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Do You Need To Be Error-Free? (Hint: Why It’s NOT a Good Idea, If You Want Authentic Success)

“Success tends not to go to the person who is error-free, because he also tends to be risk averse. Rather, it goes to the person who recognizes that life is pretty much a percentage business. It isn’t making mistakes that’s critical; it’s correcting them and getting on with the principal tasks.” – Donald Rumsfeld, U.S Public Official and Business Executive

Anyone who has followed my writing, will know I started paying my dues in mistake-making from the age of ten, getting into all sorts of serious trouble that caused my parents embarrassment and pain. My Best Practice Parenting book titled “Kukuru Dangers” (sold in my store at www.lulu.com/sdaproducts) narrates full details of those years of truancy.

At a point, my trouble making got so frequent, that family friends/relatives began asking my siblings: “What Tayo had done again?”

Probably sounds funny now, but it was not, for me at least, back then.

You see, due to the fact that I was often getting into trouble around others who were not, I experienced quite early in life what it meant to be different.

However, because I was different in a negative sense (i.e. for doing wrong), I also learnt what if felt like to be an “out cast”.

Most of my peers who did not want to be viewed as wayward, like I was, generally stayed away from me…and spoke about me.

So in 1986, while serving my 2 week suspension for abusing my privileges as Health Prefect, in my final secondary (i.e. high) school year, I did some hard thinking and gained powerful insights that changed my life forever (my book titled “Kukuru Danger” tells the full story – click here to request a free PDF preview download).

I know it may be hard to believe, that so early in life I could achieve this level of clarity.

But that’s what happened.

Maybe it was because I had always been a bit introverted, and only got into trouble because I wanted to be like others I looked up to.

Anyway, after getting into trouble for trying to be that way, I adopted the following 3 guiding thoughts:

1. Always Be Your Original Self:

You will never succeed in being like others.

I think and feel different from other – even my family members. It’s no surprise therefore that most times when I try to share my “crazy” and “childish” perspectives with them, most simply get turned off.

It’s better to be myself, and be comfortable with not being popular with some people as a result. With time, those who deserve to, will discover how my uniqueness can help them, and appreciate me for it.

2. Intelligent Mistake-Making Is Good

When one makes mistakes, it can be painful. People get to see you at less than your best. Some will make fun of you and criticize you.

However, my period of lonely reflection helped me discover that the “many mistakes” I made so early in life had taught me more than I had learnt from being around those who judged me.

Later in life, my expertise at intelligent mistake making would consistently give me an edge over others in every endeavor I embarked upon.

3. Independent Thinking Is Imperative

I will never let anyone, no matter who s/he tell me what to think or do.

That decision will always be mine, even doing so makes me fall out of favor with others.

Why? Because if/when I get into trouble for my actions, I alone will have to answer for it – as has happened in the past.

So, what’s the answer I found to that question: “Do you need to be error-free?”

The answer I found for it, and which I adhere to is: No you don’t.

And never let anyone tell you otherwise!

It will not matter how old, experienced or wise they are. Do not ever let anyone tell you that making mistakes is wrong or bad.

In fact, the only way you can ever avoid making mistakes is if you stop trying to be better than you already are, or to do NEW or different things.

As an expert in your field, your audience (rightly) expects you to give them nothing less than the best of yourself at all times.

If you continue to do what you do, in the exact same way all the time, you do yourself more harm than good.

I recommend you make every single opportunity you have to practice your profession or vocation, to create a truly unique experience, in every sense possible, for those you serve – be they your client or employer..

Your continued relevance as an expert in your field of interest, and focus, is dependent on your willingness to constantly renew and reinvent yourself.

You cannot re-invent yourself, to stay relevant, if you do not have new experiences

That’s why you must be willing to do new things – even though a risk of making mistakes exists!

Otherwise, where would you get new insights from, with which excite those you serve with new ways of adding value to them?

When you avoid leaving your comfort zone, or shy away from taking risks by trying new experiences, you gain fewer – or even NO – new insights.

Why? That’s because you will make mistakes (or be wrong) less often.

When you’re NOT wrong, or NEVER wrong, you’re unlikely to feel a compelling need to check for new or better ways to do what you do. Being free from error is a state of perfection one can aspire to attain, but rarely actualize while one remains human.

Those who claims to be perpetually error free often hide away evidence of the mistakes they make.

But that does neither them, nor those around them any good in the long run!

Final Words: As any accomplished person in any field will tell you, mistakes/failures that befall us have a positive role to play in our growth and development.

Without them our progress towards achieving the full potential put in us by the creator would be greatly limited.

This is why, if you really want to achieve authentic success in life, and have not been doing it before now, you need to go out from today and start making mistakes intelligently.

It’s time to stop trying to be error-free: embrace your imperfections, and learn to use your failures are stepping stones to achieve on new and better levels in your life!

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There’s a world outside school that your child must be ready for, if she is to succeed.

Because you arrived in it, before her, YOU are an expert in it, compared to her. If you truly love your child therefore, you can – and should – share YOUR EXPERTISE about succeeding in the world, to help her learn how to EXCEL in it.

This book [Kukuru Danger™] uses narratives of true life childhood experiences of a brilliant but wayward child, who later reformed himself, as a basis for offering practical tips and insights you can use.” – Tayo K. Solagbade. Best Practice Parenting Advocate™ & Location Independent Multipreneur.

