Six (6) Warning Signs That Can Help You Avoid Wasting Time Marketing To The Wrong Prospects

When I started out in business, I had some difficulty deciding just how much marketing would be enough or too much. The thing is you can never really be certain up front about who will respond positively to your marketing and who will not. However, you can at least develop ways by which you can avoid wasting too much time, effort or expense on any prospects who are not likely to buy. You will then be able to divert those resources towards nurturing relationships with those who show signs that they will.

In this article I describe specific signs that I personally use to decide just how far I will go, at any point in time, in my marketing efforts with each prospective client or customer. In many cases, even when I do not make a sale, I have found that I am able to save considerable expense by not wasting time following up with people who are not ready at that point in time(they could become ready at a later date) to make a purchase. In the next section, I explain the thinking behind the approach I use.

The Need To Be Effective And Efficient In Order To Be Profitable

Three keywords guide me in thinking about any aspect of my business performance measurement. They are: Effectiveness, Efficiency and Profitability.

a. Effectiveness. To me, being effective means doing what REALLY NEEDS to be done and NOT what you THINK needs to be done, or worse what you just WANT to do. I believe it is important for every business – micro or multinational – to carefully and accurately identify the specific business marketing TASKS that NEED to be executed, and develop reliable steps to be followed in carrying them out, so that the same DESIRED business goals(e.g. increased SALES) are achieved EVERY TIME. That way, there will be consistency and predictability in the business’ processes and operations.

b. Efficiency. In my opinion, being efficient means being able to get MORE of the results I desire(e.g. good quality pre-qualified prospects through my business marketing) while using the same or LESS of time, effort, money etc that I have. A possible measure for how well a business is doing in this regard, has been suggested as “Cost Of Customers Sold(COCS)” i.e. how much it costs to acquire – on the average – each new client or customer. A business can work towards being more profitable by measuring this parameter and modifying her marketing strategies/techniques to reduce its COCS over time.

c. Profitability. Having MORE of the income or turnover from doing business left over after ALL necessary expenses and tax obligations have been taken care of is the ultimate proof of good business performance.

By working hard to be Effective and Efficient in all aspects of its operations – including marketing – a one-man business or a multinational corporation can progressively GROW its profits. Generally, even if sales are not increasing, so long as your spending does not outstrip your sales/income, you still stand a chance – at the least – of breaking even by the end of the year. So what can make YOUR spending outstrip your income? Poorly planned/implemented business marketing is one possible area.

Minimize Chances Of Wasting Your Marketing Time, Effort And Money

The question to ask yourself, in my experience, is whether what you are doing – or about to do – will help you achieve your business marketing goals(and HOW it will do so) in a way that makes you more effective and efficient so that you can be Profitable.

Below I outline six(6) warning signs – off the top of my head – that I look for in deciding whether or not to continue pursuing a sales lead with a prospect. Depending on how I read the situation, I may decide to discontinue marketing to a particular prospect if I see one or more of these signs TOO frequently.

1. S/he Fails To Return Calls/Commit To A Formal Appointment.

If I meet a prospect and possibly exchange contact information after discussions, I normally make a habit of calling him/her on phone within a week to see if I can get an appointment to further explore the areas discussed in which s/he was considering my service(s). Sometimes s/he’ll say, “I’ll call you back at xyz date/time”.

If I do not hear from him/her, I let a few days or a week go by, and then call again making reference to the fact that his/her call never came. At this point, I now try to see if I can get the prospect to commit to a formal appointment. Generally, I have found that just by gently pressing for a formal appointment this way usually helps to gauge the level of interest and readiness of the person.

2. S/he Fails To Keep Appointments.

Some prospects will give you a date/time to meet with them and even challenge you to be on time. A number even give the impression they want it to happen urgently. Then the d-day comes and you arrive at the venue only to be told s/he is yet to arrive. You make more enquiries and are told some last minute changes occurred that kept him/her from coming in as planned that morning. Every time this happened to me, I always felt like kicking myself for not calling him/her to CONFIRM the appointment at least ONE HOUR before it was due to hold and before I was due to take off for the agreed meeting venue.

My Solution: I ALWAYS make sure I have the direct telephone/mobile phone number of the person I am to meet with, so as to confirm a meeting/appointment before committing my time and resources to keeping it.

3. S/he Does Not See It As A Pressing Need.

I have had prospects hold two to three meetings with me in say January(requesting that it all happen within days), going through all the stages needed for them to decide if they wanted to progress with a project, only to then tell me “We should be able to decide whether or not to go ahead with this by June or July“.

My Solution: I tactfully ask “What time frame do you have in mind for this project to start, if you decide you want it?“. I also ask “How much do you anticipate you will be prepared to commit to this project?” That way, they are(usually) forced to give me an estimate. If they give a projected start date/time that’s “far away”, I will at least know how much of a priority to give whatever requests they make – no matter how urgent they make them sound.

4. Lack Right Resources/Appropriately Motivated Personnel.

I have had some amusing encounters with representative personnel of some organisations. In one case, I met with an “IT manager” who said he was asked – by his boss, who’d called me in – to have comprehensive discussions with me about my Custom Excel Solutions Development services to see how I could help them. By the time we separated, I had been unable to show him any of the many demos I carried on my flash drive, because the two PCs he provided were terribly slow, ran on obsolete software, aside from other “problems” they had. The irony was that he kept telling me how he had setup up the comperisation for the hotel and all the records were being updated etc!

In my mind I already saw a BIG problem:

A prospective client company that had a internal operative, who felt he knew it all, and was intent on defending his ineptitude at setting up basic PC systems for the organisation, would likely pose a potential hindrance to successful execution of the project. The paradox was that he was the one with whom I would likely have to work in order to successfully deploy whatever solutions I developed. I did not fancy my chances of pulling that off, so I walked away. “Better get out now”, I told myself, “than be forced to leave behind an “uncompleted” or sabotaged project that could give others reason to question my competence”.

