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PII 073 : You Need Superior After Sales Support to Win Repeat Business & Unsolicited Referrals

Before you paid for the product/service, the seller was courteous, and told you all the things you wanted to hear. Convinced, you paid him/her.

But when you finally got the product/service delivered to you, and subsequently had a need to request support to solve a problem or use it, s/he was not as forthcoming as before.

Especially when you had to make repeat requests for more support, due to the fact that the issue you’d raised had not been addressed too your satisfaction.

The above scenario is one that many of us can readily relate to on a personal level. In this article, I illustrate, using a real  life client story, how providing superior after-sales support to buyers can lead to repeat business and powerful referrals for you as a business owner!

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Monday 2rd July 2017

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NB: This PI Squared newsletter will be published weekly, on Mondays, in place of the Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter, starting from today – 15th February 2016.
I’m reinventing my Monday newsletter content and theme, to accommodate my vision of serving the growing audience of serious minded individuals and organizations reaching out to me, with information, education. news and research findings designed to help them do what they do better.

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PII 073 : You Need Superior After Sales Support to Win Repeat Business & Unsolicited Referrals

Before you paid for the product/service, the seller was courteous, and told you all the things you wanted to hear. Convinced, you paid him/her.

But when you finally got the product/service delivered to you, and subsequently had a need to request support to solve a problem or use it, s/he was not as forthcoming as before.

Especially when you had to make repeat requests for more support, due to the fact that the issue you’d raised had not been addressed too your satisfaction.

The above scenario is one that many of us can readily relate to on a personal level. In this article, I illustrate, using a real  life client story, how providing superior after-sales support to buyers can lead to repeat business and powerful referrals for you as a business owner!

How you treat your buyers AFTER they’ve sent you money for the product or service you promise them matters…if you want to GROW your brand and be positively recognized for what you do, in a manner that generates sales for you.

Sadly, despite the fact that most people know the above truth, many fail to diligently apply themselves to making sure they deliver what they promise once prospective buyers/clients send them money.

This is especially true in my part of the world – Nigeria/Africa – for people who do business face to face. Little wonder then that most people out here are wary of doing business with others via the web, in which case they are unable to interact one on one, physically, with the seller.

Simply put, the crucial ingredient of TRUST, which is the basis of which long term successful business relationships are built, is often hard to establish out here.

The irony is that in this same society, those who take the pains to make themselves worthy of being given trust by their target audiences, often achieve superior sales results that prove it’s the right way to do business.

One therefore wonders why the majority still find it hard to do business in that ideal way

Being the keen student of human behavior that I am, I have carefully studied people engaged in business dealings with me, and others for a long time, in order to understand why they behave the way they do.

My observations and experiences convince me that the number one reason why majority of business persons find it hard to keep their promises to buyers after they collect money, is that they lack passion for what they do.

You see, sending or giving the product to the buyer is NOT what it takes to keep your promise to him/her.

Nope. Anyone can do that i.e. send a product or deliver a service to the buyer.

It’s how well you do it, and what you do AFTER the buyer has received the product/service that counts!

For instance, what would you do, if for some reason s/he has to come back to you for something related to the purchase s/he has made, which will NOT involve giving you more money?

It’s never exciting to have to redo a job, or replace a product. But sometimes an authentic client complaint can make it necessary to do just that, if one is to show integrity.

In other words, s/he may have a complaint about something not looking or working right with the provided solution.

Or s/he could be in need to your guidance to make successful use of it. How you respond to such follow up (after sales) requests is what really tells anyone if you are able to keep your promise to buyers.

Sellers who are able to respond satisfactorily frequently end up setting themselves apart from the crowd of others, and typically find themselves followed and patronized by a tribe of loyal buyers.

Business owners who sell in the above described manner typically end up getting a lot of repeat business from their clients

I say this from VERY personal experience. It is how I live and work – and I enjoy a lot of repeat business from doing so.  I have lots of true stories to tell, including names and contact details of buyers involved, to back up my claims.

Let me share a most recent example, which happened during the past week…

Below is a screenshot showing an email sent to me by a new Farm CEO client confirming that he’d finally been able to resolve the problem he’d been having making use of my Excel-VB Ration Formulator, which he’d purchased along with the Feed Formulation Handbook.

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Below is my response to him…see the URL to the code  of ethics I referred to here (click now)

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We’d had to exchange a series of emails in which I’d gotten him to give me specific details of the problems he was having, to which I then offered tips for him to use.

Eventually, as the screenshots below show, he used the video I recorded showing how I logged in successfully to his copy of the app, to revisit what he was doing and get the app working right for him.

What is most noteworthy however is the fact that he specifically expressed appreciation to me for “being there” to support him all through that process (See screenshot above)

You must understand that all through the entire episode, I consistently told him that I was sure the app would work as expected and that I would support him to get it to do so.

My confidence came from years of supporting other clients to make use of that app, and others that I sell. So, I knew it was unlikely to be anything wrong with my product.

