Speaking & Acting With Self-Confidence Does NOT Make You Arrogant!

I’ve been accused of being arrogant several times – especially during my startup years. Some "critics" actually said MY arrogance was why I struggled in business back then. They told me to "humble" myself, so I could be "elevated". I laughed at such suggestions back then. And I still do today. Here’s why…

As a student of authentic success achievement, I have ALWAYS known that success achievement has little to do with such misguided sentiments!

Indeed, based on extensive reflection, I have come to realize people often said these things to me, because they were NOT comfortable with the self-assured manner I spoke about my intentions and achievements.

Here’s the answer I always gave (and still give!) to those who accused me in this manner – whether to my face, or behind my back: 

"I do not interprete speaking/acting self-confidently, the way I do, as arrogance. I speak/act that way because I KNOW who I am, and what I can do – if given a FAIR and IMPARTIAL opportunity, or what is called a LEVEL playing field, where there is no cheating (i.e. "Ojoro" or "Magomago"), or bad belle, or booby traps!"

Back when I was a high performing employee in Guinness, I routinely and repeatedly set numerous personal and work related goals, which I fearlessly told others about.

And in virtually all cases, though sometimes after repeated failures, I achieved ALL OF THEM.

How come? 

Well, it was mainly because I worked in an environment that was relatively (though not totally) devoid of devious manipulation by those with ulterior motives.

Back then, any biased, envious people, who thought I was "arrogant”, did not have the means or resources to throw logs in my paths.

Neither could they set booby traps that could have created an unfair and impartial atmosphere, which could have limited my ability to achieve.

And that was why the head of the Guinness brewery I worked in, who had known me for less than 12 months, came to believe so greatly in me.

So much so, that he made very positive & flattering comments verbally, and on paper about me during send-forth ceremonies, after I quit my job to go into business for myself.

Among others things, he wrote that he honestly believed I was "…one of those who will succeed at anything he does".

He also wrote that he did not need to wish me good luck because he believed I could create my own luck!"

Wow. I’m sure you will agree that he must have seen me achieve some impressive results, in spite of obstacles I faced, to make him so SURE about me!

Consider this: Mohammed Ali was not arrogant. He was self-confident about his abilities, and was NOT shy to say so to anyone, anywhere, at anytime.

Ali was not into the business of massaging egos! He always spoke his mind and without apology to anyone.

For this reason, the press nicknamed him the "Louisville lip".

But guess what?

Americans did not punish him for being himself.

Instead, they challenged him to PROVE himself, and provided a fair and impartial opportunity for him to do so. Today, he is a living legend, known and loved by many, the world over.

Every time I think of Nigeria’s Bash Ali, who has earned himself international laurels in boxing at an age when others have retired, I wonder what Nigerians are waiting to see before they can celebrate him.

On one occasion, when he appeared on TV, some individual phoned in to tell Bash Ali that he was "too arrogant; needed to humble himself; and should "give his life to Christ" etc.

I could not help asking:” What on earth was THAT about?!"

In Nigeria today, one has to endure exposure to all that negativity in order to still achieve one’s goals.

Nigeria is a country where all manner of "will-thwarting" wonders occur. As such you can only begin to imagine how daunting a challenge it is to live in it and try to excel without cutting corners!

ONLY my indomitable will, and hunger to achieve, helped me survive so many attempts made to "pull-me-down" over the decade I was based in Nigeria, as a self-employed professional.

I have had relatives set me up, and then withdraw from an agreed arrangement when they knew I was most vulnerable.

I have even had a client use my name (without my knowledge) in a manner that cast me in a negative light on the Internet.

It took me over 2 weeks to get him to remove the offending document after I discovered this abuse by accident, while surfing the net.

Yet, in spite of all the above, I have today established myself as a reliable service provider in my areas of entrepreneurial focus – and it shows in my constantly growing client base – and increasing client profiles!

I should add that my success has grown even faster in the last 17 months, following my decision to relocate to Benin Republic.

The irony of it all is however the fact that over 90% of my buyers/clients today are persons based in Nigeria, who readily send payment to me, without knowing me in person, or meeting me in the flesh!

In essence, my supposed "arrogance" has not stopped those who truly need the SOLUTIONS I offer from hiring, and paying me handsomely!

NB: This article is based on Tayo K. Solagbade’s original write-up which was first published online on 16 February 2010 via his 9 year old former primary domain name – www.spontaneousdevelopment.com.

Proven Strategy for Making Your Business Idea Investor Friendly

I recently read an appeal posted as a comment by a young MBA student on a millionaire’s Facebook page, asking the latter to consider investing in a business idea he had. My heart went out to young man, because I knew he needed to be told a (potentially) painful truth.

The harsh truth: It will often be best to start where you are, with what you have!

Don’t get me wrong. If there is a chance of getting a millionaire to buy into your business vision, by all means go ahead.

However, do NOT (and this is important) make the mistake of assuming that without some money bag backing you, success will be impossible.

Here’s why:

In reality, persistently harsh times make it much harder to raise funds today, than used to be the case.
Those who are millionaires or money bags, often built their fortunes by making smart investment decisions. This means they will naturally be on the lookout for proven and reliable opportunities to invest in.

It is very likely that just as you’re asking him/her, others are also asking THAT same "millionaire" to invest in their ideas as well!

People tend to get so self-focused, that they forget this.

Just as YOU are asking THAT money bag (or potential investor) to put his/her money in your new venture, so many others are most likely asking the same of him/her at the same time!

The question to ask yourself is this: Have you carefully reviewed your offer to be sure the potential investor will be convinced choosing yours will yield worthwhile returns on his/her investment – compared to others?

Sentiment tends to make many who seek funding blind themselves to doing an objective appraisal of the useful value their business ideas can deliver.