 

Speaking Success Is Not About Audience Size

Everything I am about to say here is, as usual, my personal opinion.

To me, a good speaker will be successful in influencing people s/he speaks to, both on and off the platform. So, if you are a genius on the platform and a goof ball in your personal interactions, you have a lot of work to do on yourself before you can claim to be successful.

My stated opinion is based on my belief that we are only successful, to the extent that we are able to apply our skills in different situations, to achieve the goal we want.

And that goal is ultimately to provide satisfactory answers to the audience’s questions, needs or problems, in a way that makes them thank you, and/or ask for more.

When you speak, it could be in a formal, informal or non-formal setting, as I explained some issues back. Your audience size and circumstances can vary depending on a variety of factors. However, YOU will always be the constant, as the speaker who delivers a message to the individual or group audience.

The way I see it, your success as a speaker under varying circumstances has nothing to do with the size of the audience that has to listen to you.

Okay, maybe I should rephrase that. It should have little or nothing to do with the number of people you address.

I say this on the assumption that all other factors remain relatively constant – especially during formal presentations. For instance, with large audiences, the platform, seating arrangement, and acoustics need to be setup to ensure your presentation reaches all audience members effectively. Everyone present should be able to hear what you say clearly.

I also assume that the venue will have been setup to allow you employ your platform skills to maximum effect.

Sometimes however, you may need to put your speaking skills to use in small group settings.

For instance, as the leader of a team in your company, as CEO, or even as the president of your club or other social group. At other times you may have to speak in one-on-one situations with high profile individuals e.g. decision makers in a company you work for.

If you have taken care to prepare yourself adequately, it will rarely matter who you have to speak to, or how many they are. You will find that your passion for your chosen subject will always see you through (to paraphrase a famous speaker).

As usual, and with every sense of responsibility, I am able to say the above, based on personal experience.

In many of my past articles, I have shared anecdotal accounts of how I successfully won appointments with CEOs of companies I approached, even after the gatekeeper had assured me nothing of the sort would happen.

Basically, I act very self-confident every time I get an opportunity to speak to my target individual or group audience. But the confidence I display is always well founded. It comes from knowing my subject throughly. And this has helped me speak with impact even when I addressed large audiences.

Sometimes the “speaking opportunity” with an individual (e.g CEO), would have come at a totally unexpected time, or in an unusual setting.

For instance, I once had to speak to convince a CEO, while members of his team (in a meeting with him) looked on.

Most people feel self-conscious under this kind of situation. I did too.

However, becasue I knew what I had to say, and how to say it, I had no problems passing my message across. By the time I was done, he motioned for one of them to discuss details of what I proposed with me, and arrange a follow up meeting.

Your ability to express yourself in an articulate and convincing manner depends on your speaking prowess.

If you continually nurture it, there is probably no person or groups you speak to, that will not be won over.

That’s why I believe speaking success has little or nothing to do with audience numbers or size.

Instead, it’s about results, in the form of the outcomes you desire, becoming reality. Aim to develop yourself to get what you want, with increasing frequency from those you speak to, and you will succeed just as often.

PS: This article was first published online on Monday 13th August 2012 via www.spontaneousdevelopment.com

 

Acquire Real World Relevant Skills. Create the Future You Want.

Real world relevant skills immunize those who have – and make diligent intelligent use of – them against failure.

I always tell people of a news report I once read over a decade ago, when Daddy Showkey (who invented the unique dance styles and music genre that made him famous) explained how he survived his early years in poverty.

He said "Anytime I needed money, I would just start singing and dancing".

He did that in almost any public space. Crowds often gathered quickly and by the time he was done, a good number would have dropped money to show their appreciation.

Showkey has since used that skill of his to inspire many others, as he grew his brand to success. Today, he owns his own house, and lives comfortably with his family.

But we cannot all be skilled entertainers.

Not everyone will be gifted in that department or interested in pursuing success in that field.

And that’s great, because the world is badly in nee, today, of skilled persons with unending passion for what they do in many diverse areas of life, or markets.

Having useful skill better equips you for success.

I especially love those skills that eliminate the need to search for big startup capital.

That’s why I’m partial to catering (especially baking), PC and Internet related products/services creation and delivery, hair dressing, electrical problem solving, and other vocations

Once you acquire a skill, nobody can take it away from you.

The above is what drives me daily to support my kids to acquire and develop multiple, potentially useful real world relevant skills.

It is also why I remain a relentlessly fervent advocate of the work being done by organizations like Omowale Ola’s Field of Skills and Dreams in today’s world.

In case you still don’t get my point about skills and raising capital…

It is interesting to note that many skilled people, who do get it, often use their skills to earn money they then channel as capital to startup brick and mortar or physical entreprises they dream of owning.

For instance, a web marketing expert could channel 80% of his earnings towards starting a grocery store business managed by his spouse.

Since he works from home and has few overheads, this would be a good way to establish and grow over time, an additional stream of income to secure his family’s future.

Those who do this often end up with little or no debt to worry about. That’s why skills matter so much!

Quite often, skilled people are able to make money simply by creatively putting their skills to use, at low to zero cost, in the SERVICE of others towards solving problems or even providing entertainment.

