We\u2019ll never be able to foresee who<\/strong> will send out such news, or when<\/strong>. That\u2019s why we\u2019ll be better off learning how to intelligently sieve any <\/strong>news that comes our way for truth.<\/p>\n That would reduce the spread of rumours that could cause problems, or even ruin another person\u2019s life.<\/p>\n No it\u2019s not. I know this based on my childhood experiences \u2013 and also from closely observing children.<\/p>\n We are born as very positive minded human beings. Schooling and societal conditioning are what push us towards negative mindedness.<\/p>\n Stop and think about this for a moment. I mean STOP right now. <\/strong><\/p>\n Think back to when you were young. You will likely recall that you thought good of everyone, believed everyone liked you, and that they would treat you well etc.<\/em><\/p>\n With the exception of people who grew up in abusive homes, this was the case for most of us.<\/p>\n However, for many people, all that changed as we grew into adulthood\u2026sometimes subtly.<\/strong><\/p>\n A quotable quote I recently read stated that most adults readily believe bad things they hear (or read) about another person. They rarely even bother to ask questions to be sure it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n But when it\u2019s a good thing, these same persons insist on seeing (or hearing) proof, to believe!<\/strong><\/p>\n Looking back, my experiences suggest it\u2019s true\u2026<\/p>\n However, I refuse to let that influence me as a person.<\/p>\n I refuse to let it change me into who I am not.<\/strong><\/p>\n That\u2019s why I personally only<\/strong> use hear say as a guide, in my interpersonal interactions.<\/em><\/p>\n To establish truth, I have learnt, from experience, to depend heavily on my 6th sense (listening to my deepest feelings<\/strong>, and acting based on them) \u2013 each time I relate with others.<\/p>\n This is a simple common sense strategy usable by anyone<\/strong>. We were all born with this ability.<\/p>\n And that\u2019s why it remains a mind boggling mystery, at least to me, why most people fail to use it. <\/strong><\/p>\n I use it, it IS the number one reason why I never have doubts that make me get worried or anxious. <\/em><\/p>\n It\u2019s almost the end of my third month in a new country, where the language spoken (French) is VERY different from that spoken in my country of origin, and birth.<\/p>\n When I arrived in Benin Republic on April 1st, 2013, I knew nobody. Not one person. I came in by road, from Lagos, carrying a backpack, a traveller\u2019s bag\u2026and the intermediate French language skill I acquired in 1999.<\/strong><\/p>\n Today, I\u2019ve successfully integrated myself into this French speaking African society. I now serve a local (Web Marketing) client \u2013 who has already given me a referral.<\/p>\n But it took some doing<\/a>. Among other things, my 6th sense helped me identify those who wanted to exploit me<\/a>. With time, I used it to nurture relationships with the right people, till things clicked in place.<\/p>\n I also continue to serve clients back in Nigeria. They deposit (or transfer) cash into my account, in Nigeria, and I deliver the promised product or service. <\/em><\/p>\n Recently, a long time Nigeria-based client\u2019s website hosting expired. We\u2019d known each other for over 5 years, so he trusted me enough to ask his staff to make the payment into my account.<\/p>\n I did not disappoint him. Within minutes, I got the site back online. <\/strong><\/p>\n He probably trusts me MORE now, as a result!<\/em><\/p>\n I\u2019m also interacting with prospects who\u2019ve sought me out online (from the UK, Nigeria, Philippines etc).<\/p>\n My decision to work from a different country raised many questions. Regular power supply and political stability here in Benin were what won me over. Those simple benefits are still<\/strong> lacking in Nigeria.<\/p>\n Then there was(is) the African dream<\/a><\/strong> I had(have), of using Location Independent Entrepreneuring<\/a>, to access target audiences with my products and services.<\/p>\nIs It Normal for Us to Believe The Worst of Ourselves?<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Don\u2019t Let Society Change You Into Who You\u2019re Not: Use Your 6th Sense to Establish Truth!<\/strong><\/h3>\n
Using My 6th Sense to Successfully Practice Location Independent Entrepreneuring (True Story)<\/strong><\/h3>\n
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<\/a><\/p>\nI Was Doubted & Second-Guessed (I Still AM!)<\/strong><\/h3>\n