{"id":6547,"date":"2014-11-10T19:05:41","date_gmt":"2014-11-10T19:05:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=6547"},"modified":"2014-11-11T15:30:35","modified_gmt":"2014-11-11T15:30:35","slug":"no-167-to-succeed-authentically-be-a-model-of-the-possible-human","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/no-167-to-succeed-authentically-be-a-model-of-the-possible-human\/","title":{"rendered":"No. 167: To Succeed Authentically, be a Model of the Possible Human"},"content":{"rendered":"

As an expert in your chosen field, your ability to excel will depend on how well you stand out from others who do what you do, in terms of the results you deliver. That means you need to be exceptional.<\/p>\n

But No One Can be Exceptional If S\/he Chooses to Think and\/or Act Small!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Or to paraphrase Jean Houston, you cannot stand out if you refuse (or fail) to \u201cleave your littleness behind\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

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Publication:<\/strong>\u00a0Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS Newsletter <\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Date:\u00a0<\/strong>Monday 10th November <\/span> 2014<\/span><\/p>\n

No:<\/strong>167<\/span><\/p>\n

Title: <\/strong>To Succeed Authentically, be a Model of the Possible Human<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n

Author & Publisher:<\/strong>\u00a0Tayo K. Solagbade [Tel: <\/strong>+234-803-302-1263 (in Nigeria)<\/strong> or +229-66-122-136 (in Benin Republic)<\/strong> ]<\/p>\n

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No. 167: To Succeed Authentically, be a Model of the Possible Human<\/span><\/span><\/h3>\n

As an expert in your chosen field, your ability to excel will depend on how well you stand out from others who do what you do, in terms of the results you deliver. That means you need to be exceptional.<\/p>\n

But No One Can be Exceptional If S\/he Chooses to Think and\/or Act Small!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

Or to paraphrase Jean Houston, you cannot stand out if you refuse (or fail) to \u201cleave your littleness behind\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

Some time ago, I was listening to an MP3 recording of an interview Burt Dubin granted. At a point, he mentioned a term: \u201cThe Possible Human\u201d - which was conceived by Jean Houston, Ph.D (click here to view the book version of workshops run by Houston on this theme) <\/a>. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That was the first time I heard the term.<\/em><\/p>\n

Later on, I came across a webpage transcript of an interview [POSSIBLE HUMAN, POSSIBLE WORLD \u2013 Part 1]<\/a> that Jean Houston had with Dr. Jeffery Mishlove in which she (i.e. Houston) talked about leaving one\u2019s \u201clittleness behind.<\/p>\n

This was in reference to our tendency to use too little of our God-given potential in life. <\/strong><\/p>\n

That reality remains with us today. Most people go through life not aware or unwilling to maximize their full potential to achieve self-actualization. They consequently go through life as \u201csmall people\u201d too afraid to embrace the genius inside of them.<\/p>\n

Only Those Who Leave Their \u201cLittleness Behind\u201d End Up Standing Out in Terms of Their Achievements.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

That\u2019s the truth.<\/p>\n

If you do not make the conscious decision to make the most of yourself, you cannot expect to delver performances beyond the average. It may happen now and then, but that would mostly be by accident, and you would be unable to readily reproduce or repeat it.<\/p>\n

It does not matter what you do, or where you do it. This rule is universally applicable.<\/p>\n

There is plenty of historical and contemporary evidence to back up what I have said above<\/strong><\/p>\n

All of it points to the fact that authentic success cannot be arranged via shortcuts. People who manipulate their way to the top will rarely be able to stay long there, except they continue their manipulation.<\/p>\n

The day a merit based system is applied, they will be readily defeated by those who adhere to the rules and who as a result possess superior competence.<\/p>\n

Such persons will be models of The Possible Human. They will be an example of true greatness that ANY human being person can reasonably aspire to achieve if s\/he strives to make the most of herself.<\/p>\n

To Excel You Must Choose to Nurture Your Innate Genius Until it Manifests Outwardly... <\/strong><\/h3>\n

First of all, you'll need to THINK deeply, to discover what makes you unique, especially compared to those who do what you do.<\/p>\n

Then you'll take diligent personal action to NURTURE your unique attributes, in such a way that they confer on you a SUPERIOR ability to deliver results ahead of others.<\/p>\n

Your performances will then provide a standard against which others will be evaluated \u2013 making you a model of The Possible Human.<\/p>\n

This is what those who become Champions, in and out of paid employment, do. <\/strong><\/h3>\n

It is what I have consciously<\/span><\/strong> done for over 2 decades in and out of paid employment. <\/em><\/p>\n

Back when I began ealier on in my life, I did not know about the term \u201cThe Possible Human\u201d. But I thought and acted in ways that consistently led me to deliver performances that made others conclude I was a MODEL of The Possible Human - that they would like to emulate.<\/p>\n

And I still think and act that same way even today - with similar results to show as well!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Those who have interacted with me, and seen my work, both off and on the web, periodically attest to the above.<\/p>\n

The results I\u2019m getting with this blog for instance, by publishing a new article DAILY - and every now and then new books, reports etc - on 6 different blog categories<\/a> for 2 years running (despite different setbacks), provide a case in point.<\/p>\n

Another example is my growing range of Best Practice Parenting, Public Speaking, Career Development, and Farm Business Support Publications, plus my Excel-Visual Basic Driven Software<\/a> development, and Web Marketing Services that continue to attract prospects and buyers to me, from within and outside Nigeria\/Africa. <\/em><\/p>\n