And this is often the reason many of them get frustrated due to inevitable rejection by those they approach.

A useful strategy: Go out and demonstrate what you can do FIRST, before seeking support

This is the approach I have found from experience works best.

And if you truly believe in your idea, you will have NO problems investing the time and effort needed to try implementing it on your own.

I say this as one who started out in 2002 with funds from my last job, and lost it all within ONE year due to lack of experience, despite my passion and education. But persistence and determination kept me going, in pursuit of my vision.

I drank from the wells of wisdom of many successful entrepreneurs (locally and internationally) who chose to share what they knew. With time, I gained powerful experience based insights that led me to discover ways to attract others to GLADLY put down their money towards execution of plans and projects I conceived.

Today, over a decade later my success not only continues to grow, but I now also share what I’ve learnt with others who seek similar insights.

And that brings me to the main message I have for you. It has to do with getting the capital you need to achieve your valued goal.

You see, I’ve discovered that one can always get the funds one needs, if one is willing to put in time and effort required.

Taking action to begin on your own actually tends to inspire confidence in the minds of those who may have the means to support you. It would assure them you truly BELIEVE in yourself, and your dream.

That can often convince them that you are WORTHY of support.

I gained the above understanding by reading the powerful words of authentic achievers like Dan Kennedy and James R. Cook – both millionaire entrepreneurs who have written bestsellers sharing their success secrets.

Kennedy is the author of "How to Succeed in Business by Breaking All the Rules: A Plan for Entrepreneurs" – among others.

Cook is the author of "The Start-up Entrepreneur (How You Can Succeed in Building Your Own Company" – a New York Times Bestseller.

Hint: Google will tell you more about both men, and their excellent books. But you can also read issue Issue 155 of my weekly newsletter(click), in which I say a little more about Dan Kennedy’s book.

Final Words: What I have advocated above is not new…

No it’s not.

In fact, a growing number of people are accepting it as a realistic way to achieve their business financing goals.

That’s why, for the young MBA student (mentioned at the start of this piece), I was not surprised to read at least 2 persons who posted responses advising him to do what I’ve proposed above.

i.e “start where you are with what you have, to get some essential experience under your belt FIRST”.

Today, you are unlikely find investors with itchy fingers eager to pump money into a venture you propose to them.

Instead, you will need to take diligent personal action to record results that inspire enough confidence in any person(s) you approach.

Hopefully, he will heed the wise counsel they’ve given him. Especisally if the millionnaire’s response does not come as and when he’s expecting it.

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No. 155: To Excel, Avoid Rigid Routine & Focus on GETTING RESULTS THAT WORK!

Last Friday (15th August 2014) a.m., at Mr. Biggs’ Maryland outlet in Lagos-Nigeria, I met – for the FIRST time ever in 2 years – with Enuenwemba Chukuyenum (Chuks) – a past buyer of my Ration Formulator app.

We shook hands, hugged, then held each other like old friends (see photo below), while my 15 year old son (who accompanied me as part of coaching I’m giving him) took a photo of us!

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Date: Monday 18th August 2014

No:155

Title: To Excel, Avoid Rigid Routine & Focus on GETTING RESULTS THAT WORK!

Author & Publisher: Tayo K. Solagbade [Tel: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic) ]

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No. 155: To Excel, Avoid Rigid Routine & Focus on GETTING RESULTS THAT WORK!

Last Friday (15th August 2014) a.m., at Mr. Biggs’ Maryland outlet in Lagos-Nigeria, I met – for the FIRST time ever in 2 years – with Enuenwemba Chukuyenum (Chuks) – a past buyer of my Ration Formulator app.

We shook hands, hugged, then held each other like old friends (see photo below), while my 15 year old son (who accompanied me as part of coaching I’m giving him) took a photo of us!

Photo: Tayo K. Solagbade with Enuenwemba Chukuyenum (Chuks) - We shook hands, hugged, then held each other like old friends (see photo below), while my 15 year old son (who accompanied me as part of coaching I’m giving him) took a photo of us!

The Internet Is an Amazing Resource that Eliminates Boundaries

For those who have followed me online for a while, you most likely know I’ve come a long way since January 2002, when I left Guinness Nigeria to become self-employed.

And especially since July 2005, when, while on a 2 week exploratory business trip to Accra-Ghana, I commenced using article marketing on a formal basis to promote my products and services to a global audience.

Since then, I have developed my own brand of online marketing, which I call a “Web Marketing System” (WMS). And it has been instrumental to my ability to achieve increasing “marketing” visibility – leading to enquiries/sale to buyers within and outside Africa.

That WMS was what led Chuks (who provides high profile extension support to farm CEOs) to discover – via search engine results pages – the Farm Business Support solutions I offer.

We agreed to meet on that day, to discuss further about potential benefits of my Poultry Farm Manager software (watch 16 videos here), and a FREE talk I offer Farm CEO groups, titled “3 Zero Cost Strategies to Attract Profitable Buyers for Your Farm Products!

Isn’t it amazing how we’ve arrived at this serious level of formal business relationship, based ONLY on the use of my Web Marketing System?!

To Market Unique Solutions, Traditional Marketing Techniques May Not Work for You

To get where I am today, I learnt the hard way that promoting the unique range of products and services I offer rarely works via traditional channels.

In marketing software development and freelance writing solutions (like I do) even those who can afford to use them rarely reap profitable returns on their investment in TV, Radio, and Print media.

I quickly learnt the hard way, when I exhausted my limited funds placing ads in newspapers as a start-up.

The desire to do better however drove me to painstakingly test a huge variety of alternative channels.

Until I discovered I needed to develop the skills to leverage the web as a primary low cost business marketing tool.

Today, over 90% of my sales leads come via e-mail, face book, website contact forms, newsletter subscriber referrals etc.