But that did not make me get impatient with the client. I understood, as is stated in my code of ethics, that not everyone has the time and training to make use of solutions like those I sell.

So, I go the extra mile to support ALL my buyers – way beyond what most providers would willingly do.

Now, some people would consider doing the above as an invitation to get used and dumped by clients.

My Web Marketing System for client recruitment however ensures I rarely have such an experience – because those who come to me will often have invested heavily upfront in what I sell (taking a leap of faith since they cannot meet me face to face) BEFORE I even start working with them in this manner.

And THAT is why I never find it difficult to do all I do for my clients.

Apart from the fact that I have a passion for what I do, and therefore do not see it as work, but as fun, the truth is that doing it like I do, often gives my clients the confidence to make additional purchases from me – as happened with the client example I gave above.

[NB; I could have done what many others do i.e simply stop responding. Some do this because they are sure the fault is the client’s. Others do it because they don’t care once they’ve been paid. Neither attitude is right. And those sellers who act in that manner rarely get to record repeat business from such buyers!]

See screenshot below for his email stating that he’d sent payment to take up a promo offer I’d sent him right not long after I’d told him what to do for me to help him resolve his problem with the product he already bought.

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Notice that I did NOT even wait to solve THAT first pending problem for him, before making my offer. That shows just how confident I was that it was NOT something to worry about.

Little wonder that he chose to sign up – and the best part is that he ended up resolving the problem himself.

If you form the habit of being there for your client when it matters most, especially LONG after taking money from him/her, rest assured that s/he will NEVER forget you for it, and will tell others about you. Nothing beats unsolicited word of mouth advertisement – which is what THAT amounts to!

 

Excel-VB Driven Ration Formulator

Click to view larger screenshot

1. Click here to learn more about this app – watch demo videos etc

2. Click here to watch a 4 part video in which I demonstrate how to use this app to formulate rations using real life data sent to me by an Algerian PhD student.

Click here to contact me about purchasing this product.

EXCEL-VB DRIVEN POULTRY LAYER FARM MANAGER SOFTWARE

Click here to download a detailed PDF user guide and watch 15 screen shot user guide tutorials of the Monthly Poultry Farm Manager that I now offer Farm CEOs.

Click here to watch a screenshot demonstration of the Excel-VB Driven Poultry Farm Manager I built for a client farm business in Ekiti state, South West Nigeria.

Click here to contact me about purchasing this product.

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New posts from last week*

Monday:

[Wednesday]:

[Thursday]:

[FREE PDF DOWNLOAD FOR YOUR WEEKEND] HOW TO MAKE YOURSELF UNRETRENCHABLE!

[Friday]: 

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[Saturday]:

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[Sunday]:

The FARM CEO (Issue 87): New Ideas for Feed Formulation in Africa [How to make your own pig feed on the farm, The A-Z of making your own quality chicken feed at home to cut costs

[EXCEL HEAVEN TUTORIAL] Part 2 – How I Built My Automated Cash Book/Bank Reconciliation Software” [One Key Ingredient You Need for Successful Spreadsheet Software Development]

Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Best Practice Farm Business Support Specialist & Founder of the MS Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club and Competition

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

http://www.tayosolagbade.com

Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting, freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical Development Manager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerize manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.

Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy (SDAc).

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes The Farm CEO Weekly Newspaper (sent via email to paid subscribers) and his Weekly Performance Improvement IDEAS newsletter.

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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[IMPORTANT NOTE:====

On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

(TayoSolagbade.com launches extra Hosting plan with FREE Web Marketing!)

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old, NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name
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View Tayo Solagbade's video tutorials and demonstrations on Facebook Productivity Tips, Web Marketing, and for his Custom MS Excel-VB driven software applicationsJoin the SD Nuggets community on Facebook.comConnect with Tayo on Twitter.comConnect with Tayo on Google PlusConnect with Tayo on LinkedIn.com

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We Badly Need An Unconventional More Real World Relevant Education System [Hint: The Key to Eliminating Youth Unemployment]

“Here’s to the crazy ones. The misfits. The rebels. The troublemakers. The round pegs in the square holes. The ones who see things differently. They’re not fond of rules. And they have no respect for the status quo. You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them. About the only thing you can’t do is ignore them. Because they change things. They push the human race forward. And while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius. Because the people who are crazy enough to think they can change the world, are the ones who do.” – Rob Siltanen

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In my best practice parenting articles at (www.tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets) over the past decade, I’ve advocated a total and radical overhaul of the conventional Education System the children, especially in my part of the world (in Nigeria/Africa) are exposed to.

Understandably, not many parents and educators are happy with the ideas I propose.

But that does not matter.

This is a change that can cause youth unemployment to be drastically reduced – and we all want THAT!

I know their “majority” disagreement does not matter because I’ve been down the road of believing “alone” in an unpolpular but viable idea before – and have been proved right many times!

Indeed, reactions in some quarters, to my contrarian Ideas as a Best Practice Parenting Advocate, remind me of how my now widely accepted idea of selling custom Excel-VB Solutions (see (www.excelheaven.biz) got me roundly mocked, ridiculed and criticised everywhere I offered them less than a decade ago!

