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True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men – & Women
True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE [Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men – & Women]
Host: Onyenuwa Momah, Founder/Creator of ‘The Fixer’
Guest Speaker: Tayo K. Solagbade, Male Survivor of Domestic
Violence; Publisher, Diary Of A Battered Man (DOABM)Moderator: Tomi Obi, Gunshot Survivor, Mental Health Counselor
Date: 23rd July 2022
Time: 7p.m Nigerian Time
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[3 THOUGHT PROVOKING IDEAS FOR “RICH” WOMEN WHO WANT HUSBANDS]
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This is a Fathers Day Special episode (published last night) of my DIARY OF A BATTERED MAN (DOABM) – and in it I react to two videos, and a series of Eleven Real Life Confessions of Grown Kids About Their Parents.
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Happy Fathers Day!
This is the 3rd and final episode in my Reaction to #TVC Television Continental’s Toxic Parenting Video interview with Femi Shofoluwe.
In this episode, I highlight a VERY important point made by Femi by playing an excerpt from his response to a question by the host…
Then I discuss Multiple Real Life Case Study Scenarios one may be faced with, to decide ‘When It’s Wise to Give Respect Vs. When It’s Stupid to Do So’.
This is Part 2 of 3 in my Toxic Parenting Reaction Video series.
This episode highlights the misguided perception, prevalent among many African parents, that :
1. They can DEMAND respect from their kids, instead of EARNING it.
2. Making their kids “fear” them will make such kids give the parents “respect”.
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Watch Part 1 of this 3 part series – click HERE
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I react to this #TVC (Television Continental) interview of Femi Shofoluwe, by providing additional information (including real life examples) of Common Traits of Toxic Parents.
This is Part 1 of a 2 part series with the theme: A Root Cause We Often Miss -Which Can Help Us Nip Domestic Violence in the Bud.
In this 2 part presentation, I react to the episode of #YourViewTVC’s Talk Show titled “Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence” published on Nov 12, 2020.
Nigeria’s DV problem has become a pandemic. And the reason why it’s that way is that we have developed a culture of PROFITING from PAIN.
I call it P4P for short.
In this video, I use the analogy of a Pawpaw tree with a peculiar fruiting behaviour to illustrate my point.
TIP: In Nigeria if your “abuser” is able to get those you complain to, to accept “money” or “favours”, you’re VERY likely – except in rare cases – to lose out (& even suffer secondary abuse at THEIR hands!) no matter how much proof you have.
Watch this video to learn more, as I explain why this happens, why it is the root cause of what is now a pandemic of sorts today – and what can be done to stop it.