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PII 047: Sometimes Resourcefulness, NOT MONEY, Is What You Need to Succeed [Hint: A Lack of Ideas Can Hold You Back – A Lack of Money Cannot]

The ability to survive and/or thrive during a period of economic downturn is a function of how creative people can get.

Unfortunately, when things are tough financially, as they tend to be during such periods, most of us tend to focus too much attention on money and our lack (or what we perceive to be our lack) of it.

In other words, I’m saying that a lot of us want to succeed, but the minute we discover that we are limited in our financial means, with regard to achieving our set goals, we tend to get easily demoralized and give up psychologically, leading us to ultimately surrender in physical terms – by quitting.

My message in this maiden issue of my Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is therefore that sometimes what you need to succeed is RESOURCEFULNESS and not money.

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NB: This PI Squared newsletter will be published weekly, on Mondays, in place of the Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter, starting from today – 15th February 2016.
I’m reinventing my Monday newsletter content and theme, to accommodate my vision of serving the growing audience of serious minded individuals and organizations reaching out to me, with information, education. news and research findings designed to help them do what they do better.

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PII 047: Sometimes Resourcefulness, NOT MONEY, Is What You Need to Succeed [Hint: A Lack of Ideas Can Hold You Back – A Lack of Money Cannot]

The ability to survive and/or thrive during a period of economic downturn is a function of how creative people can get.

Unfortunately, when things are tough financially, as they tend to be during such periods, most of us tend to focus too much attention on money and our lack (or what we perceive to be our lack) of it.

In other words, I’m saying that a lot of us want to succeed, but the minute we discover that we are limited in our financial means, with regard to achieving our set goals, we tend to get easily demoralized and give up psychologically, leading us to ultimately surrender in physical terms – by quitting.

My message in this maiden issue of my Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter is therefore that sometimes what you need to succeed is RESOURCEFULNESS and not money.

How are you living your life with regard to achieving your valued goals?

The way you think about the problem you believe you have, especially with regard to achieving your goals using money, will determine how far you can go.

Quite often, you may find it useful to look into historical information available from other societies and cultures outside yours for ideas you can adopt or adapt to suit your unique needs or preferences.

If you keep an open mind, you’ll be shocked to find out that some people from the past you study achieved great success by being resourceful, so that their lack of money could not limit them.

What ideas can you borrow from them?

One big problem I see is that a degree of mis-education is holding many people back. And then there’s some amount of arrogance too, which is always very amusing to me.

I’ve met people who readily conclude the reason why one is emphasizing the need for “resourcefulness” is because you lack money – and not necessarily that you wish to be efficient in your use of money.

What these people do not know is that many wealthy people pay serious attention to making efficient use of their money. They are diligently frugal. Indeed some got wealthy by BEING that way!

That’s why they have wealth that makes them financially independent, such that if they stopped working they could continue living the same lifestyle without worrying about running out of money.

Some people have this mixed up. I’ve heard them say: “But Oga you’re bigger than N100 now. Why don’t you just forget it? No need to insist on collecting that little change.”

So if you insist on having your change, they call you a miser or say that you don’t have money.

I made peace with myself regarding this issue a long time ago, after I read this anecdote about John D. Rockefeller:

One day he made a phone call from a public pay phone after putting several dollar coins into the machine. When he was done, the time he spent indicated the machine was supposed to dispense a one dollar coin ads change, but this did not happen. After trying without success to get the machine to behave, this wealthy man decided to call the operator to file a complaint. But when the operator asked for his name in order to make the entry, it occurred to him that being a millionaire, making this formal complaint about a mere one dollar change would raise many eyebrows and make news he did not need. For that reason, he told her he’d changed his mind and hung up.

 

The moral of the above story is that if a millionaire of Rockefeller’s stature could be that concerned about keeping the small change, the rest of us have no excuse to be careless in handling such denominations.

 

So, one way to be resourceful is to spend prudently, in a manner that gets you maximum value for your money.

 

On the home front, what do you eat or drink? Must you always buy everything? Is it possible for you to make some of your own drinks for instance? What about the snacks you eat?

 

Example: In my home we make great tasting drinks from pineapple peels (based on a concept I developed in 2013, during my first year in Cotonou) along with various home baked products like cakes, cookies, chin-chin, African-style Pizza, bread etc. On each child’s birthday, the others join hands to make food and drinks for the family celebration – including cakes topped with icing.

