{"id":2474,"date":"2013-05-22T14:10:01","date_gmt":"2013-05-22T14:10:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=2474"},"modified":"2013-05-22T14:51:41","modified_gmt":"2013-05-22T14:51:41","slug":"dont-be-a-professional-student-se-deplacer-towards-your-goals-as-often-as-possible","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/dont-be-a-professional-student-se-deplacer-towards-your-goals-as-often-as-possible\/","title":{"rendered":"Don't Be a Professional Student: \"D\u00e9placer\" Towards Your Goals As Often As Possible"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>  There are many dimensions of success. Being  rich is one of them. But today, more people are increasingly recognising that  riches alone are not enough to live a truly successful life.<\/p>\n<p>  Indeed some people \u2013 like the Dalai Lama \u2013  are so far evolved in their understanding of life, that their interest in  material possessions is very limited. They often advise having enough to meet  your needs, and using the rest to help others meet theirs. <\/p>\n<h3>Ultimately, It\u2019s Cbout Living a Balanced  Life. <\/h3>\n<p><strong>That  is the true essence of life:<\/strong> make the most of  yourself, in a way that benefits others. <\/p>\n<p>  However, succeeding in the above mentioned  manner <strong>still <\/strong>requires real world  relevant competence. In other words, you must regularly acquire useful  learning, and apply it to productive ends. <\/p>\n<p>  There is really no other way to make the  most of yourself, and add value to others. <em>You  must learn more, and then do more, in order to become more, and thus be able to  give more. <\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>It\u2019s  a Simple Concept: But Some of Us Apply It Incorrectly (Due to Fear, Laziness  etc)<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>  The aspect people often get wrong is the <strong><em>doing<\/em><\/strong> bit. Many of us are so good at learning. It\u2019s a habit we developed from our  early schooling years. If you want to do well, take an extra subject or course.  Go for another degree program. Get an MBA. And so on. <\/p>\n<p>But here\u2019s the problem. Ask yourself WHY  you need to go back and learn more. What is the reason you need that additional  bit of knowledge or \u201ceducation\u201d (if we can call it that)? If you cannot find a  clear and definitive answer to that question, it\u2019s quite likely that you\u2019re  doing it to avoid taking action.<\/p>\n<p>In other words, you\u2019re most probably scared of taking the next step \u2013 which will often be to go out into the real world,  with all that new knowledge you have, and use it to get what you need. And what you need \u2013 probably badly too - could be a new or better job, new or better clients, and so on. <\/p>\n<h3><strong>That\u2019s  Why Some People Succeed in Losing Weight & Others Don\u2019t<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>This attitude denies many people success in different areas of their lives - even the financially successful. For instance we have rich people who are perpetually struggling with obesity. <\/p>\n<p>They buy books and videos \u2013 and even attend  workshops - by celebrity health and fitness gurus. But they never get around to actually doing what those experts recommend. At least not on a consistent  enough basis to get sustainable results. Or maybe they do, and then relapse. <\/p>\n<p>In other words, they get all this knowledge but fail to put it to productive, long term use. And that ultimately defeats  the purpose for which they went out and got the knowledge in the first place!  What\u2019s more, it amounts to a significant waste of money, time and effort on  their part. Not to talk of the disappointment their fitness coach, as well as  loved ones and friends will experience.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes it\u2019s a lack of self-discipline  that makes people act this way \u2013 or just pure laziness. <\/p>\n<p>Whatever may be the cause, it effectively keeps them from succeeding in that area of their lives. So they have money, but they lack health and wellness \u2013 and may have to spend a lot of that money repairing their health later on in life (e.g. heart related problems often associated  with obesity may develop).<\/p>\n<h3><strong>It's Also Why Some Entrepreneurs Make Progress, and Others Don't <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s funny. You would expect that a person who claims to have a \u201cdream\u201d of running his own business would be more diligent.<\/p>\n<p>Sadly, the attitude of many towards  applying themselves to get results in their business suggests otherwise. Some people  attend seminars or workshops, and read books on starting up their businesses, but never really start anything worthwhile. <\/p>\n<p>They just keep attending <strong>more<\/strong> seminars, reading <strong>more<\/strong> books, \u201cstart\u201d to make <strong>more<\/strong> plans \u2013 but they never really begin. Oh, yes\u2026and they talk <strong>more<\/strong> and <strong>more<\/strong> about why they cannot start  yet too \ud83d\ude42<\/p>\n<p>There are also those who manage to get started, but later learn from a book\/seminar that they need to make some changes in order for their businesses to move to the next level. <\/p>\n<p>However, instead of doing that, they keep  procrastinating \u2013 and end up never achieving much. <\/p>\n<p>It is the same thing for people in paid  employment who desire career advancement, and so buy books about how to excel at work, but fail to apply what the learn to deliver improved workplace performances to attract promotions, bonuses etc.<\/p>\n<h3><strong>Don\u2019t  Be a Professional Student: \u201cD\u00e9placer\u201d As Often As Possible Towards Your  Goals<\/strong><\/h3>\n<p>Examples of people caught in the above \u201ctrap\u2019  surround us. Anyone who behaves this way has become a <strong>PROFESSIONAL STUDENT<\/strong>! <\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s not a good title to have I tell you.<\/p>\n<p>Those who take action to put what they learn to use in achieving their desired goals succeed. \u00a0That\u2019s why some entrepreneurs\u2019 businesses grow, while those run by others don\u2019t. It\u2019s also why some people succeed in dropping  dress sizes by following the fitness expert\u2019s instructions, and others don\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>The French use an expression I like a lot. It\u2019s  \u201c<strong>D\u00e9placer<\/strong>\u201d<strong> (<\/strong><a href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/qdg.html\" target=\"_blank\">pronounced <strong>\u201cday  plah say\u201d<\/strong><\/a><strong>)<\/strong> and it means \u201cto  move\u201d. But I like to think of it as \u201c<strong>displacing  yourself<\/strong>\u201d. <\/p>\n<p><em>If  you don\u2019t achieve any movement (by displacing yourself from where you are NOW) towards  the goal you claim to have, you will make no progress!<\/em><\/p>\n<h3><strong>So,  promise yourself that you\u2019ll <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spontaneousdevelopment.com\/sdnuggets\/enough-reading-its-time-you-started-giving-talks\" target=\"_blank\">make sure you \u201cD\u00e9placer\u201d as often as possible<\/a> from today, towards your goals. <\/strong><\/h3>\n<p><strong>Every  day, <\/strong>question yourself: Where am I now? Where was I   last month? Last week? Yesterday? Have I become more? If YES, <strong>how much<\/strong> more? How much closer am I now to my goal?<\/p>\n<p>When you do not \u201c<strong>se d\u00e9placer<\/strong>\u201d, you're working towards becoming a professional student: <strong>Don't let that happen to YOU! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em><\/p>\n<blockquote><p>There is a great deal of difference between having  knowledge and applying it. The teacher asked. \u201cWhat is Agriculture?\u201d The pupil  replied, \u201cAgriculture is just like farming, but farming is doing it. \u2013 W.F.  Weiherman<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>There are many dimensions of success. Being rich is one of them. But today, more people are increasingly recognising that riches alone are not enough to live a truly successful life. 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