{"id":3240,"date":"2013-10-07T08:53:06","date_gmt":"2013-10-07T08:53:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=3240"},"modified":"2013-10-07T08:53:06","modified_gmt":"2013-10-07T08:53:06","slug":"no-110-why-you-need-to-think-with-your-whole-body-and-how","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/no-110-why-you-need-to-think-with-your-whole-body-and-how\/","title":{"rendered":"No. 110: Why You Need to Think With Your Whole Body (and How)!"},"content":{"rendered":"<style type=\"text\/css\"><!--\n.style3 { \tfont-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; \tfont-size: 12px; } .style18 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-weight: bold; } .style20 {color: #000000} .style30 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-weight: bold; font-size: 18px; color: #990000; } .style31 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif} .style42 {color: #990000} .style44 {color: #000033} .style46 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; color: #990000; } .style53 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px; } .style55 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-weight: bold; font-size: 18px; color: #000033; } .style57 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; color: #990000; font-size: 12px; } .style74 {color: #0000FF} .style75 { \tfont-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; \tfont-style: italic; \tfont-weight: bold; } .style77 {font-style: italic; font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;} .style78 {font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px; font-style: italic; } .style79 { \tfont-weight: bold; \tfont-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; \tcolor: #000033; } -->\n--><\/style>\n<p>What if you had something that could help you \u201csense\u201d potential problems in relationships with new acquaintances, as well as established contacts? What if it could also give you useful hints towards achieving your valued goals?<\/p>\n<p>AND, what if I told you that <strong>YOU ALREADY have IT in you<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<h3><strong>SCROLL DOWN TO READ THE FULL ISSUE<\/strong><\/h3>\n<table width=\"500\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"1\" cellpadding=\"1\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<div style=\"background-color: #ffffff; padding: 5px; margin: 0px;\">\n<p style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\"><a title=\"Click now to view the latest issue of Tayo Solagbade's Public Speaking IDEAS page\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/blog\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-style: initial; border-color: initial; color: #666633; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; text-align: left; background-color: #f2f2eb; border-width: 0px;\" alt=\"Click now to view the latest issue of Tayo Solagbade's Public Speaking IDEAS page\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/logo.jpg\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\" align=\"center\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/TKSolagbadeSDAc\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"style20\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"View Tayos video tutorials and demonstrations on Facebook Productivity Tips, Web Marketing, and for his Custom MS Excel-VB driven software applications\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/youtube_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/span><\/a><span class=\"style20\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/tayo.solagbade\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Connect with Tayo on Facebook.com\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/facebook_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/tksola\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Connect with Tayo on Twitter.com\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/twitter_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/u\/0\/117041728654417267212\/about\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Connect with Tayo on Google Plus\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/google_plus_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<div style=\"color: #000000; font-family: Arial; font-size: 10px; line-height: 100%; text-align: left;\">\n<div align=\"center\">\n<p><strong class=\"style3\">Is this email not displaying correctly?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"style3\"><a style=\"font-weight: normal; text-decoration: underline;\" href=\"*|ARCHIVE|*\" target=\"_blank\">View it in your browser<\/a>. <\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\" align=\"left\"><span class=\"style3\"><strong>Publication:<\/strong>\u00a0Tayo Solagbade's Weekly <strong>Public Speaking IDEAS Page (PSIP)<\/strong> Newsletter<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Date:<\/strong><span class=\"style31\"><strong>\u00a0<\/strong>Monday 7th October 2013<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>No:<\/strong>110<\/p>\n<p><strong>Title: <\/strong> Why You Need to Think With Your Whole Body(and How)!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Author & Publisher:<\/strong>\u00a0Tayo K. Solagbade [<strong>Tel: <\/strong>+234-803-302-1263 <strong>(in Nigeria)<\/strong> or +229-66-122-136 <strong>(in Benin Republic)<\/strong> ]<\/p>\n<p><strong>Blog URL:<\/strong>\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/blog\" target=\"_blank\">http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/blog<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Archive (For E-mail only version started 14th May 2012): <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/us5.campaign-archive1.com\/home\/?u=2b21f22849a1458efbbb7026f&id=89f027febc\">Click here to view<\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Archive (For Blog version started 24th September 2011):<\/strong> <a class=\"style31\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/blog\/archives.php\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Hi,<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\">Please find below the latest issue of my Speaking IDEAS newsletter.