5. S/he Acts Reluctant/Mischievious.

I once followed up(what I thought was) a lead with the owner of a books wholesale outfit over a 4 week period. He had given me his card on the first meeting in his office when I made a cold call, asking me to return a week later. A week later, we met and spent about 45 minutes looking at one of my applications, which he “felt” could be customised for his secretary’s use. Two weeks later, following a rather high number of re-schedulings I was back in his office. After we greeted, he called out for the secretary and asked that I wait in the outer office.

The secretary returned to say he asked her to meet me so I could (to use her exact words) explain “why you are here“! I was flabbergasted. A bit irritated, I asked her if s/he had been told anything by him about my visit. S/he said NO. “Did you know he wanted to have a custom application built for you to use in your work?“. Again s/he said NO. I asked her ONE more question: “Can you take a buying decision and pay me without his checking and approving it?“. Once again, she said NO! At this point I told her to inform him it would not be possible for me to discuss with her without wasting my time by repeating what had already been discussed, because s/he had not been briefed.

S/he was away for about three minutes and returned saying he had given her some background, and said he wanted her to see the program sample I had shown him so she could get an idea of what we had discussed. About 5 minutes later we were done, and waiting for him to join us, so a decision could be reached. Some more time passed and then this UN-gentleman walked up to where I sat, and said “Please give me 2 minutes. I’ll be right back”. I nodded in understanding(STUPIDLY, as I was to later realise), and he went out the door.

Five minutes later, a newspaper vendor came in and before he could say a word, the secretary told him to come back later, as her boss had gone out for lunch. On hearing her say that, I asked if indeed he had gone for lunch. She quickly responded that she had only said that to get rid of the vendor who had come to ask for the money owed him for papers delivered previously!(A voice in my head told me THAT was a bad sign).

Speaking out loud, I said “It would be quite sad if I find out that he kept me waiting here and went off to have lunch!” She assured me that was not the case, but I ignored her, picked up my mobile phone and called him. He answered it after five or more rings and said “I’m on my way back“. Another ten minutes passed before he arrived. And when he did, he had a toothpick hanging from between his lips! I’ll leave you to make what you will of THAT…

BUT It Could Have Been Partly My Fault:

Looking back later on, I recalled that the number of times we had to re-schedule our agreed meeting dates – ALWAYS at his instance – was rather high. That should have alerted me earlier to the possibility that he was not interested in going any further. Sometimes, in a bid to make a sale one can become blinded to obvious signs that would normally provide timely warning to avert an eventual unpleasant experience. :-)

6. S/he’s Talking About Setting A Take-Off Date BUT Has Not Asked YOU How Much! No matter how ready a prospect appears to be, if s/he is not ASKING you about your fees and terms of payment etc, then s/he is still NOT ready! I had one not-too-pleasant experience early on in my business career because I did not take this aspect seriously. As a result, I ended up giving talks to employees of an educational organisation in six different branches located VERY far from each other, over a 6 week period, only to be asked to pick up a cheque for an amount that did not even cover the cost of fuel I had put in my car during that time!

How could this happen? My inexcusable naivety as reflected in an unpardonable failure to discuss and agree in advance, fine details of my remuneration with the Executive Director(who as the cheque payment showed, was quite happy to have me work that way!), was the cause. I have learnt a lot since that incident that occurred back in 2002.

TIP: Some Questions You Can Use To Quickly Assess Prospects’ Readiness

Ask Questions That Extract The Truth. Some prospects are people who are never comfortable telling another person a direct NO. They are so concerned about not upsetting you, and try so hard to let you down gently by asking you to come or call back at an ever changing later date. This is why you need to ask questions that help you UNCOVER their real “feelings” as it were.

I now outline a list of questions – in no particular order – that I routinely use, as the need arises, to quickly pre-qualify my prospects or gauge their readiness to buy.

1. “Just so I don’t take any more of your time in future than I need to. From what I’ve told you so far, is this a product or service you believe has potential benefits you would like to have in your organisation?” If s/he says NO, I thank her politely, give her a copy of my card, with an invitation to let me know if in future they find a need for my services and leave.

2. “Would you/your company be ready to put money into acquiring this product or service within the next 2 weeks to a month?” If s/he says NO, I do same as above or ask what timescale they have in mind, with a view to re-scheduling another visit or appointment, If S/he says YES, I go to the next appropriate question.

3. “Would you like to know how much it costs, and the options available, so you can make a choice?”

4. “When is the earliest time you would like to have this project completed ?”

5. “Are you speaking on a personal level about your needs, or referring to the company’s interest in this offer?”

6. “How do you want us to progress on this? Is there a specific date you want me to come in to pick up the payment?”

7. “If for instance you want me to start tomorrow morning, the agreed payment would need to have been prior to that time, to enable me commence preparatory activities. Would that be okay?”

But Don’t Throw The Baby Away With The Bath-Water!(A True Story)

I must point out here that the fact you decide to discontinue pursuing a sales lead with a particular prospect today, does not mean you should not try to reach him/her again in another three months or even earlier. People’s perception of their business/personal needs change over time.

As a result, the guy who feels he does not need you to build a website for him today, may start looking for your business card in a bid to reach you two years from now – when he discovers for instance, two foreign clients he landed found him through his company’s address listing on the website of a product manufacturer he represents! If you fail to periodically run through your list of old/new prospects, and call or visit them, you could lose excellent sales opportunities.

Actually, it was by doing what I just mentioned above – i.e. visiting an OLD prospect who I had not seen or spoken to in three years – that I recently landed a totally unplanned web design project(And to show how ready he was, he paid my FULL fee 100% in advance as I requested)! We already knew each other, and he recalled my two visits and the comprehensive outline of benefits I had told him he could look forward to getting from having an online presence.