 

The drinks in particular cost next to nothing because the major raw material is pineapple peels obtained free from fruit sellers in the neighborhood. The kids love it, as does their grandmother who gets sent bottled units most times we make them.

 

Every now and then the kids still buy and eat commercial soft drinks, but most times this homemade drink of ours is what they make, and it saves us money even as it is healthy.

The same thinking can be successfully applied to whatever you do in your business.

For instance, how many things are you currently doing with money to promote your business?

One of the things I say all the time is that today, PC and Internet technology puts so much power in people’s hands, but the lack of resourcefulness of people keep holding them back from using it to excel!

Do you understand how to SAVE some of that money by using the web to promote your products/services to your desired target audience?

If you do, how well are you succeeding? What can you do differently to get even better results?

 

The answers to all those questions relate directly to your ability to be resourceful – not how  much money you have, or are willing to throw at your Internet Marketing efforts.

Indeed, zero cost web marketing is a reality that MANY people live everyday – people like ME. So what I’m saying here is not just wishful thinking. I LIVE this stuff – and my resourcefulness is what makes it possible for me, and similar others to do so.

By the way, just in case you’re one of those who think your kind of business cannot be marketed effectively using the web, let me assure you that NOTHING could be further from the truth.

Only you and your willingness to think creatively – or your willingness to be resourceful in making use of the web – can determine your success, or otherwise!

It does not matter if you sell caskets or (what Yoruba’s in Nigeria call) “Ponmo” (i.e. cooked animal hide/skin) – the web is there for you to use to succeed. It is malleable – you can mould it to suit your unique business marketing needs.

Regardless of what kind of business you run or what part of the planet you are operating from. As long as Internet connectivity is accessible, your use of web marketing is bound to benefit your brand greatly.

The key is to KNOW HOW to use it to get the results you need. And that’s where being RESOURCEFUL becomes necessary.

That is the factor that separates those who get useful lasting results from those who don’t. It’s why people with less money, individuals sometimes, achieve superior marketing success for their brands compared to wealthier others – including organizations.

 

Final Words: A Lack of Ideas Can Hold You Back – A Lack of Money Cannot

Click here to read an article about a special kind of very low cost, but delicious chocolate cake recipe created during the period of economic depression (and called “Depression Cake”).

I came across it last week and the story about how a lack of money drove people living in those times to think up new creative ways to make foods they loved without needing to spend money like they used to, really resonated with me.

The same situation led to the creation of the Depression Sandwich.

In Nigeria, the secessionist Biafrans invented the use of a perennial evergreen weed as a replacement protein ingredient in livestock feed formulation, to survive the potentially crippling effect of the Nigerian government’s embargo. In other words, they had to be resourceful to find a solution to the problem they were faced with.

All of this is proof that the key to succeeding is not having money. Instead it’s about being creative, being resourceful, and being an ideas person!

This is the key to succeeding in any area of endeavor, under any economic situation, in any part of the world, in any culture you may have to operate under.

Once again I refer you to history. Read and you will find that some of the most creative ideas that make the world turn today, came through the efforts of some of the most financially deprived people , who had no financial means to pursue their goals with what privileged others would consider basic necessities.

So they had to learn to be resourceful in using what they had to get what they wanted, and to go where they needed to be!

If YOU want to achieve authentic success, for the long term, in spite of any form of adversity, be it economic recession, or depression, YOU WILL need to adopt a similar mindset!

When you’ve got RESOURCEFULNESS, it boosts your ability to attract what you lack (e.g money), or those who have it, and are willing to give it to you. Take it from me: I LIVE THIS STUFF!

 

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Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Best Practice Farm Business Support Specialist & Founder of the MS Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club and Competition

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

http://www.tayosolagbade.com

Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting, freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical Development Manager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerize manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.

Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy (SDAc).

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes The Farm CEO Weekly Newspaper (sent via email to paid subscribers) and his Weekly Performance Improvement IDEAS newsletter.

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts

he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to

SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

(TayoSolagbade.com launches extra Hosting plan with FREE Web Marketing!)

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old, NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name
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[Recommended] Even For the Really Successful, the Price of Success is Perseverance – by Whitney Johnson

If ANYONE – no matter how successful – tells you “secrets of success” s/he knows and does not mention “PERSEVERANCE” – or what some have called “Stick-to-it-iveness”, and which is also known as PERSISTENCE, take it from me: THAT person does NOT know what achieving authentic, non-corner-cutting success is about. Period.