And that’s why I rarely bother about those who disagree with me on ideas my experiences already convince me about.

The quote I began with – above – captures my sentiments perfectly in this regard.

Rob Siltanen’s quoted words resonate with me in terms of the success I enjoy today selling “ordinary” Excel files and my writing skills internationally, 100% via the web – despite being told “Who’s going to pay you to do that here? This is NOT America” when I started out over 10 years ago!

I chose to think and act different from what I saw others doing. Irefused to let the crowd force me to change. Today people relate with/buy from me as if what I do and how I do it is normal and common place.

But in reality, even now, I remain more the exception than the norm!

This is why I remain resolute in my conviction about the need to give my kids real world relevant education that empowers them to be financially independent much earlier in life.

I’ve evolved a model that contradicts conventional wisdom about educating young people.

It is based on eye opening and often painful experiences I’ve had in my adult life, AFTER undergolng conventional education in my society and excelling at it – only to discover it was far from adequate to prepare me for success in tje real world of my society!

The modified approach I advocate, puts Income Earning Vocational Skills Based Training at the foundation of every child’s exposure to formal education. My kids are being taken through this system already and the positive and lasting benefits are apparent despite inevitable teething problems.

I predict that a few years from now, parents and their kids WILL be asking me and miy kids for ideas about how to achieve the results we will be putting on record. Mark my words!

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PII 072 [AUDIO PODCAST] : How to Get STRANGERS to GLADLY Pay for YOU Online [True Story – WaleIbidunni.com and www.nanaarnold.com]

In this special audio podcast version of my Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter, I narrate a VERY recent true story which PROVES that a Web Marketing System (WMS) can equip you to achieve what others consider miracles – or impossibilities!

The 2 websites mentioned in the above title (i.e. WaleIbidunni.com and www.nanaarnold.com) would NOT be online and LIVE today, if I had lacked the kind of WMS I have built over the years, that enables me get TOTAL STRANGERS, to send me money without worrying that I would NOT deliver the agreed product or service to them.

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(PI Squared) Newsletter

Monday 26th June 2017

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NB: This PI Squared newsletter will be published weekly, on Mondays, in place of the Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS newsletter, starting from today – 15th February 2016.
I’m reinventing my Monday newsletter content and theme, to accommodate my vision of serving the growing audience of serious minded individuals and organizations reaching out to me, with information, education. news and research findings designed to help them do what they do better.

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View Tayo Solagbade's video tutorials and demonstrations on Facebook Productivity Tips, Web Marketing, and for his Custom MS Excel-VB driven software applicationsJoin the SD Nuggets community on Facebook.comConnect with Tayo on Twitter.comConnect with Tayo on Google PlusConnect with Tayo on LinkedIn.com

PII 072 [AUDIO PODCAST] : How to Get STRANGERS to GLADLY Pay for YOU Online [True Story – WaleIbidunni.com and www.nanaarnold.com]

In this special audio podcast version of my Performance Improvement Ideas (PII) newsletter, I narrate a VERY recent true story which PROVES that a Web Marketing System (WMS) can equip you to achieve what others consider miracles – or impossibilities!

The 2 websites mentioned in the above title (i.e. WaleIbidunni.com and www.nanaarnold.com) would NOT be online and LIVE today, if I had lacked the kind of WMS I have built over the years, that enables me get TOTAL STRANGERS, to send me money without worrying that I would NOT deliver the agreed product or service to them.
Last week, specifically on the 20th of June 2017, I achieved yet another milestone in my success achievement online when I got a UK based professional, who has NEVER met with me, to send fund my web hosting reseller account online, with $100 USD that I then used to process pending payments for domain/hosting renewals for both websites to beat a DELETION deadline for one of them.
The gentleman had previously repeatedly reached out to me since 2014/5, regarding his personal plans, and how I could help him. But we had/have NOT even agreed what I should do for him, so this payment he made on my behalf was FUTURISTIC in nature.
Can you BEAT THAT!???? 
Even the owner of the website that almost got deleted did NOT expect me to get it done this way – especially after I had failed to secure alternative means to get my own payment cards BEFORE the deadline for deletion. 
 
Indeed, I would NOT blame him for being in denial about the status of his website online. Afterall, how easy is it to believe this kind of thing can happen out here?!
But I NEVER gave up you see. Hence the result I got – and often get – in chasing my goals.
And THAT is what MANY people do not know how to do. They not only give up easily,. but they also try to give up on behalf of the person who refuses to give up.
In the 5MB (30 minute long) MP3 podcast file linked below, I narrate the FULL story of how I pulled off this feat, so as to document it for record purposes and to offer it as a source of inspiration to others.
That way, if/when they find themselves in a similar hopeless looking situation, they WILL remember that they can still THINK up a way to succeed, despite adversity, by having blind faith and a refusal to recognise failure like I HABITUALLY DO!.
Check out both websites – to get a feel for what they are about.
1. www.waleibidunni.com – this is a new site that is work in progress
2. www.nanaarnold.com – this is a website I built for a legal consultant client based in Cotonou in 2014. An update of links and contents is imminent due on the site.