<\/p>\n<table width=\"500\" border=\"1\" cellspacing=\"1\" cellpadding=\"1\" align=\"center\">\n<tbody>\n<tr bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<td class=\"style3\" valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"D3DFEE\">\n<h2 class=\"style74\" align=\"center\"><a title=\"On Being a Master (PDF)...A Gift from Burt Dubin - Click now!\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/bdubin-mastery01.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-style: initial; border-color: initial; color: #666633; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; text-align: left; border-width: 0px;\" alt=\"On Being a Master (PDF)...A Gift from Burt Dubin - Click now!\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/bd-trailer-pdf-flyer.png\" width=\"500\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/h2>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2 style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif;\"><span class=\"style44\">No. 110: <span class=\"style42\"><strong>Why You Need to Think With Your Whole Body (and How)!<\/strong><\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><em>****<em> <strong>****<\/strong><\/em><strong>******<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>NB: <\/strong>If you ever find yourself wondering what else I've written, some days after you've read THIS Speaking Ideas newsletter I send out on a Monday, <strong>here's what you can do to find out:<\/strong> <em>Point your browser to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\" target=\"_blank\">www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets<\/a> to read at least ONE new post added to my <strong>SD Nuggets blog<\/strong> on a different category from Tuesday till Saturday (sometimes even Sundays) in line with <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/how-to-use-the-self-development-nuggets-blog\/\" target=\"_blank\">this publishing schedule<\/a> \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>****<\/strong><strong>******<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">What if you had <strong><em><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">something <\/span><\/em><\/strong>that could help you \u201csense\u201d potential problems in relationships with new acquaintances, as well as established contacts? What if it could also give you useful hints towards achieving your valued goals?<\/p>\n<p class=\"style78\"><strong>AND<\/strong>, what if I told you that YOU <strong>ALREADY have IT in you<\/strong>?<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\"><strong>I Ignored It for Almost 2 Years, & Paid a Painful Price<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">Most times that I\u2019ve listened to, and\/or acted on it, I\u2019ve ended up much better off.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">That\u2019s why I <strong>always<\/strong> pay serious attention to it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em>Whenever I\u2019ve failed to do that, I\u2019ve often experienced some stagnation - or even setbacks. <\/em><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style79\">Example 1:<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">When I'm with people - new acquaintances or otherwise - it often subtly alerts me to insincerity, and even malice, that may be directed at me.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">The uninitiated, who relate with me, may not know it.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">But EVERYTHING that ANYONE says, thinks, feels or does (including writing) in relating with me, (most times) gets passed through that \"filter\" to get to me.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style77\">Many times that \"feeling\" (<strong>which actually permeates my entire being!<\/strong>) guides me to know what to believe, who to trust, when to say YES or NO etc.<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">And <em><strong>that<\/strong><\/em> has worked wonders for me in life.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Indeed, I continually succeed today, despite countless setbacks (and <strong>periodic <\/strong>attempts by detractors to pull me down over the past 10 years), because of it!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style79\">Example 2:<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">For almost 2 years \u2013 up till February 2013 - it kept telling me to relocate from Nigeria, to Benin Republic.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em>I kept \u201cgetting that feeling\u201d, and yet I kept refusing to yield to it. <\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>Guess what? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style78\">That roughly 20 month period was one of the most frustrating I ever had.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">It was not that I did not do good work. But many things just never went right \u2013 often with the clients.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Over time, I began to avoid taking on new offline clients, and began focusing on online delivery of <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/writing-service\/\" target=\"_blank\">freelance writing<\/a> and <a href=\"http:\/\/excelheaven.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Excel-VB software development services<\/a>, as well as products (e.g my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lulu.com\/sdaproducts\" target=\"_blank\">books<\/a>, and <a href=\"http:\/\/iff.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/wp\/feed-formulation\/\" target=\"_blank\">software<\/a>).<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\"><strong>But erratic power supply in Nigeria made working that way a punishing experience. It was so hard to carry on!