Most importantly, since the time he realised he needed the website, he had had cause to try engaging someone else to do the job, but – according to him – the person had not demonstrated as much interest as I had, in learning about the prospect’s business to show how the website could add value to it etc.

The foregoing statement provides a clue to winning the prospect over: Make absolutely sure – through the things you say/do during your interactions – that s/he sees that you are truly PASSIONATE about adding VALUE to him/her in delivering your product or service. It will make a lasting impression that’s likely to work in your favour when s/he decides to make a choice.

Other Strategies You Can Adopt

1. Use The Telephone To Get Appointments To Meet The Right Person: Get the person’s or company’s phone number(s) and call. You will use the telephone to test initial reception of your prospective client to your proposed offering. Your initial background research (maybe through websites, brochures etc) should yield useful names and possibly direct phone numbers.

2. Make Sure The Person Negotiating Your Fees With You/Giving You The Go-Ahead Is The Final Decision Maker. The right person would be one who is in a position to make legitimate recommendations for purchase or who can actually authorise/approve a purchase. Ask anyone who does not fit this profile to refer you to one who does. I have tried in the past to work with persons who did not fit the profile, just to see, and in EVERY single instance it turned out to be a waste of time.

Final Words: The above is not an exhaustive listing by any means, as I’m sure you know.

Also, as with every other thing in life, the ideas offered here do not have universal applicability. Sometimes they will be relevant, other times they won’t. But very often just having to consciously apply them can be a useful process to go through as it helps to clear one’s thinking so as to be able to work smarter.

YOU will naturally have had(and will still have) your own unique encounters. Reflect on those experiences and try to identify useful learning points. Add them to those you found in this article to be relevant to your needs – and hopefully, they will help you go about your business marketing more successfully.

PS: I’ve shared this article from back when I used to do lots of pavement pounding to market my products and services. The truth is however that I long stopped working this way. Indeed today, my clients and buyers come to me. I do not go to them. If you want to know how I make this happen, click here to read an article that describes what I do.

NB: This article was first published online on December 08, 2006

 

You Cannot Beat Competitors If You Keep Doing The SAME Things They Do!

Business marketing is more competitive today than ever before! Except you are a monopoly or you enjoy exclusive distribution/sales rights, you WILL have to compete DAILY with others who do what you do for every NAIRA (or DOLLAR) the customer wishes to spend.

A question I believe every business owner should ask him/herself is:

Would it be reasonable to expect customers to choose to buy from you, when NOTHING significantly differentiates you – in a positive sense that is – from competitors who offer similar products and services?

I doubt any CEO will say “YES”!

 

Let me use an analogy to drive this point home.

Think, for instance, about why YOU as a person typically choose to buy groceries from a particular store, and not another one. Even when the price and quality are the same, the fact that you get more courteous and personalised service from the former, could make you prefer to keep going back there. AND you would even refer others to the same place!

Which is exactly the point I am making. Most buyers, if given a good reason, will feel drawn to buy from you instead of another seller/provider.

As a business owner, becoming the preferred choice of potential customers will naturally appeal to you. But you are NOT likely to achieve that desirable goal if you keep doing the same things your competitors (and/or others in your industry) are doing – especially in terms of marketing and advertising.

Discounts, promos and other incentive programs are not bad, but it is only when creatively combined with unique offers that potential customers find useful, (and which competitors find hard to duplicate), that you GAIN a competitive advantage – leading to increased sales leads!

The unique offer I refer to will be one that gives buyers in the market place a COMPELLING reason to buy from you, even when your price is higher than that of other sellers!

Without the above, most of your marketing/advertising will amount to calculated gambling with limited chance of yielding sustainable results.

HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF PREFERRED BY CUSTOMERS

One proven way to build the needed credibility that will make buyers prefer you, is for you to embark on diligent provision of accurate and HELPFUL information that not only empowers potential buyers to make better informed buying decisions, but also simultaneously demonstrates you have the expertise to facilitate that process, should they choose to buy from you.

It’s so obvious, that I often wonder why many business owners out here still do not see it! Once people come to ASSOCIATE your name and/or that of your company with such helpful information and other resources you provide, they are more likely to think of you when eventually they have a need related to your products/services offer.

TRUST is the basis on which most successful business transactions take place. The strategy described above enables you get that trust, and keep it for as long as possible.

To get started using this strategy, simply decide on the channel(s) you will use to reach out to potential buyers, with your HELPFUL information. Communication media like print newspapers, TV and radio readily come to mind and are often preferred by most people.

The truth is however that compared to a “web marketing system”, those traditional channels are not only expensive, but they also have much shorter shelf-lives.

A Web Marketing system includes Article Marketing, Newsletter marketing, Branded Face book Page Marketing, Branded Information Products Marketing, Search engine optimisation and other components.

The above – when used properly – can combine to help you achieve your goal of getting name/brand credibility. The best part is you do NOT have to part with money to make use of them – especially at the start. All you need is an Internet Connection! So, I urge you to try them before spending your hard earned money on more expensive alternatives. (Googling each of the aforementioned phrases could yield some ideas – but I also offer URLs to some of my own further down.)

Note that if you set up your web marketing system FIRST, any other communication channels (TV etc) you choose to adopt for promoting your business, will benefit. This is because your listeners, readers or viewers can be referred to your online system, increasing your chances of having those of them who go there, become customers!