Most of those who reach out to me in this manner often tell me they discovered me via Google. Especially through my articles or PDF reports, books and especially my SD Nuggets blog and You tube video channel (which hosts tutorial/demonstrations for some of my popular Excel-VB driven software products).

It Is NOT Easy to Succeed Using Unconventional Methods, But When Done Right, They Yield Profitable and Lasting Results

Now, I must say that even though the results today appear to be coming rapidly, it was NOT like that in the early days when I started out.

It has taken me lots of diligent and intelligent hard work.

To achieve similar results, you must be willing to work hard as well, and to also explore UNIQUE ways to apply your creativity.

Marketing is ultimately about creating positive perceptions in the minds of your target audience, to make them believe YOU can help THEM.

It does not really matter what you do or how you do it (so long as you’re ethical).

The RESULTS you get, especially in terms of the desired reaction you successfully elicit from your buyers, is what really matters.

The interesting thing is that most of what you need to do will rarely have been taught to you before you leave school!!

Below I use the true stories of 2 well known achievers to illustrate my meaning…

1. Breaking the Rules to Succeed in Business (The James Brown Example)

Over the weekend I (along with my kids) watched the movie about the life of James Brown: the Godfather of Soul.

In one scene, a member of his band who played the guitar questioned Mr. Brown’s instruction that they all play their instruments at the same time – like “drums”. He noted that some instruments, based on what he learnt in music school had to be played to “follow” some other instruments.

James Brown looked at him and said “How many hit songs do you have son?

The silence from the guy gave the answer everybody already knew: NONE.

Then Brown turned round and asked the rest of the band “Does it sound good?”(in reference to the unconventional playing of instruments he made them adopt).

They said “YES!”

And based on that he said they would play it the way he’d told them to.

We all know James Brown’s music influenced the evolution of MANY great musicians – including Michael Jackson, and our own Fela Anikulapo Kuti.

That’s proof that his approach produced the desired results, making others choose to LEARN from him!

2. Breaking the Rules to Succeed in Business (The Henry Ford Example)

The lesson I learned from watching the above mentioned move is the same as what one can easily take away from the story of Henry Ford, about the time when a group of journalists tried to use questions to make him look stupid.

As I read it, they argued that Ford being an illiterate was really not responsible for the success of Ford Motors. That he actually knew nothing and was in essence ignorant. And they believed it was the trained and educated engineers he employed who made him successful.

Each time they asked him questions relating to technical aspects of automobile manufacturing, Ford simply called in one of his employees who he knew was competent in that area, and asked him to answer the journalists.

Eventually, he told them he did not need to know such details about what it took to make the cars.

Instead what was important was for him to know how to find those who knew what was needed to get the different aspects done correctly, and then to organize them to work together to achieve that goal.

It was an answer that proved Ford to be a man of real education. One who knew that knowledge applied to productive ends matter more than abstract knowledge

James Brown – like Henry Ford, and Thomas Edison – had little or no formal exposure to classroom education.

Yet, each of these men succeeded by tapping deep into his/her creative God-given talents, and using it to supervise and organized formally schooled others, to achieve challenging goals they fearlessly set for themselves.

Each man demonstrated an impressive capacity for developing successful models that enabled them “sell” their products and services successfully.

For instance, the James Brown movie revealed how he readily challenged the “promoter” who marketed his records and shows.

At a point, rather than “stick with making music” and leaving the business to the promoter, he literally took over the promotion of his music, by (as he loved to say) “flipping it” – injecting his own money – to achieve unprecedented street smart marketing success in selling his music/shows.

Anyone Can Succeed Using Unconventional Business Methods

That’s a FACT. So, this is not something you have to go and enroll for some new course or workshop to learn.

Just be willing to search for useful information of low to zero costs strategies for marketing products/services on and off the web.

Then read and creatively put what you learn to use.

Develop the habit of testing what you try out in as many different ways as possible – until you find something that works. Then tweak that until you get it working optimally. Once that is done, find a way to replicate and reuse it again an again.

This is what I did, and still do today, to succeed.

I learnt to do so, by studying many others and creatively adapting what I learnt they did, to suit my purposes.

No matter how much success comes, however, one must NEVER feel s/he knows it all. It’s always a constant learning process!

Final Words: Ignore Rigid Routine & Focus Instead on GETTING RESULTS THAT WORK!

To end, I recommend that you avoid wasting valuable time trying to rigidly follow rules set by others.

For instance, some people say you must “get enough capital” before you start out.

The truth is however that so many people have achieved business greatness by building their wealth from the ground up. Most started out having absolutely nothing, except their desires!

Look back in history, and you will see that rules rarely remain determine success into the future.

You have a God-given ability to “sense” what will work for you. IF you immerse and diligently apply yourself in pursuit of your valued goal, that ability will become finely developed – or honed – over time.

By the above, I refer mainly to your intuition..or your sixth sense.

You were born with it. But you must DEVELOP it until it becomes a reliable “weapon” for use in narrowing down to solutions that will work for you.

So, if you “feel” the urge to change the ways things are done, to suit YOUR need to achieve, do NOT hesitate to do so.

Worst thing that can happen is you’ll fail – and that would only be temporary defeat. A few checks on where you went wrong and you’ll soon be able to try again, and again, and again, UNTIL you get it right.

Dan Kennedy, a revered expert in business marketing wrote a book titled “How to succeed in Business by breaking all the rules”.

The contents of that wonderful book further reinforce the points I’ve made above. You would do well to get a copy and read it from cover to cover.

