies‘ Are The Cause of Your Failures”

Subtitle: “You Have to Work With God to Create The Miracle You Want”

This is one of many in a series that is available for FREE download/listening access ONLY by members of my Inner Circle. (Click here to learn how to become a member)

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“…If you want to succeed, you have to start living the way I tell you in this audio…”

“…Take a look around you. Some people don’t even worship God. Some societies don’t even acknowledge God the way we do in Africa, and yet they flourish, because God’s rules are scientific.

The law of gravity is not just a spiritual thing, it’s a scientific thing. That’s why we’re able to build aircraft that fly – because we understand gravity, and how to defy it.

So there’s a science to everything. That’s why we’re able to create drugs that get us to be well, when we are sick. We understand the science of medicine!

So, God is a scientist, as he is spiritual, and therefore everything he does has a scientific basis.

You must therefore understand that there is a science to success. And that science to success, if you understand that science, you will understand that no human being can stop you from achieving any goal you want to achieve!

Your thoughts alone control what you can succeed at, and what you fail at. You are the one that determines your success or your failure.

Please keep this in your mind. Please remember this at all times.

If you know you really want to succeed in life, it is important that you know how to control your thoughts.

Without control of your thoughts, nature will not work for you, because nature was created by God, and nature depends on what you think, to know what to give to you.

Nature will send what you think to you. If you think negative, the negative will come to you. If you think mean, mean will come to you. If you think positive, the positive will come to you. If you think pleasant, the pleasant will come to you.

There’s a law of nature. You’ve heard about Karma.

If you haven’t heard about it, I just told you about it. Karma is what goes around comes around. It will bring to you whatever you do to others. If you send out evil, evil will come back to you. They are laws that are scientific and cannot be broken.

God is the one that set those laws. If you want to please God and get him to give you what you want, you have to obey those laws. It’s as simple as that…”

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You can get it for FREE, along with many other benefits, by joining my Inner Circle (click for details).

Alternatively click here to send me a message, and I’ll tell you how to get it without joining.

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Watch below, the CONCLUDING portion of the workbook automation tutorial preview video I created for the National Distribution Manager of a Telecoms Company in 2003 (This 4:13 clip inadvertently got cut off during editing: You can watch the BEGINNING at www.excelheaven.biz)

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Like I said in this concluding clip, what I offer are mainly home study tutorial workbooks accompanied by video tutorials.

Most times, except the client requests otherwise, I create the tutorials based on the intended users REAL LIFE work situation.

It’s called Experiential Coaching.

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Whether you’re in business or paid employment, if you feel you don’t earn enough, starting a new business or changing jobs may be too risky.

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Whether you’re in business or paid employment, if you feel you don’t earn enough, starting a new business or changing jobs may be too risky.

I propose a SUPERIOR alternative used by millions worldwide, and which YOU can successfully adopt while still working full time.

What if you could continually “create” and sell a growing range of your very own BRANDED products to a worldwide audience? Even while you sleep? What if you could do this in a way that generates tangible income for you, over time, on a reasonably regular basis, with YOU being in 100% control? And what if you could achieve the foregoing (with money coming right in your pockets) even without having to quit your job?

Few people would walk away from such an opportunity. Especially when it’s one that does NOT threathen your existing (job) security. It is possible. You can do it. I say so because I AM doing it. And I can help you do it as well.

But there’s ONE thing to note: This is NO free ride in a fancy car opportunity.

You will have to put in the work – and since you want to keep your day job, that means you will have to WORK longer hours, and harder too. So if, for instance, your job is very demanding, possibly you leave home early and come home very late, the question to ask you is:

What do you do with your free time?

You may say you don’t have free time, but you probably do have free time, because you find a way to attend people’s weddings, burial ceremonies, birthday parties, anniversaries, and you do birthday parties for your kids.

Take your kids out to the beach, you do things …those are your free time!