NB: You can learn more by reading one or more of the following articles I have written:

1. A Massive Blind Spot That’s Making Some Facebook Biz Page Owners Miss Getting NEW Fans

2. Potential Benefits of Promoting Your Business Online Via Article, Newsletter & Facebook Marketing

3. To Make More Profitable Sales, Educate Your Prospects and Clients!

4. Make a Greater Impact – Improve the Quality of Your Facebook Conversations!

5. Start Controlling Your Site & Saving Money Using the Joomla! Content Management System

6. Does Your Website JUSTIFY the Money You Spend?

PS: This article was first published online on February 16, 2011

A Massive Blind Spot That’s Making Some Facebook Biz Page Owners Miss Getting NEW Fans

For anyone to SEARCH for and find your Facebook fan page, or indeed your personal profile on Facebook s/he MUST be logged into Facebook. This implies that s/he would ALREADY have a Facebook account. And that’s the BLIND SPOT – not everyone has a Facebook account – yet, especially in Nigeria. Compared to our adoption of Yahoo! and Hotmail email accounts, our use of Facebook is still relatively LOW.

Yet, most Nigerian businesses want to appeal to a large segment of society.

Is there not a danger that in the process of assuming that people can find you on Facebook by simply searching in it, you will routinely “lose” out on an opportunity to get MORE people to visit your Facebook business page?

The answer is a BIG, FAT YES.

And that’s why the lively hosts of Supersport’s 2010 South African World Cup magazine show “Harambee” routinely announce their Facebook page URL on air. Coming home, some Nigerian corporate organisations and businesses have also adopted a custom Facebook fan page username/URL to increase brand/name recognition, as well as make themselves easier to find on Facebook – especially for members of their target audience who are NOT yet converts.

The purpose of marketing is to boost awareness about you and/or your brand. You therefore need to make it easy for people who develop “interest”, to easily and quickly gain access to resources that will enable them learn MORE about you, without getting “lost” in their search for those details.

This is why it is advisable that you get yourself a “A Custom Facebook URL For Your Brand Name”. The foregoing phrase is the title of one of many articles freely available on the net that give you step-by-step guidance to create your own custom Facebook URL within a few minutes.

The steps to create your own custom username are as follows:

1. Login to your Facebook account

2. Type “http://facebook.com/username” into in your browser URL entry bar

3. You will be taken to a page with radio button options next to suggested usernames for your profile. I found it made sense to choose the one that used my first name separated from my surname with a dot.

4. Follow the instructions provided to SET the username you have chosen.

5. If you have a Facebook page attached to that profile, you will also want to set a custom username for it. Usually, a “Create a custom username for your Facebook page” link will appear below the prompt that confirms your custom profile username has been created.

6. If you do not see such a prompt, type the name of your Facebook page in the Facebook search bar and press ENTER. The icon for your page should appear before you finish typing the name – so click on it, to get taken to the page.

7. If the icon does not appear before you finish typing (be sure to check your spelling is correct), simply press ENTER and then click on the correct link/image in the Facebook search results that are returned.

8. You will be taken to a page with a drop down menu holding the names of any pages you have under your profile. Choose the name you want to set a username for, and follow the instructions provided to check availability and ultimately set it.

Summary: It’s about leveraging your name/brand effectively in all media you choose to use online. Don’t just let Facebook create an unwieldy, long and difficult-to-remember URL for your profile or business page. Make it easy for interested persons, potential customers, as well as existing clients, and even friends and relatives to find you on Facebook. Get yourself a custom Facebook URL today!

PS: This article was first published online on June 10, 2010

UPDATE: Since writing the above article in 2010, I have gone on to create custom URLs based on my domain name, leading to my Facebook (www.tayosolagbade.com/fbk) and Twitter (www.tayosolagbade.com/twit) pages.

And I do the same for EVERY client I develop a Web Marketing System for. This has proven to be even better for achieving the needed marketing impact of impressing one’s online presence in the minds of the target audience.

By making it possible to type a special URL based on your domain name, to reach your social media (and other channels), you effectively make it easier for people to REMEMBER how to get there.

…and that can translate to increased and sustained visits, with greater chances of sales leads etc!

 

 

Does Your Website JUSTIFY the Money You Spend?

[NB: This article was first published online on June 25, 2009] I have decided to focus more attention on helping business owners develop and implement low cost web marketing systems and strategies that will increase their marketing mileage, while lowering their expenses.

But in doing this, I have noticed the following trend amongst many Nigerian business owners and decision makers. Please note that those I refer to here are people whose businesses lend themselves naturally to marketing via the web right here in Nigeria.

1. Denial:

Many are rather defensive when approached about using a website or adopting web marketing adapted for the Nigerian environment. They often say they don’t need either, or that “Nigerians’ don’t use the Internet” to the extent that makes it worth investing in marketing to them through that medium.

I say, even if that were true (which it is NOT), you would be better off being one of the first to use web marketing to promote your products/services to Nigerians, since that would make you stand out, and get you noticed. Isn’t marketing ultimately about “creating awareness” about what you offer, at least in the initial stages?

It’s a pity some Nigerians feel they must be able to physically “touch” what they invest in for business!

2. Lack of Understanding:

Some do not understand, and refuse to be bothered. They can afford to be like this, because their competitors are either the same or like those in 1. above.

But here’s the danger: One day, one or more of those not bothered today, will suddenly “discover” the power of marketing intelligently to Nigerians via the web, right here in Nigeria, and begin to use it – gaining a competitive edge, and possibly driving the rest under.

What I find most amusing is that many of these decision makers usually readily say they have websites, and that it is working for them.

But you never see their web addresses displayed anywhere on their company premises, or even signs. In many cases, they even place adverts on radio/TV and even newspapers without including the URL of the website they spend money to keep online annually!

Believe me, I do not exaggerate. I once found myself having to ask a client why he had left out his website address from a – far from being cheap – quarter page advert he had placed in a national daily!!

In essence, I am saying “Your Website Needs To JUSTIFY The Money You Spend” on it. Basically there are two ways to confirm if it does. You will check to see if it either (a). Saves you money/time or (b). Helps you make more sales or – even better – if it does both.

Now, to get your site to do the above, you need to adopt intelligent website marketing systems.