For now, on the thorny issue of finding capital (to promote your products and services for instance)…

Below: Screenshot of some wise quotes – about capital/funding – from Dan Kennedy, that guided me to develop unconventional business marketing strategies responsible for a lot of success I record today:

Screenshot of some wise quotes - about capital/funding - from Dan Kennedy, that guided me to develop unconventional business marketing strategies responsible for a lot of success I record today

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Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

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Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

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"It should be encouraging to know that practically all great fortunes began in the form of compensation for personal services, or from sale of ideas. What else, except ideas and personal services, would one not possessed of property have to give in return for riches?" – Napoleon Hill in "Think & Grow Rich"

Business marketing is more competitive today than ever before! Except you are a monopoly or you enjoy exclusive distribution/sales rights, you WILL have to compete DAILY with others who do what you do for every NAIRA the customer wishes to spend.

A question I believe every business owner should ask him/herself is:

Would it be reasonable to expect customers to choose to buy from you, when NOTHING significantly differentiates you – in a positive sense that is – from competitors who offer similar products and services? I doubt any CEO will say "YES"!

Let me use an analogy to drive this home. Think, for instance, about why YOU as a person typically choose to buy groceries from a particular store, and not another one. Even when the price and quality are the same, the fact that you get more courteous and personalized service from the former, could make you prefer to keep going back there. AND you would even refer others to the same place!

Which is exactly the point I am making. Most buyers if given a good reason will feel drawn to buy from you instead of another seller/provider.

As a business owner, becoming the preferred choice of potential customers will naturally appeal to you. But you are NOT likely to achieve that desirable goal if you keep doing the same thing your competitors (and/or others in your industry) are doing – especially in terms of marketing and advertising.

Discounts, promos and other incentive programs are not bad, but it is only when creatively combined with unique offers that potential customers find useful, (and which competitors find hard to duplicate), that you GAIN a competitive advantage – leading to increased sales leads!

The unique offer I refer to will be one that gives buyers in the market place a COMPELLING reason to buy from you, even when your price is higher than that of other sellers!

Without the above, most of your marketing/advertising will amount to calculated gambling with limited chance of yielding sustainable results. 

How to Make Yourself Preferred by Customers

One proven way to build the needed credibility that will make buyers prefer you is to embark on diligent provision of accurate and HELPFUL information that:

a. Empowers potential buyers to make better informed buying decisions.

b. Simultaneously demonstrates you have the expertise to facilitate that process, should they choose to buy from you.

It’s so obvious, that I often wonder why many business owners out here still do not see it!

Once people come to ASSOCIATE your name and/or that of your company with such helpful information and other resources you provide, they are more likely to think of you when eventually they have a need related to your products/services offer. 

TRUST is the basis on which most successful business transactions take place. The strategy described above enables you get that trust, and keep it for as long as possible.

To get started using this strategy, simply decide on the channel(s) you will use to reach out to potential buyers, with your HELPFUL information. Communication media like print newspapers, TV and radio readily come to mind and are often preferred by most people. 

The truth is however that compared to a "web marketing system", those traditional channels are not just expensive, but they also have much shorter shelf-lives. 

Web Marketing system includes Articles Marketing, Newsletter marketing, Branded Face book Page Marketing, Branded Information Products Marketing, Search engine optimization and others. 

The above combine to help you achieve your goal of getting name/brand credibility. 

The best part is you do NOT have to part with money to make use of them. All you need is an Internet Connection!

So, I urge you to try them before spending your hard earned money on more expensive alternatives.(Googling each of the aforementioned phrases could yield some ideas – but I also offer some of my own further down.)

Note that if you set up your web marketing system FIRST, any other communication channels (TV etc) you choose to use, will benefit from that. This is because your listeners, readers or viewers can be referred to your online system, increasing your chances of having those of them who go there, become customers!

LEARN MORE:

The following articles provide further details on the various strategies/ideas I advocate for adoption by business owners who want to make use of the strategies discussed above:

1. A Massive Blind Spot That’s Making Some Facebook Business Page Owners Miss Getting NEW Fans

2. Potential Benefits of Promoting Your Business Online Via Articles, Newsletter and Facebook Marketing

3. To Make More Profitable Sales, Educate Your Prospects and Clients

4. Make a Greater Impact – Improve the Quality of Your Facebook Conversations

5. Start Controlling Your Site and Saving Money, Using the Joomla Content Management System

6. Does Your Website JUSTIFY the Money You Spend

Important Notes

1. This article was first published online on 7th February 2011, in Issue No. 59 of the Self-Development Digest Newsletter, which has since been replaced by my Self-Development (SD) Nuggets blog.

2. The author (Tayo K. Solagbade)’s byline in the above linked syndicated articles may still have URLs pointing to my former 9 year old spontaneousdevelopment.com primary domain name. Work continues to update such links following the loss of that domain on 4th May 2014.

To Succeed, START Living in the Real World – TODAY! (Hint: And Teach Your Child to Do the Same!)

As I said in the research paper I presented at the Center for Management Development, a dangerous craze to acquire paper qualifications in order to secure jobs or higher positions has overtaken many in today’s Nigeria.

They have lost sight of so many things they can learn through diligent application of self-development. By “things” I refer to knowledge and skills, which can enable them achieve superlative performances on their jobs (and in their lives).

We need to go back to first principles!

Napoleon Hill, Dale Carnegie etc have started the revolution of the self-help and self-development culture. We need our managers (in fact everyone!) in Nigeria to join in like those in the USA have already done.

In today’s world, it’s no longer just a matter of what you “have”, but what you CAN DO that will determine how far you can go!”

You can buy countless certificates to get others to "respect" you (or at least say that they do) and give you recommendations for promotion or employment. However, one thing that you will not be able to buy, is the knowledge and skills that will ultimately be required to deliver satisfactory levels of performance on that job after you may have arrived there.

If you are lucky to be in a place where mediocrity reigns, this might not pose a major problem – since no one would notice any difference! Otherwise, it would only be a matter of time before someone starts asking questions about how you got the job in the first place – when she notices how inept you are on issues relating to doing it to the required standards!

