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Forget the Gloomy Economic Predictions! Your Success is 99% Within YOUR Control

[NB: This is a transcript of my New Year audio message]

This is Tayo Solagbade, and I want to challenge your thoughts a bit in this short audio clip I’m doing, with regard to the issue of jobs availability, unemployment locally in Nigeria, in Africa, and loss of jobs by people who are Africans based abroad in diaspora, and who are being probably sent home, losing their jobs and having to return home after decades working overseas.

And the fact that they were told "Oh because there are no jobs" so there’s nothing esle to keep them there, and they have to return home, because those economies in Europe and America can no longer support them, and are trying to provide for their own citizens – the native citizens…

All of those theories…that’s why I’m doing this audio:

I want to pass a message to the individual who fits any of those descriptions…

Maybe you’re somebody locally in Nigeria or Africa who cannot find a job, lost your job, are looking for a new job, or a better job…

Or you’re somebody who has been abroad, and you’ve lost your job, cannot find a job, are looking for a job…

Wherever you may be operating from or may have been operating from, I just want to tell you something:

The truth of the matter is that what your experiences and circumstances turn out to be in life, will be 99% within your contol!

I am not God – of course! – and I am NOT a magician.

But I am telling you this because it is the way I have lived my life, and I’ve seen the results every day: My life is a miracle, and my life is proof that the Creator will reward those who put in the effort to make themselves better, with faith and persistence.

So I want to tell you, that no matter what anybody is writing in the papers, on the Internet, or saying on radio or TV, the truth is that YOU are the master of the ship of YOUR life!

This is NOT a motivational talk. I am going to give you specific ideas you should take and apply in your life, if you know you don’t want to be one of those sorry statistics they’re gonna reel out at the end of the year saying "Oh it was a rough and tough year for people".

The truth of the matter is this: Because you are a child of God, YOU and WEALTH have an affinity for each other.

Understand that unless you do not have faith in YOUR Creator, that is the only reason you will accept that there is going to be a gloomy year: "Er this year is going to be a gloomy year, because of the lack of oil…"

All of that is just "story". It does NOT apply to everybody. It applies to those who accept it as their reality.

If you don’t accept it as your reality, and you take ACTION to make it NOT be your reality, it will NOT be your reality.

Now specifically, what I wanna tell you is this:

You need skills – and you need to acquire and develop skills that the market in which you are going to function – or the market you want to target – will appreciate enough to pay you profitably for.

If you are NOT willing to do that, then FORGET about dealing with hard times or winning in hard times or overcoming hard times.

You must be willing to adapt by acquiring and developing skills, knowledge and attitudes that will help you flourish and overcome any adversity or changes in your fortunes that may occur…

Because life is NOT a straight line graph. Life is not a bed of roses. We know this and yet we behave as if we expect it to be like that.

You cannot say you want to be successful, in spite of fluctuations in fortunes of societies and people around you, and then you still sit around doing what you were doing last year, 2 years ago.

You have to be willing to study trends, anticipate changes, and adjust yourself accordingly to make the most of waves that are going to come your way – or get thrown your way by life.

So skills are the key to your survival.

When I talk about skills (I mean) skills in any area of endeavour whatsoever. Whatever your talents, whatever your abilities are, you need to be able to identify skills that are marketable, that can make people pay you money to apply those skills for them – to their benefit.

Okay?

If you’re able to do that, you will never have a problem. Yes there will be ups and downs, but you will always have the answer.

You will always know that all you need to do is to apply yourself, make changes to your strategy, and still apply yourself again, and you will get the results you want.

I’m gonna give you a specific example.

For Africans in particular…as a matter of fact, for anybody anywhere in the world, the truth of the matter is that the Internet, PC and Internet technology, in conjunction with the use of smart phone technology and all of that – all the telecoms resources that we have today, that make this world such a rapidly changing marketplace.

If you can find a way to link what you do to the use of PC and Internet resources, you are going to succeed no matter the area of endeavour you are in.

It’s just going to be a matter of you using your creativity.

Specifically, if you can find a way to help people solve problems they have in:

a. the use of PC and Internet technology

b. the use of PC and Internet technology to achieve their offline goals.

If you can do one of those 2 things, you will not have a problem finding income that you need to live well, even in the hardest of times.

If you’re somebody that is creative, then you can develop solutions that are digital that people can buy from you, and that has nothing to do with what you studied. It has nothing to do with whether or not you’re in paid employment. You can do this at night, and resume at work by 8 and still do it when you get home at night again.

This is the thing. You need to stop thinking conventional. You’ve got to be able to think outside the box – in fact just get rid of the box completely!

If you’re unwilling to do this, then expect your road to be rough in 2016 and beyond.

But if you’re willing to think the way I’m talking about, then I assure you nobody can stop you from growing your brand, no matter what area of endeavour you’re in.

And you will always find yourself thanking God, living a life that is glorifying to him, because people will be asking you: "What is your secret?"

Because even when people are complaining, you will not be complaining , you will be giving thanks. You will be expressing gratitude.

So, don’t let anybody tell you that there is one gloomy prediction that is going to apply to you. It is a decision you can take. You have the power in your hand to decide how your future will be – with faith in God, and with the willingness to apply yourself with persistence.

If you do these things I describe in this audio, or those that you find when you check out my website – www.tayosolagbade.com – your story will be different from others.

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Where Do You Want Your Business To Be FIVE Years From Now? (Progress Evaluation Checklist)

*This article was first published online, via Spontaneousdevelopment.com (now defunct) on April 04, 2006

“In the race for excellence, there is no finish line” – Malcolm Baldrige

In a past edition of Philip Humbert’s(http://www.philiphumbert.com) TIPs newsletter, he wrote that persons building their businesses should always strive to make the systems they setup sustainable.

Sustainability, he explained, is what will ensure a business started up today can endure weeks, months or years of struggles till it eventually becomes what many(who are often unaware of the prolonged periods of struggle endured) call an “over-night-sensation”.

Philip’s expressed insight captures the essence of this article. Many times we think only about what we need to do to overcome the challenges of starting up a business.

We fail to think of what will be needed to successfully keep it going – profitably – for as long as we want it(or should I say “forever” i.e. long after we’ve passed on like Ford, Carnegie etc?).

If it was not for the use of Best Practice/Continuous Improvement Systems they developed in order to achieve sustainability, many Japanese companies would not be as efficient as they are known to be today.

Robert Kiyosaki once wrote that these sustainable systems keep many Japanese companies running on low operating expenses while achieving optimal efficiency in production.

They are consequently able to sell higher performance products at lower prices, thereby attracting more paying consumers – and increasing their retained profits.

“The world steps aside for the man who knows where he is going” – Abe Lincoln

It is important that you make it easy for yourself to stay on track towards achieving your business purpose. I once read somewhere that success is the never ending pursuit of perfection or excellence.

Stop and think for a minute about many successful businesses that you know have been around for as long as you can remember – IBM, General Electric, Ford, BMW, Mercedes. There is hardly anyone of them that has not gone through some evolution over the years from when it started till today.

Decision makers running these companies have to ensure they keep looking for cheaper and more effective ways of making the companies succeed. And in doing this, they would need to be able to accurately relate every action they take to the results they get, so as to competently decide on the best way(or combination of ways) to proceed. How well each company does this, determines how successful, and relevant it remains over the years.

