Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
[DVAM NEWS] TRUE STORIES ABOUT DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN BY UK BASED NIGERIAN PSYCHIATRIST – Part 1 | 28th March 2021
March 27, 2021









Excerpts from my 57 minute long phone conversation with a UK based Nigerian Psychiatrist who has been involved in helping resolve several Domestic Violence cases in a professional capacity. *Personal details removed to protect identity. Call took place on: 2020-09-27 from 10.05 a.m Click HERE...  







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
[DVAM] TRUE STORY: “Bad” Women Often Play the “WOMAN CARD” to Paint “Good” Men “Bad” [REAL LIFE CASE STUDY - DO NOT EMPOWER ABUSERS: UNMASK THEM!] - Download Digital Version
December 17, 2020









"Gender equality does not mean women ruling over men; rather it guarantees a level-playing field devoid of all forms of discrimination" - Oyinkan Olasanoye, Chairperson of TUC Women's Commission "A man suffering abuse may experience deep trauma that damages his work related productivity, resulting in job loss, or if he's self-employed, client loss. Being a […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
IG LIVE INTERVIEW Lola Vivour-Adeniyi (@lolavivouradeniyi) - with Tayo K. Solagbade (@tksola2020) – Male Survivor of Domestic Violence
November 11, 2020









SUBTITLE: Experience Sharing True Story Narration of Domestic Violence Inflicted by Intimate Female Partner + Lessons, Suggestions etc I prepared this downloadable "Pimped" PDF TRANSCRIPT version for those who may lack time/data/electricity to watch the full video online OR who lack good connectivity for smooth viewing - a reality we face now and then. NB: […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
VIDEO: Beat Me Up. I Married a Wife, Not a Man. You're a Reproach to Womanhood [Says Husband to Angry Wife]
October 2, 2020









VIDEO: Beat Me Up. I Married a Wife, Not a Man. You're a Reproach to Womanhood [Says Husband to Angry Wife] Contrary to popular stereotype, this video clearly shows that the woman is the aggressor. Her body language as well as her words show she is threatening and trying to intimidate/dominate the husband. Without the […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
[SDVAM] Was He Used & Dumped? (Man Whose Wife Weds Boyfriend, Now Stutters With High Blood Pressure)
September 19, 2020









The look on this man's face has haunted me from the first day I watched his video story, and it drove me to create THIS TRAILER video asking key questions. He looked so broken - so devastated. His blood pressure shot up upon hearing that his wife was getting married and he suddenly began stammering. […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
[DVAM] TOXIC FEMININITY: HORRIBLE FEMALE BEHAVIOR WE IGNORE – BY SYDNEY WATSON [SUBTITLES + Text Transcript PDF Version Created by Tayo K. Solagbade for DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST MEN - iDEAS FOR IDENTIFYING AND STOPPING IT at www.facebook.com/stopdvambytks ]
February 28, 2020









Not all women behave in the bad ways described in this video by Sydney (who is also a woman!). But some (like my Ex) do and they often get away with it. That’s the point being made. Due to harmful stereotypes, male victims often get NO opportunity to be heard, talk less believed. This amounts […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
[DVAM] Woman Inflicts Vicious Verbal, Emotional & Psychological Abuse On Struggling Entrepreneur Boyfriend
February 18, 2020









This Short Film depicts Verbal, Emotional & Psychological Abuse viciously inflicted by a woman on her Intimate Male Partner, in a manner that resonated with me - because I have experienced such abuse as a man. My name is TAYO SOLAGBADE and I created this review video trailer version by inserting slides based messages (like […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
The URGENT Need to Support Male Victims of Domestic Abuse [EVENT: 7th National Conference on Male Victims of Domestic Abuse - Thur. 14th Nov. 2019, Mercure Bristol Holland House Hotel, Redcliffe Hill,Bristol, BS1 6SQ United Kingdom | Organized by Mankind.org (Mankind Initiative)]
October 24, 2019









The narrative of Domestic Violence has changed a lot in recent years. Statistics reported by Lagos State's Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT) clearly show alarming increases in male victims reporting domestic abuse at the hands of their female partners. READ: Incredible! Wives batter 138 husbands in Lagos Considering the fact that men often shy […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
NPD - DVAM NEWS No. 004: Are There Children/Adults Suffering Emotional &/or Psychological Abuse Right Under Your Nose? [Subtitle: An Experience Based Discussion of The Frequently Overlooked Yet VERY TOXIC Personality of the Closet (or Covert) Narcissistic “Mother”]
October 23, 2019









  “Normal or healthier mothers are proud of their children and want them to shine. But a narcissistic mother may perceive her daughter as a threat. If attention is drawn away from the mother, the child suffers retaliation, put-downs, and punishments. The mother can be jealous of her daughter for many reasons: her looks, her […]







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