“Empty pockets never held anyone back. Only empty heads and empty hearts can do that.” – Norman Vincent Peale (NVP)
Life is not a bed of roses. Good fortune does not just fall into people’s laps.
As many who have succeeded authentically in this world will tell you, it takes work, often a lot of hard work, to make it in life.
It does not matter how talented, gifted, intelligent or connected you are. If you’re going to make a memorable impact in any area of endeavour you venture in life, you WILL have to push yourself to do more than the average person does or will do. That is what it takes to stand out and excel.
The above is why the kids of many rich and wealthy people do not always go on to be successful in their own right. Many end up squandering the wealth and resources, even the goodwill built by their parents over the years, once the latter pass on. I’m sure you can point to one or two examples you know in your society – or indeed your neighbourhood.
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Monday 20th June 2016
NB: This PI Squared newsletter will be published weekly, on Mondays, in place of the Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter, starting from today – 15th February 2016. I’m reinventing my Monday newsletter content and theme, to accommodate my vision of serving the growing audience of serious minded individuals and organizations reaching out to me, with information, education. news and research findings designed to help them do what they do better.
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PII 019: Success is NOT Hereditary – and There is NO Gene Associated With Poverty [Hint: That’s Why This Former Street Hawker Turned International Business Coach Is Launching an Academy to Help Others Succeed!]
“Empty pockets never held anyone back. Only empty heads and empty hearts can do that.” – Norman Vincent Peale (NVP)
Life is not a bed of roses. Good fortune does not just fall into people’s laps.
As many who have succeeded authentically in this world will tell you, it takes work, often a lot of hard work, to make it in life.
It does not matter how talented, gifted, intelligent or connected you are. If you’re going to make a memorable impact in any area of endeavour you venture in life, you WILL have to push yourself to do more than the average person does or will do. That is what it takes to stand out and excel.
The above is why the kids of many rich and wealthy people do not always go on to be successful in their own right. Many end up squandering the wealth and resources, even the goodwill built by their parents over the years, once the latter pass on. I’m sure you can point to one or two examples you know in your society – or indeed your neighbourhood.
So, success is not hereditary. We cannot pass it from parent to offspring. In the same way, there is no scientific evidence to indicate that there is a gene associated with poverty.
This explains why some people become stupendously rich in their adult lives, despite having been raised in conditions of near crippling poverty.
In essence therefore, what I am saying is that success is not something that can be predetermined or prevented for any person. The individual determines whether or not s/he will succeed. To paraphrase the famous saying: S/he is the master of her fate – the captain of her soul.
Whatever you become in life will be the result of the efforts you were willing to make to achieve your God-given potential. Nothing outside of you can stop you from manifesting your fullest potential and accomplishing any goals you set for yourself.
The key to leveraging the foregoing truths is however your ability to THINK the right way to attract the success you seek, and to BELIEVE that you can bring your thoughts to manifest the reality you desire.
That was what NVP meant in his quote that I began this piece with.
So, if you want to succeed in spite of any obstacles you may ever encounter in life, there are 2 main things you must do at all time:
- Don’t Have/Keep an Empty Head
This means you need to be a thinker. The book “Think and Grow Rich” has been read by many millions and counting. It has made most who applied what they read in it, to achieve success beyond their wildest dreams. The testimonials cut across societies, cultures, and races.
You need to know how to take control of your thoughts and channel them in a way that attracts what you want to you, while repelling what you do not want from you.
Get that book and read it. I read it over 20 times from cover to cover, until I internalised most parts of it to the point that I could recall them as needed for inspiration. The result was that I developed the ability to progress no matter what. Read that book. You will thank me later!
- Don’t Have an Empty Heart
Having an empty heart means lacking passion. When you do not do what you love, you will not be able to put what we call your “heart and soul” into it. When you cannot do that, it will often be difficult to continue doing that activity that you are engaged in.
This is the nature of the human being. We need passion to be able to persevere in doing something – especially during the inevitable difficult times!
So, if you want success, you must invest quality thinking time to identify what your heart tells you is your PASSION. That will be something that you enjoy and WILL enjoy doing, no matter how bad things may ever get for you. No matter what you lack, or what you lose, you will REMAIN ever so passionate about doing it.
Only this way will you be sure of keeping yourself HUNGRY to succeed in any area of endeavour you choose to venture.
No matter how badly life treats you, doing the 2 things mentioned above CAN – and WILL – help you turn your fortunes around for the better, IF you do them right.
There are so many successful people who have told their life stories that confirm the accuracy of the above statement.
You can come up with a few names yourself I’m sure. Both in your country and out of it. It goes without saying that I know a good number myself, and have studied many of them to build my own success despite the severe visitations of prolonged adversity I encountered, especially over the past 14 years in self-employment.
However, every now and then I come across a true story of someone who applied the above steps to succeed, and the details of the experience he had really impress me.
One such person is UK based Business Coach, Professional Speaker and Marketing Consultant – Efe Ohwofasa.
Efe is a client whose work I’m promoting, because I believe in his brand.
We’ve never met in the flesh since he reached out to me in 2013. I’ve now worked remotely with him now for about 8 months on 2 projects.
His amazing rag to riches success story has really touched me, and when he told me about his project to give back in Africa, I decided to go the extra mile to do my bit to help out.
Below is a message I’ve been sending out.
If you can spare the time from your busy schedule – help spread the word if you know any persons or groups/associations/organisations in the Benin – Delta area that may be interested.
There are plans to roll out in Lagos, Abuja and other cities. So we’ve been trying to connect with partners.
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If you’re In Nigeria’s Delta State or Environs, DO NOT Miss This Life Changing Learning Event (on Sat 25th June 2016) Hosted by Efe Ohwofasa – Who Once Hawked Garri, Yams and Plantain On the Streets of Sapele, to Pay His School Fees, But is Today a Respected International Business Coach Serving CEOs in the UK and beyond!
Get full details, including a downloadable press release at www.efeohwofasa.com/lsb [Even if you can’t go, tell others who can!]
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Tayo K. Solagbade*
Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist
*Best Practice Farm Business Support Specialist & Founder of the MS Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club and Competition
Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)
http://www.tayosolagbade.com
Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement
Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to Farm Businesses and others.
Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting, freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).
Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.
He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods and others.
In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.
On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.
His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).
In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical Development Manager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.
In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerize manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.
Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy (SDAc).
When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes The Farm CEO Weekly Newspaper (sent via email to paid subscribers) and his Weekly Performance Improvement IDEAS newsletter.
You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.
Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.
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[IMPORTANT NOTE:====
On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.
Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.
But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts
he’s published.
If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.
Click “Tayo, What Happened to
SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))
Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:
And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old, NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:
A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name
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