They may not be more than 1 or 2 hours in day, maybe the weekends. You can use that free time in nurturing this business. You see, nature abhors imbalance. The Chinese talk of the Ying and Yang. You cannot take without giving. If you do, you create a vacuum that will eventually suck you in.

So, if you’re looking for success, be prepared to give something to get it.

Now, if you don’t want that, then please stop listening to this audio because I don’t have anything for you. But if you’re ready for that then what I’m trying to say is that you are about to learn a NEW way, NEW HABITS to earn income. And I’m saying that those habits do NOT require you to quit your job!

NB: By the way, if you’re thinking this is one of those autopilot schemes (or scams!)…IT IS NOT!

Indeed, to use this system I refer to, you WILL have to do what I do. And that is: Create the products/services that people will buy from you AND/OR or intelligently choose rebrandable ones available from others to sell.

Subsequently, you WILL have to invest QUALITY thinking time, and effort to make sales happen – EVEN while you sleep.

It’s NOT easy to do, but it can be done. I DO IT, and the good thing, for YOU, is that you will have ME to guide and support you every step of the way.

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Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

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Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

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No. 188: (a) Be Proficient In Your Preferred Language (b) Ultimate Marketing Strategy to Attract Perfect Clients

Imagine you were walking down the road and a haggard looking beggar, called out to you in PERFECTLY SPOKEN ENGLISH. Imagine s/he went on to state his/her request articulately, and in the manner of a person of fine education. Wouldn’t that make you hear him/her out? Or possibly do more?

[NOTE TO READER: This newsletter serves experts-who-speak. Starting today – Monday 13th April 2015 – it has MORPHED in name and content served, to a 2 part Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter, to better serve them. You just read a preview to the “Public Speaking IDEAS” part above.]

Here’s a preview of the Web Marketing IDEAS part:

A photography marketing expert (C. Lewis) once wrote: “Well developed products don’t sell themselves. Product marketing does!”. I agree. He also said (I paraphrase): The secret to getting many more great customers/clients is NOT in the quality of your offering…”

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Title: (a) Be Proficient In Your Preferred Language (b) Ultimate Marketing Strategy to Attract Perfect Clients

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING: Be Proficient In Your Preferred Language*

Imagine you were walking down the road and a haggard looking beggar, called out to you in PERFECTLY SPOKEN ENGLISH. Imagine s/he went on to state his/her request articulately, and in the manner of a person of fine education. Wouldn’t that make you hear him/her out? Or possibly do more?

In truth, most people would likely answer “YES” to my question. At the very least, even if you choose not to stop, there’s a good chance you’ll mention THAT beggar to the next “sane” person you meet.

That could be your friend, spouse or associate. It’s not something one sees everyday. It would STICK to your memory!

Dale Carnegie once wrote that a person’s diction can be his/her “passport into the best business circles“. He told the story of a man who secured a well paying job, with the help of a wealthy business owner, within 24 hours of speaking with the latter, even though he had walked in dressed like a tramp!

Carnegie’s “conclusion” could be rephrased for more “completeness” as follows:

“Your diction can be your passport to the best SOCIAL circles”.

I say this because my experiences and observations indicate that people love to listen to, and be associated with, a person who has a good command of their accepted or recognized language of communication.

And I must point out here, that what I’m saying is NOT limited to the use of the English language. 

In Nigeria for instance, some radio, TV, print and other news media owners value hiring journalists, proficient in certain widely spoken local languages, such as Yoruba, Igbo, Hausa etc.

So, when there is a need to get valuable news stories from locals that are unable to express themselves in English, journalists with the ability to competently communicate with such “sources” tend to get better quality news reports in.

Over time, they get noticed by the BOSS …especially in crisis periods, when there is pressure on the media house to churn out latest updates ahead of competitors (Think Boko Haram terror bombings or kidnappings etc).If they continue to deliver, such individuals find themselves getting more face-time with those who matter. And their names get known. Their careers sky rocket.

In reality, sometimes, the guy who becomes the “local champion” – as described above – may not necessarily be “expert” at speaking the language.