The greatest achievers in the world have all acknowledged it in their various fields of endeavour, across various cultures on the planet.

Even without their saying anything, the true stories of how they rose to success tells enough of the needed truth that PERSEVERANCE can make up for ANY OTHER requirements a persons seeking success may lack.

That includes formal schooling of any sort – as proven by the amazing accomplishments of countless unschooled persons who have written themselves into the history books by sheer dint of hard work and persistence.

The quote below, credited to the great Steve Jobs further underscores the point I’m making here:

“I’m convinced that about half of what separates the successful entrepreneurs from the non-successful ones is pure perseverance.” – Steve Jobs

 

YES. When the chips are down (as the Americans would say), perseverance, is what you’ll really need to succeed. Anything else you lack will not be a fatal handicap – but a lack of PERSEVERANCE CAN be!

I know this from YEARS of studying the lives of hundreds of successful people – and also from deep reflection on my own personal achievements despite prolonged periods of heartbreaking struggles in the face of adversity, over 2 decades of my personal life…especially the last 14 years in which I have functioned as an entrepreneur.

The article previewed/linked below – authored by Whitney Johnson (publisher of the “Disrupt Yourself Podcast”) offers useful insights into the powerful role of perseverance in success achievement, based on the amazing accomplishments of Bernie Swain, the Founder and Chairman of Washington Speakers Bureau.

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Even For the Really Successful, the Price of Success is Perseverance – by  Whitney Johnson [Published on December 30, 2016]

My guest for episode eight of the Disrupt Yourself Podcast, Bernie Swain, exemplifies this as well as anyone I’ve ever met. Bernie is the Founder and Chairman of Washington Speakers Bureau and few, if any, are more influential in the lecture industry than he is. In his 35+ year career he has represented several U.S. Presidents and the last four Prime Ministers of Great Britain as well as numerous luminaries in business, media, sports, and politics. But his profession has required great discretion and confidentiality; Bernie’s impact transcends his fame. As the podcast demonstrates, Bernie has been a closet entrepreneur—in more ways than one.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/even-really-successful-price-success-perseverance-whitney-johnson
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Being Germ Free Can Make You UNHEALTHY [Hint: Why Intelligent Mistake Making Is the Key to Authentic Success Achievement]

In this piece, I discuss one very harmful mindset that can hold anyone back, from achieving authentic success.

By this I refer to the habit of avoiding mistakes.

Some people believe in avoiding mistakes at all costs. What they fail to realize is that a time tested way to learning quickly and effectively is by making mistakes – but doing so INTELLIGENTLY.

I call it IMM – Intelligent Mistake Making.

Some of the wisest people you can find are people who take risks to try new things.

People who have experienced the ups and downs of life. People who have made mistakes, learned their lessons/paid the price and moved on to success.

Sometimes they fail, have to get up and try again, and again, until they succeed. Indeed their are times they end up NOT succeeding. But the benefit is rarely ONLY in the final outcome. Quite often it is in the experience – what is learned in the process of trying and failing.

The minute a human being achieves a fault – or error – free status, I believe s/he needs to relocate to heaven.

There would be NOTHING else to remain on earth for. And that’s why I have little patience with persons who make too much of a big deal of mistakes. No one is ever going to be perfect – or free from defect. It is in fact our imperfect nature, which should give us a sense of purpose, if we wish to make our stay on earth worthwhile.

Nature itself offers lessons that buttress the above point. She demonstrates through our exposure to diseases, that we NEED to get a little dirty every now and then, in order to become stronger or “better”.

Let me explain: Those of use who live in Africa know that our children are born with marked natural immunity to Malaria, especially when compared to children born in places where that disease is not endemic.

Our children get their immunity from parents and also from exposure to malaria via mosquito bites. This same principle applies to the use of vaccines (which are produced using the disease causing organism which the vaccines is meant to act against).

In essence I’m saying that it is NOT beneficial to completely INSULATE ourselves from exposure to germs. Research evidence and real-life experiences confirm that 100% germ free environments may deny us the opportunity to develop some degree of natural resistance (via production of anitbodies in response to exposure) to common disease causing organisms, that we may encounter.

The implication of the above point was captured quite eloquently in a line I picked up from a martial arts movie I recently watched.

The star actor said:

“Water that is too pure, has no fish in it”.

I would put it this way:

“People who do not make mistakes, NEVER really achieve progress.”

And that’s the truth. But some people go through life claiming to be better than others, because no one sees them fail at anything.

