Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM) - SD Nuggets™

PII 178: Are You Confident That Your Child Can Stand Up to Peer Pressure? (Lessons from BBC's #SexForGrades Video Documentary About University Lecturers)

October 14, 2019

"I'm assuming you're a(n uncompromising) person like me. So if you're not, please JUMP OFF THE SHIP because I'm not interested in massaging any egos. So when they meet your child who has been brought up to be like you, then what will happen is that they will be threatened. So what are you going to […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 165: [DVAM] So some social workers tell us "Children never lie" about sexual abuse? Garbage! Totally discredited herewith [READ THIS NEWS REPORT ABOUT A REAL LIFE USA COURT CASE]

May 28, 2019

In this special Public Service edition of my Performance Improvement Ideas newsletter, I share an excerpt, ending with a link to the full report about the heart-wrenching true story nightmare that vicious lies told by a vindictive school girl and her friends put an innocent school coach through. Not only did they ruin his good […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] (Unwittingly) Coaching the children (to lie)

May 25, 2019

No child wants to be on the wrong side of a parent - generally. And when you have a parent who is skilled in emotional and psychological manipulation of others, kids can be like putty in his/her hand. S/he will simply mould them literally at will into what s/he wants. They will become - literally […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] HIGH‐CONFLICT CONTACT DISPUTES: EVIDENCE OF THE EXTREME UNRELIABILITY OF SOME CHILDREN'S ASCERTAINABLE WISHES AND FEELINGS - Family Court Review | An Interdisciplinary Journal

January 6, 2019

This research paper's findings speak for themselves. It was authored by "a child psychiatrist who acts as an expert witness within the family courts of England & Wales". Here's an excerpt from his conclusion that I found powerfully compelling, and highly noteworthy: "I conclude that courts might exercise caution when evaluating the views of children […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] When children lie and why they lie and why people who work with separated families should know that they lie and why

January 6, 2019

The article previewed/linked below - authored by a US based Parental Alienation Expert is powerfully educative and informative. It provides elaborate real life examples to support its valid argument that kids can, and do lie (often coached by a naughty parent in dispute with a partner) when asked to "testify" in matters relating to their quarreling parents. […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

[DVAM] Yes, sex is food, Nkechi Emmanuel tells married women - Here's the URL for the ORIGINAL SOURCE of what I consider PURE WISDOM on relationships

December 27, 2018

Hmmm...something made me Google for more on this title/theme and suddenly I discovered what would appear to be the ORIGINAL source of the excellent thoughts I shared to my Facebook wall on Christmas Day December 25 at 6:20 AM (screenshot below): In line with my uncompromising stance on giving due attribution to the true originator of any […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 147: Narcissists Can Harm Those They Live With - Especially Children [What You Need to Know]

December 23, 2018

I've recently begun writing about Narcissism and how a Narcissistic person can cause great damage to others - especially his/her intimate partner and more importantly, ANY kids they have to parent. Read PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring “Inside the narcissist’s wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions” – from HigherPerspectivesDotCom] […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 142: Ideas for Unmasking and Dealing With Narcissists Anywhere, Anytime [Featuring "Inside the narcissist's wicked mind and their make-believe world of illusions" - from HigherPerspectivesDotCom]

November 12, 2018

[DISCLAIMER: This issue of my weekly Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is a special public information and education service. However, nothing I offer here should be taken to be professional advice. It's simply experience based information and education that I have chosen to share, because sharing done by others has helpe me to deal with […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

Ignore the Macho Myth™: Asking for Help Means You're Truly Strong [Advice for Battered MEN]

October 7, 2018

Below is an excerpt from my recent report on the symposium I attended on Domestic Violence, which I've turned into a special one page image flyer offering ADVICE for battered men. Download and share to any person(s) you feel will find it useful. "Even the fictional superman gets helped every now and then – and […]

Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

PII 136: [DVAM] How to Identify & Stop Domestic Violence [Key Combination of Approaches to Create Massive Awareness In Society]

October 1, 2018

Question: WHO SHOULD READ THIS PDF REPORT? Answer: Persons who run (or work with) agencies providing support to victims of Domestic Violence. On 20th September 2018, I prepared and began emailing download links for this IDEAS document to agencies providing support to victims of Domestic Violence. My decision to do this stemmed from my participation as a panelist at […]