S/he might just be the MOST (or the ONLY person) proficient or competent in the use of that language in the organization.As a result the responsibility for doing the “talking” naturally falls on him. Whoever is the formal “leader” in that social situation automatically has to reckon with this individual.

In other words. s/he gets noticed by the decision makers…AND the rest becomes history!

Lesson to Take Away: How good is your command of the language you have to use an expert in your chosen field?

Not just how well you speak it, but also in terms of how well you can read, and write in it (e.g. use of grammar and tenses etc), as well as how well you COMPREHEND it when others speak it to you?

If you’re not sure, get someone you trust to give you an objective assessment.

To help my clients, who I’m supporting to use Web Marketing Systems I develop for them, I’ve resolved to begin offering subtle (corrective) pointers and tips in this regard.

When a meeting planner looking to hire an expert-speaker reads an article riddled with errors of all kinds, it can throw him/her off so much that s/he loses the initial interest in the expert that wrote it. Especially if that expert’s demonstrated ability to use the language is an important criterion used by the meeting planner to invite speakers or hire experts.

I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve also put up writing with such errors. So, it’s not like I’m trying to claim perfection here.

However, making many such errors is farm from being the norm for me. Success is said to be a matter of percentages. We all make mistakes, and no one is perfect, but we all need to strive for perfection!

I do so: Everyday. Starting today. I’m re-inventing myself in this regard as well, so I can do even better!

To get taken seriously, by potential clients, you want to do the same: Make serious, and consistent effort to minimize errors anytime you SPEAK. Or when you WRITE – especially formally e.g. on your website, blog, even Facebook. Read through AFTER you’ve published and if you notice errors, correct them. Someone may have seen the error(s), but the next person will NOT, and s/he will at least go away with a better impression of you!

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2 of 2: WEB MARKETING: Use Web Marketing to Boost Sales Leads

A photography marketing expert (C. Lewis) once wrote:

“Well developed products don’t sell themselves. Product marketing does!”. I agree.

He also said (I paraphrase): The secret to getting many more great customers/clients is NOT in the quality of your offering! Yes, your product/service has to be good, and you should strive to be the best, BUT…and it is a big BUT, even if you are not (yet) the best in your area. Your success depends MUCH more on your BUSINESS MARKETING TECHNIQUES than you realize.”

In essence, it does not matter how good you are at what you do, if those who need what you offer do not know you exist…

Without effective marketing, your skills may amount to nothing!

Now, if you really want to make the most of your time, money and effort in marketing your business, develop – and implement – your own version of what I call a Custom Web Marketing System.

This applies to your speaking business as well.

I recall listening to an audio recording of a radio show on which Burt Dubin was interviewed.

When he was asked how he marketed his service, he replied that everything he did in marketing his speaker mentoring service was based on the web.

If a 3 decade veteran mentor of highly paid international speakers thinks the web can serve his needs that well, you should seriously consider using it for your own speaking business too!

Even if you are NOT a speaker, nothing stops you from doing anything else you feel is worthwhile offline, to complement your online efforts.

What is crucial is that you keep your marketing related expense of money, time, and effort LOW. The Internet offers the best opportunities to achieve that purpose.

Now don’t get me wrong: It’s important to aim to be the best at what you do….

But something even more important than being the best, is being able to market yourself BETTER than any other person who does what you do.

Want to know the specific things you need to do to develop and implement your own Web Marketing System?

Simple. Just read this newsletter EVERY Monday!

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Question: But who is Burt Dubin, and why do I (Tayo K. Solagbade) think you should you learn from him?

Answer: Burt is a 3 decade veteran in the professional speaking business. After achieving top level cross continental success as an expert-speaker, he has established a reputation for mentoring some of the highest paid speakers in the world. He owns SpeakingBizSuccess.com, SpeakingSuccess.com and BurtDubin.com.

Burt helps those he mentors (experts-who-speak) to Position, Package, Promote, and Present* themselves successfully to clients (*He calls them the 4Ps). That’s why it’s no surprise that on Burt’s website, considerable space capital is devoted to useful business marketing articles as well as products.