Examples include the skilled hairdresser, PC/mobile phone repairer, automobile technician, electrician, tailor/fashion designer, dancer/singer, web marketing solutions provider etc

My personal experiences and achievements, as a Location Independent Multipreneur convince me that skills make the impossible possible

That’s why I have a keen interest in telling others to acquire skills.

I’ll end with this quote by Napoleon Hill, which perfectly captures my sentiments:

"It should be encouraging to know that practically all the great fortunes began in the form of compensation for personal services or from the sale of ideas. What else, except ideas and personal services, would one not possessed of property have to give in return for riches?" – Napoleon Hill, from his evergreen bestseller "Think and Grow Rich"

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Every Inner Circle member gets a PERSONAL login username and password access to benefits.

I recorded this video in his office (on 8th Dec. 2014) and DELIBERATELY left it unedited, as you’ll hear us…

Below: Verbatim text transcript of video testimonial by Mr. Simeon Afolabi, Clinical Audiologist, BSA Hearing & Speech Centre, Lagos/Abuja – Nigeria

===Starts===

(Tayo Solagbade’s voice in Yoruba) “E duro, e duro. Oya” (i.e Yoruba for “Wait, wait. Okay”)

“Mr. (Tayo) Solagbade is a very industrious person. Very very committed to his work. He’s always full of ideas and solutions to problems, and for me, he is somebody that can give some great ideas to a business person that is facing some difficulties in any field you may think you are.

I’m in a clinical setting and he has been offering some great solutions to problems we face everyday. I listen to his relations with many of his clients. Some are into Agricultural sector, some are into legal sector, and he has been helping them to improve their practice, and to do better business.

He has a very good customer relationship. He knows how to relate with people, how to talk with people, how to flow with people.

And he’s somebody that when you enter into conversation with him, you ke(ep) on talking without having to end it. (Tayo’s slight laughter in background). He’s good. Good (laughs).”

===Ends===

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Quarterly ($40 USD) & 6 Monthly ($80 USD) memberships available, but 50% off, not 65%.

You can pay:

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Examples of What You Get at 65% Off…

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[NEW BOOK with Optional MP3 Audio files] Ten (10) ‘Storyfied’ Yoruba Proverbs for Children – Goes Live from 8th January 2015 at www.lulu.com/sdaproducts

[UPDATE: It’s now LIVE in my online store here – click – Watch the preview video at [Audio Book] Tayo Solagbade’s “Ten Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs for Children” Audio Book DVD – YouTube] or below:

After working on it all through December 2014, I’m excited to announce this new learning tool, originally created for my kids, will go LIVE at www.lulu.com/sdaproducts tomorrow night!

Title: Ten (10) ‘Storyfied’ Yoruba Proverbs for Children

Sub title: Ten popular Yoruba proverbs with contextual translations and story-based examples of their use, in daily life, for young children & and learners in general

Cover Photo - NEW Book titled Ten (10) ‘Storyfied’ Yoruba Proverbs for Children. Subtitle - Ten popular Yoruba proverbs with contextual translations and story-based examples of their use, in daily life, for young children

For those who wonder, this is the first in what will be a series.

I did a preview of it in an issue of my weekly newsletter, few weeks back.

My motivation to do this is MAINLY to empower my kids to communicate proficiently using Yoruba.

It is also to enable them appreciate the beauty of the language – which can best be enjoyed when knows how to use and interpret proverbs and wise sayings appropriately.

I did not have the benefit, during my youth, of deliberate effort being made by adults to FORMALLY expose me to Yoruba

But I was lucky that my Dad firmly insisted, during our teenage years, that we read OUT the Yoruba bible during the daily bible study sessions we had.

That left me with the ability to actually READ the language despite being raised in Lagos city, and speaking English most of the time.

On my own, I went further as I grew older, to learn the phonetic aspects of speaking and writing Yoruba. But not in any structured way. It was all haphazard.

For instance, during my 5 year stay in Ibadan’s University of Ibadan, I was blessed to share a room with 2 guys from my home town Abeokuta, who grew up there and obviously spent most of their years with adults who had superb grasp of the language.

Almost every day my room mates mocked me about my lack of dexterity in the use of Yoruba. I was teased for speaking “Lagos Yoruba”. And they were right!

Rather than resent them, my habit of relentlessly pursuing self-improvement, made me ask them to share their knowledge with me, and by the time I left campus, even though I was nowhere near them, I had picked up enough to build on.

Over time I have consolidated that foundation, and today I have a growing library of learning resources, that I am now using to prepare coaching content for my own kids.

It goes without saying that despite the above, I am NOT in any way, an authority on reading, writing or speaking the Yoruba lanuage today.

However, what I have, I KNOW, can benefit MY kids and lots of others who lack it.

As such, I choose to focus on sharing THAT with them – and where I find others with superior proficiency, I will expose my kids to them as well!

Experience has taught me that one can teach successfully, by INVOLVING the intended learners in the process of creating the learning resources.

That way, the get exposed to it earlier, and come away with deeper understanding in the process.

That’s why the proverbs featured in my book are those that I have already discussed with my kids, and I even got them to create the MP3 audio clips with me – helping to say the proverbs in Yoruba and/or in English.

I initially planned to make it 25 proverbs per issue (click here to read details I gave in a preview)…

Below is a screenshot from the first proverb’s slide.

