{"id":6888,"date":"2015-01-31T22:33:43","date_gmt":"2015-01-31T22:33:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=6888"},"modified":"2015-02-02T16:22:33","modified_gmt":"2015-02-02T16:22:33","slug":"to-achieve-authentic-success-you-need-more-self-belief-than-looks%ef%bf%bc","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/to-achieve-authentic-success-you-need-more-self-belief-than-looks%ef%bf%bc\/","title":{"rendered":"To Achieve Authentic Success You Need More Self Belief Than Looks!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Success in any area of life will come to you more frequently if you believe in yourself - unwaveringly - and show it.<\/p>\n<p>The foregoing FACT becomes even more important to keep in mind if\/when you have to start-up or run a business of your own. Few endeavours in life, are as challenging as having to take a business idea from zero to rewarding success.<\/p>\n<p>In approaching people you want business from, you must come across as self-assured\/confident and enthusiastic.<\/p>\n<h3>If you don't, they will have a difficult time believing you can help them - and so will be wary of buying from you<\/h3>\n<p>I have \"entertained\" many friends, clients (and even prospects) with the story of how, back in 2007, I endured major humiliation one fateful day when I (mistakenly?) entered an office in Ikeja, here in Lagos, to introduce my custom spreadsheet software development service.<\/p>\n<p>The owner of the company was so amused to hear me say I could develop low-cost and time-saving automated spreadsheet software for him using MS Excel, that he burst out laughing many times, as I spoke.<\/p>\n<p>Eventually, he turned to someone seated next to him, and pointing to me said \"Can you imagine him wanting to teach me Excel? I know more Excel than he knows! What can he possibly teach me?\" Looking at me, with a mocking expression on his face, he said with a tone of finality \"Anyway, I wish you all the best\".<\/p>\n<h3>As I left that day I had to muster all the courage I could, to avoid feeling depressed. I shook off the embarrassment of that experience, and continued my foot-solider-marketing (i.e. pavement pounding).<\/h3>\n<p>And it was a good thing that I did so.<\/p>\n<p>Guess what happened? Before the end of that day, I had won a project to build a custom application for a medium-sized company in Omole Estate, Phase 1 in Ikeja, Lagos. And I went on to sell THAT same application to a similar company - also in Ikeja - less than ONE month after finishing it.<\/p>\n<p>Looking back, I realise that it was the way I carried myself that often \"won\" over the clients. I always presented my offer in an engaging manner.<\/p>\n<p>Apart from showing that I was excited about getting an opportunity to tell them what I could do to help them, I was also careful to employ very graphic verbal illustrations, that instantly communicated the benefits they wanted.<\/p>\n<p>Most importantly, I NEVER let unsuccessful sales attempts from my past faze me one bit - every time I had a new opportunity to make my sales offers. Anyone who wants to succeed in selling to others will need to be able to do likewise or possibly better.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Success in any area of life will come to you more frequently if you believe in yourself - unwaveringly - and show it. The foregoing FACT becomes even more important to keep in mind if\/when you have to start-up or run a business of your own. Few endeavours in life, are as challenging as having [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7,8,1,266,10],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-6888","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-employeescareer-persons","category-entrepreneurs","category-general-2","category-my-dn-travel-news","category-self-development"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":1604,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6888","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6888"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6888\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6890,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6888\/revisions\/6890"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6888"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6888"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6888"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}