The same requirement for big companies just described applies to small ones – and even individuals.

One tool I personally use for meeting this requirement – and which I believe others could find useful, even if with modifications – is the Action Plan/Progress Evaluation Checklist.

It can help you stay focussed towards achieving your set objective(s), and at the same time ensure you can review your achieved progress to determine modifications/changes you may need to make to your plan(s), in order to continue towards your purpose.

You can download an Acrobat PDF copy of my personal “Action Plan/Progress Evaluation Checklist Template”, from my website – TayoSolagbade.com.

Below, I provide steps you can follow in using it, should you be so inclined:

1. Use a spreadsheet to produce a blank editable version of the PDF document. (You can make any changes you want to the headings to meet your peculiar needs).

2. Decide on your Purpose/Goal – type it in the space provided on the blank checklist. IMPORTANT NOTE: You need to be certain about what you write here. If you are not sure how to accurately decide what your Purpose/Goal should be, read “The First Way – DEVELOP A MAGNIFICENT OBSESSION” in my article “Ten Ways You Can Use Self-Development To Create The Future You Want”.

3. Under the “Year” column, enter the year in which each sub-Goal(see 4. below) is to be achieved. Try making entries according to the order in which each sub-goal is to be tackled relative to others.

4. On a piece of paper, list the specific key tasks/actions you will need to take in order to achieve your purpose or goal. These would be your sub-goals or mini-goals.

5. Next, you will number/type each Sub-Goal from 4. above under the “Sub-Goals” column in the checklist table, leaving a few rows between it and the next. This is necessary to allow for entry of description details for each sub-goal. (Note that you can have more than one sub-goal in a year – email the checklist template to yourself to see).

6. Enter bullet point descriptions under the “Action Plan” column, of the specific Action Plans (Tasks/Activities) you will need to implement in order to achieve each sub-Goal.

7. Indicate the specific date you expect to complete each task under the “When” column.

8. Indicate completion status for each task by entering “Yes, No or Ongoing” under the “Done?” column.

9. Decide on a reasonable time interval during which you will routinely review your progress(each time updating your entries to reflect the current status. It might help to print out and file each updated version to track progress made).

The Action Plan/Progress Evaluation Checklist will force you to document up front, the various key tasks you need to perform in order to achieve your set goal over a defined time period.

You will also be able to record DATE ACHIEVED next to each task successfully completed.

As you pursue your goals, this document can help you easily keep track of what has been done, and what needs to be done next. You will also find it to be an extremely useful reference material much later – especially when you need to revisit your startup/other experiences in the future (possibly in coaching someone else).

In the long run, the Action Plan/Progress Evaluation Checklist will provide you a detailed historical record of what you did to produce the results/achievements you recorded, making it potentially valuable for better decision making(and/or knowledge sharing) in the future.

With regard to the foregoing, and to end on a lighter note, writing a book – in future – about HOW you succeeded in business might just turn out to be easier than would be normally expected, if you have diligently used your Action Plan/Progress Evaluation Checklist! :-)

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I help clients develop intelligent Web Marketing Systems as active sales leads generation tools.

Over 80% of clients who have requested this service already owned websites, but they went ahead and hired me to make their online presence more effective in doing what they wanted i.e. generating high quality sales leads on regular, reliable basis.

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I evolved my service such that clients only had to pay me to provide them a unique Web Marketing Systems based on my analysis of their needs.

Clients have purchased this service from various industries e.g. Health (Audiology), Real Estate, Information Technology, Environmental Services, Hotels, NGOs etc.

My elaborate website presence (at TayoSolagbade.com) attests to my ability to deploy wide ranging web solutions to achieve a variety of business marketing/branding objectives.

In many cases, I have used one or more of my own websites, to convince a prospect to hire me.

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In 2016, I intend to begin offering quick-start hands-on training in use of Joomla and WordPress Content Management Systems. My primary target audience will be business/website owners. But others are welcome – including web developers who may be interested.

Let me state categorically that I have VERY high proficiency in use of both Joomla! and WordPress – especially in the creative application of their various features and functions for web marketing purposes.

That’s something you simply cannot learn from going through Joomla or WordPress tutorials online. My methods make me super productive, such that I’m able to implement multiple projects in a short space of time.

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2. Now That YOUR Website Is Up, What Do You Do Next?

3. This Marketing Mistake Will Cost You Very Badly!

4. Six Smart Steps To Market Your (Farm) Products Online

5. You Cannot Beat Competitors If You Keep Doing The SAME Things They Do!

No. 225: To Excel, You Need to Immunize Yourself Against “Herd Mentality” [Hint: 5 Questions to Check If You Have “IT”]

Are you secretly scared of standing out from the crowd? Of being different from others? Or of having to – sometimes – go after your goals ALONE?

If YES there’s a good chance authentic and sustainable success will habitually elude you – especially as an expert in your chosen field of interest or expertise.

Why?

Because those who excel in life rarely let concerns about belong to the “herd” influence their decision making about goals to set and pursue.

Or to put it another way, they are NOT afflicted with “Herd Mentality”.

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Title: To Excel, You Need to Immunize Yourself Against “Herd Mentality” [Hint: 5 Questions to Check If You Have “IT”]

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – To Excel, You Need to Immunize Yourself Against “Herd Mentality” [Hint: 5 Questions to Check If You Have “IT”]

Are you secretly scared of standing out from the crowd? Of being different from others? Or of having to – sometimes – go after your goals ALONE?

If YES there’s a good chance authentic and sustainable success will habitually elude you – especially as an expert in your chosen field of interest or expertise.

Why?

Because those who excel in life rarely let concerns about belong to the “herd” influence their decision making about goals to set and pursue.

Or to put it another way, they are NOT afflicted with “Herd Mentality”.

I define “Herd Mentality” as the unconscious – near uncontrollable – desire to belong to a group of others, and a severe aversion for being alone.

This mentality, in my estimation, afflicts over 80% of people in most societies, because they pass through conventional schooling, which by it’s very design, discourages individuality.

If you’ve been following my writing a while, you most likely know that I believe formal schooling systems, carried over from the industrial era, generally do more harm than good to most learners who pass through them.

The reason for that is our conventional schools train learners to (wrongly) believe it is more important to conform to other people’s definition of success, than to pursue self-discovery and fulfillment.

The result is that most people leave school driven to seek the approval of others, rather than looking inwards to discover what truly edifies them as individuals i.e. what makes them happy and fulfilled.

The Herd Mentality makes them lack the crucial ingredient for excelling in life i.e. self-esteem or self-belief.

A person with a healthy level of self-esteem will have no problems believing that s/he has something unique that sets him/her apart from others who do what s/he does.

Such a person will also have the self-confidence to go out of his/her way to nurture that unique knowledge/ability into something that gives him/her a competitive advantage over others.

Not just that, s/he will do so, without feeling guilty or apologetic about missing out on being with others in the process.

S/he would be immune to “Herd Mentality”.

Are you immune to “Herd Mentality”? YOUR answer to these questions will tell you! (YES = Good | NO = Not So Good).

1. Are you able to say NO to others when they invite you to join them, at a time when you have something you KNOW you need to get away from others to do?

2. Do you refuse to let others make you feel guilty (when you meet later) for choosing to stay away when they invited you at such times?