I challenge you to start living in the real world today – by developing REAL WORLD relevant competencies

Stop focusing on acquiring paper qualifications, and begin to invest time/effort in developing (in addition to formal qualifications) REAL LIFE knowledge and skills.

One area where this is of crucial importance is your attitude to money – especially spending of money! To succeed in ANY area of endeavour, you will need to manage your spending more consciously for instance.

Many in paid employment – if asked – would be unable to account for money they spent 24 hours earlier.

This is because they often spend with the "assurance" of another inflow of salary to replace whatever they spend.

Hence, they never bother to be "thoughtful" about money issues.

I was like that too. I now know better and act differently. Years of severe lack of money, which caused me major pain, humuliation and heart break REALLY taught me a hard lesson.

Today, I do NOT fail to treat money with respect, and I always challenge my kids to do the same.

To learn my lesson, one of the things I did was to buy a little book titled "The Millionaire next door" from Amazon.com (in addition to Kiyosaki’s books).

I discovered from reading it that many wealthy people keep detailed WRITTEN records of their daily expenses. They also regularly review those records, and plan subsequent spending more prudently based on what they learn.

That is one of the secrets of their wealth accumulation!

I have since begun doing tracking my own expenses DAILY, and I must tell you that my money management ability has improved dramatically as a result.

You will find it useful to do the same, and to also teach your kids to emulate you.

Do yourself a favour today. STOP thinking the future will take care of itself. STOP assuming things will always be as good as they currently are.

DON’T allow yourself to be taken by surprise when the inevitable down times come.

PREPARE yourself now.

START living in the real world – TODAY!

To Succeed, Go Beyond Quoting Quotes

One morning in 2009, I heard the following quote (credited to a famous American celebrity) on radio:

"Success is the result of good judgement. Good judgement is the result of experience. Experience is the result of bad judgement".

The moral according to the radio presenter, is that FAILURES we go through in life (as a result of bad judgements we make) actually TEACH us THE useful lessons we need to learn in order to make better judgements that will ultimately enable us achieve success.

This is not the first time I have heard or read these kinds of powerful truths.

A lot of people actually quote them on a daily basis. What puzzles me however is that in spite of the fact that they KNOW these quotes:

(a) Many people refuse to view failure as offering any positive benefits. Evidence of this shows in how they look down on those they observe to be failing.

And also in how they AVOID it or HIDE all evidence of it when it happens to them.

(b) Fewer people these days are willing to put in the needed time and effort to acquire relevant EXPERIENCE which is an essential requirement for becoming MORE capable of making good judgements.

So many people seem to be in a hurry – no time to apprentice. They want to jump in and get made INSTANTLY. If necessary, they’ll cut corners.

But long term authentic success does not come that way.

Like the radio presenter (Femi Sowolu) pointed out, a lot of successful people we know actually started out by recording a lot of failures, till they learnt enough to succeed.

It’s so easy to quote these famous quotes. But DOING what the quotes say is a totally different proposition.

Fearlessly applying the wisdom from success quotes CAN help us achieve seeming miracles in our lives over time.

And by the way, it is very often those people who have done it the right way. That is. those who have achieved authentic success by following the rules mentioned above.

They are the ones who are able to DRAW from their wealth of experience based knowledge and wisdom to utter quotable quotes about how to do what they have done.

They are always full of experience based wisdom, which they effortlessly volunteer for use by others.

By following the same proven process, EACH one of us can also over time develop to the point where the words we say get put on marble, for others to learn from.

We can start this process by forming the habit of APPLYING the wisdom of success quotes diligently in our daily lives. 

NB: This article was first published online on 15th October 2009 by Tayo K. Solagbade, via www.spontaneousdevlopment.com

STOP Procrastinating And START Achieving The Goals You Dream About!

Every January, many people announce new year resolutions, but by December achieve little or nothing. I’ve had some intriguing characters PAY me to teach them web design, or Excel-VB, ONLY to leave wondering why I’m chasing them to attend agreed sessions: Funny world indeed! This article explains why you must make procrastination your enemy, and how to defeat it.

Why People Procrastinate (The Problem Usually Starts From Teaching Methods Used In Schools)

Back in school, many of us learned sciences. We drew pictures of the butterfly’s life cycle as it occurs during metamorphosis. But how many actually got to see the entire cycle take place IN REAL LIFE?

I’m not sure about you, but I never got to see a real-life butterfly’s metamorphosis(i.e. from the eggs to the larva – or caterpillar – to the pupa, and then into the adult butterfly) take place, till I left school!

And when I did learn it, it was by accident. Briefly, I took a caterpillar into my bedroom one day, and placed it on a leafy branch(broken off the adult orange tree from which I picked the caterpillar), which was set in a bottle of water.

Over time, the caterpillar ate the leaves, and I replaced the branch until one day it disappeared!

Upon noticing this, I searched all over the table on which the bottle was placed thinking it had fallen off. Until I discovered, under the table top, in a corner joining the table top to the frame, the butterfly pupa covered in its cotton like cocoon!

I promptly put a mosquito net around the table, so that when the adult butterfly hatched/emerged from the pupa, it did not fly off before I was able to see it.

My apologies to the reader if you did not do much biology or Integrated Science in school, where the reproductive cycles of some lower animals might have been covered.

The point I made in the first paragraph is that sometimes, in our conventional schools, learners are forced to memorize photos, diagrams and sketches of the animals or organisms they are taught about in class – without being shown real life examples.

Experience-Based Learning Makes Cramming Unnecessary

Is it not funny that this learning should have happened for me the other way round, considering that parents send their kids to school to acquire knowledge that they can then come to apply in the real world?