Click here (Right-click) to download the MP3 podcast file and start listening:

Below: Offer email I sent to T.A, the UK based Nigerian professional who helped fund my online account

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Below: Screenshot of my Resellerclub.com account interface showing the receipt generated following funding of my account by T.A

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Below: Screenshot of automated email notification sent by Resellerclub.com to my email inbox showing the receipt generated following funding of my account by T.A

 

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Below: Screenshot of automated notifications received in my inbox as I processed payments for both websites’ renewals

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Final Words; Watch out for the Video based version of this message!

Like I noted in the audio podcast, I will be publishing a video based version of this message on Wednesday, with screenshots shown above and more, including verbatim transcript excerpts from the audio message.

Click here to join my mailing list, if you wish to be notified when the video version goes LIVE

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3. Nigerian Banks Need to Put Customers First and Stop Thinking Money Only [Hint – TayoSolagbade.com is BACK Online: After being let down BADLY by my bank, an individual Referred to me by a TRUSTED Farm CEO client, uses his Dollar Card to enable me pay for my website’s hosting renewal!]

Excel-VB Driven Ration Formulator

Click to view larger screenshot

1. Click here to learn more about this app – watch demo videos etc

2. Click here to watch a 4 part video in which I demonstrate how to use this app to formulate rations using real life data sent to me by an Algerian PhD student.

Click here to contact me about purchasing this product.

EXCEL-VB DRIVEN POULTRY LAYER FARM MANAGER SOFTWARE

Click here to download a detailed PDF user guide and watch 15 screen shot user guide tutorials of the Monthly Poultry Farm Manager that I now offer Farm CEOs.

Click here to watch a screenshot demonstration of the Excel-VB Driven Poultry Farm Manager I built for a client farm business in Ekiti state, South West Nigeria.

Click here to contact me about purchasing this product.

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[RECOMMENDED] Meet South Africa’s youngest millionaire only at 23 CGTN Africa 1,014,527 views

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Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Best Practice Farm Business Support Specialist & Founder of the MS Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club and Competition

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

http://www.tayosolagbade.com

Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting, freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical Development Manager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerize manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.

Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy (SDAc).

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes The Farm CEO Weekly Newspaper (sent via email to paid subscribers) and his Weekly Performance Improvement IDEAS newsletter.

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

====
[IMPORTANT NOTE:====

On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

(TayoSolagbade.com launches extra Hosting plan with FREE Web Marketing!)

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old, NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name
==================

View Tayo Solagbade's video tutorials and demonstrations on Facebook Productivity Tips, Web Marketing, and for his Custom MS Excel-VB driven software applicationsJoin the SD Nuggets community on Facebook.comConnect with Tayo on Twitter.comConnect with Tayo on Google PlusConnect with Tayo on LinkedIn.com

Home |About | Contact | SD Nuggets™ | Speaking/Web Marketing IDEAS | Web Marketing Systems | Freelance Writing | MS Excel® Heaven™ | Cost-Saving Farm Biz Ideas

[RECOMMENDED] Meet South Africa’s youngest millionaire only at 23 CGTN Africa 1,014,527 views

This video is better watched by YOU, than narrated to you.

The comment reproduced below was made by a past viewer of the interview with this baby (teenage) faced 23 year old South African millionnaire – and it perfectly captures my sentiments about this young man’s achievement:

Such a great story. To take your university money and throw it into the forex market takes some guts. The truest definition of risk versus reward.

Watch the full video to learn how he achieved THAT feat!

https://youtube.com/watch?v=wV4DC9mC6U4&itct

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[RECOMMENDED] Lagos Opens Website To Register Undergraduates For Internship Scheme

I continue to shake my head at the irony of the situation in which supposed graduates from Nigerian institutions keep “NEEDING” brushing up and polishing to make them more “employable” AFTER they exit tertiary institutions they spent YEARS preparing in!

My argument remains that MANY of our kids are being made to pass through these institutions learning courses in fields they are VERY unlikely to easily find jobs in, or qualify for by way of employability.

It is my considered opinion that we NEED to get real and guide our kids to acquire real world relevant education based on their identified geniuses/talents.

That way, ALL this wasteful spending of money on pseudo-tertiary-education, that ends up needing the graduates to the “retrained”(!) to be able to ADD value to the real world, would not be necessary!!!

The news report previewed/linked below is heartwarming to the extent that it announces efforts by the Lagos State government to go beyond just giving jobs and training to graduates.

 

I say this especially because of the extra steps being taken  – as highlighted below – to develop a sustainable model that is built into the existing schooling system.

In a forthcoming article, I will publish transcript excerpts I’ve typed out from a video in which the Vocational Skills based education system of a European country with the highest Youth unemployment rate in the world, is compared with the College tuition based education system of a North American nation whose youth unemployment rates keep climbing.