3. Are you able to go out and about to new places, meeting new people, on your own, when not with others in a group?

4. Are you able to speak your mind without needing to be around others who think like you?

5. Can you confidently communicate and/or implement an original idea you believe in, even if you get no support/agreement from others whose opinion you value?

If you said NO to all 5 questions I’d say you have a REALLY SERIOUS case of “Herd Mentality”…and that is likely to severely limit you as an Expert in your field!

At the risk of stating the obvious those you serve (i.e. your clients) will be looking up to, and depending on YOU to guide them in the right direction to achieve their valued goals.

A person struggling with self-esteem and self-confidence issues will find it difficult to do that, and there is a good chance it will show – especially when you come under stress.

Now, stress is an inevitable reality in life. Things can – and do – go wrong – and it is our ability to stay in control, despite the occurrence of setbacks or crises, that helps us maintain course towards success.

This is why you need to train yourself to make changes in your mental attitude, that will enable you say YES to those questions, if you want to excel in serving your clients.

The key to achieving that change in mental attitude, is for you to realize that you do NOT have to live your life in conformity with others people standards and expectations.

Or to paraphrase Dan Kennedy, you do NOT need anyone’s permission to succeed.

This is not a call to dump or ignore friends or loved ones.

Instead, it’s a challenge for you to be true to yourself, and focus your best efforts on achieving the goals you hunger for, without feeling guilty or apologetic about it.

Most importantly, this is a call for you to refuse to settle for what others seem to think is okay for them, when your gut instincts tell you that you are capable of so much more!

Being true to yourself in this manner will drive you to live YOUR life on YOUR own terms, in a way that will INEVITABLY glorify your Creator.

So, if you’ve been doing it, stop trying to please others at the expense of your dreams, by belonging to the herd.

Remember this:

1. The Creator did not design you to be wimp.

When you let a fear of being different, or of being criticized for being different keep you from doing what you REALLY want to do, you are being a WIMP!

2. The World will appreciate you more if you give in to your instincts to aim higher in life, to achieve challenging goals, because You WILL become a LEADER in the process, thereby making you more capable of helping them!

In light of the above, I urge you to examine your life so far till date…

Determine how often you have let the need to conform, and belong, prevent YOU from actualizing YOUR full God-given potential.

If you what you discover falls short of the standard you know you should aim for, then make the change recommended from TODAY.

I wish you greater success in 2016 and beyond!

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work since I’ve been here – you will be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. – Andy”(R. Jones)*

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Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the

popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm

Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in

various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly

traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical DevelopmentManager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical
Manager.

In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerise manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.

Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’

competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African

continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your

personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to

SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

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And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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Think Your Problem Is Worse Than Other People’s? Cheer Up & Use It As A Stepping Stone To Success!

“Strength does not come from winning. Your struggles develop your strengths. When you go through hardships and decide not to surrender, that is strength.” –Arnold Schwarzenegger

Think your problem is worse than other people’s? If YES, then let me start by warning you that thinking that way is VERY likely to be a mistake. And if you go on thinking that way, you will end up believing that no one can help you. Funny thing about our thoughts, when repeated long enough, is that they tend to manifest in the physical just as we imagined them.

In otherwords, by thinking(to yourself) that there is NO solution to the problem(s) you have for instance, you could actually end up not finding any solution to it – no matter how much help you get!

In my language (Yoruba), we have a VERY wise saying that goes thus: “He that has a head has no cap, and he that has a cap has no head”.

The morale of that saying is that for each of us there will be different strokes or experiences. Life will dish out challenges to us according to our abilities.

We must therefore learn to avoid complaining and instead face whatever challenges we encounter head on. That way, we will not be overwhelmed by them. And if we hang in there long enough, we will breakthrough.

Jim Rohn wrote that even though life’s challenges will always give us reason to want to give up and/or complain, we must avoid doing either. And as he so rightly observes, complaining about our problems only “adds to the downward pull of life”. I think the irony of it all, is that just as you feel the struggles you are going through are the worst possible, there is quite often(if you look carefully and honestly enough) someone else who will tell you his/her own story and make yours look like a “fairy tale”!

A True Story

Let me briefly share with you the story of a fellow entrepreneur, who I will call Taiye, who during one particularly tough year(as he narrated it to me) had a barrage of bad luck thrown at him from every conceivable direction.

First, he – and his family – were thrown out by their landlady for not being able to pay rent. To earn income to supplement the little he brought in, his pregnant wife had to mount a stand along the roadside selling vegetables which he grew on a piece of land someone let him use.

Then one day she took ill(while still carrying the pregnancy), was admitted to the hospital, and for months barely hung on to life as he struggled to pay her mounting medical bills.

Despite all these he remained focussed, borrowed money when he could, did odd jobs and eventually his wife recovered, the baby was born safely etc. Looking back, he told me he never thought he would arrive where he is today. All those setbacks occurred at a time when business was really bad for him, making it all the more difficult and painful to go on.

It was – according to him – like a cruel conspiracy of fateful events had been visited upon him. Yet, he hung in there.

He also pointed out that his “hanging in there” successfully was made “easier” NOT because he never considered giving up, but because he had eliminated all possible sources of retreat (sound familiar?).

Use Bad Experiences As Stepping Stones To Succeed!(Another True Story)

I have had some nasty experiences driving along the Benin-Ore road(with my family in the car) on three unforgettable occasions. One time, my car stopped because of failed engine valves, a bad alternator and a resultant run down battery.

From 1.00pm in the evening till 10.00pm at night we were at Ore, where a team of “crack” roadside mechanics took my engine apart and put it back together – with me watching closely and asking questions(What I learnt that day about car engines, serves me well today!). After it all, we declined the offer to take up accommodation at a rundown motel there, and resumed our journey at 10.30 pm to get to Benin. I drove at over 150km/hr in the hope that armed robbers(if any) on the way would be too scared to stop us.

Apart from terrible potholes we ran into because of this, I also ended up losing a wheel cover. While sharing this experience with a colleague later on, I vividly recall him saying “I’ve never lost a single wheel cover since I started driving along that road.”

Although I did not take him up on it, that statement immediately struck me as rather naive. If a person measures his progress by the fact that s/he’s never had anything go wrong with his/her plans, then s/he is in big trouble. The only way nothing will ever go wrong with anything you do(or plan to do) is if you never do(or plan to do) something you have never done before! In other words you would be risk-averse. If you are, then you will also be success-repellent!!

My personal experiences as a person who has ALWAYS thrived(and often emerged better off) in the midst of problems and challenging experiences tells me you learn most, and mature faster, when you embark on intelligent risk-taking and mistake making.

So what if you never have a setback or nothing bad or embarrassing ever happens to you? That says nothing to anyone really.

If anything, it confirms that you will not be remembered for anything exceptional or outstanding either. Why? Because you would not have ventured beyond what you believe you can pull off. That would mean you will only be found doing those things you already know how to do – and most people are very good at that, so it wouldn’t be a great achievement by any means.

Summary

Athletes run up hills to build leg muscles and stamina. Running on level ground would have been “easier”, but would not push them to break new thresholds of performance. Those who work out – to build muscles – subscribe to the axiom “No pain. No gain” because they know if they do not continue to INCREASE the weight of dumb-bells they lift, their biceps/other muscles would NOT continue to grow in size!

