{"id":9460,"date":"2016-04-16T16:13:04","date_gmt":"2016-04-16T16:13:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=9460"},"modified":"2016-04-16T16:40:53","modified_gmt":"2016-04-16T16:40:53","slug":"giving-bribes-can-make-you-money-but-ultimately-sorry","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/giving-bribes-can-make-you-money-but-ultimately-sorry\/","title":{"rendered":"Giving Bribes Can Make You Money, But Ultimately Sorry"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Do you give bribes - or are you considering giving to some persons(s) who asked?<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If yes, I urge you to STOP right now and read this piece to understand why you're better off NOT getting involved in doing it!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>No one can make me give him\/her a bribe to get ANYTHING I want - no matter how badly I need whatever that thing may be.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>This has been my mental attitude and disposition all my adult life, from paid employment till date.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>And it will NEVER change. Ever.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Even if you appeared to me with angelic-wings floating and glowing with a halo above your head, and assured me \"God\" would approve, I would still not be moved - because I have profited and progressed all my life by adhering with unflinching devotion to the universally applicable non-religious rules set by the Creator.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><H3>Giving bribes is one guaranteed way to run foul of those universal laws set by the creator, and it could lock you into a series of unpleasant consequences, which often - ironically - do not occur immediately.<\/H3><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>I know that nothing good ever comes of breaking those rules.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Indeed, as I've hinted above, my experiences and achievements in life prove that the path I've chosen (not to ever give bribes) leads to multiple rewards.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Which is why I'm recommending it here.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Among other negatives, giving bribes, especially when it becomes a habit, destroys one's sense of right and wrong.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It kills the conscience and makes one lose respect for law and order as well as the rights of others.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Simply put, you begin to feel, think and believe you can do - and get away with virtually anything by \"buying your way through\".<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You become a \"monster\" of sorts:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Yep.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>It takes being a monster to feel, think and act that way.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You do NOT need to look like one: that's why we have some outwardly good looking people with terrible character.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><H3>The worst part is what giving bribes does to your self-confidence: <\/H3><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You lose the moral courage to speak with confidence in public to correct bad behaviour by others.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You live in fear that your indiscretions will be exposed.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>In essence you lose your voice, and become a prisoner of your \"secrets\".<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>You become prone to blackmail by those who know what you know about yourself.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>What a terribly unfulfilling way to live!<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>That's why I know I will never stoop so low as to give or accept a bribe of any amount to or from anybody!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you give bribes - or are you considering giving to some persons(s) who asked? \u00a0 If yes, I urge you to STOP right now and read this piece to understand why you're better off NOT getting involved in doing it! \u00a0 No one can make me give him\/her a bribe to get ANYTHING I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,8,1375,266,10,103],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9460","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-employeescareer-persons","category-entrepreneurs","category-excel-vb-solutions","category-my-dn-travel-news","category-self-development","category-writingblogging"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":865,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9460","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9460"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9460\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9463,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9460\/revisions\/9463"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9460"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9460"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9460"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}