Category Archives: Domestic Violence Against Men (DVAM)

“Mommy You’re Lying. Uncle Why Is My Mommy Lying?” | SHOCKING! Woman Making FALSE Domestic Violence Phonecall, Hits Her Little Son for Calling Her Out.

Words cannot describe what transpired in this video. You simply have to watch it to believe. 6.5 minutes of pure dramatized deception done with serious malicious intent. It’s impossible to NOT be shocked by what this woman did. if you are a man, or a woman with a male loved one (maybe your husband, brother, son, cousin, nephew etc), I recommend you watch it, and listen to my reaction.

SHOCKING! Woman Making FALSE Domestic Violence Phone call, Hits Her Little Son for Calling Her Out.

Click https://youtu.be/BUwrTI7eE60 to watch

BELOW DOWNLOAD THE 2 PAGE TRUE STORY BASED DOCUMENT – FEATURED IN THE VIDEO – ABOUT ABUSIVE FEMALES WHO PLAY THE “WOMAN CARD” STRATEGY TO FRAME THEIR MALE VICTIMS AS ABUSERS.

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[VIDEO TRAILER] Surviving 12 Years of Physical, Emotional, Verbal & Psychological Abuse by my Ex-Wife

True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men – & Women

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Join the Discussion: Surviving 12 Years of Physical, Emotional, Verbal & Psychological Abuse by my Ex-Wife | True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE [Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men – & Women]

True Story by a MALE SURVIVOR OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE [Featuring: 10 Eye Opening Insights for Men – & Women]

An experience sharing 3 hour session in “Club House”

Host: Onyenuwa Momah, Founder/Creator of ‘The Fixer’

Guest Speaker: Tayo K. Solagbade, Male Survivor of Domestic
Violence; Publisher, Diary Of A Battered Man (DOABM)

Moderator: Tomi Obi, Gunshot Survivor, Mental Health Counselor

Date: 23rd July 2022

Time: 7p.m Nigerian Time

JOIN THE DISCUSSION:

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Get Help: +234-803-827-2700

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Sometimes the Only Thing We Know About Our Fathers Is What Our Mothers Tell Us – D L Hughley

This is a Fathers Day Special episode (published last night) of my DIARY OF A BATTERED MAN (DOABM) – and in it I react to two videos, and a series of Eleven Real Life Confessions of Grown Kids About Their Parents.

If you find it useful, remember to share with others you believe may benefit as well.

Happy Fathers Day!

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“Most Parents in Africa, We Want to Have the Respect That We Do Not Work For” #TVC Femi Shofoluwe #3

This is the 3rd and final episode in my Reaction to #TVC Television Continental’s Toxic Parenting Video interview with Femi Shofoluwe.

In this episode, I highlight a VERY important point made by Femi by playing an excerpt from his response to a question by the host…

Then I discuss Multiple Real Life Case Study Scenarios one may be faced with, to decide ‘When It’s Wise to Give Respect Vs. When It’s Stupid to Do So’.

Click https://youtu.be/uyL17gebQy8

Will You Tell Dangote to Respect You, Just Because You’re Older? – Femi Shofoluwe #TVC [Toxic Parenting #2 of3]

This is Part 2 of 3 in my Toxic Parenting Reaction Video series.

This episode highlights the misguided perception, prevalent among many African parents, that :

1. They can DEMAND respect from their kids, instead of EARNING it.

2. Making their kids “fear” them will make such kids give the parents “respect”.

Click https://youtu.be/OZ5q4zOq8K8

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Watch Part 1 of this 3 part series – click HERE

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Many African Parents Are Toxic – It’s Cultural – Femi Shofoluwe #TVC | These 6 Signs Make YOU a Toxic Parent! [True-Story-Based Examples by Tayo Solagbade]

I react to this #TVC (Television Continental) interview of Femi Shofoluwe, by providing additional information (including real life examples) of Common Traits of Toxic Parents.

Click https://youtu.be/L-g5GbEh1k4

Violent/Abusive People Are NOT Born: They Are MADE! My Reaction to #YourViewTVC’s “Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence?

This is Part 1 of a 2 part series with the theme: A Root Cause We Often Miss -Which Can Help Us Nip Domestic Violence in the Bud.

In this 2 part presentation, I react to the episode of #YourViewTVC’s  Talk Show titled “Does Provocation Justify Domestic Violence” published on Nov 12, 2020.

Click https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dt8hqSv_O4g