My “Storyfied” model is designed to facilitate contextual comprehension of proverbs by persons with limited proficiency.

Click to view larger screenshot of page from my forthcoming book - 25 Storyfied Yoruba Proverbs for Children - Read story-based interpretation in photo below

My tight work schedule all through Christmas right into the New Year, has however made me settle for a 10 proverb per issue volume.

This way I can get them out with some regularity. Even if I have to churn out smaller volumes.

This is a project VERY close to my heart.

One that I am simply too passionate about and too determined to ever stop doing UNTIL I complete it (that’s talking thousands of proverbs – so maybe with time I’ll step back up to 25 or more per issue).

In case you’re wondering, my kids understand Yoruba, but they do not speak it so well.

That’s why I want to use my “Storyfied” Proverbs to break them in faster.

The stories will boost their comprehension of the proverbs, and since opportunities to use them will occur in life, they will over time learn to express themselves using proverbs.

The prestige that will result from demonstrating that ability will cause them to pay greater attention to learning MORE proverbs, and in the process they will learn MORE of the Yoruba language and culture itself. ( The language and the culture cannot be separated you see!)

The more contact you have with, and conscious attention you pay to a language, the more you internalize it.

Eventually at a point, you will achieve critical point where you become proficient.

Having said that, I realize there will be others who desire the same for their own kids, but who may not have the time and training to create a resource lik this for them.

This is why I continue to publish various resources I create in a manner that enables interested others purchase, and adapt them for their own use.

Click here to see my online store, where this new book will go on sale from tomorrow p.m.

Final Words: This Storyfied language book project won’t end with Yoruba however…

Each day I see my kids, taking instructions from and communicating in Igbo language with their mother(who is from Obosi inNigeria’s Anambra state), I tell myself I need to do the same thing (i.e create a Storyfied proverbs book) for them with the IGBO language, which also has a rich store of proverbs.

And I already have material I can start with – from a 2002 paid 3 month IGBO language course that I attended in a coaching school at Allen Avenue. But it goes without saying that – as I am doing with the Yoruba version – I will also visit persons proficient in use of the language to LEARN and get guidance to ensure I do a good job of it.

All contributors names will be acknowledged in the publication – as has been done with this Yoruba book.

PS: By way of interest, those who have followed my work since I relocated to Benin Republic in April 2013, will know that I have a Quick and Dirty Guide to French Language for English Speakers/English Language for French Speakers that I created and have been selling.

Before creating the above guide, I’d published my ebook titled “Proven 5 Step Formula for Learning ANY Language in 3 Months or LESS“.

It was based on my experiences learning to read, write and speak the French Language, within 3 months in 1999 (traveling to stay in Cameroon to improve my fluency).

 

Do You Really Have To Find A Conventional Publisher? (A Case for Print On Demand Publishing)

Following recent sales conversations, I have come to the conclusion that many aspiring authors in my part of the world, STILL fail to see the cost, time and effort saving advantages offered by web based Print On Demand Publishing services.

Let me point out the following:

1. Conventional (brick and mortar) publishers will NOT always see the GENIUS in every authors work, even if it’s there.

That’s because they are human. The owner of the work may have to fall back on his/her BELIEF to forge ahead, IN SPITE of their rejection. Historical evidence bears testimony to the accuracy of this fact.

2. Even when traditional publishers do find your work interesting, very often their fees – for the aspiring writer – can be prohibitive.

3. If you adopt web based Print On Demand publishing to get your book into the market place, you will enjoy the benefits of having potential buyers access previews of your book, towards deciding if they are going to buy. And this would happen without your having to incur anything close to what it would take to get published conventionally.

Also, you will be able to inexpensively use articles on related themes to DRAW attention and generate leads to your book’s sales page. Most importantly, since you will be using the web, it will cost you next to nothing to keep this going.

Furthermore, with the widespread availability of FREE self-promotional tools such as directories, and social media (e.g. facebook), you can successfully carry on a sustained marketing campaign, tweaked periodically based on results you get, to create more awareness about and interest in your book.

Now, wouldn’t that be better than leaving your written manuscript in your bottom drawer, waiting till you can find – and afford to pay – a conventional publisher?

The choice is yours. I certainly hope you don’t wait for ever. Indeed if you take ACTION to adopt the Print On Demand Publishing referred to above, THAT could lead to your work getting noticed by a GOOD PUBLISHER that could decide to sign you up – even if they require that you improve certain aspects.

FINAL WORDS

Use what you have to get what you want…GET YOUR BOOK OUT THERE VIA THE WEB, and promote it with the passion that made you write it. Sooner than later something GOOD will happen. You’ll be better off doing that, than sitting around and waiting for a publisher to discover you!

There’s a lot to learn…those of us in Africa need to tread softly when it comes to spending heavily to get published. If/when we have to spend, let’s do so to purchase systems and resources that stretch every unit of money we spend, so we can get maximal, sustained benefits.

And That’s why I LOVE web based book publishing and marketing methods. With Print On Demand Publishing, you get your book in a ready to print/publish state at almost zero cost. The onus then falls on you to create needed marketing buzz to get people to BUY the book from its online store. Only when they buy does the provider charge a fee. Then you get your royalty.

