{"id":3186,"date":"2013-09-25T06:38:19","date_gmt":"2013-09-25T06:38:19","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=3186"},"modified":"2013-09-25T07:54:40","modified_gmt":"2013-09-25T07:54:40","slug":"make-it-impossible-for-anyone-to-badmouth-you-successfully","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/make-it-impossible-for-anyone-to-badmouth-you-successfully\/","title":{"rendered":"Make It Impossible for Anyone to Badmouth You Successfully"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What I am going to say in this article may  rub some people the wrong way. But it needs to be said. It\u2019s funny. \u00a0Sometimes people periodically resent others  for no justifiable reason. They may even subtly engage in acts aimed at bringing  those they resent down, by discrediting them. <\/p>\n<h3><strong>No  one \u2013 regardless of age - can escape having this kind of experience. <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><em>The  only way you can avoid it is probably if you choose not to live in society. <\/em><\/p>\n<p>  Some people actually begin having such  experiences before adulthood. It happens in schools, and other environments. <\/p>\n<p><em>There\u2019s  a good chance you have already had one \u2013 or more \u2013 of such experiences.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>  For some strange reason, one or more  persons may decide to see you as a threat to be eliminated.<\/p>\n<p>  A threat to recognition they desire, or a  position they wish to occupy. <\/p>\n<p><strong>Ironically,  you may even be unaware that they see you as a threat<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>  Or you would probably have no interest in whatever  they think you\u2019ll take from them.<\/p>\n<p><em>But even if you told them so, people like this are often very insecure. They would never believe you. Your \"potential\" will often be what scares them. What they see\/know you would be capable of accomplishing, if you were to set your mind to it.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>  They would ONLY feel at ease when convinced they  have destroyed any chance of your beating them to it!<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>And that is why they would make it a prime objective  to discredit you.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>  To them, that would ensure they can go up  where they want to be. \u00a0Many times you  may not even know who feels this way about you. <\/p>\n<p>  But, if you\u2019re lucky, the rumours they  spread could provide useful signs of their ill will. Also, the reactions of others to you would provide further proof.<\/p>\n<p>  People giving you funny stares as you walk by. Some bold enough would walk up to you and say \"<em>Shame on you Tayo! How could you do such a terrible thing?<\/em>\" <\/p>\n<p>  And you would ask \"<strong><em>But what  did I do?<\/em><\/strong>\" in honest surprise. To which another would sneer \"<em>Oh come on, who do you think you\u2019re still  going to fool with your good guy act. It's all out in the open now. We know  you're not better than the others. Don\u2019t pull any innocent acts here!<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n<h3><strong>If You\u2019ve Never Experienced This Problem, KNOW That It\u2019s Real \u2013 and Prepare  Yourself<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>  I realise not everyone can relate to what  I\u2019m saying here. Maybe you were raised in society where this does not happen \u2013  or you\u2019ve never seen it happen.<\/p>\n<p><em>But there  are places where it\u2019s almost a way of life.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>  You never know where you\u2019ll find yourself  in future. Or who you\u2019ll have to relate with. <\/p>\n<p>  People are products of their environments  and experiences. And they carry the habits formed from exposure to their  society and culture with them. <\/p>\n<p>  Not many will be able to avoid acting based on their formed habits. Character, as my people (the Yorubas) say, is like  smoke. <\/p>\n<p>  No matter how hard you try to keep it  hidden, it always finds a way to reveal itself.<\/p>\n<p>  That\u2019s why I suggest you use what you learn  from this article to prepare yourself. That way, if\/when you do have such an experience;  you\u2019ll know how to handle it.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>What  You Can Do<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong><em>Refuse to let them get you down or stop you from being  who you are. <\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Instead,  every day go out with courage, faith and determination to excel regardless on  what anyone says about you.<\/p>\n<p>  Rest assured in the firm knowledge that falsehood can never overcome truth. And you will succeed.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s really simple, and easy to understand.  <\/p>\n<p><em>But I\u2019ve discovered that it can be notoriously hard to remember and diligently apply. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>However, if you are to arrive, you MUST learn to do it.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>  If it's already happening to you, understand that it's very likely a sign that you're headed for great things. <\/p>\n<p>  So many quotes by people who achieved  greatness warn that on the way to that TOP, lots of negativity may be  channelled in your direction. <\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s actually nature\u2019s way of making you qualify for the reward of success and greatness! <\/p>\n<p><H3>RELATED ARTICLES<\/H3><\/p>\n<p>1. <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/know-how-to-deal-with-people-who-mock-and-ridicule-you\/\" target=\"blank\">Do You Know How to Deal With People Who Mock and Ridicule You<\/a><\/p>\n<p>2. <a href=\"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/how-to-defeat-haters-permanently\/\" target=\"blank\">How To DEFEAT Haters \u2013 Permanently!<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What I am going to say in this article may rub some people the wrong way. But it needs to be said. It\u2019s funny. \u00a0Sometimes people periodically resent others for no justifiable reason. They may even subtly engage in acts aimed at bringing those they resent down, by discrediting them. 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