I honestly believe that is why Robert Kiyosaki’s ideas for educational reform are so worthy of consideration by any serious parents or educational practitioners.

Question is how many of us will take action to use those ideas to make a difference in the lives of the kids we raise, teach or coach?

The children in many conventional schools are seldom taken outdoors into the real word (nor are they encouraged or challenged to go out of their way after class) to see the real thing.

Instead they are made to read about the activity, and learn to say it as they read it, instead of describing it as they felt while they DOING it. Now, the irony of this poor teaching method is that when one DOES make effort to get a “real” life experience, recalling all the important aspects of that particular process becomes considerably easier. Thus the need for “cramming” is more or less removed.

I sometimes ask people this question: “If you were told to describe the process of making a cup of coffee, would you need to look up the steps from a book to do it?”

The answer I always get every time is “No”. The reason: “You’ve done it many times before”.

And there lies my point. Once we get into the habit of gaining real-life experiences relevant to any new area of knowledge we wish to explore, we will find that our resultant understanding would be comprehensive – and we would no longer need to do so much “cramming”!

Those Who Procrastinate Become Professional Students

Back to goals achievement. Some people attend seminars or workshops, and read books on starting up their businesses but never really start anything worthwhile. Such people in effect become professional students.

They keep attending seminars, reading books, “start” to make the plans, then stop. They never really begin.

Then there are those who do start, but learn from a book/seminar that they need to make some changes in order for their business to move to the next level. However, instead of doing it, they keep procrastinating – and end up never achieving their full potential.

Examples of people who are caught in this kind of “trap’ surround us.

It is the same thing for people in paid employment who desire career advancement, but fail to take the needed actions to improve themselves. Ditto for the one who wants to lose weight but cannot find the will power to deny THAT urge to eat between meals or “miss” exercising regularly etc.

For those able to take action towards achieving the desired end, they ultimately “grow up” to reach higher levels. And go on to achieve authentic success. That’s why some entrepreneurs always seem to be growing in their ability to take their businesses to a higher level, while some others always appear stagnant.

There is a great deal of difference between having knowledge and applying it. The teacher asked. “What is Agriculture?” The pupil replied, “Agriculture is just like farming, but farming is doing it.” – W.F. Weiherman

You Must Continue Learning, IF You Want To Keep MOVING FORWARD!

In a separate article, I wrote about people who record a measure of achievement, and promptly assume they have arrived at the pinnacle of success in their chosen area of endeavour.

Not only is this a faulty notion to have, but it is also potentially damaging, because it leads directly to mediocrity – a state of mind whereby ability and performance that can STILL be significantly improved upon, is continually celebrated as if nothing else is left to be done.

Any one who wishes to achieve goals that are worth celebrating, and that others will acknowledge as worthwhile, needs to rid him/herself of mediocre thinking. The mediocre is the one who does a little, and thinks there is nothing left to be done.

Those who are serious students of success know that success has been correctly described as a journey – NOT a destination.

Also, a person who desires success needs to perpetually HUNGER for knowledge that will better equip him/her to achieve that success.

In other words, s/he cannot be averse to LEARNING new things.

Once at a public gathering, Einstein found himself sitting next to a teenager who failed to recognize the world-renowned theorist at his side. Delightedly Einstein engaged the boy in conversation, and after a while, the boy naively asked: “What do you do for a living?” With typical modesty, Einstein replied, “I study physics.” “What, at your age!” the boy responded incredulously, “I finished that two years ago!” – Edward Hoffman, Editor, The Book of Fathers’ Wisdom Birch Lane Press

Some people – like the boy in the above quote – learn a little bit about something, and immediately assume there’s nothing left to learn. In our society, we have people who finish from university and conclude that they’ve done all the studying they need to do.

One amusing thing they do to show this is to throw away their university notes!

I have never regretted keeping my university notes for instance, because most of the stuff I wrote in the management research paper (Statistical Process Control and Target Setting) that got me to the National Finals of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s Young Managers’ Competition in 1997, (5 full years after I left the university) came from studying some of the concepts in those books.

Summary: If you want to achieve the goals you set for yourself at work or in life, procrastination must become your number ONE enemy.

You need to decide to stick with the target dates you set for achievement of each objective.

Use a checklist if necessary (e.g like my Planned Activity Tracking Sheet), and tick off each item as you achieve it. You will get a good feeling just from seeing a growing number of ticks on it! That feeling, over time, will encourage you to do more.

And before you know it, you will have a string of successes behind you, that can be a source of inspiration to others around you, who procrastinate, to break the habit once and for all :-)

Powerful Resources to Boost Your Poultry Farm’s Performance

Poultry farming is a potentially risky but time-tested income generator. If you have bought my popular Practical Feed Formulation Handbook (or downloaded the FREE chapter PDF version), then you know I have an elaborate background in poultry farming.

That background covers practical hands-on experience in intensive, market-focused production of broilers, cockerels, and layers – especially in the last three years of my stay as a student of Agricultural Extension Services in the University of Ibadan.

I gained this high quality exposure via membership of a very organized student body (Students Farm Research Foundation – SFRF), which comprised mainly Vet Medicine students and a few students studying Agriculture.

The SFRF also had access to experienced senior lecturers from the School of Vet Medicine and Faculty of Agriculture and Forestry who functioned as its patrons.

My feed formulation handbook contains details about this body, and what we did all year round PLUS very comprehensive information on feed compounding/rations formulas for poultry in particular.

I believe this is one of the main reasons it has become quite popular since I published it over 12 years ago.

To read a preview and/or get YOUR free copy, signup using the form below, for access to the multiple FREE downloads page on www.tayosolagbade.com

There is however a lot more to poultry farming than feed formulation!

Having said the above, I have consolidated my know-how in this field by relating closely with Poultry Farm CEOs who purchase my products and services.