We are in Africa. Nigeria to be specific. Most of those who read seriously enough to want to buy from us are based OVERSEAS. Our best bet is to minimise overheads and starting costs. Print On Demand Publishing offers the needed flexibility.

All of this is of course my opinion, and you have every right to think differently.

One last point:

I recently discovered that some people do not take the pains to read up and understand what Print On Demand publishing entails, before they choose to argue against it!

There is a saying that “The mind is like a parachute. It works best when it is open”.

Please visit http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Print_on_demand for a generic introduction to Print On Demand publishing.

Barter Your Digital Products to Make More Money (True Story)

This UAE based buyer’s 24 hour old email provides a perfect ending for MY fairy tale run in 2014:

From: Nelson Jr. s
Date: 30 Dec 2014 15:43

Dear Tayo,

First of all, Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family…‬

‬Hope I was not too late for your year end promo, as I was fully engaged with my work as I’m planning to take vacation to Philippines by next week. :)‬

‬‪I’ve read your email and can’t resist the offer. As such, please find attached the receipt of the items I purchased from Lulu.com as mentioned in your email below.‬

‬Hope to receive your Ration Formulator along with your freebies at the earliest so I can start familiarizing myself with the program while I’m on vacation. This will be of great help in expending my piggery business.‬
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Once again, Happy new year!!!‬

Many Thanks!!!‬

‬‪Best Regards,‬
‪‪Nelson‬

This is the email he sent me width=

If you’re curious about details of the promo offer I made him, here it is below…

To: Nelson Jr. s
Date: 18 Dec 2014 15:29

Hi Nelson,

Like I said, I wanted to find out if you’d be taking up any of my year end promo offers.

But I realized that since you are into hog farming, the offer of my Poultry Farm Manager may not be so useful to you.

So, instead I’ve come up with something different for you as follows:

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If you can purchase the following paperback books from my online store and have them shipped to my brother in law’s address below:

Segun Ogunlana

London,
United KingdomIf you take up this offer, you get to pay only N10,192.8, instead of N12,500.Once the books are received in London, I will send you a FREE copy of my Ration Formulator fully personalized for you, along with FREE copies of my 4 part Ebook series on Best Practice Farm Business Management (see http://www.lulu.com/shop/tayo-solagbade/farm-business-best-practice-management-10-articles-and-stories-for-farm-business-owners/ebook/product-21867121.html)Plus, I will send you a FREE PDF copy of an Agribusiness research paper I was paid 2,500 Euros to write, by a Holland based NGO last December (2013). It was about the rate of adoption/use of my Ration Formulator, by Farm CEOs.The items I need you to purchase and ship to my brother in law’s in London are:A. My new Speaking IDEAS book (paperback version NOT Ebook)

Price is $12 USD

See it on sale at:
http://www.lulu.com/shop/tayo-solagbade/speaking-ideas-25-articles-and-true-stories-for-experts-who-speak-and-those-aspiring-volume-1/paperback/product-21873474.html

Number of copies to buy: 1 copy

B. My new Kukuru Danger book (paperback version NOT Ebook)

http://www.lulu.com/shop/tayo-solagbade/kukuru-danger-5-true-stories-about-the-adventures-and-misadventures-of-a-school-age-child-trying-to-find-purpose-in-life/paperback/product-21758730.html

Number of copies to buy: 3 copies

C. The Lulu.com SHIPPING/HANDLING fee for delivery of the books…

From checking at my end using the shopping cart with the intended shipping address inputted, it will be about $13 USD (The actual value shown in the checkout interface was under $13 USD)

In summary, I have worked out the total amount that A, B and C above will come to, as follows:

A. 1 copy @ $12 USD  = $12 USD

B. 3 copies @ $9.60 USD each = $ 28.8 USD

C. Shipping and handling  = $14 USD (worst case estimate)

Likely total cost will be  $54.8 USD on the whole.

I have converted that into Nigerian Naira using an exchange rate of N186 to $1 USD (which is to your advantage, because it is currently at about N185 or less to a dollar)

That brings the $54.8 USD to N10,192.8, which is LESS than the N12,500.0 price for the Ration Formulator.

So, you get to save N2,307 (18%), and also get my other bonus gifts.

Plus, this removes the problem of sending money to me to pay for the software!

If you’re interested in taking this offer up, do let me know.
In your service,

Tayo
PS: In case you’re curious, I’ve put excerpts below from the offer I made to other Farm CEOs with Poultry ventures…

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NOW HERE ARE DETAILS OF THE WEB MARKETING SERVICE OFFER:

I offer to help you develop and implement a Web Marketing System to cost-effectively boost your company’s branding/marketing efforts…

You probably read the preview in Monday’s newsletter.

Click the link below to read the full story about the Nigerian Farm CEO who attracted bulk buyers at zero cost to his farm in South West Nigeria, using a simple online strategy…

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Wouldn’t it be great if you could use the above strategy to boost local and international sales of your products and services?

Think about it carefully, and you’ll see that I end up literally eating my cake and having it by operating this way.

It might also interest you to know that Nelson had earlier (on 1st Dec 2014) purchased my PDF feed formulation handbook, for $82 US Dollars from the same online store at www.lulu.com/sdaproducts

In otherwords, this was his second purchase in 4 weeks, which you will agree indicates he was satisfied with what he got the first time!

