Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

The URGENT Need to Support Male Victims of Domestic Abuse [EVENT: 7th National Conference on Male Victims of Domestic Abuse - Thur. 14th Nov. 2019, Mercure Bristol Holland House Hotel, Redcliffe Hill,Bristol, BS1 6SQ United Kingdom | Organized by Mankind.org (Mankind Initiative)]

October 24, 2019

The narrative of Domestic Violence has changed a lot in recent years. Statistics reported by Lagos State's Domestic and Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT) clearly show alarming increases in male victims reporting domestic abuse at the hands of their female partners. READ: Incredible! Wives batter 138 husbands in Lagos Considering the fact that men often shy […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

NPD - DVAM NEWS No. 004: Are There Children/Adults Suffering Emotional &/or Psychological Abuse Right Under Your Nose? [Subtitle: An Experience Based Discussion of The Frequently Overlooked Yet VERY TOXIC Personality of the Closet (or Covert) Narcissistic “Mother”]

October 23, 2019

“Normal or healthier mothers are proud of their children and want them to shine. But a narcissistic mother may perceive her daughter as a threat. If attention is drawn away from the mother, the child suffers retaliation, put-downs, and punishments. The mother can be jealous of her daughter for many reasons: her looks, her […]

Career Development

PII 178: Are You Confident That Your Child Can Stand Up to Peer Pressure? (Lessons from BBC's #SexForGrades Video Documentary About University Lecturers)

October 14, 2019

"I'm assuming you're a(n uncompromising) person like me. So if you're not, please JUMP OFF THE SHIP because I'm not interested in massaging any egos. So when they meet your child who has been brought up to be like you, then what will happen is that they will be threatened. So what are you going to […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 165: [DVAM] So some social workers tell us "Children never lie" about sexual abuse? Garbage! Totally discredited herewith [READ THIS NEWS REPORT ABOUT A REAL LIFE USA COURT CASE]

May 28, 2019

In this special Public Service edition of my Performance Improvement Ideas newsletter, I share an excerpt, ending with a link to the full report about the heart-wrenching true story nightmare that vicious lies told by a vindictive school girl and her friends put an innocent school coach through. Not only did they ruin his good […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] (Unwittingly) Coaching the children (to lie)

May 25, 2019

No child wants to be on the wrong side of a parent - generally. And when you have a parent who is skilled in emotional and psychological manipulation of others, kids can be like putty in his/her hand. S/he will simply mould them literally at will into what s/he wants. They will become - literally […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] HIGH‐CONFLICT CONTACT DISPUTES: EVIDENCE OF THE EXTREME UNRELIABILITY OF SOME CHILDREN'S ASCERTAINABLE WISHES AND FEELINGS - Family Court Review | An Interdisciplinary Journal

January 6, 2019

This research paper's findings speak for themselves. It was authored by "a child psychiatrist who acts as an expert witness within the family courts of England & Wales". Here's an excerpt from his conclusion that I found powerfully compelling, and highly noteworthy: "I conclude that courts might exercise caution when evaluating the views of children […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] When children lie and why they lie and why people who work with separated families should know that they lie and why

January 6, 2019

The article previewed/linked below - authored by a US based Parental Alienation Expert is powerfully educative and informative. It provides elaborate real life examples to support its valid argument that kids can, and do lie (often coached by a naughty parent in dispute with a partner) when asked to "testify" in matters relating to their quarreling parents. […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] Yes, sex is food, Nkechi Emmanuel tells married women - Here's the URL for the ORIGINAL SOURCE of what I consider PURE WISDOM on relationships

December 27, 2018

Hmmm...something made me Google for more on this title/theme and suddenly I discovered what would appear to be the ORIGINAL source of the excellent thoughts I shared to my Facebook wall on Christmas Day December 25 at 6:20 AM (screenshot below): In line with my uncompromising stance on giving due attribution to the true originator of any […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 147: Narcissists Can Harm Those They Live With - Especially Children [What You Need to Know]

December 23, 2018

I've recently begun writing about Narcissism and how a Narcissistic person can cause great damage to others - especially his/her intimate partner and more importantly, ANY kids they have to parent. Read PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring “Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions” – from HigherPerspectivesDotCom] […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring "Inside the narcissist's wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions" - from HigherPerspectivesDotCom]

November 12, 2018

[DISCLAIMER: This issue of my weekly Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is a special public information and education service. However, nothing I offer here should be taken to be professional advice. It's simply experience based information and education that I have chosen to share, because sharing done by others has helpe me to deal with […]