The differences between results being obtained in both economies are stunning in their implications – and offer the rest of us valuable lessons on changes we need to make!

This is happening via what Lagos State Government calls the:

“Ready.Set.Work (RSW) scheme which is an entrepreneurship and employability initiative designed to equip final year students of tertiary institutions in the State with the right skills to add value to the society.”

Lagos is choosing to go a step further to (quote):

“…integrate the RSW into the education curriculum of the State, and also expand the modules as well as the benefiting institutions.”

Lagos Opens Website To Register Undergraduates For Internship Scheme

The Lagos State Government on Thursday announced the opening of its website to register intending applicants for the 2017 edition of Ready.Set.Work (RSW) scheme which is an entrepreneurship and employability initiative designed to equip final year students of tertiary institutions in the State with the right skills to add value to the society.

Special Adviser to Governor Akinwunmi Ambode on Education, Mr Obafela Bank-Olemoh, who disclosed this at a news conference in Lagos, Southwest Nigeria, said interested applicants would be able to access the website – www.readysetwork.com.ng from June 16, while the training would run from July 1 to September 16, 2017.

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[RECOMMENDED] Why Our Most Educated Generation is Struggling Financially – by Robert Kiyosaki

By many reports, the millennial generation is the most educated generation in US history—and by some stretch. Take a look at this graph from Pew Research.

Yet, they have a problem. Despite all this higher education, they have the highest levels of unemployment of any work demographic and they make 20 percent less than their parents did at the same stage of life.

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PII 070: Will Your Child’s Certificates and Degrees be Enough to Succeed in Life?

FACT: To give their kids the best chance of success in life, many parents today spend hefty sums to send them to the best schools – sometimes abroad. Sadly, many such kids eventually graduate and have to struggle, alongside less qualified others, to find good employment – or ending up underemployed!

Read also(*Added  on 23rd July 2017):

  1. [RECOMMENDED] BBC NEWS: Could subjects soon be a thing of the past in Finland?
  2. Schools Can Kill Your Child’s Creativity – IF You Don’t Apply These Tips
  3. A New Generation of Entrepreneurs PROVES That Our Schools Need To Offer a Different Kind of Education!
  4. Proof that Schooling Can Dis-Empower Your Child Economically!
  5. No. 153: A “Formula” Schools Need to Teach, But Don’t! (FREE PDF Report)
  6. Is Your Child Learning For School Or For Life?
  7. The Hood Does Not Make the Monk. School Uniforms Don’t Guarantee Learning!
  8. Don’t Let Wrong Teachers Make Your Child A Thinking Pigmy!

So s/he begins life doing a job s/he does not like for its pay and possibly work conditions, but which s/he feels obligated to hold on to, until something better shows up.

Very rarely, does s/he ever seriously contemplate exploring the option of starting his/her own business – even though it frequently promises much better rewards!

The reason that happens is that our kids go through life being told they only need to get good grades and then get a good job, to make it in life.

Very few parents ever tell them another formula exists i.e.

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PII 070: Will Your Child’s Certificates and Degrees be Enough to Succeed in Life?

FACT: To give their kids the best chance of success in life, many parents today spend hefty sums to send them to the best schools – sometimes abroad. Sadly, many such kids eventually graduate and have to struggle, alongside less qualified others, to find good employment – or ending up underemployed!

Read also(*Added  on 23rd July 2017):

  1. [RECOMMENDED] BBC NEWS: Could subjects soon be a thing of the past in Finland?
  2. Schools Can Kill Your Child’s Creativity – IF You Don’t Apply These Tips
  3. A New Generation of Entrepreneurs PROVES That Our Schools Need To Offer a Different Kind of Education!
  4. Proof that Schooling Can Dis-Empower Your Child Economically!
  5. No. 153: A “Formula” Schools Need to Teach, But Don’t! (FREE PDF Report)
  6. Is Your Child Learning For School Or For Life?
  7. The Hood Does Not Make the Monk. School Uniforms Don’t Guarantee Learning!
  8. Don’t Let Wrong Teachers Make Your Child A Thinking Pigmy!

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So s/he begins life doing a job s/he does not like for its pay and possibly work conditions, but which s/he feels obligated to hold on to, until something better shows up.

Very rarely, does s/he ever seriously contemplate exploring the option of starting his/her own business – even though it frequently promises much better rewards!

The reason that happens is that our kids go through life being told they only need to get good grades and then get a good job, to make it in life.

Very few parents ever tell them another formula exists i.e. the route of self-employment or entrepreneurship. And THAT journey can be started more or less at the same time as formal schooling.

Some people argue that that a child should not engage in income earning activities while schooling – and even call it child abuse. I argue that THAT is not correct, because it is the “HOW” of it that matters.

I’ve schooled with orphans and indigent students (and I’ve also had clients who told me that as kids they) had to work to pay their way through school – for various reasons.