On Monday 5th January 2015, in the first issue of my weekly newsletter for the new year, I will explain in detail, why every business owner that adopts this strategy that I used with Nelson, will end up making more money and profits in the long run.

Here’s wishing you happy holidays and a prosperous 2015!

Stay tuned!

To Succeed Smarter You Need a Do-It-Yourself Mentality

[Photos: House painting after Christmas day 2014, with my sons] Unlike when I relocated ALONE in April 2013, moving my family from this Lagos apartment, to join me in Cotonou, has (not surprisingly) been a less straightforward matter, on multiple fronts, from the kids to even their grandparents!

But it’s progressing, slowly. We’re disposing old stuff etc. 2 days ago (Xmas night – 25th Dec. 2014) from 8.30 p.m till 3.00a.m (Yes, past midnight!) we applied the first coat of paint to the outside walls, inside the kitchen, bathroom and toilet etc.Tired but hungry, we cleaned up, had our baths then ate pancakes and plantain, before going to bed. The kids were so excited! 6 hours later, at about 10a.m we were back at it, applying a second coat (see photos below).

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But why paint a house we’re soon to move out of, you may wonder?

Well, you see, my rental experiences in the past 19 months (and 2 house changes) in Benin Republic have exposed me to a practice diligently adhered to by property owners and their tenants, which I find personally agreeable.

In the tenancy agreement signed by both parties, a clause is always inserted to the effect that before leaving, the tenant will restore the rented property to the original state s/he took possession of it at the start of his/her tenancy.

That will typically be determined via a joint pre vacation inspection. Sometimes only repainting of certain areas may be needed. At other times damaged fittings etc may have to be replaced.

Simply put, the exiting tenant has to hand over the property in as close as possible to the same state it was handed over to him/her.

Now, in Nigeria, this practice exists, but is not implemented in the same formal and detailed/elaborate manner as I’ve seen done in Benin Republic.

But, I have resolved to do it, as done in Benin even though the tenancy agreement I signed with the owner of the place we live in Lagos, does NOT require it.

Here are excerpts from a letter I sent to the agency, in September 2014, shortly after I spoke with him, when he came to do the pre vacation inspection:

My work is 80% PC and Internet based (See www.tayosolagbade.com). I need reliable power supply. And to be productive, I’d rather not have power and work against background noise of generators. This was why I moved to Cotonou, on 1st April 2013, and I’ve been able to work without those annoyances – with MAJOR progress as a result. And that’s why I’m moving my family to join me there.

But like I told <agency staff’s name> when we met on Saturday 16th August 2014, I already resolved to restore the apartment as close as possible to the condition in which it was when my family moved in.

Specifically, the broken fittings (sink, kitchen cabinet etc) will be repaired. And it will be repainted. As I explained to <agency staff’s name>, I believe it is only fair to <property owner’s name> that I do this. Incidentally, it is the practice here in Benin.

For instance, I had to repaint the bathroom of the self-contained apartment I vacated after staying there a year – in line with my tenancy agreement. In the larger apartment I’ve now moved into, in another part of town, the same clause exists in the agreement I signed. Since I plan to own my own property in the near future, I want to treat others the way I would like my property to be treated.

Now, another reason why this painting exercise in particular appealed to me is that it provided a useful opportunity to teach my kids to do it i.e house painting.

Most people in our part of world don’t know much about painting, and few are keen to learn.

Indeed some believe it to be beneath them to engage in such an activity that can get rather messy. So they prefer to pay others to do it.

I however believe that attitude is a mistake.

On my part, I tell my kids how learning to do stuff like that by themselves can help them save money to be paid to painters. I also point out how learning to do it can even equip them to make quick money on the side, in future, by doing simple painting jobs for others who are unwilling to do it themselves.

You see, it is my considered opinion that not only do we need to develop our DIY (Do-It-Yourself) abilities, to succeed better, we also owe our kids an obligation to equip them to do the same.

Simply put, I’m saying we can boost our ability to succeed in the world by learning to do more for ourselves, by ourselves.

My conviction is not baseless. I have relatives and friends living in the UK and USA, and while in Guinness Nigeria, I worked closely with several senior colleagues/bosses from the UK.

I also traveled across England, Wales, Scotland and other parts of the UK in 2000, attending an international brewing course organized by the UK based Institute & Guild of Brewing.

My conversations with those relatives, colleagues and associates revealed that most people in their societies strive to develop a DIY habit because of the high cost of skilled labour.

A former expatriate British boss in Guinnes once told me he owned his own welding machine because the fees one had to pay to call in a welder were prohibitive. That made it cost-effective to own the equipment and learn to use it.

Another expatriate senior colleague whose home I visited in London showed me his kitchen cabinets, which he proudly told me he built and fitted by himself. My own older brother, who lived in London at the time, when he later moved to Lagos, to start a new business, displayed a propensity for fixing things in his home by himself, for the same reasons.

I still recall watching with a mix of amusement and curiosity each time he opened his toolbox and took out/began using electric drills etc around his apartment. He told me the same things the other persons said: he adopted a DIY approach because it was prudent to do so – financially and otherwise.

Back home in Nigeria/Africa, because most people who do jobs like carpentry, plumbing, painting etc, are often not well schooled, we know we can get their services relatively cheaply, or so we think.