Below I provide two examples of businesses that would benefit greatly from active use of intelligent website marketing systems:

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Example 1: Bookshops in Nigeria

…are perfect candidates not just for website ownership, but more importantly for intelligent web marketing. If you own or run one and do not use web marketing to complement your offline marketing, here in Nigeria, YOU ARE LOSING GREAT potential customers, and SPENDING MORE THAT you need to.

Think about it for a minute: All those books, videos, tapes by great authors, with wonderful messages on various powerful subjects of interest.

If you were to do a publication that reviewed different book titles periodically to a list of opt-in subscribers, you would over time build interest in some of them, to call in and place orders.

Call me and I will tell you how you can go about it

Example 2: Estate/Properties Management

Any decision maker in a company engaged in sale and management of properties, especially where so many companies compete, NEEDS to look for NEW, and unique ways to separate hers from the crowd.

Think about it. These days, most of these companies use similar looking flyers, banners, bill boards, cars, and even (for those who bother) websites!

Yet EACH one wants busy potential customers (with little time to “explore” every “good” offer in making up their minds) to see it as offering better value than the others.

The truth is most customers simply go with their instincts – or a friend’s suggestion. However, if they had the opportunity to get MORE detail about what each company is about, what it offers etc, over a period of time, they could end up choosing a different company!

Such details could be obtained via subscription for instance, to a website newsletter; and/or a PDF report on “Choosing the Right Home or Property”; and/or an electronic course on “How To Value Property” etc.

Any company that offers the above, and actively uses intelligent web marketing to promote them to win new customers, greatly increases its chances of getting found by new customers who will ultimately take action to do business with it.

Summary

Your business can spend LESS than it currently does on marketing, if you adopt intelligent web marketing systems of the type I advocate.

There is a WAY to make this happen. It’s not just about writing something and sending it out. And it’s not about getting a super graphic web designer to put all the flash designs and animations in the world on your website!

You NEED the know-how to do it right, and make it work.

Like I tell a lot of people, Google, in my opinion is the ugliest (or “blandest”) site on the net. Yet, it makes billions of dollars through people who keep going back to it – and it’s not because they get to see fancy graphics on the site! Get it?

PS: This article was first published online on June 25, 2009.

 

No. 185: You Can Succeed Smarter by Earning Income Even Without Clients

What if you could earn 80% of the income you need without needing to have clients? Wouldn’t that make your life as an expert so much more fulfilling?

Well I can tell you it’s a wonderful way to be in business – because that’s how I earn my income. In this article, I offer tips you can use to do what I’m doing, and make being your own boss a more pleasurable experience!

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No. 185: You Can Succeed Smarter by Earning Income Even Without Clients

What if you could earn 80% of the income you need without needing to have clients? Wouldn’t that make your life as an expert so much more fulfilling?

Well I can tell you it’s a wonderful way to be in business – because that’s how I earn my income. In this article, I offer tips you can use to do what I’m doing, and make being your own boss a more pleasurable experience!

How is it possible to earn income as an expert, without having clients?

If you’re one who passed through our formal schooling systems, in which everyone gets told it’s important to think like others, then it’s possible you will ask the above question, and be even ready to tell me why it is NOT possible.

Thankfully, I’m not writing this article based on what I read in a novel or textbook or magazine.

I am writing it based on what I DO everyday, as a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur, with over a decade of experience to boot.

The Performance Improvement Specialist portion on my above designation is what drives me to share what I know and do with others via this blog and on my website.

If I wanted to, I could simply focus on being the Multipreneur that I am, and my earnings would NOT suffer.

In other words, what I am saying here is that even though I end this piece with links to resources that feature products I sell, on the theme of this article, my purpose is NOT to use what I say here to get the reader to buy anything from me.

Instead, I do this, because I continue to encounter so many highly competent and knowledgeable experts, who keep short-changing themselves by failing to monetize it all!

They keep putting themselves at the mercy of clients who literally dictate the fees they pay such experts to do what they do.

When you are too “available”, you become unattractive to those you serve over time…

Some experts have to show up on client premises, or meet face to face with them, to deliver solutions.

In a way, one could call it a necessary evil or hazard of their professions/vocations.

But even when you don’t meet, providing a client your service for a while eventually breeds familiarity. Both parties (can) become so used to one another that raising fees (or keeping them profitable) can be a challenge.

That’s when the client puts pressure on you to give all sorts of concessions based on how long you’ve been their preferred providers.

The same thing happens in economics: Flood the foreign exchange market with too much of a particular currency, and its value DROPS…

Supply outstrips demand, leading to a drop in that currency’s value. Incidentally, that’s one of the reasons Nigeria’s naira currently exchanges for over N300 to 1 GB Pound – a record high!

Businesses that buy foreign currency for their operations (e.g imports) have really had it rough as a result. I don’t buy, but I have products priced in Naira, that people abroad pay for in dollars.

To protect myself, I de-emphasize selling my farm business support products (software, business plans, PDF and DVD based information products) in Naira, to offering paid access to my Inner Circle at a USD denominated fee, for FREE and discounted access to those products!

Ironically, such client requests for fee-based concessions can come around the time when the economy, in which you BOTH operate is experiencing a downturn of sorts.

So, just as the client is feeling the pain, so will YOU. Yet s/he will want YOU to do him/her such favours, and only few are likely to see things from YOUR perspective.

Now, if you’re like me, you’re likely to gently insist on doing what is best for your long term survival, by saying NO to unreasonable demands. You may also have to raise your fees to keep yourself able to deliver what you promise.

Some clients will throw tantrums, and may even call you names. It will be up to you to deicide how to respond. I ALWAYS walked away if they refused to see reason.

One day I got tired of the fee-based harassment from clients, and decided I wanted to choose the kinds of clients I worked with…who would be more considerate

That is, rather than let my need for income make me enter into doomed marriages of convenience, I investigated what others recommended, until I narrowed down to ideas that put the power in my hands to determine how I earned money.