What I found out was that those experiences forced them to mature faster and develop competencies to arrive adulthood readier to succeed in spite of adversity in the real world, than many of their peers, who did not have to fend for themselves to complete their education.

Conventional schools are not telling learners the truth about what they need to know and have to achieve what Nigerian society defines as success.

That’s the key: First we need to define what society’s expectations of them will be!

[NB: This does not mean they have to accept those expectations. Instead, it’s about PREPARING the kids to deal with those demands and expctations psychologically or otherwise.]

Will their certificates and degrees be enough? Or will they be measured based on how much money they have regardless of their educational attainments?

Truth be told, the latter is the reality that confronts us today.

Most people in society pay MORE attention to how much material possessions and money you have, than they do to your academic qualifications or credentials.

It’s also why no one seems to care how others make money anymore. Once you have it, people fall in line and “respect you”. The well schooled person unable to function in a crooked society that does not recognize merit, then ends up being ridiculed about “blowing grammar and knowing too much book”

That’s why blatant bribery and corruption in schools and religious institutions is so rampant.

Smart best practice parents will focus on identifying what works, to ensure their honest, upright, do-things-the-right-ways kids don’t end up getting frustrated in the society after they leave school

My views on this subject have been shaped by my experiences as a product of the conventional schooling system.

I excelled in paid employment – but encountered serious absence of fair and impartial systems to reward my efforts in entrepreneurship – until I developed a system that greatly reduced my need to interact directly with people in my society to make money I needed.

The pain and suffering I passed through taught me that Vocational Skills Based Schooling is the safest and most reliable way to educate a child for self-actualization – especially in Nigeria.

Any school system that cannot provide a real world relevant vocational (NOT hobbies) base for education of learners will NOT have access to my kids.

I see today’s conventional schooling not counting in society and honesty/integrity being ridiculed.

In Nigeria, this problem is compounded by the fact that those who have no work routinely have more money than those who do.

This is a fact that stares us in the face DAILY.

Yet we continue using an education system that fails to eliminate that embarrassing imbalance!

The question I continue to ask is: Must everyone pass through the same educational system? Does everyone NEED to pass through the same TRAINING?

The answer of course is NO. We all differ from one another – and our unique abilities will often determine what method of learning best suits EACH of us.

Like I’ve said in the past, human beings are not like livestock (poultry, pigs etc). We cannot be reared in uniform BATCHES based on the same menu of INPUT.

To do so would be to damage the individuality of each person.  Room has to be made for the unique needs of each person!

Our conventional schooling system tries to force ALL learners into the same mould – and THAT is wrong!

That’s why Sir Ken Robinson said it damage creativity.

Little wonder that many gifted kids emerge from it looking and acting clueless most times. It is also why we keep coming across trained medical doctors who switch careers late in life to finds success and fulfillment in professional soccer or fashion design!

In Nigeria, it is why our kids who graduate from our schools are getting described as “unemployable”. And it’s also why the idea of self-employment is so difficult for most of our graduates to comprehend!

The status update shown in the screenshot below, posted by Charles Ayo Dada features powerfully thought provoking rhetorical questions that underscore the point I’m making here…

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Like he wrote: “…It seems our spirits are in recession. We suffer from lack in the midst of plenty.Click here to read the status update.

Once a child can read and write competently, s/he can learn any subject s/he has interest in.

I’m training my kids to develop a firm vocational skills “reflex” as a basis for their academic studies. In other words, they are being taught to identify vocations they LOVE and channel their academic energies towards theoretical and practical mastery of it i.e. killing two birds with one stone.

This will make them creative thinking self-directed learners.

Our schools are forcing kids to study subjects they often do not need to manifest their genius and find their purpose in life.

We fail to realize the real ultimate and most important goal of schooling. As a parent who was brilliant in passing thru the school system, the experiences I’ve had in life have taught me that our conventional schools focus on teaching too little of what matters the most in the real world – especially the hands-on practical stuff that have to do with living a successful life!

In today’s Nigeria, most people are just mindlessly doing what others have done, with regard to educating their kids, without checking to see if a better way exists.

Considering the fact that those who received similar schooling in the past, are today walking the streets struggling in spite of the obeying the “Every child must go to school” law, I wonder why this is so!

Ask yourself: What kind of schooling system has society made available? Does it give my child what s/he needs to succeed in the real world of the Nigerian society?

The answer my objective evaluation gave me was NO.

So I decided to develop a complementary program of my own that would give my kids a better foundation to protect their minds against future exposure.

Today we use a technology and exercise based model, with a vocational bias to progress. They carry out specific tasks including but not limited to book work.

I argue that taking exams is not the only way to evaluate learning achieved. Indeed passing exams is no guarantee of success anywhere in the world, especially outside paid employment.

Now, while we’re on the subject of exams…

It’s funny that I did not know about it earlier, but there are apparently societies that do not require kids to take exams at certain levels – yet the kids that pass through their schooling systems still excel internationally.

Sadly, many Nigerian parents don’t even know this truth.