What I’ve found from over a decade of serving farm owners is that many focus mainly on “feeding costs” as the major obstacle to overcome.

In truth however, critical as feed formulation is to minimizing operating costs of a poultry business, it is just one of many aspects of Poultry Farm Management.

As I have said in a previous article, getting your ration formulation right is no guarantee of poultry farming success.

There are other crucial considerations and requirements for profitable operation.

For instance – and I’ve found this relevant in relating with countless farm CEOs who buy my farm support products – you need to learn how to employ best practices to enhance your farm’s ability to maximize output at optimal (NOT necessarily minimal) costs.

In this regard, the day to day running of the farm business enterprise becomes relevant.

For instance, getting the farm hands to do what is essential for successful operation – diligently, and honestly – is essential to the farm’s success.

If well formulated and balanced rations are made available, but undisciplined (or poorly trained) farm hands waste them, or fail to feed them as an when due, to the birds, the desired results will STILL not be achieved.

This can – and does – happen!

Indeed, as the experiences of so many farm business owners is proving, farm hands – even when sincere – may not deliver productive performances needed, if a formal best practice system is NOT in place.

This is not just the case with farm businesses, but also other enterprises. Even those that are not profit oriented.

As the CEO, or owner, you do yourself a big favour, if you set up a workplace organized according to best practices.

One that is designed to make those who work in it, operate within set guidelines that increase the chances of achieving consistently uniform, output right first time, every time.

In order to achieve the above, businesses that succeeded adopt various tools and resources for daily routine use.

Examples include Training Manuals, Process Work Instructions, as well as Process Management Software.

I have written severally about this in the past, and also put up a video based introduction to a concept I call “Best Operating Process Management Systems (BOPMS)™“, which I recommend for profitable farm business management.

One of the key components of a BOPMS™ is Customizable Process Management Software that enables automated day to day monitoring and trending of Key Performance Indicators, for Timely and Profitable Farm Management Planning and Decision Making.

It is to help farmers intelligently implement the above for their unique enterprises., that I offer my growing library of customizable Farm Business Support Excel-VB driven Spreadsheet Software.

Examples include my Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator, and Poultry Farm Manager apps.

Below: Two of 16 Video User Demonstrations for The Excel-VB Driven Poultry Farm Manager

a. Loading & Logging Into The Poultry Farm Manager

b. Updating the Broilers Farm Operations Data Entry Table In the Poultry Farm Manager

Below: One of 8 User Guide Demonstrations for The Excel-VB Driven Ration Formulator (Computing 30% Protein Content Feed Formula – Excel-VB Ration Formulator)

My Farm CEO clients buy apps like the above, to drastically reduce time and effort needed to derive for daily data recording and report generation needed to effectively track their farm business’ KPIs.

Once you have such tools at your disposal, you rapidly gain deep insights – often proactively – and identifying (potential) “problem areas” becomes much easier.

What’s more, you also become familiar with what is “normal” for your farm, and over time learn to detect significant deviations that could help you spot “pilfering” and other negative developments.

The best part is that you also get to see what’s working in one area of your farm, that you can apply to other areas e.g. if you introduce a new ration formula for a cage line, the software can provide charted/graphed comparisons of Hen Day Percentages for that cage line against others.

If it shows superior performance, you’d see the trend instantly, and that would enable you adopt the same formula for the rest of the farm in a timely manner.

So many other benefits accrues from having a BOPMS™ in place on your farm.

That is why I continue to advocate its adoption, even if in phases, by Farm CEOs. Without it, most farm businesses are unlikely to achieve their full performance output capabilities.

Click here to learn more about the BOPMS™.

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No. 154: KUKURU DANGER™ – 5 True Stories About the Adventures – & Misadventures! – of a School Age Child Trying to Find Purpose in Life (FREE 20 PAGE PAPERBACK BOOK PREVIEW)

This week, I continue my call on experts-who-speak in the education “industry” to offer programs to influence school curriculums towards better equipping students to succeed in the real world.

I offer a FREE preview of my new book, which is based on the same theme, for interested experts to review.

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Date: Monday 11th August 2014

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Title: KUKURU DANGER™ – 5 True Stories About the Adventures – & Misadventures! – of a School Age Child Trying to Find Purpose in Life (FREE 20 PAGE PAPARBACK BOOK PREVIEW)

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No. 154: KUKURU DANGER™ – 5 True Stories About the Adventures – & Misadventures! – of a School Age Child Trying to Find Purpose in Life (FREE 20 PAGE BOOK PREVIEW)

This week, I continue my call on experts-who-speak in the education “industry” to offer programs to influence school curriculums towards better equipping students to succeed in the real world.

I offer a FREE preview of my new book, which is based on the same theme, for interested experts to review.

Here are some excerpts…

“The stories you are about to read describe events that occurred during the turbulent early years of my life. I originally conceived this “story book” idea as a gift to my kids, to mark my 44th birthday anniversary.

The insights and tips I offer in the pages that follow, can guide you to make better preparations to coach your kids to succeed in adulthood.

In particular, the ideas I share can help you intelligently handle yourself and your child whenever s/he does wrong – no matter how bad. And in the long run, you are likely to be able to help him/her recover/bounce back, and move on to even greater heights.

It is my hope, that parents who read (and/or listen to audio narrations of) my stories, will do so with their kids, or challenge their kids to do it in their own time.

Doing so is likely to help you connect and bond better with one another. Reading/hearing me narrate how I goofed up – time and time again – as a child, and how, with guidance from my parents and responsible adults in society I was able to reform myself, can give you useful parenting insights.

And your kids will learn from my mistakes.