The best of them all was/is Information Publishing/Consulting

It basically involves MONTEZING what you know – as well as what you can research and publish for use by a client.

By adopting this strategy, I removed the pressure of winning clients and getting them to pay good fees from my mind: the money I earned from sales of my information and software products helped in that regard.

NB: Burt Dubin is one expert who has used this strategy successfully, for decades, to generate a seemingly endless stream of passive income. And he teaches those he mentors to do same!

Today I am better enabled to carefully choose people or organizations I work with, and 99.95% of the time, I enjoy excellently rewarding relationships, lasting years, with them.

They are fewer, and they make reasonable demands, consistent with payment they offer.

That makes it possible for me to use my products, and some unique abilities I possess, to go the extra mile in serving them, using free time that this adopted approach affords me.

In the end, everybody is happy!

Most experts fail (or refuse) to see this opportunity…because they went through formal schooling!

If you belong to the “conventional school” movement, you’re probably screaming and jumping up and down, pulling your hair out right now, because of what I just said :-)

If that’s so, I’m sorry I’ve upset you.

But the truth is that with VERY few exceptions, the traditional schooling systems that most of us pass through subtly turn us into one-track minded people.

As a result, we form the unhealthy habit of insisting on doing things in a fixed way, especially one we’re familiar with. That’s not at all a progressive way to go through life!

NB: Pssst…the schools are doing it RIGHT NOW to your kids, so better pay attention,and take CORRECIVE action to protect your children’s Critical Thinking reflexes…like I AM doing!

Experts who add REAL value to those they serve often act the exact opposite way to  those the formal schooling systems produce..

Many times such experts, in order to succeed, may have had to UN-LEARN what they were taught back in school, in order to discover what really worked for them in the real world.

As a result, they become rule breakers, who are willing to creatively, intelligently, and UNSENTIMENTALLY try out new ways of doing things, to see if better rewards can accrue.

The illiterate of the 21st century will not be those who cannot read or write. They will be those who cannot learn, unlearn and relearn.” – Alan Toffer

If YOU are still struggling to accept what I’ve said above, as a possible strategy to adopt, YOU really need to start unlearning what you were taught at school…for your business’ good!

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Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

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To Succeed, Understand That Suffering Can Be Good for You!

Viewing adversity in a positive light(be it in business or everyday life) can sometimes amount to asking too much of some of us. As soon as a problem/difficulty appears to go on for longer than we feel we can tolerate. Or if it happens once too often for us to rationalize, we begin looking for someone or something to blame. Then the “Devil”(poor guy) gets accused of trying to make us fail.

Or someone in the “village” is fingered for “using remote control” to make our fortunes go sour. It can get worse – sometimes friends/relatives tell the affected person s/he must have done something wrong and ask him to pray for God to stop demonic attacks etc. This article presents timeless wisdom (based on testimonies by entrepreneurs of repute), and a narrative of a personal experience, that completely invalidate these frequently perpetuated myths.

Some People (Wrongly) Believe “Suffering” Only Comes To Those Who Do “Wrong”

Certain people wrongly believe that difficulty should never come the way of a person who strives honestly to achieve success – especially if s/he proclaims faith in God. Yet the evidence all around us proves irrevocably that it is often those who have passed through difficulty successfully, that end up achieving the successes they desire.

To drive home the point I’m trying to make here, I will refer to the very illuminating insight offered by a veteran entrepreneur – James R. Cook – in his best selling book “The Start up Entrepreneur”. He said that based on elaborate studies he had done of the lives of hundreds of entrepreneurs, he had come to the conclusion that there is a correlation between the amount of suffering a person undergoes before succeeding, and the degree of success s/he eventually achieves.

Going further, he explained that persons who set big goals for themselves should look forward to enduring long drawn periods of worry and painful adversity, adding that as the amount of suffering endured increases, so is the success ultimately recorded likely to increase too.

What Is The Purpose Of Suffering?

Any aspiring entrepreneur with a sound understanding of the “purpose of adversity” at the back of his/her mind, will be able to face squarely the business of paying his/her dues, ultimately, earning the right to enviable heights of success aimed for.

Jim Rohn advises that we should learn to view life as requiring us to succeed in spite of adversity and not in its absence. This is because, if there is no adversity, there cannot be achievement! Sounds simple – yet it CAN be so difficult to remember when one is going through adversity(I KNOW this because I have been “there” many times!). Which is why reading – as a habit – is essential. Reading helps to maintain mental stamina through repeated contact with words that communicate truths like those Jim Rohn shares, to us, so we can stay strong in those times of true testing.

A Personal Experience

I think I should give a personal example here. Some years ago, I placed an advertisement in The Guardian newspaper for a seminar, only to have a ZERO turnout of attendees on the scheduled date! After discussing about it for a while with a friend, I was able to arrive at 4 major faults with my plans/preparations that could have led to the problem. But rather than leave it at that, I decided to document the experience for use in future seminars as an EXAMPLE of how things can go wrong.

So, while still at the venue, I got my video cameraman to do a 10 minute recording of me, speaking about what had happened and what we believed had led to it. We deliberately added humour to the video clip by showing all the EMPTY seats in the seminar hall, and finally focusing on the wall clock, which showed it was already 1.00pm(planned seminar start time was 11.00am!).
You see, I made up my mind to use the lessons learnt from that “failure” to make myself better in every way possible. The memory of that failure DROVE me to be extra prepared for every project I undertake. And this has helped me win more high profile clients in my work.

It’s a habit I developed years ago – and it made me quite successful when I was in paid employment. Read my article titled “How To Turn A Major Blunder At Work Into A Career Advancement Opportunity ” to learn more.

Summary

So, let me challenge you. From today, stop asking why your plans are not going as well as another person’s. Begin to understand and appreciate the fact that you will have to find YOUR own unique path to achieve YOUR own success, which will require you to periodically deal with the challenge of unpleasant situations, in form of diverse visitations of adversity.