<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em>All this while, the subtle \u201chints\u201d never stopped. It kept quietly telling me. At a point, I realized I had to \u201clisten\u201d, and do what \u201cit\u201d was telling me to do.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">I eventually moved here in Benin Republic on 1st April 2013.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style18\">The first 3 months were tough.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">My self-belief was pit to the test many times. But I held out, and eventually broke through.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em>Today, about 6 months on, the results I\u2019m getting are much better than anything I got in the over 10 years I spent working from Nigeria. <\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">That\u2019s no exaggeration.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>I enjoy much higher productivity. And I undergo less stress\/strain. Mainly because I get more done with less effort, at less cost, in an environment devoid of perpetual annoyances!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">And it\u2019s mainly because I listened \u2013 and continue to listen \u2013 to IT.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\"><strong>What Is This \u201cThing\u201d That\u2019s Been Telling Me \u201cThings\u201d?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">It\u2019s called \u201cIntuition\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">It can also be referred to as the \u201cSixth sense\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">I\u2019d been haphazardly following its guidance for over 2 decades, without knowing it was often why I periodically excelled.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Then I began reading books that explained how making more conscious use of it facilitates better pursuit of one\u2019s goals.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">And I began doing it more deliberately.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style75\">Here's a warning for those with \u201cfast-food\u201d mental attitudes:<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">This does not work instant wonders.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">One must do it with persistence and diligence, over time to get the results.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">There is a learning process.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">So keep that in mind, and don\u2019t expect overnight miracles.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\"><strong>To Use Your Intuition, You Must \u201cThink With Your Whole Body\u201d<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.burtdubin.com\/tools\/177monthly.html\" target=\"_blank\">Renowned mentor of some of the world's highest paid International Speakers, Burt Dubin<\/a> - in a Speaker Match Radio show with Brian Kaplovitch \u2013 once spoke in elaborate detail about how to use your intuition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em><strong>NB:<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/burt_new_flyer.pdf\" target=\"_blank\">I represent Burt Dubin as sole agent across the African continent<\/a>, for sales of his <a href=\"http:\/\/www.speakingsuccess.com\/speaking_success_system.html\" target=\"_blank\">speaker mentoring products and services<\/a>. <\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">That show\u2019s edition was titled \u201c<strong>Conquer Your Demons (What They Don\u2019t Teach You At Speaking Business School)<\/strong>\u201d.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em>Below is a verbatim transcript I made, of excerpts from the audio recording. <\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>Read it, and apply the wisdom Burt shares in there. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong><em>NB: If you do so, YOU will NEVER be the same again. <\/em><\/strong><em>If the foregoing makes me sound like a preacher, take it as a sign that you should BELIEVE me \ud83d\ude42<\/em><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\"><strong>====Start of Text Transcript of Burt Dubin\u2019s Speaker Match Radio Message=====<\/strong><\/h3>\n<blockquote>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">\u201cWhat most of us do not know is that your body \u2013 this is every person \u2013 not just you, everyone.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\" align=\"center\">Everyone\u2019s body is a sensitive receiver. Did you ever deal with someone and then say to yourself, \u201cOh that guy\u2019s a pain in the butt\u201d? Or a pain in the neck?<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">Your body is telling you there\u2019s something wrong\u2026what\u2019s wrong with this picture?<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">Albert Einstein, the great Einstein said (when asked about the source of his cognitive skill), he said: <strong><em>\u201cWell most people just think with their brain. I think with my whole body. I think with my whole body. \u201c<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">I have learned that\u2026now this is me speaking not Einstein, though I have his picture in my office, my grandmother gave me, an etching of Albert Einstein that she got way back\u2026waaay way back 1932 when he spoke for her at Dorso Jephard (?) in Philadelphia.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">That\u2019s another great story, but we\u2019ll set that one aside.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><strong>He said I think with my whole body.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><strong>Let me tell you what Emerson said. Ralph Waldo Emerson. <\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\" align=\"center\">He said \u201c<em>What lies before you, and what lies behind you, are as nothing compared with what lies within you<\/em>.