And those who do already engage in crooked dealings they see others do to get ahead outside paid employment. As a result, they don’t care what schools do because they know they’ll be helping their kids cut corners like they did!

I’m therefore not concerned about such parents.

It’s those law abiding, hardworking and honest parents who fail to see this problem with the Nigerian school system and society, as it can (and often will) negatively affect their kids that I feel sorry for!

This is a precursor to our forthcoming Quick Start Guide Book titled “How to Cheaply Make Cup Cakes without an Oven or Cooker & Sell Them for Profit” – based on what we do, as a family.

 

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New posts from last week*

Monday:

[Wednesday]:

[Thursday]:

One Strategy Igbos Need to Learn From American Jews About Succeeding

[Friday]: 

[RECOMMENDED] Tackling the Rise of Fake Qualifications in Nigeria By Linus Unah on June 6, 2017

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The FARM CEO (Issue 84): Practical Poultry Farm Business Performance Calculations | Producing Good Catfish is Important, But Finding Good Buyers is Imperative!

Tayo K. Solagbade*

Self-Development/Performance Improvement Specialist

*Best Practice Farm Business Support Specialist & Founder of the MS Excel Heaven Visual Basic Automation Club and Competition

Mobile: +234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria) or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)

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Tayo K. Solagbade is a Location Independent Performance Improvement

Specialist and Multipreneur (i.e. a highly versatile/multi-skilled entrepreneur), with a bias for delivering Best Practice solutions to Farm Businesses and others.

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organizations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions, web marketing systems/web hosting, freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners).

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible™ and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator™ and the Poultry Farm Manager™ software.

He has delivered talks/papers to audiences in various groups and organizations, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods and others.

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development’s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years (October 1994 to December 2001) as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer to Training & Technical Development Manager, and later acted in senior roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.

In addition to constantly challenging the status quo and influencing positive work changes, he built a reputation for using self-taught spreadsheet programming skills (starting with Lotus 1-2-3, and later moving to Excel Visual Basic) – in his spare time – to develop Automated Spreadsheet Applications to computerize manual report generation processes in the departments he worked. Over four(4) of his applications were adopted for brewery level reporting.

Tayo holds a B.Sc degree in Agricultural Extension Services from the University of Ibadan, Nigeria, having graduated top of his class – with Second Class Upper Division honors – in 1992. He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management’s(NIM) Young Managers’ competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development™ (SCfS-D™), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy (SDAc).

When he’s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog – on which he also publishes The Farm CEO Weekly Newspaper (sent via email to paid subscribers) and his Weekly Performance Improvement IDEAS newsletter.

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com and Facebook.

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo’s 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net.

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR “reincarnation” of it the website http://www.tayosolagbade.com.

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts he’s published.

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.

Click “Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?” to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))

Here’s an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:

Succeed by Emerging from Adversity Like a Phoenix

(TayoSolagbade.com launches extra Hosting plan with FREE Web Marketing!)

And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old, NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:

A Proven Strategy to Find Profitable Buyers Regardless of Your Domain Name
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[RECOMMENDED] Tackling the Rise of Fake Qualifications in Nigeria By Linus Unah on June 6, 2017

The truths stated in THIS report is why I INSIST on empowering my kids with real world relevant income earning VOCATIONAL SKILLS as a MAJOR priority – a strategy I advocate for adoption by other parents.

Tackling the Rise of Fake Qualifications in Nigeria By Linus Unah on June 6, 2017

The disease of forging education certificates has infected every sphere of public life in Nigeria, including politics. In fact, several politicians have been embroiled in scandals involving fake certificates.

“Certificates are a big deal in Nigeria. From parents to corporates and the civil service, people attach as much value to educational certificates as to the skills, experience and attributes one has to offer.

This obsession with certificates has created a culture in which most school-goers are much more concerned with getting good grades than they are with acquiring the actual skills and competencies that would stand them in good stead after graduation.

And this – the overwhelming desire to rack up excellent grades – has stolen the joy that comes from studying to acquire a firm grasp on an academic discipline. It has also led many people to falsify their academic records for personal gain.”

Continue reading…

https://thisisafrica.me/tackling-rise-fake-qualifications-nigeria/

One Strategy Igbos Need to Learn From American Jews About Succeeding

[This article is a public service]

Nigeria’s Igbo people continue to complain of being under-recognised, under-appreciated, marginalized and generally sidelined in the affairs of the nation – despite what they consider their hefty contributions to its socio-economic development.

As a result, they’ve agitated more intensely to actualize their own separate state – Biafra.

But the latest news about a Northern Youths declaration against them (which government has rightly taken swift action to quell) suggests Igbos continue to NOT earn the empathy of others in the Nigerian nation, for their cause.

Why is this so? Why does it seem that the other tribes “hate” Igbos so much?

I argue in this piece that the reason the Igbo seem to attract so much negative reactions from others for their cause, is because they fail to go about achieving their goals, using a strategy that American Jews have successfully employed, for decades, to make themselves a silently dominant force in America – and the world.

What do I mean by the foregoing statement?