Sometimes it’s NOT healthy to be too “clean”.

I argue that ANYONE who is not experiencing periodic failure (temporary defeat), is either NOT taking any risks, or is hiding those failures from others. Whatever the case, s/he stands to lose a lot from living that way.

As you start this new year, I ask you to face up to the challenge of getting yourself a little “dirty” (from failing/falling) as the opportunities present themselves (AND THEY WILL!). Your progress towards achieving self-actualisation will depend greatly on doing this.

On a final note, let me wish you joy, happiness, good health, and success in pursuit of your valued goals in 2017 and beyond.

QUOTES WE LOVE

“Water that is too pure, has no fish in it” -Unknown
Source: Line I picked up from a movie

“If you have made mistakes, even serious ones, there is always another chance for you. What we call failure is not the falling down, but the staying down.” ~ Mary Pickford

“An expert is a man who has made all the mistakes which can be made in a very narrow field.” ~ Niels Bohr

“Flops are part of life’s menu. Everyone makes mistakes. High achievers learn by their mistakes. By doing that, an error becomes the raw material out of which future successes are forged. Failure is not a crime. Failure to learn from failure is.”~ Unknown

“Mistakes are part of the dues one pays for a full life.”~ Sophia Loren

“The greatest mistake you can make in life is to be continually fearing you will make one.” ~ Elbert Hubbard

“If you aren’t making any mistakes, it’s a sure sign you are playing it too safe.” ~ John Maxwell

This article is based on a piece first published in 2012 via spontaneousdevelopment.com (now defunct).

[Recommended] Rediscovering the Kingdom: Ancient Hope for Our 21st Century World – by Myles Munroe

Chinese Consultant to Myles Munroe:

Can you tell me why it is that people of your particular pigmentation, no matter what country they reside in, generally do not quite break through to financial success?

To find out what Dr Myles Munroe’s answer to that VERY potent question was (as well as the Chinese gentleman’s most insightful response), click here to read it…

Buying the book that contains it would NOT be a bad idea too.

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If only those of us with that unique pigmentation referred to by the Chinese gentleman would be honest with ourselves, we would be able to do away with the wrong MENTALITY that’s stopping us from making the most of our God-given abilties, like people of other pigmentation have done so well for so long!

Did I mention that I think it would be a good idea for you to get yourself a copy of the above mentioned book??

 

 

 

 

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[Recommended] 10 Pieces of Horrible Advice Extraordinary Entrepreneurs Ignore – by Success.com

I am a keen student of human nature, and that makes me go to great lengths to study people, when interacting directly with them or observing from a distance.

My passion for “studying people” derives from a desire I have to be SURE of what to expect from those I interact with. And my desire  to be SURE comes from a need to avoid repeats of past painful experiences in which I misjudged people, and the value they had to offer, in a way that caused me major setbacks!

 

Over the past decade of my journey as an entrepreneur breaking new grounds offering custom spreadsheet software for sale in Nigeria/Africa, this passion of mine has come in quite handy.

For instance, it helped me more accurately evaluate unsolicited advice relentlessly thrown my way, by “concerned” nay-saying others.

In particular I learned to see through the antics of arm chair theorist-types, who always knew all there was to know about anything and everything – even more than me. And this despite the fact that they had little or no hands on experience doing what they saw me trying to do!

These “caring”  and relentless advice-givers are to be found everywhere, and they rarely see things they way YOU, doing it, will see it.

Instead, they will most times only see how what you want to do cannot work, or can only work the way THEY tell you it should be done.

Thankfully, I learned my lessons quite early on, after I suffered greatly by following the advice offered by some of them – and I resolved to subsequently follow my own counsel/instincts (But I do give fair consideration to any ideas from others that I consider potentially useful).

The ability to confidently think for yourself, and firmly make up your mind about what to do, in ANY area of endeavor, without out-rightly rejecting useful contributions from others, is a crucial requirement for achieving authentic long term success.

Among other benefits (such as peace of mind) it will equip you to sieve the wheat from the chaff in advice that others may offer you.
I say this because it has worked, and continues to work, for me.

The article linked below discusses “10 Pieces of Horrible Advice Extraordinary Entrepreneurs Ignore” – based on true life experiences shared by 10 extremely successful entrepreneurs. The tips shared in it resonate greatly with me – based on my personal experiences and achievements.

