IG LIVE INTERVIEW Lola Vivour-Adeniyi (@lolavivouradeniyi) – with Tayo K. Solagbade (@tksola2020) – Male Survivor of Domestic Violence

SUBTITLE: Experience Sharing True Story Narration of Domestic Violence Inflicted by Intimate Female Partner + Lessons, Suggestions etc

I prepared this downloadable “Pimped” PDF TRANSCRIPT version for those who may lack time/data/electricity to watch the full video online OR who lack good connectivity for smooth viewing – a reality we face now and then.

NB: Those who have watched the video already may find this PDF transcript a useful video-to-text reference.

Click below to download THIS Verbatim PDF Transcript & Read Offline

http://www.tayosolagbade.com/lvapdf

*It includes time codes so you can click video player to jump to the point you want to read from.

TIP: If you have NOT yet watched it, click the link provided in the PDF to watch the video on Lola’s IG page.

Most importantly…share to others you feel may find it useful.

The following admonition from Lola’s closing statement in the IG LIVE interview is worth noting…

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“So, please report, because truly, every Domestic Violence case is a potential murder case. It can be the last push, it can be the last shove, it can be the last kick. And like I always say…People that kill their spouses, I do not think that they intended to kill their spouse…

But at that point nobody is really going to care. Somebody is dead. And I think you won’t be in my office. You will be at Panti…Going for murder… or you know, maybe it drops down to Manslaughter.

So please we’re speaking about important critical ehm situations here. Life and death. If it’s happening to you, don’t…don’t make it look like as it it’s not real.

Don’t make it look like as if it’s not serious. And it’s not only…until it’s physical that it’s important or that it’s serious. Anything that is done to you that reduces your self-esteem, reduces your self-worth, and basically makes you – the person wants to dominate and control you.

It’s a behavior that is akin to Domestic Violence. So please, speak up, speak out. and report. ” – Lola Vivour-Adeniyi, Coordinator, Lagos State Domestic & Sexual Violence Response Team (DSVRT)

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Like I tell every individual or group I speak to on this subject of Domestic Violence, I am on a mission

My goal is to provide a FREE Public Service to deliver value-adding Information and Education about how to IDENTITY and STOP Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM) in particular and Domestic Abuse in general.

This is NOT about me. It is bigger than me.

I only tell my stories – and use my personal experiences – as a basis for getting my message across, and I actively connect with others with TRUE and AUTHENTIC stories to use theirs as well.