I am one man.<\/strong> Yet I am able to do the above, and more, for myself, while serving several clients at the same time, without EVER failing to deliver what I promise to the latter.<\/h3>\n

Back in paid employment<\/a>, I consistently turned out a work rate above that of 2 people. And quite often, I came up with valuable innovations that took people performance in the workplace to a whole new level \u2013 with regular career advancement opportunities coming my way as a result.<\/p>\n

None of the above is bragging. They are simply statements of verifiable facts. <\/strong><\/p>\n

I share my personal examples to let you know that YOU can do the same thing in YOUR areas of passion and interest. <\/em><\/p>\n

Final Words: <\/strong>To Excel, Your Target Audience Needs to Believe You are Exceptional.<\/h3>\n

When you leave your \u201clittleness behind\u201d and diligently nurture your inner genius to manifest your \u00a0potential greatness, they WILL believe.<\/p>\n

Once that happens, they WILL choose YOU over others, because it will make them look forward, with eager anticipation, to having you work with (and\/or deliver your talk to) them.<\/p>\n

It goes without saying however, that it won\u2019t be easy getting there\u2026<\/strong><\/h3>\n

You\u2019ll most likely have to work long and hard. <\/em><\/p>\n

Nothing good, that lasts, ever comes easy.<\/p>\n

If you keep at it however, you WILL become a model of The Possible Human, and your success will be inevitable!<\/p>\n

Have a great week :-)) <\/span><\/p>\n

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Farm Businesses and others.<\/p>\n

Since 2002, he has earned multiple streams of income providing individuals and organisations with personal development training and coaching, custom MS Excel-VB solutions<\/a>, web marketing<\/a> systems\/web hosting<\/a>,<\/p>\n

freelance writing services, and best practice extension support services (for farm business owners<\/a>).<\/p>\n

Tayo is the author of the Self-Development (SD) Bible\u2122<\/a> and the popular Livestock Feed Formulation<\/a> Handbook. He is also the developer of its accompanying Excel-VB driven Ration Formulator\u2122<\/a> and the Poultry Farm Manager\u2122 software<\/a>.<\/p>\n

He has delivered talks\/papers to audiences in various groups and organisations<\/a>, including the Centre for Management Development, University of Lagos, Christ Baptist Church, Volunteer Corps, Tantalisers Fast Foods<\/p>\n

and others.<\/p>\n

In May 2012 he was the Guest Speaker at the Centre for Entrepreneurship Development\u2019s Annual Semester Entrepreneurial Lecture at Yaba College of Technology in Lagos.<\/p>\n

On 1st April 2013, Tayo (who reads, write and speaks the French language) relocated to Cotonou, Benin Republic<\/a> to begin slowly traveling across the West African region.<\/p>\n

His key purpose is to deliver talks, seminars <\/strong><\/p>\n

and workshops on his key areas of focus and interest to interested audiences (Email tayo at tksola dot com for details).<\/p>\n

In a previous life, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, and then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.<\/p>\n

He is an Associate Member of the UK Institute & Guild of Brewing, a 1997 National Finalist of the Nigerian Institute of Management\u2019s(NIM) Young Managers\u2019 competition, a Certified Psychometric Test Administrator for Psytech UK, innovator of Spontaneous Coaching for Self-Development\u2122 (SCfS-D\u2122), and Founder of the Self-Development Academy Limited<\/a>.<\/p>\n

When he's not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his Daily Self-Development Nuggets blog<\/a> - on which he also publishes his Weekly Public Speaking IDEAS <\/a><\/p>\n

newsletter(which he uses to promote Burt Dubin's Public Speaking Mentoring service<\/a> to experts working across the African continent).<\/p>\n

You can connect with him on Twitter @tksola.com<\/a> and Facebook<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Visit Tayo Solagbade Dot Com<\/a>, to download over over 10 performance improvement resources to boost your personal and work related productivity.<\/p>\n

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On 4th May 2014, Tayo's 9 year old domain (Spontaneousdevelopment dot com), which hosted his website, was taken over by Aplus.net. <\/em><\/p>\n

Within a few days however, Tayo used his advanced self-taught web development skills to build a SUPERIOR \"reincarnation\" of it the website http:\/\/www.tayosolagbade.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But updates are still ongoing to URLs bearing the old domain name in most of the over 1,000 web pages, and blog posts <\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

he's published.<\/p>\n

If you experience any difficulties finding a page or document, email Tayo at tksola dot com.<\/p>\n

Click \"Tayo, What Happened to SpontaneousDevelopmentDotCom ?<\/a>\" to read a detailed narrative about how the above event occurred :-))<\/p>\n

Here's an article Tayo wrote, to inspire others to defy adversity, and bounce back to even greater reckoning at what they do EVERY time:<\/h4>\n
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And he wrote the one below, to explain why losing a domain name, no matter how old NO LONGER determines your online success or otherwise:<\/h4>\n

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\u201cTayo, I honestly believe you are one of those who will succeed at anything he does. Your commitment and effort has been outstanding....Thanks for all your hard work since I\u2019ve been here - you will be sorely missed. I don\u2019t need to wish you good luck, you have the ability to make your own luck. - Andy\"(R. Jones)<\/strong>*<\/p>\n

*Operations Manager, Guinness Nigeria Plc Benin Brewery, December 2001 (Handwritten comments in farewell\/xmas cards sent to Tayo Solagbade following his resignation to start his own business).<\/strong><\/p>\n

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