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No. 207: No Substitute for Hard Work If You Want Success

Don’t fool yourself. Authentic long-lasting success in ANY field won’t come quickly or easily. It will take time and HARD WORK. Thinking otherwise can make you end up a frustrated failure! Below, I explain why hard work, when avoided in pursuing success, will often lead to success with a short shelf-life.

Thomas Edison once said: “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”

For me, there are 2 perspectives from which Edison’s words can be viewed:

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Title: No. 207: No Substitute for Hard Work If You Want Success

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – No Substitute for Hard Work If You Want Success

Don’t fool yourself. Authentic long-lasting success in ANY field won’t come quickly or easily. It will take time and HARD WORK.  Thinking otherwise can make you end up a frustrated failure!

Below, I explain why hard work, when avoided in pursuing success, will often lead to success with a short shelf-life.

Thomas Edison once said: “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”

For me, there are 2 perspectives from which Edison’s words can be viewed:

1. On the physical plane, when we engage in physically demanding tasks, sweating often results.

2. However one can also perspire psychologically e.g. in doing the serious thinking required to solve problems or create solutions. This latter aspect is more relevant to what Edison was saying, since he was an inventor – and not a labourer :-)

NB: Forgive me if I just stated the obvious in the last paragraph, but I just wanted to make sure.

Now, you have to admit the truth in the above quote, when you consider that the man who uttered those words had only 3 months of formal schooling. That was due to teachers saying he lacked the intellectual capacity to learn effectively.

They called him “addled”. His furious mother on hearing this pulled him out of school, and vowed to teach him at home.

Edison went on to become a renowned inventor by dint of hard work.

At a point he held over 1,000 different patents for inventions he either improved, or conceived entirely by himself!

Yet if you think about it, what he achieved was extraordinary, considering that he had NOTHING in the way of formal scientific training/education to draw on.

His life story reveals that all he did was diligently and persistently CONTINUE DOING what he was doing, despite countless failures – until he made it.

Edison was NO stranger to hard work. But he gained even more fame for his demonstrated attitude to failures that resulted from most of the hard work he did.

There is the well known story of how it took him about 10,000 attempts to refine the light bulb, by testing different metals.

Before discovering the tungsten filament that eventually, worked at the 10,000th attempt, he was asked about the 9,999 failed attempts he had made.

His response provides powerful insights into the way a person who wishes to succeed in spite of failures MUST think:

‘I have not failed. I have just found 9,999 ways that do not work’. – Thomas Edison

What most people who know about Edison’s success often miss…

I’ve studied success and failure a lot, by reading the life stories of successful people like Edison. I needed this especially during the years I struggled to find success as an entrepreneur.

The insights I gained made tell that most people fail to realize Edison, for instance, did not do all those 9,999 tests on different metals in one evening.

Most of us do not think about the fact that every time another metal failed the test, his financial backers must have been wondering if they were wasting their time and money on him.

Few of us stop to wonder, how Edison must have summoned courage to keep trying despite the thousands of failures he kept recording.

And oh, how many of us ever wondered how he faced naysayers that must have existed in his time, each time he failed??

The above is why I think it’s crucially important to ALWAYS try visualizing the CONTEXT in which failure happened for successful people – by diligently studying them.

That will enable us better appreciate the big picture of the experiences they had.

The understanding we gain will equip us to better handle the need to work hard at our goals, and to KEEP doing so, regardless of the failures we encounter (making intelligent changes of course, based on feedback we get).

I’ve used the example of Edison deliberately, because he achieved phenomenal success despite the potential handicap of a lack of formal education.

It’s no surprise that he said “Success is 1% inspiration and 99% perspiration”!

As a keen student of authentic long-lasting success achievement, I LIVE the stuff I’m sharing with you.

Based on my experiences and achievements, I want to let you in on one little known secret.

When you develop the HABIT of working hard at what you love doing, you get to a point where you can do it virtually effortlessly. Once there, it stops being work for YOU, but continues LOOKING like HARD WORK to those who observe you!