I’ll tell you….

Most of the resentment against Igbos, even when they travel out to live and work in other countries (as I’ve found ou from travels to places like Ghana, Cameroon, Benin Republic) derives from the fact that majority (but certainly NOT all) of the them tend to think and act without EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE.

A key dimension of EI for succeeding in interpersonal interactions, is the ability to put yourself in other people’s shoes.

In other words, to be sensitive to the impact your words and actions can have on others around you. To be considerate in all your dealings so that others do not get the feeling you do not respect them.

[TIP: I’ve written several articles that explain various dimensions of what EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE entails – linked at the bottom of the post]

Chinua Achebe admitted as much in the quote below taken from a report in which he had correctly enumerated many Igbo traits that made them achieve rapid advancement relative to other tribes in the new Nigerian state, post independence.

Why Nigerians Hate Igbo By Chinua Achebe

“….Achebe, however, saved some criticisms for his kinsmen. He criticised them for what he described as “hubris, overweening pride and thoughtlessness, which invite envy and hatred or even worse that can obsess the mind with material success and dispose it to all kinds of crude showiness.” He added that “contemporary Igbo behavior(that) cab offend by its noisy exhibitionism and disregard for humility and quietness.”

[Recommended] Why Nigerians Hate Igbo – by Chinua Achebe

Personally, I think the Igbo badly need to take notes – from AMERICAN JEWS – who have flourished for decades inspite of serious persecution, by SUBTLY and QUIETLY developing their full potential to achieve dominance in key areas of society without needlessly stirring up animosity and resentment from other social groups!

Igbos need to understand that acting with Emotional Intelligence in working to actualize your full potential, in a way that puts you ahead of others, is the key to succeeding in a win-win fashion, which makes others unlikely to be resentful of YOUR success!

Related Articles

1. [Recommended] Telltale Signs You’re Dealing With an Emotional Manipulator | SD Nuggets™

[Recommended] Telltale Signs You’re Dealing With an Emotional Manipulator

 

2. What Being Emotionally Intelligent Does Not Mean

http://ezinearticles.com/?What-Being-Emotionally-Intelligent-Does-Not-Mean&id=864816

 

3. Why Schools Need to Teach Emotional Intelligence [Hint: Your Success In Life – Academic Ability Matters LESS Than Your Emotional Intelligence]

Why Schools Need to Teach Emotional Intelligence [Hint: Your Success In Life – Academic Ability Matters LESS Than Your Emotional Intelligence]

4. A People’s Ability to Disagree Without Being Disagreeable is Crucial for Societal Advancement | Tayo Solagbade

http://tayosolagbade.com/sdnuggets/a-peoples-ability-to-disagree-without-being-disagreeable-is-crucial-for-societal-sdvancement-hint-why-too-many-of-todays-nigerians-are-often-too-angry-to-be-reasoned-with/

[RECOMMENDED] “You will never find white people wearing our hair” says Marah Louw, Former South African actress and singer

On Aug 1, 2014, I wrote my article titled: “Bleaching” Your Skin Insults Your Creator, and Makes You Lose Dignity (Message from Fela Anikulapo Kuti and Lupita Nyong’o to Black/African Parents & their Children)” – click here to read it.

Back then I had not really come across any notable African celebrity who has spoken out against skin bleaching and other ills like Lupita Nyong’O had been doing.

So, when last month I came across this news report about an interview in which Marah Louw has done just that, I knew I would need to republish it on this blog.

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I am SO tired of seeing phony looking African females trying to  dress, look and sound like (what they consider) classy white women.

And I am equally tired of watching many silly and misguided African males showing illogical preference for lighter skinned females in defining beauty and choosing their partners.

To protect my sons and daughters from these warped values, I will continue to write about them and actively discourage their perpetuation. Recommending this report is one of several ways I do that.

Read the full interview with Marah Louw below:

[RECOMMENDED] “You will never find white people wearing our hair” says Marah Louw, Former South African actress and singer,

Marah Louw a South African singer and actress was this week a guest on the DJ Sbu Breakfast show where she shared her thoughts on the “bleaching phenomenon” and “black self-loathing”. She feels that weaves and bleaching go against people “insulting” what God has created.

She said that she has always been against it because it boils down to “low self-esteem and self-loathe”.

“You will never find white people wearing our hair the way we [wear] other people’s hair; going all out like that. You will never find white people wearing afro wigs, black afro wigs to go out and stuff, unless it’s a [themed] party or the circus,” she added.

“Low self-esteem made us black people hate the colour of their skin, it made us feel like we were [cheated] because we are black. Even in my time people used things like “Ambi cream” so that they became lighter, but I don’t understand why we are insulting the way God created us,” she said.

Source 1: http://www.timeslive.co.za/entertainment/2017/05/03/Youll-never-see-white-people-in-black-afro-wigs-unless-its-for-a-party-or-the-circus-says-Marah-Louw

Source 2: https://thisisafrica.me/will-never-find-white-people-wearing-hair-says-marah-louw/

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