The same rule applies in the intellectual realm:

“The brain that is not used suffers atrophy” – Thomas Edison

“The mind must be exercised if it is to grow and strengthen. The more you use your mind, the more it will improve your ability to think” – Jay Anderson

James Cook, author of the best selling book “The Startup Entrepreneur” called those bad experiences “Shrewd Instructors”. They teach hard lessons, which inevitably equip anyone who undergoes them, to succeed. A person who makes a habit of taking the short term comfort route by avoiding difficulty, adversity, hardship etc is likely to end up also “avoiding” long-term success, and may end up missing a chance(s) to achieve a worthwhile existence.

The following quotes sum it up quite well. :-)

“If you would not be forgotten as soon as you are dead, either write things worth reading or do things worth writing.” – Benjamin Franklin

“A knowledge of the path cannot be substituted for putting one foot in front of the other.” – M. C. Richards

So, now that you know(or have been REMINDED of) the above BENEFITS, are you done yet with mulling over your misfortune? You should be. It’s time you went back out there to make things happen the way you want them to!

“The world steps aside for the man who knows. where he is going” – Abraham Lincoln

Become A Habitual Peak Performer – Learn How To Get Into Flow Or – The Zone More Frequently

[This article was first published online on March 08, 2007 – on spontaneousdevelopment.com (now defunct) and Ezinearticles.com]

This Is NOT An Expert Paper On Getting Into “Flow”.

It is not a technical article on the psychology of sports and how the brain functions when a person is engaged in competition. I am not a zone coach or psychologist, neither do I pretend to have conducted any experiments or studies on people who have exhibited the traits of persons who could be said to have been in “flow” at any point in time.

What I aim to do in this article is to share my considerable experience in delivering exceptional performances in virtually every area of endeavour I have chosen to apply diligent and committed effort. Most of my achievements have been made possible by my self-taught ability to almost willfully get myself into “Flow”(an unconscious state of mind that facilitates seemingly effortless achievement of optimal learning and/or performance) whenever I felt the need to do so, in order to achieve a set goal(s).

Because I have experienced what it feels like to get into “Flow” or “The Zone” on many occasions(and I provide graphic details of some of those instances in this article), I am able to share THAT experience with the reader, and explain how s/he can achieve the same result, frequently and repeatedly, if s/he so desires.

As I have stated earlier, I make no claims to being an authority on getting into “Flow” or “The Zone”. However going by my personal experiences(which I need NO PhD degree qualifications to write or speak about), I strongly believe different individuals will find need to develop different levels of proficiency in their ability to get into AND STAY – for as long as may be necessary/desired – in “The Zone”. Improvement in mastery of this skill will depend on how well each person applies him/herself.

The challenge is therefore for you to use the ideas offered in this write up to build up YOUR OWN ability to get into – and stay in – “The Zone” in a way that enables you meet YOUR needs to achieve.

What Exactly Does It Mean To Get Into “Flow” Or “The Zone”?(My Handball Semi-Final Match Case Study)

Before I make references to what others have said, I will describe this experience in my own words by narrating what happened to me during the 1992 finals of the University Of Ibadan’s Inter-Halls Handball Competition. That year, I was captain of both the university team and the Independence Hall team. The latter had qualified – for the first time in their history – for the semi-finals of the inter-halls competition, and we were up against Nnamdi Azikiwe Hall, our arch rivals.

The match commenced around 1.00pm when the sun was overhead and the heat was scorching. It was a very intense and closely fought battle. As one side scored a goal the other side replied almost immediately on the next attack. At half time my team led, by a single point. Although I had scored a number of goals en route to the finals, that first half had not witnessed a single goal by me.

However, because we had anticipated that some of our key players would be marked out by the opposition, our team had worked out an alternative plan that made it possible to create scoring chances for other players. This worked well, and we stayed ahead – but only just!

At a point, all I could think of was the single point lead on the score board and the voice in my head screaming that we needed to score another goal to avoid a tie. Each time I turned to receive or make a pass, I found I did not really see faces clearly. I saw the jersey colors and numbers, but the detailed features of each person seemed to be something of a blur…faded. Yet I could still tell my team mates from the opposition at any point in time.

Suddenly, for no obvious reason, the guy marking me out let me get COMPLETELY past him(for the first time since the match began) as a pass came to me from the left. In that split second, as I caught the ball, I saw a little space between the left foot of the goal keeper and the bottom left of the goal post. On reflex, I threw a hip shot with my right hand, and watched almost as if on TV, the ball fly into into the keeper’s far left corner of the goal post. All this while I had stopped hearing most of the noise from the spectators who had completely surrounded the handball court and were cheering wildly.

Then I felt someone grab me, screaming delightedly, while another team mate patted me on the back. I looked to the sidelines and saw the University team coach – Mr. Nwosu – raise his hands in the air shouting ‘Iyo”(a slang in my language Yoruba, meaning “Super!” even though – ironically – he was Ibo). That was when it clicked – at least enough for me to manage to raise my right hand in the air and jog back to the nine metre line of my team’s half. I realised I had scored a good goal, but I could not explain how – it had been done on instinct, and I could not even recall “thinking about doing” or “planning” it.

Not long after, the referee blew the final whistle, and we won. That year, someone using the pen name “Dancing Pen” wrote an article on me (which I still have a copy of in my files) which was pasted on the notice board in the hall titled “Tayo Solagbade – Steroid Man”*, in which the writer described the goal I scored as (to use his exact words): “the Fastest, Most Spectacular and Shocking Goal”. He also quoted the University coach as having said “Indy (i.e. Independence Hall), played the match of their lives, and Tayo was at his best”.

*(“Steroid Man” was a nickname given to me by colleagues in the University team, because I never seemed to get tired in a match, even when we were losing badly).

How Does This Relate To Getting Into Flow/The Zone?

Well the truth is every time I got on to the handball court, I made a point of forgetting EVERYTHING else. For those who took note, minutes to the start of the match, I would become a bit pensive, and withdrawn. During this period, I tended to re-run in my mind specific moves I had practiced during the training sessions leading up to the match, which I hoped to use. Even as I exchanged greetings with other players, I would keep my mind firmly fixed on this mental pre-match “ritual”.

Evidence that my achievements were recognised would come at the end of my final year in the University when I received merit awards from the university Sports Council and the Independence hall – in addition to graduating top of my class in my department. Not many active sports persons in the institution got to have the best of both worlds the way I did – and THAT was what caught the attention of the institution’s sports administrators. Looking back I realise that my “intense focus” enabled me get into “flow”(though I did not know the word/concept then) quite frequently while pursuing both my academic and sporting interests on campus, so that I achieve the “balanced” success I eventually recorded.

Peak Performing As An Entrepreneur

Today, I build spreadsheet software and websites(among others) for a living – activities which require PC/Internet access AND electricity. Unfortunately, in order to make tangible profits, I have to DAILY explore ways to COST-EFFECTIVELY progress paying clients’ projects IN SPITE OF extremely erratic power supply from my country’s power generation company. Sometimes I do not have light for more than four(4) hours in a day – and even that iS often a case of ON…then OFF…then ON again, and not a continuous stretch.(FACT)

Despite these challenges, my client profiles have risen, and my fees quadrupled since the start of the new year! This has happened because I successfully transferred my ability to “peak-perform” by getting into flow, from my past life in school, sports, and paid employment into my present life as an entrepreneur. It did not happen overnight(took quite some practice/persistence because I had to LEARN all over again till I began to master my NEW vocation), but then nothing that has sustainable value ever does.

