{"id":13914,"date":"2018-09-29T14:38:48","date_gmt":"2018-09-29T14:38:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=13914"},"modified":"2018-09-29T14:38:48","modified_gmt":"2018-09-29T14:38:48","slug":"dvam-more-than-40-of-domestic-violence-victims-are-male-report-reveals-theguardiandotcom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/dvam-more-than-40-of-domestic-violence-victims-are-male-report-reveals-theguardiandotcom\/","title":{"rendered":"[DVAM] More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals - TheGuardianDotCom"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"content__header tonal__header\">\n<div class=\"u-cf\">\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"content__headline \">In the previewed\/linked report below, TheGuardianDotCom\u00a0discusses reports revealing that two in five of all victims of domestic violence recorded in the UK are men. This is very significant when one considers the prevailing stereotypes associated with persons belonging to the male gender, as being the ABUSERS in relationships with intimate female partners.<\/p>\n<p class=\"content__headline \">It reinforces the needs for focus to be placed on getting EVERYONE to avoid engaging in domestic violence - <a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/pii-134-dvam-ideas-to-empower-women-without-emasculating-men-five-5-suggestions-for-women-empowerment-experts-that-may-need-to-review-domestic-violence-accusations-while-mediating-between-dispu\/\" target=\"_blank\">especially given other reports that have revealed that some abusive women game the system to make their male victims guilty based on accepted stereotyping<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"tonal__standfirst u-cf\">\n<h2 class=\"content__standfirst\" data-link-name=\"standfirst\" data-component=\"standfirst\">[DVAM] More than 40% of domestic violence victims are male, report reveals - TheGuardianDotCom<\/h2>\n<div class=\"content__standfirst\" data-link-name=\"standfirst\" data-component=\"standfirst\"><strong>Campaign group Parity claims assaults by wives and girlfriends are often ignored by police and media<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"content__standfirst\" data-link-name=\"standfirst\" data-component=\"standfirst\">\n<header class=\"content__head content__head--article tonal__head tonal__head--tone-news\">\n<figure class=\"media-primary media-content () \" data-component=\"image\" data-media-id=\"gu-image-366422693\"><figcaption class=\"caption caption--main caption--img\">Assaults on men represent more than 40% of domestic violence in the UK. Photograph: Sakki\/Rex Features\/Sakki\/rex<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/header>\n<div class=\"content__article-body from-content-api js-article__body\" data-test-id=\"article-review-body\">\n<p>About two in five of all victims of domestic violence are men, contradicting the widespread impression that it is almost always women who are left battered and bruised, a new report claims.<\/p>\n<p>Men assaulted by their partners are often ignored by police, see their attacker go free and have far fewer refuges to flee to than women, says a study by the\u00a0<a class=\"u-underline\" title=\"men's rights campaign group, Parity\" href=\"http:\/\/www.parity-uk.org\/\" data-link-name=\"in body link\">men's rights campaign group Parity<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13916\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-guardian-40pctmalevictims.png\" alt=\"dvam-guardian-40pctmalevictims\" width=\"580\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Continue reading...<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/society\/2010\/sep\/05\/men-victims-domestic-violence\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/society\/2010\/sep\/05\/men-victims-domestic-violence<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"tonal__standfirst u-cf\">\n<h2>Below: Related Articles<\/h2>\n<h3><em><strong>1. [DVAM] How Women Destroy Love (Why Men Fall Out of Love) \u2013 by Kara Oh, US based National Relationship Expert | FREE VIDEO Based Transcript Slideshow created by Tayo K. Solagbade for\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">www.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks<\/a><\/strong><br \/>\n<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><em>\u201cToday I wanted to offer a lesson on how to castrate a man.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Em, you may wonder, why would you wanna do that?<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Well, probably the primary reason would be to get him out of your life, because that is the best way to get rid of a man.\u201d \u2013 Kara Oh<\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/dvam-how-women-destroy-love-why-men-fall-out-of-love-by-kara-oh-us-based-national-relationship-expert-download-free-video-based-transcript-slideshow-created-by-tayo-k-solagbade-for-www-faceb\/\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to learn how you can view\u00a0my Verbatim Performance Improvement Video Text Transcript Slideshow<\/a>\u00a0version of the wonderfully insightful video message by Kara Oh.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>It\u2019s aptly titled \u201cHow Women Destroy Love.\u201d<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/WhyMenFallOutofLove.ppsx\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-13624\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13624\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Why-Men-Fall-Out-of-Love.png\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1680px) 100vw, 1680px\" srcset=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Why-Men-Fall-Out-of-Love-300x188.png 300w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Why-Men-Fall-Out-of-Love-768x480.png 768w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Why-Men-Fall-Out-of-Love-1024x640.png 1024w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Why-Men-Fall-Out-of-Love-150x94.png 150w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/Why-Men-Fall-Out-of-Love.png 1680w\" alt=\"Why Men Fall Out of Love\" width=\"580\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3><em><strong>2, [DVAM] VIRAL VIDEO > 1m Views \u2013 What It Really Means to Be a \u2018Strong Woman\u2019: Nigerian Woman Delivers Hard Hitting Message to Peers About Relationships [FREE Verbatim Transcript PowerPoint Slideshow created by Tayo K. Solagbade for\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">www.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks<\/a>]<\/strong><br \/>\n<\/em><\/h3>\n<p><strong><em>In this post I share a link to the transcript slideshow I\u2019ve prepared of a VIRAL<\/em><\/strong><strong>\u00a0VIDEO that has been watched over\u00a0<\/strong><strong><em><span id=\"IL_AD12\" class=\"IL_AD\">1million<\/span>\u00a0times<\/em><\/strong><strong>!