It might also interest you to know that MANY years back, Burt established himself as one of the best marketing minds in the world. To really put this FACT in proper perspective, I’ll provide more specific details in form of an example.

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Before we teamed up in 2011, I’d been studying his work and adapting it to succeed in my work from way back in 2002. It does not matter what part of the world you’re in. If you know how to adapt them to suit your peculiar local needs, Burt’s ideas and strategies WILL work for you. I am living proof of it!

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“Tayo, I honestly believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything he does. Your commitment and effort has been outstanding….Thanks for all your hard work since I’ve been here – you will be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. – Andy”(R. Jones)*

*Operations Manager, Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery, December 2001 (Handwritten comments in farewell/xmas cards sent to Tayo Solagbade following his resignation to start his own business).

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Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Sole Agent For Burt Dubin’s Speaker Mentoring Service In Africa

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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To Win More Often In Life, Master The Art Of Non-Combative Confrontation (6 Tips to Follow & 3 Benefits to Reap!)

We are often told, as kids, to be respectful/obedient to older others. In some cultures, however, the indoctrination goes deeper, such that youths become adults unable to challenge “bad behaviour” by older persons or bosses.

This article offers insights anyone can follow to overcome such a limitation – including 6 tips on what to do, and 3 benefits to expect.

I have however found that it is best to always enquire “to whom” I should be respectful and obedient, to what extent, and for how long – and WHY.

As much as possible I try to do this without showing disrespect to those I ask, but I never let fear of reproach keep me from getting a satisfactory answer.

Here’s a question to ponder: Would it make sense – and be in your best interest – for you to CONTINUE being respectful and obedient to a boss, parent, or other adult who REPEATEDLY deliberately puts you down, or even abuses you?

Are you for instance likely to have a successful career in a company where your boss connives with your colleague (who is his tribesman) to take credit for most of your creative input which help the department meet challenging targets that others miss?

You don’t want to rock the boat or cause any trouble. But they don’t seem to mind causing you pain by denying you long overdue recognition. (In fact they sometimes go as far as “setting you up” to take the fall for things that go wrong in the department!).

Do you think they will ever stop if you don’t take them up on their bad habits? I doubt it.

People who are small enough in their thinking to knowingly maltreat others are not likely to stop except they know there will be repercussions.

If you won’t consider making a change for your direct benefit, at least think of how you can use the ideas offered here to EMPOWER your child to deal with bullies and their likes that s/he WILL meet in life.

Imagine your child finds him/herself being bullied repeatedly in his/her new boarding school, even after reporting to senior students and teachers?

Will s/he put an end to it, by acting timid, submissive or subservient before those who torment him/her?

Not likely.

Will getting into fights with the bullies make any difference?

Maybe, but that would depend on how well s/he can fight, but ultimately, the cost/repercussions of violence may not be worth it.

A more intelligent approach would be for him/her to learn how to CONFRONT people who misbehave without being COMBATIVE.

In other words, s/he would master the skills needed to tactfully but firmly challenge others who behave badly in a manner that ensures they CORRECT their “bad” behaviour then/there, and into the future.

The sad reality however is that a lot of people dread having to confront others. Too many assume confronting others implies being combative or worse, being violent. It does not necessarily follow.

Here are 6 tips you can follow to successfully CONFRONT without being COMBATIVE:

1. You do need not to be aggressive or combative to get taken seriously.

Instead, simply learn to learn to assert yourself e.g. many times if you are simply NOT “shy” about telling people what you will NOT accept from them, they will respect you for it.

2. You must master your fear.

There is a useful quote I read somewhere that goes as follows:

“Courage is mastery of fear, not the absence of fear” – Mark Twain

Allowing fear to consume you to the point that you let others intimidate you into accepting their unjust/unfair treatment of you will lead many times to your having very “unhappy” relationships – at work and elsewhere.