If you want to achieve SUSTAINABLE success, I recommend you read this article to identify those 10 pieces of horrible advice you need to ignore, to avoid derailing!

Preview: Everyone gets bad advice. These entrepreneurs made millions by ignoring it.

Entrepreneurs receive tons of advice from mentors, peers, customers and friends. Some of it’s great. Most of it isn’t. These mega-successful entrepreneurs, who are also members of The Oracles, share the worst advice they’ve ever received—and why you should ignore it.

1. Set reasonable targets.

You should be setting unachievable goals and targets.

Continue reading…

http://www.success.com/article/10-pieces-of-horrible-advice-extraordinary-

[Recommended] Reflection: Always count your blessings – by Strive Masiyawa

One sure sign of a great achiever is the ability to own up to one’s failures, foibles/weaknesses and shortcomings in general. A successful person who never shares stories of when s/he was not fully clued up about things, and was still struggling to get things to work right is likely to be hiding something. Nobody goes from zero to hero without making a few mistakes or struggling at one or more points on the way to success.

Strive Masiyawa continues to impress me with his massive honesty and transparency, with regard to his rise to success. He never hesitates to publish, often in elaborate detail, specific examples from his true life story of when he was far from being “cool” and “smart”. This latest article on his Facebook page provides an excellent case in point.

He uses his story to teach the rest of us about the need to exercise gratitude to the creator for whatever befalls us. More importantly, you learn that it pays to NOT jump to conclusions about anything that happens to you, even if it looks final.

Sometimes there will be behind-the-scenes efforts being made on your behalf, that you may be unaware of. So long as you maintain a Positive Mental Attitude, with faith, things will turn out right for you. Mr. Masiyawa’s story illustrates this perfectly.

Here’s a preview, ending with the link to read the full version of this powerfully insightful piece.

When my business was still very small, I once found myself facing a crushing cash flow crisis. My biggest concern was finding money to meet the payroll, and this one month, it just seemed impossible.

Being a believer, I prayed every day for a miracle as the deadline drew closer. One morning, it came into my spirit to approach a very wealthy businessman whom I knew was also a man of faith, and would hopefully appreciate my situation. I went to his office, and said to him boldly that I believed God wanted him to help me. To my shock and disappointment, he turned me down flat.

I left his office and continued to try and get the money. Eventually an old friend of mine who ran a bank called me out of the blue and helped me out with a small loan. He didn’t even ask me for a guarantee, which surprised me. This same banker friend continued to extend to me little loans whenever I was in trouble, and he never asked for a guarantee of any kind.

Many, many years later, when I was much more successful, the banker friend of mine disclosed to me something very shocking…

Click here to continue reading on Strive Masiyawa’s page

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In 2002, I quit paid employment to launch my own business providing commercial Excel-VB software development solutions.

The market for this solution was non-existent at the time – in my country, Nigeria. People simply did NOT see what I saw. I got laughed at for YEARS for thinking and daring to SAY I believed I could sell MS Excel workbooks!

The idea sounded ludicrous to them, and quite a number felt they knew as much as I did about Excel, if not more.

But my passion and conviction kept me going, and I carefully identified gaps in the data recording, analysis, report generation fields in various markets, till I narrowed down to those where my solution could make a useful impact people would gladly pay for.

Today, I have a growing base of followers, prospects and clients from within and outside Africa…

Apart from verifiable evidence of client purchases I’ve shared in many true stories on this blog, the fact that professionals in various fields are joining my newly launched Excel-VB club, and referring colleagues and friends to signup as well (following the maiden edition of my FREE monthly Excel-VB workshop) lends credence to my claims.

The above proves that acquiring Excel-VB competence is now being seen as a worthwhile investment in this part of the world, that can boost your competitiveness in paid or self-employment as a professional in your field. This has been the case in developed societies across the world for over 2 decades: we in Africa have been left behind for so long!

If you’re self-employed, your spreadsheet automation competence will give you a seriously unfair advantage over your competitors, and help you deliver MORE value to clients in a way that makes them gladly pay you MORE.

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Persisting Despite Discouragement Is the Key to Succeeding Anywhere

“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; unrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” – Calvin Coolidge

In 2004 (then my third year as a start-up entrepreneur, since quitting paid employment), the CEO of a small business specializing in providing IT solutions, laughed in my face, after I told him I offered custom MS Excel-Visual Basic Software Development Solutions for a fee.

He said “Huh, who’s going to pay you to do that kind of thing?”

