{"id":15276,"date":"2020-12-11T11:20:40","date_gmt":"2020-12-11T11:20:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=15276"},"modified":"2020-12-11T12:14:11","modified_gmt":"2020-12-11T12:14:11","slug":"true-story-how-i-went-from-struggling-to-feed-sleeping-on-streets-in-benin-republic-to-a-winning-a-nigerian-diplomat-as-client-who-gave-me-a-room-and-a-driver-to-take-me-to-his-farm-in-nigeria-a","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/true-story-how-i-went-from-struggling-to-feed-sleeping-on-streets-in-benin-republic-to-a-winning-a-nigerian-diplomat-as-client-who-gave-me-a-room-and-a-driver-to-take-me-to-his-farm-in-nigeria-a\/","title":{"rendered":"TRUE STORY: How I Went from Struggling to Feed &#038; Sleeping on Streets in Benin Republic to (a) winning a Nigerian diplomat as client who gave me a room, and a driver to take me to his Farm in Nigeria and (b) getting paid 2,500 Euros by a European Union Funded NGO based in Holland [HINT: The Power of Blind Faith &#038; Refusal to Recognize Failure]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>From sleeping on the streets of Cotonou and Porto-Novo in Benin Republic for about 2 of my first 4 weeks in Cotonou (<a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/why-i-relocated-from-nigeria-to-benin-republic-hint-a-poor-country-where-even-poor-people-live-well\/#.Xz9uWjUo_IU\" target=\"_blank\">after relocating on 1st April 2013<\/a>), I went on several months later to:<\/p>\n<p><strong>A. Win a diplomat in the Nigerian Embassy as a client who:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1.\u00a0 Engaged me to build a website for his farm business based in Iludun, Ekiti state, in Southwest Nigeria.<\/p>\n<p>2. Provided me accomodation in his official residence - for 3 solid weeks.<\/p>\n<p>3. Arranged for his driver to take me down to his Farm in Southwest Nigeria (3 different times) -<strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/photo.php?fbid=10201623683370000&set=a.3887978954047&type=3&theater\" target=\"_blank\">click photo below to view actual Facebook post from September 2013<\/a><\/strong> - to install my <a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/RealRationDemo\" target=\"_blank\">Excel-VB poultry Farm Manager software<\/a> on his farm, and coach his Farm Manager (and young relative of his - a graduate of agriculture in her early 30s) on how to use it.<\/p>\n<p><strong>B. Get contacted by a European Union Funded NGO:<\/strong> who went on to pay me 2,500 Euros for writing (at their request) a Case Study paper about my Excel-VB Ration Formulator and how it was being purchased and used by Farm CEOs in and out of Africa.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/photo.php?fbid=10201623683370000&set=a.3887978954047&type=3&theater\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-15277\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-15277\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/ajayi-tundra-photo.png\" alt=\"ajayi-tundra-photo\" width=\"580\" srcset=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/ajayi-tundra-photo.png 1205w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/ajayi-tundra-photo-300x167.png 300w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/ajayi-tundra-photo-768x428.png 768w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/ajayi-tundra-photo-1024x571.png 1024w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/ajayi-tundra-photo-150x84.png 150w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1205px) 100vw, 1205px\" \/><\/a><br \/>\nUsing funds I'd earned from him and other payments I had begun receiving for my digital products and services (even locally), I moved out of the diplomat's residence after 3 weeks and rented a face-me-I-face-you single room apartment in Cotonou.<\/p>\n<p>Then I continued my relentlessly focused online marketing to generate more search engine based sales leads...<\/p>\n<p>By January 2014, I'd gotten <a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/no-119-how-to-achieve-success-in-any-field-true-story\/\" target=\"_blank\">paid 2,500 Euros by CTA.int for the international Case Study paper<\/a> they commissioned me to write about how my Excel-VB Ration Formulator was being purchased and used by Farm CEOs in and out of Africa.<\/p>\n<p>They contacted me in September 2013 [Read: <a title=\"Permanent Link to No. 119: How to Achieve Success in Any Field (True Story)\" href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/no-119-how-to-achieve-success-in-any-field-true-story\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"bookmark\">No. 119: How to Achieve Success in Any Field (True Story)]<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>By mid-2014, I was able to spend about N287k (money from payments recived from buyers of my <a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/RealRationDemo\" target=\"_blank\">Excel-VB Ration Formulator Software<\/a>, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lulu.com\/shop\/tayo-solagbade\/practical-livestock-feed-formulation-handbook\/ebook\/product-20817463.html\" target=\"_blank\">Feed Formulation Handbook <\/a>and <a href=\"http:\/\/tinyurl.com\/15pfmVideos\" target=\"_blank\">Poultry Farm Manager Software<\/a>) to rent a lovely 2 bedroom \"sanitaire\" apartment in \"Aibaten\" (<a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/societies-that-progress-make-their-best-talents-feel-wanted\/#.X9NO1LMo_IU\" target=\"_blank\">Click here<\/a> or image below to view article showing photos of it) - and moved in with a few furniture items.