\u201d<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">Emerson was a brilliant, brilliant man.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><strong>And Dr Willis Harman, now alive and then the president of the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology, way way back before I was a member of NSA, I was a member of the Association for Transpersonal Psychology.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">And I\u2019d listen to him say these words, oh my lord late \u201970's \u2013 1979 or 80 perhaps, into 82 to 83 and ah. And he gave a whole program on intuition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><strong><em>And he said \u201cListen to no other voice\u201d.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\" align=\"center\"><strong>Now for whatever it may be worth, throughout my speaking career, as well as before my speaking career, this has been what guided every decision that I made.<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">Listening to my inner voice.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><strong>When 18 years ago Brian, \u00a0almost 19 years ago now, I was then a very successful speaker doing oh maybe 75 gigs a year for 3,500 to 5 o 6 sometimes 8.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">And I got this intuition, saying I should no longer be doing this. I should abandon my speaking career and become a mentor for speakers. That was back in 1989\u202689!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\" align=\"center\"><strong>I listened to the inner voice, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.speakingsuccess.com\/speaking_success_system.html\" target=\"_blank\">I became a mentor for speakers and I may well be the best one in the world<\/a>. <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">I\u2019m not burdened with modesty. You know what Napoleon said? He said:<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\" align=\"center\"><strong><em>\u00a0\u201cModesty is for people who have something to be modest about.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\"><strong>So listen to your inner voice, and I\u2019m saying this to everyone on the call. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\" align=\"center\">Listen to your inner voice. Do what your inner voice tells you to do regarding your career, regarding your life, regarding your topic, regarding your market, regarding the speaking practice that you involve yourself in \u2013 all of that.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\" align=\"center\"><strong><em>Listen to your inner voice - you will not be wrong.<\/em><\/strong><\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n<h3 class=\"style3\"><strong>====End of Text Transcript of Burt Dubin\u2019s Speaker Match Radio Message=====<\/strong><\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"style46\">Related Reading: 3 Past Write-ups On Intuition...Sixth Sense...etc<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">I've written in the past on the above theme. Three of them appear below.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Interestingly, the second article listed, was written following a request by someone who read the first one on Facebook, and took part in the discussion that followed.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">1. <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/how-to-establish-truth-and-experience-less-doubt\/\" target=\"_blank\">How to Establish Truth, and Experience Less Doubt<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">2. <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/sometimes-you-need-to-act-without-your-intuition-6-tips\" target=\"_blank\">Sometimes You Need to Act Without Your Intuition (6 Tips)<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">3. <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/to-succeed-you-need-your-sixth-sense-to-unmask-insincerity\/\" target=\"_blank\">To Succeed You Need Your Sixth Sense to Unmask Insincerity<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">You may wish to read these 3 pieces, for more insights on how to use your intuition.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style78\"><strong>Remember though, that no one can realistically aim to achieve perfection at this.<\/strong> But you <strong>can<\/strong> - indeed <strong>should <\/strong>- become proficient. And that will make you succeed more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Good luck!<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31 style42\">Need More Details of How to Make The Above Ideas Work for YOU?<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">If you need more specific details of how to make use of the ideas I've shared in this newsletter,<strong> <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/contact.htm\" target=\"_blank\">send me a message using this request form<\/a> - with \"<strong>Re: No. 110: Why You Need to Think With Your Whole Body (and How)!<\/strong>\" in the subject line.