Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
"Mommy You're Lying. Uncle Why Is My Mommy Lying?” | SHOCKING! Woman Making FALSE Domestic Violence Phonecall, Hits Her Little Son for Calling Her Out.
August 6, 2023









Words cannot describe what transpired in this video. You simply have to watch it to believe. 6.5 minutes of pure dramatized deception done with serious malicious intent. It's impossible to NOT be shocked by what this woman did. if you are a man, or a woman with a male loved one (maybe your husband, brother, […]







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1 Hour Talks
CLICK HERE to View My Latest Blog Posts/Articles from 1st August 2022 on www.DiscoverCotonou.com
August 19, 2022









TayoSolagbade.com is currently being re-invented, and so undergoing some back end updates. So all my new content from 1st August 2022 has been published ONLY on the sister website - www.discovercotonou.com: Click here to open a new browser window and start reading.







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
Join the Discussion: Surviving 12 Years of Physical, Emotional, Verbal & Psychological Abuse by my Ex-Wife | True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE [Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men - & Women]
July 21, 2022









True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE [Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men - & Women] An experience sharing 3 hour session in “Club House” Host: Onyenuwa Momah, Founder/Creator of ‘The Fixer’ Guest Speaker: Tayo K. Solagbade, Male Survivor of Domestic Violence; Publisher, Diary Of A Battered Man (DOABM) Moderator: Tomi Obi, […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
Sometimes the Only Thing We Know About Our Fathers Is What Our Mothers Tell Us - D L Hughley
June 20, 2022









This is a Fathers Day Special episode (published last night) of my DIARY OF A BATTERED MAN (DOABM) - and in it I react to two videos, and a series of Eleven Real Life Confessions of Grown Kids About Their Parents. If you find it useful, remember to share with others you believe may benefit […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
"Most Parents in Africa, We Want to Have the Respect That We Do Not Work For" #TVC Femi Shofoluwe #3
May 20, 2022









This is the 3rd and final episode in my Reaction to #TVC Television Continental's Toxic Parenting Video interview with Femi Shofoluwe. In this episode, I highlight a VERY important point made by Femi by playing an excerpt from his response to a question by the host... Then I discuss Multiple Real Life Case Study Scenarios […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
Will You Tell Dangote to Respect You, Just Because You're Older? - Femi Shofoluwe #TVC [Toxic Parenting #2 of3]
May 16, 2022









This is Part 2 of 3 in my Toxic Parenting Reaction Video series. This episode highlights the misguided perception, prevalent among many African parents, that : 1. They can DEMAND respect from their kids, instead of EARNING it. 2. Making their kids "fear" them will make such kids give the parents "respect". Click https://youtu.be/OZ5q4zOq8K8 ========== […]







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
Many African Parents Are Toxic - It's Cultural - Femi Shofoluwe #TVC | These 6 Signs Make YOU a Toxic Parent! [True-Story-Based Examples by Tayo Solagbade]
May 16, 2022









I react to this #TVC (Television Continental) interview of Femi Shofoluwe, by providing additional information (including real life examples) of Common Traits of Toxic Parents. Click https://youtu.be/L-g5GbEh1k4







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
Violent/Abusive People Are NOT Born: They Are MADE! My Reaction to #YourViewTVC's "Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence?
April 30, 2022









This is Part 1 of a 2 part series with the theme: A Root Cause We Often Miss -Which Can Help Us Nip Domestic Violence in the Bud. In this 2 part presentation, I react to the episode of #YourViewTVC's  Talk Show titled "Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence" published on Nov 12, 2020. Click https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dt8hqSv_O4g







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Career Development
"This new generation wanna breakthrough without suffering, mentorship!": Sonnie Badu Scolds Youths
April 30, 2022









Listen to My Reaction to Sonni’s Advice to the New Generation Sonnie Badu Shares 3 Secrets to REAL LASTING Success Watch the video and listen to my reaction/commentary (Featuring Les Brown’s “Message to Young People”) via http://www.tayosolagbade.com/tks-sonnie-badu - or CLICK HERE.







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Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)
Strange Pawpaw Tree Shows Root Cause of Nigeria's Domestic Violence (DV) is a "People Profiting from Victims' Pains" Culture
April 23, 2022









Nigeria's DV problem has become a pandemic. And the reason why it's that way is that we have developed a culture of PROFITING from PAIN. I call it P4P for short. In this video, I use the analogy of a Pawpaw tree with a peculiar fruiting behaviour to illustrate my point. TIP: In Nigeria if […]







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