That’s what Edison achieved.

His focus on getting the results he wanted made him diligently form the habit of working hard at it until it came so naturally that he could do it (regardless of the outcome), without losing interest or passion for it.

The above is why I’m able to churn out a 1,500 word article in 30 to 45 minutes, and publish it on my blog every day

I’ve been doing this for YEARS.

Sometimes I draft 2 or 3 more, ready for the days that follow, then later tweak and auto-schedule them to go out on consecutive days.

Many times I’ve been asked “How do you do it?”…sometimes by some clients I ghost-write articles for. They ask because it tends to take them much longer, days even, to finish even ONE write-up that they feel confident enough to put out for others to read.

I tell them I’ve been doing this for over 2 decades, and NEVER gotten bored or tired. If anything, I get a HUGE RUSH, each time my fingers are on the keyboard. The words just FLOW through my fingertips!

In reality I’m able to do so because for YEARS I’ve diligently applied myself to writing even when I did NOT feel like doing it.

My wife and kids will tell you how (when I was still based in Lagos) I used to type 1,000 to 2,000 word articles right into midnight on my Blackberry, when we had no power(and no fuel for the generator).

This was often when I needed to ensure I got my artice for the day out, even though I had no electricity, and had just returned from working on a client’s premises hours away from home.

I would sit outside in the darkness, typing on the smart phone’s tiny keyboard, and then navigate on its browser to post the article on this blog.

Sometimes I would be so TIRED and would repeatedly catch myself dosing off as I waited for the Blackberry to load the browser or display confirmation that the post was published. If that did NOT happen, I would keep at it, until it did.

My commitment to getting it done was fanatical: failure was simply NOT an option!

[Note that I do the above, even while handling multiple client Web Marketing projects, fulfilling orders placed by buyers for my books and software, and even as I travel across borders. And I’m still able to create ample time to spend with my family – especially coaching my kids]

I still work that way today. But it comes VERY easily to me, and I never feel stressed or over worked, because I KNOW how to strike the balance needed (my regular exercise regimen for physical fitness is worthy of note here)

What I’m saying in essence is that once you develop the self-discipline to make yourself function as I’ve described above, working hard will become like play to you. And once that happens, your productivity will go through the roof.

Sadly, I read and hear too often today, people getting told they can succeed, but not being told that it’s VERY likely to require 99% perspiration from lots of hard work they MUST do!

That’s why I’ve written this article.

To warn as many people as will read this, that short-lived success, which ultimately ends in failure is the most likely outcome to be had from adopting such LAZY thinking.

The following quotable quote underscores the point I’ve made above, providing a fitting end to this piece:

THE “MAGIC FORMULA” FOR WINNING

It’s so simple that it’s “revolutionary”.

The fact is, this formula, or principle, is misunderstood enough and overlooked enough that it can truly be called “magic” by those who understand it.

Ready, here it is:

You beat 50 per cent of the people in America by working hard.

You beat another 40 per cent by being a person of honesty and integrity and standing for something.

The last 10 per cent is a dogfight in the free enterprise system.

I find that this simple concept is the hardest thing to get people to believe.

But I know it’s true.

I’ve seen it time and time again. Just take a minute and let it sink in.

You beat 50 per cent by working hard. I don’t care if you’re building a football team, going into business, starting a company, or running the country as president…

You beat 50 per cent of the people AT ANY LEVEL just by working hard consistently over a long period of time.

I get so mad when I read some of those get-rich-quick books on the market today. They talk about how you need to work smart, nor hard, to succeed.

Wrong!

Nobody wants to tell you about the bone-wearing, backbreaking work it takes to succeed, but I can promise you one thing.

You aren’t going to get to square one if you aren’t willing to work harder than you’ve ever worked in your life.” – A.L WILLIAMS in “All You Can Do Is All You Can Do” – Thomas Nelson Publishers

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the

popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm

Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in

various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly

traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training

& Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’

competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African

continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

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And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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