It’s important to note here that his reaction, as one who had been in business, on a formal basis, about 5 years before me, had serious potential impact on my state of mind. Especially with regard to how I thought of myself and what I believed I had to offer my target audience in the marketplace.

By dismissing what I said the way he did, my conviction about my concept was challenged and shaken to the root.

“I have never started a company that, at some point, didn’t cause me to have doubts. This must be a stupid idea because no one else is doing it. Why don’t people get it? Maybe there is nothing there” We all have self doubts, but as entrepreneurs we don’t let these thoughts stop us. It is only a sanity check and is a normal thing.” – Fran Tarkenton (Former Football Star/Millionaire Entrepreneur)

Luckily for me however, my 7 year stay in paid employment as one who rose rapidly to success breaking many boundaries in terms of productivity and age of achievement, gave me something to draw on.

It so happened that a lot of my success was directly related to my ability to convince business users in the company across various departments, that spreadsheet automation could make them more productive.

As a result, I was able to use my skills to develop useful real life applications that solved major data handling and report generation problems faced by departmental and sectional heads in the company.

Over time, I gain major career benefits in various forms due to my efforts. It was the insights I gained from doing all that which convinced me that spreadsheet automation solutions could be profitably provided to a larger audience.

Hence my decision to quit my job and do it for a living.

Today, the growing success I enjoy selling my custom apps to buyers within and outside Africa proves I was right.

But I had to start by believing in myself and rejecting the negative suggestions from naysayers I came across as I worked towards success.

At the risk of stating the obvious, success did not come easily or quickly. Out here in Nigeria/Africa, up till now the spreadsheet automation industry is still very young.

Out here in Nigeria/Africa, I continue to struggle to find experts doing what I’m doing i.e. building and selling custom automated spreadsheet apps, IN ADDITION to providing custom development services to individual and group clients.

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My story confirms that success achievement requires not just competence, but a willingness to PERSEVERE or PERSIST until one achieves the desired outcome.

This is the truth.

But it’s NOT a truth that people LEARN in school.

Most “teachers” don’t know this truth, so they are unable to pass it on to those they TEACH.

The result is that too many schooled ADULTS fail to understand that their ability to DEAL with and OVERCOME delays, disappointments, setbacks, failures, and other forms of adversity and unpleasantness in life is THE KEY to achieving sustainable authentic success in any area of endeavor.

One word can be used to describe that ability, and that’s “PERSISTENCE”.

And it is more important than ANY academic credentials they may possess or acquire. Indeed, while lack of formal schooling may NOT often be a fatal handicap, a shortage of PERSISTENCE can sentence a person to a life of perpetual failures.

Proof of this can be seen all around us in form of countless highly successful people, with minimal or no schooling, who just STUBBORNLY kept trying again and again and again, each time they fell, until, making intelligent changes to what they were doing, UNTIL they succeeded.

The quote below underscores what I’ve said above:

“Nothing in this world can take the place of persistence. Talent will not: nothing is more common than unsuccessful men with talent. Genius will not; u1nrewarded genius is almost a proverb. Education will not: the world is full of educated derelicts. Persistence and determination alone are omnipotent.” – Calvin Coolidge

[Recommended] Telltale Signs You’re Dealing With an Emotional Manipulator

I’ve written a few articles (see linked below) on Emotional Intelligence, based on my studies of the works of pioneering experts like Daniel Goleman, as well as my experiences making conscious use of what I learned in the real world.

This article (published on LinkedIn Pulse) offers VERY useful insights into the dangers you may expose yourself to, IF you fail to develop the needed social intelligence to identify, and effectively MANAGE emotionally manipulative people in your life. The ability to assert one’s self is key dimension of being Emotionally Intelligent, Quite often, it can determine how well you can go on to achieve long term, sustainable success.

The article linked below offers potentially useful insights you can explore.

Telltale Signs You’re Dealing With an Emotional Manipulator

We all know what it feels like to be emotionally manipulated. It can be extremely effective, which is why some unscrupulous individuals do it so much.

A few years ago, Facebook, in conjunction with researchers from Cornell and the University of California, conducted an experiment in which they intentionally played with the emotions of 689,000 users by manipulating their feeds so that some users only saw negative stories while others only saw positive stories. Sure enough, when these people posted their own updates, they were greatly influenced by the mood of the posts they’d been shown.

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/telltale-signs-youre-dealing-emotional-manipulator-bradberry?trk=hp-feed-article-title-share

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