In other words, you will be better equipped to guide your child to navigate the potentially confusing jungle of his/her formative years’ experiences, to become a competent adult…

…I would NEVER want to see my daughter go topless anywhere, talk less on the cover of a magazine. I don’t care if a goddess or “Diva” does it, and gets rich in the process.

I know the Creator would never approve of it.

However, I also know I cannot force my child to LIVE right. Instead, I have to guide her develop similar morals, values, and the strength of character to stick with them, no matter what others say.

Let those who believe in doing what’s popular say you’re being old fashioned. It won’t matter, as long as you play your God-given role CORRECTLY in the life of the wonderful child the Creator gifted you!

I urge you to read this book to the end, and even give copies as gifts to your children and/or grandchildren, if you have them.

But don’t stop there. Like I’ve said towards the end, you will need to take diligent and consistent action to coach those kids you give, to make intelligent use of what they learn from reading the book, to keep going in the right direction.

I’ll say more on this under “Further Reading” (page 75).”

Tayo K. Solagbade in “KUKURU DANGER™ – 5 True Stories About the Adventures – & Misadventures! – of a School Age Child Trying to Find Purpose in Life

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Below: Text of the book’s description on its back cover

In this unusual book, Tayo Solagbade narrates 5 true stories about a dizzying variety of (sometimes shocking) escapades he engaged in – while schooling – that repeatedly landed him in trouble, causing his parents avoidable heart breaks.

In the first story, Tayo suffers the embarrassment of having a female classmate falsely accuse him – to their class teacher – of peeping at her in the girls’ room! He would however shake off the potentially traumatizing experience, to earn a double promotion into secondary school one year ahead of his class, in 1980.

At the age of 10, in his first year in secondary school, Kukuru Danger™ (Tayo’s alter ego) joins a notorious group of students, in a bid to escape frequent bullying from bigger and older classmates.

Over the course of the year, they routinely sneak out of school to eat meals at Mai Shai shops without paying, steal coins from traders’ slot machines, and catch crabs at the Lagoon front!

At a point, Kukuru™ begins stealing money from home, to play the slots. But he soon gets caught.

By the school year’s end his mother is shocked to read the principal’s comments at the bottom of his report card, saying “To repeat for cheating”.

She eventually learns that Kukuru™ had let his friends copy his script during the exams. So, despite passing all subjects, the disciplinary panel decided he should repeat the year as well.

His disappointed parents decide he should start over in a new school. In 1981, he resumes first year in C & S College, Ilorin, and spends 4 years keeping his promise to his parents, to stay out of trouble.

Then he gets appointed Health Prefect in his final year. And suddenly, he goes haywire again.

This time, he and some friends begin missing classes to hunt bush rats, and at a point graduate to poaching the vice principal’s backyard poultry farm chickens!

Tayo’s brother tries to warn him to stop, but gets told off. Until one day, they are caught and sent on suspension. But they do not go home, and instead, they roam the streets, eating and sleeping in a stranger’s home, and later sneaking back to sleep in the hostels.

His guardian eventually visits the school, and Tayo is forced to go home, where his parents later meet him, and his father reads him the riot act.

Before the book ends, you are told how Tayo vows to redeem himself by passing the final exams.

But after the exams, he and a friend have a near death experience, when a violent “thug-like” student that Tayo got sent on indefinite suspension, came with armed gang members to confront him at the train station, on his last night in Ilorin.

The fifth and final story tells of how one year later, Tayo learnt the hard way, that fighting is NEVER the answer to conflicts.

While attending A-Levels in Government College Kaduna, he got beaten black and blue by a Form 5 student, who was technically junior to him.

However, by the end of the session, Tayo succeeds in earning the respect of that student and others, by accidentally employing a timeless strategy used by succesful people worldwide, for centuries!

In narrating each story, Tayo offers potentially useful insights for both parents and their kids based on his successful self-reformation. This book is ultimately about dealing with peer pressure. So it is sprinkled with quotes on peer pressure – for people of all ages – to help add perspective.

The ugly reality is that peer pressure reaches its greatest intensity at just the age when kids tend to be most insensitive and cruel.” – Walt Mueller

Below: Clickable thumbnail versions of the book’s front and back covers.

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What you have read above are excerpts from my new book, from which I now offer a 20 page FREE PDF preview for download by interested persons.

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Because you arrived in it, before her, YOU are an expert in it, compared to her. If you truly love your child therefore, you can – and should – share YOUR EXPERTISE about succeeding in the world, to help her learn how to EXCEL in it.

This book [Kukuru Danger™] uses narratives of true life childhood experiences of a brilliant but wayward child, who later reformed himself, as a basis for offering practical tips and insights you can use.” – Tayo K. Solagbade. Best Practice Parenting Advocate™ & Location Independent Multipreneur.

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*Sole Agent For Burt Dubin’s Speaker Mentoring Service In Africa

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to

Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting,

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods

and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited.

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin’s Public Speaking Mentoring service to experts working across the African continent).

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name

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Click to read article titled: 'Smart Exercising Will Keep You Fit, Healthy and Alive'...and ONE other. Self-Development/Performance Enhancement Specialist - Tayo Solagbade - works as a multipreneurial freelance writer providing zero risk article and report writing support for website owners, while travelling slowly across West Africa as a Location Independent Multipreneur. 

 

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“(Tayo Solagbade) is amazing and I think he is going to produce some impressive results online…” – click here to read full comment by Patrick Meninga (US based 6 figure income blogger who gained fame for building a $2,000 per month adsense website and selling it for $200,000).

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“Tayo, I honestly believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything he does. Your commitment and effort has been outstanding….Thanks for all your hard work since I’ve been here – you will be sorely missed. I don’t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. – Andy”(R. Jones)*

*Operations Manager, Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery, December 2001 (Handwritten comments in farewell/xmas cards sent to Tayo Solagbade following his resignation to start his own business).

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