Getting Into “Flow/The Zone” Is NOT About Being(Or Becoming) Absent Minded!

In the process of pushing myself to achieve peak performance, I sometimes found myself being accused – especially by those I lived with(my wife being number one) of being absent minded – or even uncaring. Over time they however came to discover that it was not deliberate.

Being in “flow” is about getting into a state of mind that enhances your ability to perform at your best…your peak. Not everyone knows – or cares to call it – “flow” or “The Zone”. But many who have seen someone under its influence (or experienced it) often mention the same “signs” when describing it. I once read that William H. Carrier(inventor of the Air Conditioner) was said to have been “absent minded” to the point that he once boarded a train and completely forgot his destination, while thinking about a solution to a problem! THAT is the “intensity” of focus or concentration on a SPECIFIC activity that can get ANYONE into “flow”. No wonder James Cook referred to Carrier as belonging to the elite group of “Super Entrepreneurs”.

Thomas Edison was also reputed to have been rather “forgetful”. What I think many “critics” of these people failed to note however is the fact that these men – and others like them – were seldom, if at all EVER forgetful about their favoured vocations or interests! I am not aware for instance that Edison at any point in his life was unable to answer questions posed to him regarding his work because he “forgot”. Instead it was the daily routine stuff that had little to do with the work he had a passion for, that he “chose to forget”.

Many achievement-oriented people who feel the need to be at their productive best even do something that I like to call “Deliberate Forgetting“. In fact I recall reading about a teenage girl who became an excellent violinist saying that she achieved her proficiency through what she called ‘Planned Neglect”. She explained this term by saying that each day she would put off cleaning her room (or other chores) UNTIL she had put in what she considered ENOUGH practice into playing the violin.

Before adopting this approach she had been unable to find enough time/energy to practice, and as a result was not making the progress she wanted. This happened because she often started each day doing her various chores, using up a lot of energy/time. By the time she eventually began practice there would not be much time left – and she would tire easily from all the previous exertion. So she decided some things had to enjoy less of her attention in order for her to FOCUS on those things or THAT ONE thing she most desired to do – and do WELL.

Getting Into “Flow” During Intellectual Activity Results In “Mental Ecstasy”

When you get into flow while doing something intellectual(e.g. writing), from my experience what you feel is what I believe can be called “Mental Ecstasy”. You would feel “great pleasure” every time you are able to achieve that state of mind – even though the activity you are engaged in might require great effort or skill that would task other persons to the limits of their abilities! And that’s why it can get a bit addictive, leading to a person acting seemingly “uncaring” or “distant”.

To a considerable extent, getting into and STAYING in “Flow” requires that your mental attitude be almost the exact opposite of that required to be a caring, thoughtful and responsive partner to a mate or parent to a child etc. In my opinion however if a person can take the pains to learn how to control the process of deliberately going in and out of flow, s/he would live a more successful life.

You need to be able to strike a balance – delicate it might be, between being in flow and being human. Else what could happen is you end your sojourn on earth as having been one of the most exceptional performers in your chosen vocation in the history of mankind, but with the reputation of having been incapable of keeping a relationship or family together.

Daniel Goleman in his book on “Emotional Intelligence” explained that improving your ability to enter into flow is to become more emotionally intelligent. According to him getting into flow is the ultimate means of making use of one’s emotions in the pursuit of performance and learning. To put it simply, a person who KNOWS how to get him or herself into “Flow” or “The Zone” deliberately and repeatedly as the need arises demonstrates a high level of Emotional Intelligence. This is because being able to do so requires a level of self-mastery that is seldom achievable without the ability to harness one’s emotions effectively.

As is common knowledge today, your Emotional Intelligence and NOT your academic intelligence is MORE likely to determine your success in school and especially your adult life. Therefore to increase your chances of succeeding in life, you will want to learn how to get into “flow” more frequently, so as to boost your Emotional Intelligence.

Steps You Can Follow To Get Yourself Into Flow/The Zone Deliberately & More Frequently

1. Carefully think about and set SPECIFIC goals you want to achieve(in SPECIFIC areas of your vocation or interest) by getting into “Flow”.

2. Identify the TASKS you will need to execute or implement in order to achieve those goals.

3. Develop your proficiency in the task(s) you wish to achieve peak performance in to the point that you can do it(or them) with practiced ease. Some people would say “with your eyes closed”. I have watched labelling machine operators on a manned 45,000 bottles per hour bottling line feed labels into it almost without error continuously for over six(6) consecutive hours on a night shift. It takes plenty of PRACTICE to get to that level of competence.

And it is only after you have attained such a level of proficiency that you can reasonably expect to be able to deliberately/competently get in and out of “Flow”, while engaged in your preferred activity.

4. Actively work to find and/or create the kind of environment(physical and psychological) that you KNOW will enhance your ability to get into and STAY in The Zone. For instance, you will need to master the art of focussing intensely or concentrating HARD on your subject of interest such that you “force” yourself into “The Zone”. I often use this approach (especially) when I need to give a speech.

5*. Avoid the things/habits that keep you from getting into The Zone(e.g. undisciplined expenditure of sexual energy; worrying etc) and do more of those which boost your ability to “Zone Out”(e.g. staying fit through regular physical exercise, meditation etc).*

6. Engage as much as possible ONLY in tasks or vocations that you naturally ENJOY doing – else getting into flow and/or staying there will be VERY difficult. Your performance as a result will be erratic.

Knowing How To Get Into The Zone Will Help You Deliver Desired Results Under Pressure

As you may be aware, some people thrive under, and respond positively TO pressure – often delivering their BEST performances when exposed to it. I happen to be one of such people. It is my considered opinion, based on my personal experiences and successes in school, sports, paid and now self-employment, that if you truly want to be a peak performer, you MUST master how to deliver optimal performances in your preferred vocation or activity EVEN when(especially when!) you are under pressure.

Fail to do this and your transformation will be INCOMPLETE. You would be like a potential Michael Jordan who fails to achieve his/her full potential on the court during game time. What’s that you ask? I mean everyone loved Jordan because he was a player who delivered when it mattered most(a “big match” player) – in the important games and at the MOST important time…scoring a match winning basket just a few seconds before the buzzer sounded. It takes an ability to DEAL with psychological pressure to do that. You CAN develop the ability to do it. If you learn how to get into “flow”, as suggested here, you WILL end up with the ability to do it unconsciously – AGAIN and AGAIN!(The key word there being “UNCONSCIOUSLY“)

Final Words: A Person In Flow/The Zone Will Make Doing What S/he Does Look Easier Than It Really Is

And THAT is something YOU can use as a measure of how well you have learnt to get into and STAY in the zone while doing what you do i.e when people start expressing surprise or even amazement about how well you do what you do, with some asking you “what is your secret?”.

Another way to measure your progress, will be unsolicited testimonials people will give about your abilities. Below, I offer two examples of unsolicited written testimonials about me from former colleagues:

Tayo, I honestly believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything he does… I don’t need to wish you good luck. You have the ability to make your own luck..“.