<\/p>\n<table width=\"500\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"2\" cellpadding=\"2\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td bgcolor=\"#CCCCCC\">\n<table width=\"550\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"2\" cellpadding=\"2\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\" width=\"125\">\n<p class=\"style44\" style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18px;\" align=\"left\"><strong>SD Nuggets Blog<\/strong>\u2122<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\" width=\"411\"><span class=\"style55\">New posts from last week that may interest you! * <\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\"><span class=\"style53\"><strong>Public Speaking<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>[<span class=\"style42\">Monday]<\/span>:<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style53\" align=\"right\"><a title=\"Permanent Link to No. 109: Earn Extra Non-Farm Income at Zero Cost\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/no-109-earn-extra-non-farm-income-at-zero-cost\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">No. 109: Earn Extra Non-Farm Income at Zero Cost<\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\">\n<p style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px;\" align=\"left\"><strong>Entrepreneurship [<span class=\"style42\">Tuesday]<\/span>:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style53\" align=\"right\"><a title=\"Permanent Link to What is a BOPMS for Farm Improvement? (a Mind Map Based Explanation \u2013 By Tayo K. Solagbade) \u2013 Video and Text Transcript\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/what-is-a-bopms-for-farm-improvement-a-mind-map-based-explanation-by-tayo-k-solagbade-video-and-text-transcript\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">What is a BOPMS for Farm Improvement? (a Mind Map Based Explanation \u2013 By Tayo K. Solagbade) \u2013 Video and Text Transcript<\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\" height=\"28\"><span class=\"style53\"><strong>Self-Development [<span class=\"style42\">Wednesday<\/span>]: <\/strong><\/span><\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style53\" align=\"right\"><a title=\"Permanent Link to Searching for Farm Business Opportunities? (5 Tips, Based on a Real Life International Phone Conversation)\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/searching-for-farm-business-opportunities-5-tips-based-on-a-real-life-international-phone-conversation\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Searching for Farm Business Opportunities? (5 Tips, Based on a Real Life International Phone Conversation)<\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\">\n<p style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px;\" align=\"left\"><strong>Career Development [<span class=\"style42\">Thursday<\/span>]:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style53\" align=\"right\"><a title=\"Permanent Link to Coach Others to Be Super Achievers (5 Experience Based Tips)\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/coach-others-to-be-super-achievers-5-experience-based-tips\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Coach Others to Be Super Achievers (5 Experience Based Tips)<\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\" height=\"28\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px;\"><strong>Parenting [<span class=\"style42\">Friday<\/span>]: <\/strong><\/span><\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style53\" align=\"right\"><a title=\"Permanent Link to 10 Year Old Uses Dead Laptop Battery, to Build Home-Made Rechargeable Lamp\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/10-year-old-uses-dead-laptop-battery-to-build-home-made-rechargeable-lamp\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">10 Year Old Uses Dead Laptop Battery, to Build Home-Made Rechargeable Lamp<\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\">\n<p style=\"font-family: Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 10px;\" align=\"left\"><strong>Writing\/Blogging [<span class=\"style42\">Saturday<\/span>]: <\/strong><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<td valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style53\" align=\"right\"><a title=\"Permanent Link to Strategies to Start Writing On Your Blog \u2013 Fast!\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/strategies-to-start-writing-on-your-blog-fast\/\" rel=\"bookmark\">Strategies to Start Writing On Your Blog \u2013 Fast!<\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td colspan=\"2\" valign=\"top\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<div class=\"style31\" align=\"center\"><strong>Want me to write for you?<\/strong> <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/writing-service\/\" target=\"_blank\">Click here... <\/a><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p class=\"style3\"><a title=\"Click to view Frequently Asked Questions for Burt Dubin's Speaking Success System\" href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/faq-BurtDubin.pps\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-style: initial; border-color: initial; color: #666633; font-family: Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; text-align: left; border-width: 0px;\" alt=\"Click now\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/bdu.png\" width=\"442\" height=\"336\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Have a lovely week!<\/p>\n<p><a style=\"font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none; color: #5977b3;\" title=\"Tayo Solagbade - signature\" href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border-width: 0px;\" alt=\"\" src=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/images\/signature.jpg\" width=\"255\" height=\"71\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><span class=\"style30\">Tayo K. Solagbade*<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Self-Development\/Performance Improvement Specialist<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>*Sole Agent For\u00a0<\/em><em><a style=\"font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none; color: #5977b3;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.speakingsuccess.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">Burt Dubin's Speaker Mentoring Service<\/span><\/a><\/em><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><em> In Africa<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mobile:<\/strong> +234-803-302-1263 <strong>(in Nigeria<\/strong>) or +229-66-122-136 (<strong>in Benin Republic<\/strong>)<\/p>\n<p><a style=\"font-weight: bold; text-decoration: none; color: #5977b3;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\">http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>Self-Development\/Performance Enhancement Specialist<\/strong> - <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/tayosolagbade.