What I have however learnt is that in the long run it all still adds up.

That’s why today I also employ the DIY approach as often as possible – and it’s paying off.

It is my hope that you will avail yourself of the benefits accruable from doing the same thing – so as to keep more of your money in your pockets!

To Achieve Long Term Success You Need The Right Motives

This article explains why it is crucial for the long term survival of any business venture you wish to embark upon, for you to search deeply within yourself and ensure you KNOW and are CONVINCED that it is what you want to do. Failure to do this could result in the untimely death of the product of your hardwork many years down the line.

Why Are You In Business?

What is your reason for being in (or wanting to go into) business as an entrepreneur? Maybe you realised you might never get as rich as you really want to be by remaining in paid employment. Maybe you have some ideas about how to use your unique gifts and/or skills to change the world around you to a better place – among other things – by influencing new ways of thinking and doing things.

The point is that you need to KNOW exactly why you want to embark on this kind of journey. Knowing why you want to do it, as Jim Rohn said, makes it easy to know why you cannot give it up – ever!

Having reasons helps you achieve your aims no matter how long it takes or how slow or painful it becomes – because your reasons or motives give you CONVICTION. A person who is convinced about his/her concepts will NEVER give up trying to make them work. It only becomes a question of time then, before s/he finds success.

Find A Reason That Goes Beyond Making Money

Desiring money can provide adequate motivation to pursue business success. The problem I have with it is this: What happens AFTER you achieve your desired level of business success that results in wealth – and financial independence or security for you?

Some successful people have advised that you avoid making money your major focus. This is because, (from their experience) when you relentlessly pursue your vision, success will eventually come with significant monetary rewards (there are those who think differently of course). So, why bother your self about it up front, they ask.

I actually share this philosophy about having motives for starting a business, that go beyond just making money. To really be successful, we must be able to do something that makes a positive impact on others/society. Or it could be something which gives us fulfillment regardless of whether or not we get material rewards from doing so. When its ONLY about the money, a person may not be able to sustain his/her initial hunger or passion to take things to another level, once the money comes.

Examples Of Real People Who Have Motives That Go Beyond Making Money

Painters/Artists and many authentic entrepreneurs in a way are soul mates of sorts in this area. They will be very often found willing to continue for unlimited periods of time pursuing their vision regardless of how much lack they suffer before succeeding. And even when they have achieved material success, their passion for work never diminishes, because they stay focused on achieving the ultimate vision of making a difference using their unique gifts – visions that may be pursued for their entire lifetime.

Take the case of Bill Gates. Considering that he has been the richest man in the world for quite a while now, if that had been his sole motivation for starting his business or building it up to its current size, I doubt that he would still be working the way he does.

Gates – as I learnt from a Newsweek magazine interview I once read – has a personal vision to "evangelise" to the world, the "gospel of software development" as it were. From CEO, he now plays the role of a chief visionary, for the Microsoft company – influencing how/where new developments in the business should go, and bringing in capable hands to complement his efforts as necessary. On a different front, he is also working hard on the "…Gates" foundation to help people around the world.

To Achieve Long Term Business Success – Your Employees Need To Have The Right Reasons Too!

My personal experiences – even from when I was in paid employment – assure me the above philosophy guarantees significant and long term success for anyone who follows it. For instance, by working hard to help my former company manage her brewing operations better using my self-taught skills (in spreadsheet programming), I got attractive career advancement opportunities offered to me fairly early on in my career – with significant monetary and other benefits.

One example. I thoroughly disliked the idea of spending hours and hours over 3 or more days (as often happened at the time I just joined the company as a brewer) doing cumbersome calculator based computations to determine performance indicators for week/month end reports. So, I decided to build a spreadsheet to eliminate the problem. Did I achieve my goal, you ask? Yes, I did – and I got a lot of recognition for it in the process. But if you notice, my reason for embarking on that activity was initially to solve a problem I personally found distasteful. But in the process, others found my developed solution to be something they also wanted – so it was formally adopted.

But even if I had not gone the extra mile to use my free time and self-taught skills to add this kind of value to the company.

Even if I had simply done exactly what was stated in my job description, I would still have gotten paid a comfortable salary, and earned the normal annual performance reviews bonuses for doing my job! It is therefore obvious that I chose to do more, because of a compelling need I had, to influence changes I believed would boost workplace productivity.

Going by the above, it might not be a bad idea to study each of your employees to determine what primary motives they have for working in your company. Their willingness to take the initiative in solving problems; to develop futuristic solutions or to go the extra mile on the job when necessary, for the company to succeed, will be useful pointers.

Summary

In entrepreneuring, it is generally recommended that your business idea should be one that you are passionate about, and which solves a problem that your prospective customers will appreciate. You can usually identify such opportunities from those instances when you experience feelings of frustration/anger or dissatisfaction with a particular situation, product or service condition. When you feel that way, you might find that others also feel the same, but have no idea what they can do to eliminate the problem.

If you can provide that solution, it is likely to be (eventually) perceived as useful by others. You will have met a NEED. Working daily to be able to meet that felt need to your customers’ satisfaction will ensure long term success for your business: you will always be relevant. If you make providing this enduring solution – with appropriate adaptation to changes that occur over time – your primary motive for being in business, you will easily sustain your passion to keep the business going for the long term – even when you experience tough times.