Read my article titled “Should You Quit Your Job Or Start Your Business Part-Time?” to read the full text of that handwritten message to me in December 2001 by the overall head(Operations Manager) of the brewery I worked in.

I once helped out a Utilities Manager colleague by automating his Engineering Services usage monitoring charts preparation using my skills in spreadsheet programming. This was done in respone to his request, after he saw what I had done in my spare time for my department. Well, here’s what he wrote (in part) to me via email from the new company – a multinational Oil Service company – he had resumed working for, some months after my departure:

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To:olufelatks@xxxxxx.com

Subject:WANT US TO MEET

Date:Wed, 26 Jun 2002 09:59:16 +0100

Hi Tayo,…my main reasons for my search for you are… to involve you in my new task of computerizing my departmental reports….I believe you have the competence to transform our reports having seen your Midas touches in Guinness. The report will be in Excel spreadsheet, segmented into sheets but to be viewed and accessed by macro buttons. The report should be able to auto print and shows graphs. Presently, we have two mains Computerized Maintenance Systems from which some data need to be downloaded. The report must be able to give quick predetermined checks for immediate management decisions. In pursuit of this goal, I want us to discuss and agree on the execution modalities and other things. I am proposing to be in Lagos this weekend and wish to see you…Shola”

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What made him so sure that I could help him? The answer is obvious: I had shown that I could deliver the kind of results he wanted in the past and he had witnessed it.

Learn how to deliver peak performances routinely and repeatedly by getting into flow often, and you WILL earn similar testimonials from others around you.

Useful References

1. Article: “Curse of the Succubus” by Andrew Corsello. A humour tinged but seriously educative article about a one time Tennis world No. 1 – Pete Sampras – who KNEW how to deliver peak performances by getting into and STAYING in The Zone. It was written in “GQ Magazine October 2002 – IN THE ZONE” and subtitled >>Why has Pete Sampras fallen so fast, so hard, so…willingly? Clearly the man who perfected the Zone has lost his formidable powers…2. Book: “Emotional Intelligence” by Dr. Daniel Goldman. In this excellent ground breaking book subtitled “Why It(i.e. “Emotional Intelligence”) can matter more than IQ”, Goleman explains, with useful anecdotes about(and testimonials from) real-life high performing individuals, backed by research findings, why the ability to get into flow in the pursuit of learning and performance is Emotional Intelligence at its best.

3. Resource: “The Internet” by Any Search Engine. I must NOT forget this one :-). Do a search on the net and you should discover additional/useful learning resources.

No. 224: To Write Productively, Develop the Ability to Do Your Best Writing At Will [Hint: I’m back on LinkedIn.com]

 

If you struggle to do as much writing as you want (or need) to, the ideas I share in this article can help you banish that problem for EVER.

I’ll start by debunking a myth:

“The idea of finding the right time (and even place) to write is over-rated.” – Tayo K. Solagbade

I’m living proof of it, as demonstrated by my ability to produce quality writing content for clients. and myself ANYTIME I identify a need to do so.

The hard truth is that finding the right time/place for getting into the “mood” is a luxury a writer cannot afford, if s/he is to be productive – or better still, excel!

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1 of 2: PUBLIC SPEAKING – To Write Productively, Develop the Ability to Do Your Best Writing At Will

If you struggle to do as much writing as you want (or need) to, the ideas I share in this article can help you banish that problem for EVER.

I’ll start by debunking a myth:

“The idea of finding the right time (and even place) to write is over-rated.” – Tayo K. Solagbade

I’m living proof of it, as demonstrated by my ability to produce quality writing content for clients. and myself ANYTIME I identify a need to do so.

The hard truth is that finding the right time/place for getting into the “mood” is a luxury a writer cannot afford, if s/he is to be productive – or better still, excel!

I say this as one working in a socioeconomic environment, where a myriad of annoyances routinely connive to scuttle a writer (or creative person)’s efforts to secure a conducive psychological atmosphere.

In other words, noise (in various forms) is a constant reality from which little chance of escape exists out here. Yet, some of us still produce results matching those of our contemporaries in less hostile climes.

We are able to do this, by drawing on the passion we have for what we do.

For most of us, it’s a passion so compelling, that we do NOT mind exerting huge amounts of EXTRA effort to nurture.

Some of our contemporaries in developed societies are not unaware of the harsh conditions under which we have to turn out the desired work quality and volume.

Especially those who have had the opportunity to visit us, and/or who were also born and raised here. Most of the latter relocated abroad to earn a living in more conductive socioeconomic environments (e.g. Europe, America, Asia etc)

Knowing what it’s like here, some openly express amazement at our ability to not just cope, but actually thrive, in the midst of such extreme negatives!

One Example: A few weeks ago, I had a international phone conversation with an African born expert-who-speaks, who lives and works outside Africa

At a point he asked me how – in spite of the constant loud chatter of generator noise – I was able to churn out the relentless stream of creative new content in form of write-ups, audios and videos for clients (like him) – and for my website.

He noted that years of being based abroad had made him quite needful of a controlled environment i.e. one devoid of noise and other extraneous influences that could disturb his concentration.

My response was that I had TRAINED myself to deliver needed results, in spite of the environment, knowing that I had NO viable alternative to being here.

I further added that if he had been in this part of the world, his passion would have PUSHED him to also ADAPT to the environment, and learn to turn out his best work in spite of any distractions around him.

And that’s the truth: Human beings can be extremely adaptable when driven by desire and passion!

When the human being is convinced that a course of action is necessary, s/he has the innate capability to creatively adapt his/her talents to carry it out, no matter the obstacles s/he may face.

This is why we were able to find ways to travel into space, where existing conditions did not permit our survival normally.

It is for this reason that I say the idea of finding the right time (and even place) to write is a luxury few writers can afford, if they really want to excel.

Forgive me for saying this, if you’re based outside Africa – especially for those of you living and working in places like Europe, America, UAE and Asia.

But the truth is that in most cases, your socioeconomic environments are often like HEAVEN compared to what obtains in my part of the world.

I won’t bother giving many examples.

You watch enough TV to be aware of a few.

For instance, the lack of access to regular power supply plaguing Nigeria, makes perpetual use of noisy generators inevitable. Experts engaged in creative thinking tasks like writing and software development tend to feel the pains the most.

To make matters worse, there is little or no regulation of noise pollution in this part of the world,

That makes it easy for just about anyone to mount massive loud speakers right on your street, in front of his/her shop blaring loud music, in what is a crude yet popular strategy for attracting the attention of potential buyers.

In developed societies, few people would dare do that, because they have been trained to realize they cannot impose on others in that manner.

What’s more, the law enforcement agents would take swift action to correct such a person.

Out here, your protests are unlikely to go anywhere. If anything the culprit would accuse you of being jealous.

In other words, creatives out here are often people who have trained themselves to do what they love without letting their unfavorable environment negatively affect their output.

Most of us out here think nothing of it, but being able to block out “noise” to get our work done, is a powerful ability that ensures we can achieve desired outcomes under literally any conditions.

Imagine therefore, what would happen if we suddenly gained access to developed societies devoid of most such limitations we contend with? Our productivity would simply go through the roof!