Remember: THAT which you fear the most will eventually consume you.

So, conquer your fears – learn to speak your mind about HOW you FEEL to those who make you unhappy – but do so tactfully such that no one will be able to accuse you of being emotional or combative.

3. Stop thinking everyone needs to like you.

It makes no sense to want to be liked by people who do not wish you well or who will not treat you with respect and consideration. Remember, as great as Martin Luther King Jnr. was, some people did not like him, and felt strongly enough to kill him. Same for Jesus Christ, Mahatma Ghandi…all advocates of non-violence!

Do you REALLY think you are going to be different. Answer is NO – except of course you choose to become a “hypocrite” or “Social Chameleon” who tells people what s/he thinks they want to hear, and not what s/he really thinks. In which case, the ideas discussed in this article would be irrelevant to you.

4. Learn to ask questions.

You can use intelligent questioning to demonstrate why those you wish to correct need to change their ways. When people know you are going to ask them questions that expose their bad intentions, they are likely to avoid acting that way often – especially where you are concerned.

Examples of questioning styles you can use: “Why did you just say that to me?” or “Is there any reason why you asked XYZ to go for the audition from this department when both of us applied with similar qualifications – and could have been given the chance to contest for the available slot?”.

5. Build A Reputation

Sometimes making a point of doing what you do WELL every time and being committed/reliable in whatever you are engaged in can make it more difficult for others to try to make you look bad. So, if you make up your mind to show yourself to be consistently up and doing, without playing to the gallery, it could help you build a loyal following among a large number of people who watch from the sidelines – who will feel more inclined to treat you with fairly, rather than let themselves be influenced to do the opposite.

6. Act the fool.

At the end of the day, you will find that no matter what you do, some people live to upset others. From what I have seen in my adult life, if they cannot malign/mal-treat others, they never really feel “happy” with themselves. So trying to make them stop never really achieves any permanent benefits. In this case, one would be better off – in my opinion – choosing to act the fool with this type of people.

Here’s one suggestion: When they do their naughty acts, prepare to mock them in return

For instance, if someone chooses to talk loudly in front of your visiting friends about one of your “highlight workplace career mistakes”, you can take it in your stride by choosing to THANK him/her for “helping you remember THAT interesting experience you would like to share”.

Then make a point of describing the details of one of those mistakes in as humorous a manner as you can, making sure to end by explaining how that incident helped you gain additional competence to do your job (which is what always happens in real life).

By acting in this manner, you are likely to end up looking good via an opportunity created by your “tormentor” – the exact opposite of what s/he intended! Believe me, very many of those who misbehave in the ways discussed in this article, cannot endure being mocked. They are very likely to avoid crossing you in future, you when they discover you repeatedly demonstrate the ability to match them in the manner I suggest.

Three (3) Benefits You Can Expect To Reap by Confronting Without Being Combative

The truth about the kinds of people I have described in this article is that they often get their boldness from the (mistaken) assumption that others will be afraid to challenge them. By doing just that, even if you are unable to stop them, you achieve – at least – three benefits:

1. You put FEAR/DOUBT into his/her mind that that he can get away with treating you like that next time. This will make him/her think twice in future before crossing your path again.

2. Your action can give others useful confidence boosting evidence that it is not impossible to stand up to such persons if one goes about it the right way. Some may decide to follow your example if/when they find themselves faced with a similar predicament.

3. You could end up building a silent followership that over time may grow to a point where others will be willing to JOIN forces with you – as a group – to resist the advances of these “bullies” and their likes, on weaker members of the society.

In summary, you can – and should – learn to assert yourself in your relationships

You do not have to let others push you around just because you don’t want to upset them.

Remember: If they are upsetting you, or some other defenseless person, then they need to be TOLD to stop it.

You must be prepared to consider the possibility that they they do not know or refuse to be bothered. Either way, if YOU don’t take action, they may not stop. Keeping quiet and waiting for someone else to do it for you will often lead to needlessly prolonged suffering on your part.