Know today that suffering – or adversity – is not bad – except you see it as bad. The perspective you adopt is what determines whether a particular experience is bad or good for you. If you choose to actively search for, and utilise the (ever present – but often hidden – potential equivalent) benefits of every experience of suffering you undergo, you will be better off for it over time.

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Don’t Let ANYONE Give Up On Your Behalf!

Ever tried to pursue a goal that others were skeptical about/voiced their doubts to your hearing? If YES, do you recall how painful it was to hear them express a lack of faith in your ability to do something YOU BELIEVED was within your capacity to do?

When you had a setback(s), delay(s) or disappointment(s), what kinds of looks did you get from those who felt they had “warned” you not to embark on your “journey”? What comments did they make to your hearing? (You’ll probably never know what they said behind your back!).

Were you able to overcome THE “temporary defeat” (that’s what it is, you know – “temporary”), to eventually achieve the goal?

I certainly hope so, because if you did not, that means you chose to STOP because some tactless, “know-it-all”, arm chair theorist “dream killer” decided to give up on your behalf, and YOU LET HIM/HER!

1. It’s All About Perception

When human beings decide to embark on some meaningful endeavour, they usually try to share the “dream” with those they care about, and whose opinions they value.

The problem sometimes however is that people we care about measure us based on the “inside” knowledge they have of our foibles. In ironic contrast, total strangers who observe us(without bias) in passionate pursuit of our goals tend to become our greatest fans, and most fervent advocates.

Why? Because their perception of us is NOT coloured by what they KNOW (or think they KNOW) about us!

NB: In my experience however, if someone who has “inside” knowledge about us chooses to be mischievous, s/he can use it to “discourage” the “strangers” who admire/cheer us (and THIS does happen), so that the latter also begin to think/act like the former.

Everybody has shortcomings, inadequacies, or weaknesses. What sets one person apart from another will be his/her ability to ACHIEVE in spite of whatever limitations s/he has. Now, to achieve in spite of your “missings”, you will need to BELIEVE in yourself. Those who know you, unfortunately (for THEM) may not be willing to do the same.

By the time you start out in pursuit of your challenging goal some will cheer – initially – while others may fold their hands to “wait and see”.

When the inevitable delays, disappointments and setbacks begin to come, you may start discovering that NOT all those who are with you are really WITH YOU!

Having said that, the truth is you do not need others to believe in you FIRST before you can succeed. What you must however avoid is a situation where those who do NOT believe have the FINAL say about whether you should keep going or give up when things get tough.

You must NEVER put that kind of power in the hands of others – especially NOT people who do not believe like you do, in your dream/vision.

2. Deciding If YOUR Dream Is Still Worth Pursuing:

To keep going, you will come up with a new plan based on learnings from each one that fails, and summon courage to mention it to those who are still around, and who are magnanimous enough to pay you ANY serious attention. With some you may have to grit your teeth to ENDURE their heavenward “rolling of eyeballs” and sighs/looks of boredom. Oh yes, I’ve been there before – believe me! :-)

If you’ve been at it a while, you will probably have gotten used also to walking into a room and having those seated at a table suddenly stop talking. In this regard, a perpetual nagging feeling that you were being “discussed” may not be altogether unfamiliar!

The point being made is that you could end up completely ON YOU OWN at some point, with no one else believing in you, or your cherished dream – except YOU! THAT would be the ultimate test of YOUR own self-belief.

If you are the kind of person who judges whether something is worth doing based on the number of OTHER persons interested in doing (or willing to do) it, then you are UNLIKELY to stick with it till you achieve your purpose.

This is because THEIR loss of interest would be likely to cause you to lose your motivation to DO IT, even though you could actually succeed.

Self-Belief is what makes it possible for a small David to defeat a BIG Goliath in real-life.

VERY often it’s not size that matters, but ABILITY.

Funny thing is that regardless of our size, as influenced by our genetic make-up, we can ALWAYS hone our SKILLS so that our ability to ACHIEVE is improved. And frequently, when we back our IMPROVED ability with determination and SELF-BELIEF, it becomes extremely difficult for us to LOSE.

3. Quick Example – Law Degree At Age 60 Years(True Story)

I once read an article by Valerie Young in which she mentioned how a 60 year old Beverly Goodman whose marriage just ended, (ignoring discouraging comments from others that no one would hire a lawyer her age) attended law school while holding a full time job.

She subsequently passed the bar exams, and went on to land a job with a law firm at an age(61) many assume retirement is inevitable!

Goodman reportedly said “I thought this age stuff was baloney”. She believed – in spite of THEIR unbelief – that she could do it!

4. Don’t Engage “Fickle Minded”/”Failure-Phobic” Supporters!

Napoleon Hill advised that when you choose members of your mastermind team (persons you “recruit” to support you in pursuit of your valued goal), MAKE SURE you DO NOT choose persons who take defeat seriously.

Let me repeat that: Do not bring on board or share details of your plans’ progress with people who have a NEGATIVE view of “failure or adversity”.

Don’t engage “cry babies” i.e. the perpetual worriers and fickle-minded persons who see every little problem as a catastrophe, and who readily conclude that ALL is lost without being willing to join in to find solutions.

Fickle minded people are driven – even RULED – by their FEARS.

This makes them VERY risk averse, and consequently they never venture beyond what they already know, to try anything new in their own lives. The result is that they live lives of mediocrity till they pass on.

If you have such people in your team, they WILL be the first to throw their hands up the minute any little problem crops up.

By the time the BIG problems come, they will be screaming for everyone to “abandon ship”.

If you have many of them on board, they’ll all jump off leaving you behind. If they happen to be the ones you depend on for financial support, and/or access to other resources, you will find it difficult getting ANYTHING out of them at critical periods.