Bamidele Onibalusi, now 21 years old (having launched a successful professional freelance writing career as a teenager, from Nigeria’s ancient city of Ibadan) is one of such creative persons, who gets work done for international clients, in spite of Nigeria’s harsh conditions.

My ability to do what I do – as a multidisciplinary solutions provider to international clients – at this level, is also proof that it is possible.

Having said that, even out here, we STILL differ in terms of the DEGREE to which we can thrive under hardship…

Some of us have to face more difficult challenges than others, in the course of doing our writing.

For instance, a number of us – like me – have to deal with an additional layer of “distractions” in form of kids we have to parent.

A writer who has no child and/or is unmarried will have LESS potential distractions to deal with, apart from the noise from his/her generators.

But not so for the writer who is a parent to kids yet to leave home.

From settling perpetual quarrels between teenage siblings, to giving a toddler the attention s/he needs (and other parenting tasks in between), the life of a writer with family responsibilities can be so much MORE difficult!

I say this as one who has had to live this VERY complicated life, for YEARS, to the extent that I have to get my writing done under crazy – and I do mean CRAZY – conditions.

I once had work on a client’s due blog article in a General Hospital in Lagos, while waiting for blood test results for my son who had suddenly taken ill.

You should have seen odd looks I got from other parents sitting seated near me. I had to “relocate” myself into the car, to finish it off and send to the client.

It goes without saying that I could have called the client to say my kid took ill. However, my assessment of the situation convinced me I could still get it done – especially since we were only waiting for the results.

Having agreed that the final article would be sent to the client for review that Friday, towards the Monday launch, I wanted to do what I could to avoid derailing the set plans.

Luckily, my efforts paid off. My son got the right diagnosis and treatment, and the site launch took off as planned on Monday. I never told the client the circumstances under which I sent him that piece. What mattered was that things went according to plan.

On another occasion, I had to write a blog post due for publishing on my blog, while inside the chauffeur driven jeep of a Cotonou based Nigerian diplomat client, at 11.30p.m. We were stuck in a traffic jam on the way back to Seme border, after a visit to his farm in South West Nigeria.

In each instance, described above, the prevailing conditions mattered little to me. All I just needed was enough space to open the laptop and begin to do my writing.

Once the article was completed, I copied it to my smart phone and used the latter’s browser to upload it to this blog.

Interestingly, that same night, while still in the car, I was forced to prepare a PDF invoice I’d promised to send another client, and email it as an attachment using my Blackberry, just to avoid failing to get it to him before the next day, as I’d promised.

As you can imagine most of the clients never knew (and possibly would have cared less), how I got what they wanted done for them.

Clients will expect you to do what it takes – no matter what challenges you may come up against.

No excuses. No complaints. Just get it done.

That’s the attitude that wins the respect (and admiration), as well as the CONFIDENCE of clients.

That attitude convinces them that hiring you was not (and will not) be a mistake, because they know you will go the extra mile as often as necessary to deliver what you promise.

And once clients are convinced, you can be sure they’ll reward you with repeat business, and or testimonials/referrals.

The above implies that to deliver desired results consistently, you must become able to do your BEST writing, at will.

The question then is HOW DO YOU DO THAT?

My answer is simple:

By learning how to get yourself into flow or the zone.

First of all you need to come to the firm understanding that, if you let it, your mind can – and WILL – play tricks on you, about your ability or readiness to write.

Most times when we feel we’re not in the “mood” to write, it’s our mind that’s telling us we’re not.

In reality, all it takes to get started with writing at WILL, is to do just that: GET STARTED!

You CAN put yourself in the perfect mood to write, simply by STARTING and sticking with it.

By the time you’ve been at it a while, you’ll suddenly discover you’re getting along with much less effort than when you began.

Most productive writers anywhere in the world will confirm this: Stephen King, renowned for his prolific writing, says its true!

At the point when you find yourself achieving this kind of breakthrough, it would often mean you are in flow, or the zone.

Take it from me. I’ve done this for over a decade, and I can tell you that’s what happens.

NB: Only a person who lacks relevant knowledge, and.or experience of the subject, from which to do the writing effectively, will be unable to do this.

It so happens that I have a widely syndicated article that explains how to do just that (i.e. get into flow).

It has even been referenced in research papers.

The article is titled “Become A Habitual Peak Performer – Learn How To Get Into Flow Or – The Zone More Frequently

In it I describe what I do to produce the writing results that continually impress my clients.

To record similar – or better – writing success, I recommend you diligently apply what you learn from reading that article.

A more recent article I wrote on the same theme is titled “To Effortlessly Do More, Get Into Flow (Or The Zone)!

Yet another resource that can help you is my FREE PDF report titled “Proven Techniques/Strategies You Can Use to Start & Finish Writing ANYTHING“.

To get a copy emailed to you, click here to send me a request.

PS: By way of interest, and as indicated in the title of this issue, I’m back on LinkedIn.com

I’m using my new webmail – tayo at tayosolagbade dot com – for this new LinkedIn account.

This move is part of my efforts to reinvent myself towards providing Response Generating Writing & Web Marketing Solutions to a global paying target audience.

I’ve sent out invitations using my GMAIL contacts database. If you’ve not gotten one, send me an invitation to connect.

NB: For those not aware of the history about why I quit using LinkedIn.com in 2013, click here to read a blog post I published back then, with details. At the time I was using the webmail address attached to my old domain name i.e tayo at spontaneousdevelopment dot com. I believe I’m less prone to getting accused of “suspicious” activity, with the brand I now have, especially under this new account.

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Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the

popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm

Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in

various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly

traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical DevelopmentManager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical
Manager.

In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerise manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.

Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’

competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African

continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your

personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to

SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

(TayoSolagbade.com launches extra Hosting plan with FREE Web Marketing!)

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

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Send Me 14 Photos, and I’ll Use Them to Create a Branded PDF Calendar/Meeting Planner for YOU (Hint: But DO THIS FIRST!)

2 days ago I sent out an email offering to create a FREE branded PDF calendar/meeting planner for EACH of my clients, using photos/images they send me(click here to download my 2016 FREE Calendar).

Screenshot of pages from my FREE 2016 Branded PDF Calendar/Meeting Planner - click to download it now

If you’re a client, and plan to take up my offer, then as you read the reproduced email message excerpts below, imagine that I’m “speaking” to YOU.

Once you’ve done that, take steps to ensure the images you send to me, are optimized using any of the options I’ve outlined in my message.

If you don’t do that, I’ll have to reply saying I cannot create the promised PDF for you.

This post spells out requirements any client interested in taking up my offer to create branded PDF calendar/meeting planner using images s/he supplies MUST conform with.

I realized I should have put up this information BEFORE sending out my offer, after having difficulty downloading images sent to me by one of those who responded.

This happened due to their rather large sizes, and the unfortunate development of erratic connectivity around the same time I began trying to access them. We’ve since gotten the PDF done, but I’m publishing this post, for others to read, so they know how their images need to reach me.

What follows below is based on the verbatim email message I sent to the client whose images I had the problem with.

Like I always tell my readers, I sometimes deliberately write my email messages to clients in “explanatory mode”, if I feel what I’m telling them would be useful to share with others. That way, when I dispatch the email, I can later return to use it as the “body” for a blog post to share with others I anticipate may find the information useful

Hi Taiye,

About 3 of the images gave me download problems due to their rather large sizes.