You deserve better than that!

PS: This article is based on a piece originally published on 5th May 2008 as Issue No. 26 of my (now defunct) Self-Development Nuggets Newsletter

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No. 127: Master FEAR, and You’ll Achieve Mastery In Any Field

Overcoming Adversity to Succeed – Practical Lessons From a Teenager’s Story

Some abusive people use their money and connections to try intimidating others. For me, accepting such treatment amounts to lacking REAL faith in God. I’m not talking religion here. God is OUR Creator. And ALL who have real faith in Him FEAR nobody! Remember the biblical trio who got thrown into the furnace for refusing to bow to King Nebuchadnezzar’s idol statue? How different is THAT from standing up to a rich cheating/abusive client??

I DO NOT need to attend church to KNOW God (I Use the Bible & other Religious books Mainly for Moral Instruction & Guidance)

It is ironic, but true, that many who attend Church, Mosque etc STILL FEAR oppressors.

I have made this point repeatedly to all who care to listen. And I’ve told my kids the same countless times.

Some weeks ago, I discussed this subject with my 2 eldest sons (then 11 and 9): I referred them to the bible phrase in Psalm 21 “Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I… will fear no evil“.

Being diligent Sunday school attendees (their mum sees to that!), they quickly completed that phrase for me. Then I asked them what it meant to them. Their answers were predictable – same you and I would give if asked.

Then I challenged them: How much you believe this bible verse will be proven when you eventually encounter a “little” of the evil that seems to abound in our society. What you do THEN will determine if you really KNOW God, and trust him.

My kids know that my favourite example for them on this theme is the story of David vs. Goliath.

I asked them: “When David challenged Goliath in the bible, was it recorded or reported that he FIRST went to ask his parent’s permission BEFORE stepping out to challenge the mighty Goliath?

They chorused a loud NO!

Then I asked: “What did David say to Goliath?”

FIRST, let’s check out the description of Goliath: “The Philistine army came up to fight Israel led by a giant named Goliath. Over 9 feet tall, Goliath was covered with heavy metal armor (125#) including his helmet and leg armor. He carried a great spear in his hand (tip of spear 15#) and a man went before him with a huge shield. The very sight of Goliath struck fear in the hearts of Israel’s soldiers.”

And this was the person that a small boy like David chose to challenge.

See what small David said to King Saul – an adult who knew God EARLIER that David, and who should have been expected to demonstrate MORE faith:

32Don’t worry about this Philistine” David told Saul. “I’ll go fight him!

33Don’t be ridiculous!” Saul replied. “There’s no way you can fight this Philistine and possibly win! You’re only a boy, and he’s been a man of war since his youth.”

MY comment: In other words, having FAITH and ACTING it, has little to do with age or experience and more to do with TRUST and BELIEF/CONVICTION.

Now check out David’s response:

34 But David persisted. “I have been taking care of my father’s sheep and goats,” he said. “When a lion or a bear comes to steal a lamb from the flock, 35 I go after it with a club and rescue the lamb from its mouth. If the animal turns on me, I catch it by the jaw and club it to death. 36 I have done this to both lions and bears, and I’ll do it to this pagan Philistine, too, for he has defied the armies of the living God! 37 The Lord who rescued me from the claws of the lion and the bear will rescue me from this Philistine!

I need not say more, except this:

If MORE of us who attend Church for God, would begin to also LIVE for God, by acting with REAL faith, we would really become the LIGHT of the world that the bible calls Christians.

Think John the Baptist for example. He spoke without fear to Herod, accusing of killing his brother and taking the wife for himself. John had no material wealth, and lived existentially – feeding on honey, wearing sheep skin if I recall correctly. If we ALL do it, Nigeria will become an INSTANT world power – and a place better than America. FACT!

FINAL WORDS: My personal experiences have me convinced that there will always be different perspectives – all with their own justifications.

In all however, my point is that people who know God, whether or not they attend Church must begin to ACT in real life in a manner that demonstrates they KNOW he is on their side.