I’ll end by saying if you do NOT have a compelling reason for doing whatever it is you’ve chosen to do as an entrepreneur, you will not have enough motivation to keep from giving up when things get tough – and every once in a while, business WILL get tough! Back to top

“Make your vision so powerful that when you finally accomplish your goal, you have a sense of deja-vu – Haven’t I experienced this before?” – Cynthia Kersey

“If you don’t do what you love you will fail, and fail big time.” – Michael Ross

Where Employee Training Fails, Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development (SCfSD) Can Work For Your Company (Flagship Seminar)

WHO SHOULD ATTEND?

This session is designed to be of most value to people who have the power to influence the employee training and development strategy(i.e. decision makers) of an organisation – and other individuals who occupy key leadership positions and/or play supervisory roles.

Possible job titles would include:

Organisational Devpt. Manger
Personnel Director or Manager
Head of Admin/Personnel
Executive Director
Educational Administrator
Head of School(s)
Sectional/Departmental Heads
Team Leader/Lead Facilitator
Direct reports to the above

PREAMBLE

This seminar shows how to ensure your employees get the skills and experience they need to achieve their fullest potentials on the job. On a more individual level, employees eager to advance their own careers will find this seminar not only inspiring, but also a source of tested and proven ideas, concepts, strategies/advice on how to develop their own skills and use workplace assignments available to them to the fullest advantage.

What I shall demonstrate during this seminar is how to combine a few proven, simple, yet powerful techniques anyone can use to achieve SWP – Superlative Workplace Performances™ such that more frequent (Perpetual) Career Advancement opportunities result.

I’m sure you’ll find attending this seminar a day well spent. You’ll leave buzzing with enthusiasm to apply the techniques and concepts that will be of immediate benefit to you and your organisation. And above all, you will know what to do and how to do it. I therefore hope you decide to attend, and look forward to meeting you at the event.

Why simply being good enough is no longer good enough to cause career advancement

In today’s highly competitive workplace, it’s no longer good enough to merely do what is required of you on your job. Evidence abounds to show that this will not generate the benefits and opportunities that can lead to significant career advancements. To gain those benefits and opportunities, “something more” is needed.

We shall therefore begin the day by considering what that “something more” is for the Ideal Employee and more importantly, what it might be for ordinary, everyday people in an organisation like yours.

How to identify and successfully utilise your career advancement opportunities

All employees will regularly be presented with career advancement opportunities. Different employees will have different ones. The challenge is often HOW to identify and make effective use of them to get ahead in the workplace.

Some employees have more than others – sometimes through deliberate planning and effort. Some are more prepared to “seize” the opportunities than others. But without doubt every employee has them! And as earlier hinted, some even create them. We will see how when we discuss this section.

Using “Brain Training” to give yourself consistent edge at work

Some businesses suffer from what I call “Employee Brain Lethargy”. It afflicts them by limiting their ability to create continuing value in the workplace.

In this session, I will explain what “Brain Training” is, how it is working for people in many successful organizations, and how you could apply it, along with your Self-Development efforts, to gain an “unfair advantage” over others in your workplace.

Case Study – Intelligent use of the techniques

This case study will be a real-life example of how the ideas and techniques I advocate worked successfully for some of my former reports (a different example will be used at each event).

How to utilise the power of Spontaneous Coaching™ (SC) and Going The Extra Mile (GTEM)

SWP = SD (Self-Development) + SC + GTEM

This simple equation explains how an employee’s performance is moved from adequate to excellent and so from satisfactory to superlative. A key element of achieving repeated workplace successes is therefore hidden in the concepts of SD, SC and GTEM.

This session will show how anyone can use SC and GTEM to repeatedly achieve exceptional workplace performances to the delight of decision makers. Also, how SC is used to secure undiluted loyalty, goodwill and cooperation from co-workers and/or reports.

How to use SC to train and develop new employees

Most highly successful people have a personal bias for developing and empowering others around them to achieve their fullest potentials. As the saying goes, “they encourage ordinary people to achieve extraordinary performances”.

In this session, we will consider the key qualities of a Spontaneous Coach™ in the workplace, and the significant challenges to any person wishing to operate as one.

Case Study – Intelligent use of technology

This case study will show how the latest technology (PC/Software, Internet etc) may be used to enable the successful adoption and practice of SD, SC and GTEM. (I will also give significant personal examples from seven years spent in a large, blue chip multinational).

Implementation techniques that ensure your SD strategy will achieve outstanding results

Except they are converted into useful and effective actions, good ideas will be of little (if any) use. A strategy is useless if it cannot be successfully implemented. This session will therefore focus on proven implementation techniques and how they may be employed by any individual wishing to differentiate him/herself through performance.

How the Superlative Workplace Performances lead to significant Perpetual Career Advancement opportunities

This session will show how all the ideas and techniques considered in previous sessions are combined and used to achieve Superlative Workplace Performances which in turn lead to Perpetual Career Advancements.

Action Planning

During this final session, you will prepare a prioritised personal action plan. This plan will ensure that the relevant ideas and techniques learned during the day are used to achieve the maximum impact and success in your workplace.

TIMING

The seminar will begin at 9.15 am with delegates registration taking place between 8.30 and 9.00 am. It will close at 4.00pm.

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