I (made) repeated attempts to download, but what I ended up with were versions in which the images were only partially displayed.

I tried improvising by combining 2 to make 1 image (see page 4 – February), and also cropping out the bad sections in others.

Unfortunately, 2 pages STILL remain without images I can use i.e. December 2016 and January 2017.

So I think it’s best you find a way to get them to me at reduced sizes).

They were in the email titled “3rd Batch 4 Pictures, which you sent via tayo at tayosolagbade dot com

The filenames are:

1. 20150819_105844.jpg (7.5 MiB)

2. 20150526_133145.jpg (5.4 MiB)

3. _DSC0246.JPG (7 MiB)

There’s something I neglected to mention yesterday, that could have prevented this from happening.

Attached are 2 examples of BEFORE and AFTER versions (named “taiwo…”.jpg) of images you sent me.

You’ll notice they are many times smaller than the ones I downloaded from your email.

The article linked below is one that I wrote several years (on September 03, 2007) back…

It’s meant to guide persons intending to email images or photos on how to reduce the sizes of the images, to make it easyfor the SENDER to attach and send them, and also for the RECEPIENT to download them.

My decision to write it back then was due to a client’s staff sending me over 50 HUGE photos and images meant for a web design project, that could have been trimmed down, with NO loss of display quality using the techniques I mention in the article.

The steps I enumerate in it are those that I followed to create the smaller versions of the images attached to this email.

Click to read it on my Ezinearticles.com profile

In case you do not have ready access to Photoshop or Corel Draw, ask a friend you know to be familiar with graphic editing.

Alternatively, go to Google.com and search for “Free website to reduce the size of my photo” – or something along that line.

You should get a web link to a web based FREE service that will enable you create much smaller sized versions of the photos without damaging the quality.

Once you have those reduced images, just email them to me and I’ll generate the complete PDF calendar and email to you.

****Now, in case none of the above options is convenient for you, consider purchasing the editable MS Word template for $150 USD.

Once you make payment, I would email the template to you, with VIDEO instructions on how to insert your own photos, add quotable quotes etc.

The advantage of taking up this option is that you not only get to make multiple calendar versions for yourself, but you will also be able to create calendars for others.

Screenshot of front cover of my FREE 2016 Branded PDF Calendar/Meeting Planner - click to download it now

Screenshot of inside pager of my FREE 2016 Branded PDF Calendar/Meeting Planner - click to download it now

Screenshot of inside pager of my FREE 2016 Branded PDF Calendar/Meeting Planner - click to download it now

Are You a CEO/Expert With Practical, Experience Based Knowledge & Insights to Share? [Hint: CEO Spotlight Interview Invitation]

My name is Tayo Solagbade, and I am your host on the CEO Spotlight Interview (CSI) Series.

I believe that it is important to capture the knowledge, insights, and wisdom of people who have been able to excel in their chosen vocations or professions, so as to inform, educate and empower others who aspire to do the same, or better.

That is my ultimate purpose for conducting this CSI series.This is a public service, and I hope you will find it useful.

Tayo Solagbade's CEO Spotlight Interview

The CSI Will Feature ONLY Authentic Achievers Willing to Share Useful WISDOM to Empower Others

Now, if you are familiar with me, and what I do via www.tayosolagbade.com, you most likely know that I do my due diligent research and background checks before I choose to showcase anyone as a model of what is possible in terms of personal achievement in ANY area of endeavour.

For every guest, I will be asking twelve (12) questions. However, the questions, for the most part will be personalized for each person, based on his/her unique area of expertise, as well as experience, achievements etc.

In other words, the questions will be designed to help us extract useful learnings that can be had from his/her experiences and achievements in life.

Do You Have Unique Experience Based Insights That Can Help Others Excel, Like YOU?

If YES, then I’d like to interview YOU on the CSI platform.

This post is designed to be an open invitation to ANY interested CEOs or experts who may wish to feature on the CEO Spotlight Interview.

From what I’ve said above, and the content of the interviews already available here, the requirements are easy to discern.

You simply need to have useful information and education, based on YOUR personal experiences and achievements, to share.

Most importantly, I am always on the lookout for new, original or innovative ideas, methods, strategies and techniques discovered, developed or adapted by the CEO or expert to achieve perfromance improvement in his/her personal or work life.

Click here to fill and submit a web contact form, to send me your message.

CEO Spotlight Interview VIDEO [Parts 1 to 4 ]: With Burt Dubin, Creator of the Speaking Success System and Veteran Mentor to Some of the World’s Highest Paid Speakers

[UPDATE – Wednesday, 2nd December 2020: I am publishing, this morning, two digital flyers on Best Practice Schooling, as a follow up to my latest video titled “Why I Do Not Want My Kids to Have the Kind of Education I Got“. One of the Digital Flyers features a message Burt posted on my Facebook wall, last year on my 49th birthday (6th July 2019) which I found relevant to the theme of my the message in my flyers, You can view/download the digital flyers on Best Practice Schooling here (Click now).

For those who may not know be aware, Burt Dubin is now 96 years old(in 2020). He is a veteran mentor of some of the World’s Highest Paid Speakers and Creator of the Highly Acclaimed Speaking Success System sold for decades to professional speakers across 5 continents. I was Burt’s Sole Agent promoting his solutions to Africa based experts for several years.

However, what makes his achievements most impressive and compelling is the fact that he dropped out of high school as a teen, to take up paid employment in order to support his mother and siblings. Then he returned to the SAME high school to graduate with a set of students who were 4 years behind him when he dropped out!

And THAT was all he needed to go on to mentor professionals across the world – some PhD holders! – to achieve the highest levels of success in their fields. Watch Video Part 1 of 4 of my interview with him (scroll down) to hear him respond to my question about how he found the courage to return to complete his High School education.

TIP: See some of Burt’s Audio Records and Testimonials on an archive of his blog at http://burtdubin-blog.com/tools/burtdubinrecordings.html]

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Watch parts 1 to 4 of this video version of the 2nd edition of Tayo Solagbade’s CEO Spotlight Interview Series below…

This 2nd edition of the CEO Spotlight Interview Series featured responses (with photos and audio excerpts) from Burt Dubin [www.speakingbizsuccess.com] renowned USA based Creator of the Speaking Success System, and veteran mentor of some of the world’s highest paid speakers.

Part 1 of 4

Part 2 of 4

Part 3 of 4

Part 4 of 4

Click here to download the full PDF version which contains the text based version of the interview.

 

PDF Cover page - CEO Spotlight Interview With Burt Dubin, 91 Year Old Creator of the Speaking Success System™, and Mentor to Some of the World’s Highest Paid Speakers

PDF Inside page - CEO Spotlight Interview With Burt Dubin, 91 Year Old Creator of the Speaking Success System™, and Mentor to Some of the World’s Highest Paid Speakers

In this issue No: 221 of my Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter…

NB: This CSI series is a public service to give CEOs, & those aspiring, ready-to-use experience-based information & education. The purpose is to promote experience-sharing amongst CEOs, about Indigenous Knowledge Systems.

Indigenous Knowledge Systems (IKS) are tried and tested practical techniques/methods developed by active players in a venture to get improved results, often through application of creativity and innovation.