<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/societies-that-progress-make-their-best-talents-feel-wanted\/#.X9NO1LMo_IU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-15278\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-15278\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cotonou-apartment.png\" alt=\"cotonou-apartment\" width=\"580\" srcset=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cotonou-apartment.png 578w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cotonou-apartment-282x300.png 282w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/cotonou-apartment-141x150.png 141w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 578px) 100vw, 578px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<h3>My plan to return to Nigeria and move my family to join me there (<a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/societies-that-progress-make-their-best-talents-feel-wanted\/#.X9NO1LMo_IU\" target=\"_blank\">which I actually announced on my blog<\/a> and Facebook!) however failed when my spouse did an about face, having previously agreed that I should go pay for the place.<\/h3>\n<p>After waiting in Nigeria for over 2 months pleading for her to change her mind, I was forced to return to Cotonou to inform my Landlady I no longer needed such a big space to live in.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong><em>I lost over 60% of the money (to cover the rental period I'd been the occupant, and also utilities bills), but true to her real estate agent's word, the balance I had left was refunded to me in full.\u00a0 <\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This totally unexpected development really set me back considerably, as I had to return to spending on hotel accommodation. But I survived and my growing earnings helped me keep going.<\/p>\n<p>Today, the online marketing based income earning generation system I was able to establish using 24\/7 access to electricity in Benin continues to serve me well, enabling me to live my dream working as a Location Independent Multipreneur\/Digital Nomad.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><em>Now that I have almost sorted out\u00a0 - via permanent separation - the negative impact of periodic domestic abuse on the home front, after my return to Lagos, which kept causing me problems delivering some client projects, I am achieving sustainable progress in my work. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>My earnings are proof of it. (<strong>FYI: <\/strong>You can watch my <strong>1st November 2020 IG LIVE Interview<\/strong> with <a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/lva\" target=\"_blank\">Coordinator, Lagos State Domestic & Sexual Violence Response Team - DSVRT - Coordinator here<\/a> - and\/or <a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/lvapdf\" target=\"_blank\">get the video to text PDF transcript here<\/a>).<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Soon, I will resume traveling again and commence video interviews to promote my brand even further via my <a href=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/youtube\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube channel<\/a>.<\/p>\n<h3>QUESTION: But how did I go from struggling to feed, and sleeping on the streets in Benin Republic, to (a) winning a Nigerian diplomat as client who gave me a room, and a driver to take me to his Farm in Nigeria (b) getting paid 2,500 Euros by a European Union Funded NGO based in Holland to write a 4,000 word Case Study Paper about my Excel-VB Ration Formulator software\u00a0 ???<\/h3>\n<p>The full story of the actions I took, and especially the mental attitude I maintained - which continues to help me defeat adversity in various shapes and forms today - will be told in an Audio Podcast True Story Narration I will be posting in my <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tayosolagbade.com\/youtube\" target=\"_blank\">YouTube channel<\/a> soon.<\/p>\n<p>To get notified when it goes LIVE, send your email address and WhatsApp number to me via +234-803-302-1263 with the phrase \"Send me the 'Streets-to-Success' Podcast\". Alternatively, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.tayosolagbade.com\/contact.htm\" target=\"_blank\">fill\/submit this web marketing form<\/a>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>From sleeping on the streets of Cotonou and Porto-Novo in Benin Republic for about 2 of my first 4 weeks in Cotonou (after relocating on 1st April 2013), I went on several months later to: A. Win a diplomat in the Nigerian Embassy as a client who: 1.\u00a0 Engaged me to build a website for [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[8,1375,133,266,814,1440,1753,103],"tags":[3580,3579,3576],"class_list":["post-15276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-entrepreneurs","category-excel-vb-solutions","category-farm-biz","category-my-dn-travel-news","category-my-ideas-for-making-nigeria-better","category-recommended-websites-articles","category-the-farm-ceo","category-writingblogging","tag-500-euros-by-a-european-union-funded-ngo-based-in-holland-hint-the-power-of-blind-faith-refusal-to-recognize-failure","tag-and-a-driver-to-take-me-to-his-farm-in-nigeria-and-b-getting-paid-2","tag-true-story-how-i-went-from-struggling-to-feed-sleeping-on-streets-in-benin-republic-to-a-winning-a-nigerian-diplomat-as-client-who-gave-me-a-room"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":1030,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15276","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=15276"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15276\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":15287,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/15276\/revisions\/15287"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=15276"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=15276"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=15276"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}