 PS: This article is based on an original piece first published online in 2011

Teaching Kids “Practical Problem Solving” Through a Cake Baking Mishap!

Explore the picture “story” below of my kid’s continuing charcoal stove (no oven) cake baking …this time around decorating with icing. And what an experience it’s been…with a MAJOR mistake caused by an oversight on my part [As I type this, they’re having to bake ANOTHER set to make up]!!

Below are a series of “ghastly” looking photos from yesterday’s activities, which ended with my discovery, AFTER asking why the cakes looked shrunken/hard, that they had added water to the butter/flour/sugar/vanilla mixture …because they felt it looked too thick!!!!dav14

Photo 1: Argh…the icing I can understand. This was a first attempt, and we’d not really done the due diligence of studying the many downloaded pages on “how to”. But the cake seems to be “hiding” above.

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Photo 2: The cup cakes in the pot mounted on the charcoal stove – African style! Without the umbrella of mushy icing in photo 1 they look awful…especially considering that the kids have been baking them (even in my absence or without my supervision for over a year)!

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Photo 3: During the egg beating and initial mixing I’d been around. But later on I’d left to visit the cafe. Then I returned 2 hours later and decided to take a nap…

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Photo 4: Mixing

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Photo 5: Our simple charcoal stove remains in use. For those who wonder, read this PDF (click here now) to understand why we choose to NOT use an oven or other “standard” equipment.

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Photo 6: A closer look at the embers…hot stuff!

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Photo 7: The icing gun pack we purchased newly

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Photo 8: More of the strange looking cakes with their shaky looking icing “hats” :-))

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Photo 9: Closeup of one of the cakes

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Photo 10: One thing you cannot accuse the kids of is lack of effort – here they’ve used the icing to spell their little brother’s English name…!

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Photo 11: Now all the cakes in one photo…

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Photo 12: I was desperate to get a set that looked passable…so this shot was taken of selected pink capped ones…still NOT good enough…lol!

So What Happened? Well I’d been so confident based on our many previous efforts that they’d gotten used to the recipe, having done it many times in the past.

So, upon returning from the cyber cafe, I’d gone in to take a nap.

Well, it turned out they’d forgotten the exact order in which the ingredients were to be added and mixed. As a result, things got a bit confused. By the time they brought the cakes to me, so I could take the photos it was too late.

Did you notice also the icing?

That was their first attempt at preparing/applying it, using the gun we bought.

Far from perfect. Ironically, despite the fact that we downloaded many pages of step-by-step instructions from different websites on preparing and apply icing to cakes, I failed to get them to read and follow those instructions.

Having said the above, no matter how not-so-great they look, the cakes certainly taste great…and we’ve been munching away since yesterdayincluding birthday boy himself!

But they’re giving it another go this afternoon (at my insistence), to make the more presentable kinds we’ve successfully made many times in the past.

It’s been a problem-solving experience in establishing best practice procedures to get consistent results in a specific activity.

Having seen the result of my poor leadership of the kids, especially in their excited states of mind, I called them together and we talked.

I noted that last September they’d made a perfect set of cakes in their grandparents’ home and asked what WENT WRONG this time around. They argued – a lot! Not so much blame or buck passing, but voicing different opinions about how things should have been done.

That was when I knew I WAS the one at fault…with all my self-proclaimed experience in training, I’d overlooked the need to put in place formal written instructions in form of a recipe, for them to follow in order to ensure the product turned out was consistently to the desired standard.

So, I played back the video (see below) I recorded with my Blackberry of their September 2014 project we did in their grandparent’s home

[Above: You hear my voice i.e. Tayo Solagbade, and that of my 11 year old son] This is an excerpt from a full length video I recorded with my Blackberry of my kids September 2014 project we did in their grandparent’s home]

We watched the stages when they were doing the mixing in which I asked in what order the ingredients were being added. By the time we were done watching, their eyes were bright with excitement, as they recalled what had been done wrong.