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><strong>Tayo Solagbade<\/strong><\/a> - works as a multipreneurial freelance writer providing \u00a0<strong>zero risk<\/strong>\u00a0article and report <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/writing-service\/\" target=\"_blank\">writing support for website owners<\/a>, while travelling slowly across West Africa as a <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Location Independent Entrepreneur<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">He's<a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/they-want-to-learn-english-from-me-i-want-to-improve-my-french-plus-video-of-an-angry-beninese-grasscutter-photos-of-rabbits-a-photo-of-a-13-year-old-burt-dubin-classified-ad\/\" target=\"_blank\"> presently based in Benin Republic<\/a>, where he's preparing an English-French Language Guide, City Travel Guides, and a Commercial Rabbit Farming Guide.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>In a previous life<\/strong>, before leaving to become self-employed, Tayo served for seven years as a <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/why-you-need-a-planned-activity-tracking-sheet-pats\/\" target=\"_blank\">high performing manager in Guinness Nigeria<\/a>. He rose from Shift Brewer, to Training & Technical Development Manager, then later acted in senior management roles as Production Manager and Technical Manager.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">When he\u2019s not amazing clients with his superhuman skills (wink), Tayo works as the creative force behind his\u00a0<strong><a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/how-to-use-the-self-development-nuggets-blog\/\">Self-Development Nuggets\u2122 blog<\/a><\/strong>, and\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/blog\">Public Speaking IDEAS newsletter<\/a>\u00a0(which he publishes to promote Burt Dubin's <a href=\"http:\/\/speakingsuccess.com\" target=\"_blank\">Public Speaking Mentoring service<\/a> to experts working across the African continent).<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">For a limited time, Tayo is available to speak to your group or organization for a moderate fee. Send e-mail to <strong>tayo at tksola dot com<\/strong>. You can also visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tksola.com\" target=\"_blank\">www.tksola.com<\/a> to learn more.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><span class=\"style18\">Connect with him on Twitter <a href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\/tksola\" target=\"_blank\">@tksola.com<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/tayo.solagbade\" target=\"_blank\">Facebook<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>==================<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style31\"><strong><span class=\"style44\">Have you been undecided about whether or not to become a paid speaker? <\/span><span class=\"style20\">Or have you been trying to get your speaking career off the ground with little success?<\/span> <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>Here\u2019s a tip: <\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/burtdubin.com\/\" target=\"_blank\">Burt Dubin<\/a> works with people who want to be speakers, and with speakers who want to be masters. <a href=\"http:\/\/burtdubin.com\/contact_test.html\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a> to visit his website NOW and submit a contact form message telling him what challenges you\u2019re facing, and how you\u2019d like him to help you. <em>Tell him I sent you, and you\u2019ll get a pleasant surprise offer from him<\/em>.<\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\"><strong>Comments?<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">What do you think of the above message? Do you have any personal experience to share on this subject? Are there some other points you feel can be added, to help persons looking for answers? <strong>Please share your thoughts!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\"><strong>Share this issue! <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">Do you know anyone who might benefit from reading this newsletter issue? Why not hit the forward button now, and send it to him\/her with a short recommendation. You can also use share it via your social media channels. Thanks in advance.<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><span style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/TKSolagbadeSDAc\" target=\"_blank\"><span class=\"style20\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"View Tayos video tutorials and demonstrations on Facebook Productivity Tips, Web Marketing, and for his Custom MS Excel-VB driven software applications\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/youtube_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/span><\/a><span class=\"style20\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/tayo.solagbade\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Connect with Tayo on Facebook.com\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/facebook_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/tksola\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Connect with Tayo on Twitter.com\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/twitter_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/plus.google.com\/u\/0\/117041728654417267212\/about\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Connect with Tayo on Google Plus\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/google_plus_32.png\" width=\"32\" height=\"32\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<h3 class=\"style46\">What fears or doubts are keeping you from <span class=\"style20\">(a) <\/span>taking up Burt Dubin's monthly speaker mentoring, or <span class=\"style20\">(b) <\/span>buying his products?