That, and NOT the fact that your situation is hopeless is what could ultimately cause your plans to fail PERMANENTLY. At that point, THEY would have successfully given up on YOUR behalf!

Your dreams are too IMPORTANT to the world, for you to let that happen.

So PLEASE avoid enlisting the support of these kinds of people – who can sometimes come in the shape of your closest relatives and friends. In case you discover one or more such persons in your team, plan to “offload” them As Gently As Possible (AGAP) and ASAP!

Trust me – you’ll be glad you did.

PS: This article is based on excepts from an original piece published online in December 2007

Never Judge A Website’s CONTENT QUALITY By Its Design!

Maybe in the earlier days, it was okay to do that i.e. judge a website by its design.

But today, with the massive proliferation of websites and the need for discerning visitors to save time, effort and money in finding what they want, MORE people are realising this TRUTH: The design of a website does not necessarily guarantee it will have GOOD, USEFUL or RELIABLE content quality.

Not all that glitters is gold, is a saying that most are familiar with.

Appearances can be quite deceptive as we all know. And it is a known fact that it is unadvisable to judge a book by its cover – or indeed a car by its looks – you cannot be sure what’s under the hood!

Some of the most useful websites I’ve visited actually struck a decent balance between the design and content quality – with some leaning more towards the latter.

To find what you want and get the best, avoid placing too much emphasis on web design.

That does not – of course – mean you should go looking for ugly sites, but it’s just to alert you to the fact – for instance – that the best “experts” in a specific field you are considering, may not come to you packaged, on their websites, as attractively as less competent ones!

If you fail to take a closer look – “under the hood” – for content quality, you could just end up shortchanging yourself.

To underscore the point I’ve made in this write-up, consider this:

Most fraudulent websites typically use exceptionally impressive or aesthetically appealing web designs to win the confidence of their target audience, who ultimately get scammed!

Final Words: No, I am NOT saying it is bad to build – or subscribe to – websites that are prettily or attractively designed.

What I am saying is that you need to avoid concluding that a website with a design that does not “impress” YOU (or meet your design TASTES), will NOT offer value for money by way of products or services it offers.

Do yourself a favour and take a few extra steps to CHECK and confirm what it offers in terms of QUALITY – and THEN contact the owner/company.

You could start by exploring the site extensively for articles, newsletters and other information that could provide insight you need. Using what you find, send in questions via email or the website contact form (if any), watch the kinds of responses you get etc.

Sooner than later, you’ll be able to take an intelligent decision about what to do. And by that time, chances of your making a regrettable or costly mistake will have been considerably reduced.

NB: This article was first published online in January 2011.

 

 

To Truly Succeed, Help Others UNCONDITIONALLY

[Tip: The quote below, credited to the Dalai Lama inspired me to write this article] No matter the individual wealth we accumulate or personal achievements we record, as long as we fail to help others struggling/suffering around us find their own places in life (NOT necessarily by giving them money), we WILL ALL be failures – ultimately.

“Each one of us is responsible for the whole of human kind. We need to think of each other really as brothers and sisters and to be concerned for each other’s welfare. Rather than working solely to acquire wealth, we need to do something meaningful, something directed seriously towards the welfare of humanity as a whole.” – Dalai Lama

Why so many people fail to understand this truth beats me…especially when many claim to be SPIRITUAL?

How can you be spiritual, when you lack the ability to feel EMPATHY.

When you lack EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE?

Too many people love to feel big and accomplished when they see others looking up to them in envy and begging for help. What they fail to realise is that what they have which they allow their egos to get bloated over, has been given to then in TRUST.

The right thing to do, is to SHARE it with others, so as to complete the circle.

We must understand that we are not here to compete, but to create, and improve the lives of one another.

Do you know that if we – in Africa especially – were to start living our lives guided by the words of the Dalai Lama, we would TOTALLY eradicate backwardness, poverty, suffering and wars from our continent?

Check yourself – look around your neighbourhood, and social groups.

What do you see? Is there something you can TEACH someone, to equip him/her to become self-dependent and more fulfilled TODAY?

As always, I walk my talk. I do not ask people to do what I cannot or will not do.

I’m already doing my bit. And you know what I’ve discovered?

You really won’t need a grant from the Ford Foundation or World Bank, to make a lasting poitive impact in the lives of people who need your help!

Just share what you know – teach others how to succeed the way you have.

Give of yourself – unconditionally.

Open doors of opportunities.

Create a level playing field for aspirants to a position.

If you are in a position of influence or authority, give everyone a fair and impartial opportunity to get what they want, based on merit and competence.

And one more thing: Don’t tell people you wish to help that they must first give up their religious beliefs

For instance, asking a Muslim to become born again, as a pre-condition for helping him/her.

Doing this would defeat your purpose.

Let your deeds speak volumes for your religious convictions.

Those who are touched will on their own get converted.

Otherwise, you’ll end up with “phony” converts who only join you because they want what you are offering – and NOT because they truly believe.

Sooner than later, they will cause you major embarrassment!

Once again, let me ask you to read the wise words of the Dalai Lama:

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“Each one of us is responsible for the whole of humankind. We need to think of each other really as brothers and sisters and to be concerned for each other’s welfare. Rather than working solely to acquire wealth, we need to do something meaningful, something directed seriously towards the welfare of humanity as a whole.” – Dalai Lama

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Five (5) Action Steps That Can Increase Your Chances of Business Startup Success

In February 2001, about 4 months after I got promoted out of my shift-based Brewer position, to become the Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery Technical Training & Development Manager, I came to the conclusion that I needed to fast-track my plans to quit paid employment and start my own business.

I had been plotting my exit from the company since 2 years before, in collaboration with a close friend and confidant of mine who – unlike me – worked in the Finance department. He knew of my many frustrations with not being able to pursue my passions – and especially my desire to be free to explore new ideas I had.

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