In the previewed/linked report below, TheGuardianDotCom discusses reports revealing that two in five of all victims of domestic violence recorded in the UK are men. This is very significant when one considers the prevailing stereotypes associated with persons belonging to the male gender, as being the ABUSERS in relationships with intimate female partners.
It reinforces the needs for focus to be placed on getting EVERYONE to avoid engaging in domestic violence – especially given other reports that have revealed that some abusive women game the system to make their male victims guilty based on accepted stereotyping.
[DVAM] More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals – TheGuardianDotCom
About two in five of all victims of domestic violence are men, contradicting the widespread impression that it is almost always women who are left battered and bruised, a new report claims.
Men assaulted by their partners are often ignored by police, see their attacker go free and have far fewer refuges to flee to than women, says a study by the men’s rights campaign group Parity.
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https://www.theguardian.com/society/2010/sep/05/men-victims-domestic-violence
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Below: My description of what abusive women who inflict Domestic Violence (DV) on their male partners do, on my Facebook page…
A new generation of shrewdly manipulative and cunningly abusive women are using protective systems put in place by society to exploit males that are their intimate partners.
In other words, they are gaming the system and by so doing are making a mockery of the eFforts to stop domestic violence by exploiting stereotypes about males being the only perpetrators, to abuse their partners at will while readily adopting the accepted posture of “victim in self-defence” when their actions come under scrutiny.
What they do, they teach other women and their own daughters, who rarely know better. We need to fight and stop this trend. Our sons, brothers, fathers, uncles and other loved ones who belong to the male gender, remain at grave risk if we don’t.That’s why I’ve launched this page.
Hopefully, with time, others will acknowledge it happens, and begin to treat EACH case they handle on it’s own merit, rather than use harmful stereotypes and MALES being abusive while FEMALES are always the abused victim. The BAD women know this and use it to their advantage – making the men in their lives suffer needlessly. That must stop!
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