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s message is VERY relevant to the current times.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/viral-video-1m-views-what-it-really-means-to-be-a-strong-woman-nigerian-woman-delivers-hard-hitting-message-to-peers-about-relationships-download-free-verbatim-transcript-powerpoint-s\/#.Wz5fHNJKi70\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-13662\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13662\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/women-slide-shot.png\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1062px) 100vw, 1062px\" srcset=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/women-slide-shot-300x226.png 300w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/women-slide-shot-768x579.png 768w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/women-slide-shot-1024x771.png 1024w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/women-slide-shot-150x113.png 150w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/women-slide-shot.png 1062w\" alt=\"women-slide-shot\" width=\"580\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-10093\">3. PII 134 \u2013 Ideas to Empower Women Without Emasculating Men [Five (5) Suggestions for women empowerment experts that may need to review domestic violence accusations while mediating between disputing couples]<\/h3>\n<p>We need to protect women from abuse and empower them to actualize their full potentials. However, we must not do this blindly. The needs and rights of men must also be protected. Reports indicate that some women do batter their male partners and know how to game the system to cover their tracks. This trend can \u2013 and should \u2013 be reversed, if worthwhile benefits are to be achieved.<\/p>\n<p>In this report, I offer\u00a0five\u00a0(5) suggestions about what can be done, and how to stop wrong things happening to men, when we try to empower women.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/pii-134-dvam-ideas-to-empower-women-without-emasculating-men-five-5-suggestions-for-women-empowerment-experts-that-may-need-to-review-domestic-violence-accusations-while-mediating-between-dispu\/#.W6iMhNdKhdg\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to download it now \u2013 no signup required.<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/pii-134-dvam-ideas-to-empower-women-without-emasculating-men-five-5-suggestions-for-women-empowerment-experts-that-may-need-to-review-domestic-violence-accusations-while-mediating-between-dispu\/#.W6iMhNdKhdg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-13865\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-13865\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-news002.jpg\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1196px) 100vw, 1196px\" srcset=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-news002-300x236.jpg 300w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-news002-768x605.jpg 768w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-news002-1024x807.jpg 1024w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-news002-150x118.jpg 150w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/dvam-news002.jpg 1196w\" alt=\"dvam-news002\" width=\"580\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>====<\/p>\n<h3>Below: My description of what abusive women who inflict Domestic Violence (DV) on their male partners do, on my Facebook page\u2026<\/h3>\n<blockquote><p>A new generation of shrewdly manipulative and cunningly abusive women are using protective systems put in place by society to exploit males that are their intimate partners.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>In other words, they are gaming the system and by so doing are making a mockery of the eFforts to stop domestic violence by exploiting stereotypes about\u00a0males being the only perpetrators, to abuse their partners at will while readily adopting the accepted posture of \u201cvictim in self-defence\u201d when their actions come under scrutiny.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What they do, they teach other women and their own daughters, who rarely know better. We need to fight and stop this trend. Our sons, brothers, fathers, uncles and other loved ones who belong to the male gender, remain at grave risk if we don\u2019t.That\u2019s why I\u2019ve launched\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">this page<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Hopefully, with time, others will acknowledge it happens, and begin to treat EACH case they handle on it\u2019s own merit, rather than use harmful stereotypes and MALES being abusive while FEMALES are always the abused victim. The BAD women know this and use it to their advantage \u2013 making the men in their lives suffer needlessly. That must stop!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>====================================<\/p>\n<h1><a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">CLICK HERE TO VISIT MY FACEBOOK ADVOCACY PAGE AND READ MORE ABOUT DVAM + HOW TO IDENTIFY\/STOP IT<\/a><\/h1>\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_6\">\n<div class=\"_qa1\">\n<p><a class=\"_2dgj\" href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"_4jhq img\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent.flos1-1.fna.fbcdn.net\/v\/t1.0-1\/p320x320\/17883936_1010208112413236_2611141537089962332_n.png?_nc_cat=0&oh=56af2ecbe493e89203f665198d89278a&oe=5BD8420C\" alt=\"\" width=\"180\" height=\"180\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"_1jts uiPopover _6a _6b\"><a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u00a0<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_19sz\">\n<div class=\"_19s-\">\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_7\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_0\">\n<h1 id=\"seo_h1_tag\"><a class=\"_64-f\" href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Domestic Violence Against Men \u2013 Ideas for Identifying & Stopping It<\/a><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_19s_\">\n<div>\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_8\"><a id=\"js_3c2\" class=\"_2wmb\" href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-hover=\"tooltip\" data-tooltip-content=\"\">@stopdvambytks<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In the previewed\/linked report below, TheGuardianDotCom\u00a0discusses reports revealing that two in five of all victims of domestic violence recorded in the UK are men. 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