Not surprisingly, when I subtly suggested they go back and try making another set, they jumped at the opportunity. Luckily for us, virtually all the ingredients needed were still left over – enough to make another set of cakes. Including the icing. I left them back home, preparing to do this, to come for a meeting here, at the cafe, where I am now typing this piece.

Suffice to say THIS latest exercise has once again ended successfully, with the kids picking up valuable new knowledge and insights, as I’d hoped.

FINAL WORDS: For those who don’t still get it, here’s why I DO THESE activities with my kids, and why I TALK ABOUT it and other answers:

NB: Download and read this PDF for more elaborate details (click here now)

1. Why I DO THIS?

It’s to empower my kids with real world relevant skills that complement whatever formal schooling they are exposed to, in a way that ensure they can hold their own ANYWHERE, without being at the mercy of others. Be it financially or physically.

Cake baking is just one of many skills I am working to ensure they acquire. Every smart thinking parent will do same for his/her kids …especially if you want to give them the best chances of success in life.

2. Why I TALK ABOUT it?

It’s because I have a God-given vision and mission to share my insights and know-how with others who may need it, so they can benefit and use to advance their own lives.

This is why I write articles explaining what I do with my kids, what works, and what does not, so they can be better informed about what to do and how.

I offer various resources, some free, others paid – such as books and even self-tutoring DVD products, like my 10 Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs for Childrenm and other Leaders DVD as well as my Best Practice Parenting book titled “Kukuru Danger” -which is based on my true life experiences as a teenager.

3. Why not just send them to a vocational school to learn? That will come for whichever one of them decides s/he is interested enough to want to get formal training. Otherwise, my key purpose is to empower them to become self-tutoring or Independent Learners…like I AM.

In other words, these exercises and coaching I am giving my kids are designed to help them develop the mental attitude to pursue self-improvement.

Just like I have done over the past 2 decades successfully teaching myself EVERY single income earning skill or knowledge I possess today as an entrepreneur,

That would make them literally unstoppable (regardless of the severity or duration of adversity that comes up) like I AM!

PS: Oh by the way, here  are photos of cakes they baked back in September 2014 at their grandparent’s home (using charcoal stove and all the other trademark “local” and low to zero cost equipment…

As you can see, they even have special packaging they put them in – especially when they sell. Download and read this PDF for more elaborate details (click here now)

American Style Easter Eggs for my Nigerian Kid’s 1st Year Birthday Anniversary!

Apart from launching 2 re-invented newsletters next week, and morphing this blog’s content, my best practice parenting articles are also evolving e.g THIS article announces (with a photo) my kids’ first American Style Easter Eggs making effort merged with the 1st birthday anniversary for Tayo Kayode Solagbade Junior (TKSJ)!

As I type this, my 13 year old boy is sitting next to me in the café, with a pack containing cake icing and a gun for applying it, which we just purchased from a neighbourhood store.

His brothers and sisters are back at home using our trademark charcoal stove and pot (no oven) cake baking system, to produce a set of cup cakes to be used for the small celebration.

In the past, we’ve always left the cakes “naked” and sold them that way.

However, because this time around one of us is celebrating his birthday, we decided to LEARN how to prepare icing and create some special icing designs on our cakes.

Who will we be learning from? The Internet…as usual. That was how it all began over a year ago in late 2013(click to read PDF)!

We have already prepared a full pot of our pineapple peel cake which will be used to push down the cakes.

The Easter eggs making process almost got the better of us. But we eventually managed to finish with something to show. The plan is to get TKSJ to take photos with the cakes, drinks and Easter eggs on display.

Have to go offline now, and join them. It’s getting dark and they’ve complained that I kept them waiting while I was away at a client meeting in Ikeja.

Full details will be publishing in tomorrow’s blog. For now, here’s a photo of our final Easter eggs…lol

Photo of my kids' fist American Style Easter Eggs making effort merged with the 1st birthday anniversary for Tayo Kayode Solagbade Junior (TKSJ)!