<\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"style57\">You can choose to purchase Burt's mentoring at any of the three (3) levels listed below:<\/h3>\n<h3 class=\"style3\"><strong>1.<\/strong> <strong>Top Shelf <\/strong>[<a href=\"http:\/\/www.speakingsuccess.com\/speaking_success_system.html\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a>] <strong>| <\/strong> <strong>2.<\/strong> <strong>Mid Range<\/strong> [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.burtdubin.com\/tools\/177monthly.html\">Click here<\/a>] <strong>| <\/strong> <strong>3. Budget Delight<\/strong> [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.burtdubin.com\/tools\/underground_mentoring.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a>]<\/h3>\n<p class=\"style3\">Burt's three mentoring packages can be likened to the seating options offered by airlines: Budget Delight (Economy); Mid Range (Business); and Top Shelf (First Class).<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><em>At least that's how I like to think of them!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">All three will get you to your desired destination of <strong>\"speaking success-ville\" <\/strong>- so long as you meet the requirements\/play your part well (your fare, abide by the set guidelines etc). During the \"flight\", the seat you have will determine how much personal service attention and preference the provider will accord you. It's that simple \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\"><strong>So, make your choice:1.<\/strong> <strong>Top Shelf <\/strong>[<a href=\"http:\/\/www.speakingsuccess.com\/speaking_success_system.html\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a>] <strong>| <\/strong> <strong>2.<\/strong> <strong>Mid Range<\/strong> [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.burtdubin.com\/tools\/177monthly.html\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a>] <strong>| <\/strong> <strong>3. Budget Delight<\/strong> [<a href=\"http:\/\/www.burtdubin.com\/tools\/underground_mentoring.htm\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a>]<\/p>\n<p class=\"style3\">Send me an e-mail with your questions via\u00a0<strong>tayo at tksola dot com<\/strong>. In the meantime, why not get started by subscribing\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/burtdubin.com\/tools\/signup_form.html\" target=\"_blank\">here<\/a>\u00a0to get his\u00a0<strong>7-Part\u00a0Course (How To Succeed And Get Paid As A Professional Speaker)\u00a0.\u00a0\u00a0.\u00a0.\u00a0<\/strong>and\u00a0receive\u00a0his<strong>\u00a0monthly newsletter (Speaking Biz Strategies Letter)<\/strong>\u00a0at no cost.<\/p>\n<div style=\"text-align: left; margin-bottom: 0px;\"><\/div>\n<div style=\"background-color: #ffffff; padding: 5px; margin: 0px;\">\n<table width=\"500\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"1\" cellpadding=\"1\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td bgcolor=\"#00FFFF\">\n<table id=\"Table11\" width=\"500\" border=\"0\" cellspacing=\"1\" cellpadding=\"3\" align=\"center\" bgcolor=\"#FFFFFF\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td width=\"445\"><a title=\"Get mentored by Burt Dubin - coach of some of the world's highest paid public speakers\" href=\"http:\/\/burtdubin.typepad.com\/blog\/\" target=\"_blank\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Get mentored by Burt Dubin - coach of some of the world's highest paid public speakers\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sphpblog-content\/images\/burt-cut-banner.jpg\" width=\"500\" border=\"0\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"style3\">For over 25 years,\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/burtdubin.com\" target=\"_blank\">Burt Dubin<\/a>\u00a0has provided a variety of speaker mentoring products and services to clients worldwide.<\/span><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><strong style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\"><span style=\"font-size: larger;\">Download this flyer as PDF: <\/span><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><a style=\"cursor: pointer; color: #3b5998; text-decoration: none; font-family: 'lucida grande', tahoma, verdana, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 11px; line-height: 14px; text-align: left;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/burt_new_flyer.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow nofollow\"><strong><span style=\"font-size: larger;\">http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/burt_new_flyer.pdf<\/span><\/strong><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"font-family: Arial, Verdana, sans-serif; font-size: 12px;\"><a title=\"Burt Dubin now offers his speaker mentoring service to experts based in Africa. Click now to download this flyer as PDF\" href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/burt_new_flyer.pdf\" target=\"_blank\"><span style=\"font-family: Verdana;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Burt Dubin now offers his speaker mentoring service to experts based in Africa. Click now to download this flyer as PDF\" src=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/uploads\/burt_new_flyer.png\" width=\"539\" height=\"723\" border=\"0\" \/><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td>\n<div align=\"center\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"http:\/\/impactforcoaches.org\/logos\/225.html\" height=\"225\" width=\"225\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"o\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What if you had something that could help you \u201csense\u201d potential problems in relationships with new acquaintances, as well as established contacts? What if it could also give you useful hints towards achieving your valued goals? AND, what if I told you that YOU ALREADY have IT in you? 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