{"id":14638,"date":"2019-10-23T09:20:00","date_gmt":"2019-10-23T09:20:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=14638"},"modified":"2019-10-23T09:26:50","modified_gmt":"2019-10-23T09:26:50","slug":"npd-dvam-news-no-004-are-there-childrenadults-suffering-emotional-or-psychological-abuse-right-under-your-nose-subtitle-an-experience-based-discussion-of-the-frequently-overlooked-yet-very-t","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/npd-dvam-news-no-004-are-there-childrenadults-suffering-emotional-or-psychological-abuse-right-under-your-nose-subtitle-an-experience-based-discussion-of-the-frequently-overlooked-yet-very-t\/","title":{"rendered":"NPD - DVAM NEWS No. 004: Are There Children\/Adults Suffering Emotional &#038;\/or Psychological Abuse Right Under Your Nose? [Subtitle: An Experience Based Discussion of The Frequently Overlooked Yet VERY TOXIC Personality of the Closet (or Covert) Narcissistic \u201cMother\u201d]"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u201c<strong>Normal or healthier mothers are proud of their children and want them to shine. But a narcissistic mother may perceive her daughter as a threat. If attention is drawn away from the mother, the child suffers retaliation, put-downs, and punishments. The mother can be jealous of her daughter for many reasons: her looks, her youth, material possessions, accomplishments, education and even the young girl\u2019s relationship with the father. This jealousy is particularly difficult for the daughter as it carries a double-message: \u201cDo well so that Mother is proud, but don\u2019t do too well or you will outshine her.<\/strong>\u201d -\u00a0Source: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-legacy-distorted-love\/201310\/mothers-who-are-jealous-their-daughters\" target=\"_blank\">https:\/\/www.psychologytoday.com\/us\/blog\/the-legacy-distorted-love\/201310\/mothers-who-are-jealous-their-daughters<\/a><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\n<\/blockquote>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h3>Verbatim Audio Text Transcript Excerpt:<\/h3>\n<blockquote><p>I'm trying to tell you that we have a situation in which there are children and also adults, who are being exposed to severe forms of emotional and psychological abuse, as we speak, and who are looking for help, but do not know where to go - because nobody listens, nobody understands!<\/p>\n<p>And the people that are guilty of subjecting them to this kind of abuse are typically CLOSET (or COVERT) NARCISSISTS. The ones that hide their behaviour, so that you cannot see it.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/my.pcloud.com\/publink\/show?code=VZewr4kZImehREDCiY5MeituaIr9g5EV0mgX\" target=\"_blank\">Click here to download the full audio (<4MB)\u00a0<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/my.pcloud.com\/publink\/show?code=VZewr4kZImehREDCiY5MeituaIr9g5EV0mgX\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-14639\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-14639\" src=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004.jpg\" alt=\"npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004\" width=\"580\" srcset=\"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004.jpg 1062w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004-231x300.jpg 231w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004-768x998.jpg 768w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004-788x1024.jpg 788w, http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/npd-bpp-tks-001-dvam004-115x150.jpg 115w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1062px) 100vw, 1062px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>====================================<\/p>\n<h1><a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">CLICK HERE TO VISIT MY FACEBOOK ADVOCACY PAGE AND READ MORE ABOUT DVAM + HOW TO IDENTIFY\/STOP IT<\/a><\/h1>\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_6\">\n<div class=\"_qa1\">\n<p><a class=\"_2dgj\" href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"_4jhq img\" src=\"https:\/\/scontent.flos1-1.fna.fbcdn.net\/v\/t1.0-1\/p320x320\/17883936_1010208112413236_2611141537089962332_n.png?_nc_cat=0&oh=56af2ecbe493e89203f665198d89278a&oe=5BD8420C\" alt=\"\" width=\"180\" height=\"180\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"_1jts uiPopover _6a _6b\"><a href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">\u00a0<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_19sz\">\n<div class=\"_19s-\">\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_7\">\n<div>\n<div>\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_0\">\n<h1 id=\"seo_h1_tag\"><a class=\"_64-f\" href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\">Domestic Violence Against Men \u2013 Ideas for Identifying & Stopping It<\/a><\/h1>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"_19s_\">\n<div>\n<div id=\"u_fetchstream_14_8\"><a id=\"js_3c2\" class=\"_2wmb\" href=\"https:\/\/web.facebook.com\/stopdvambytks\/#\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\" data-hover=\"tooltip\" data-tooltip-content=\"\">@stopdvambytks<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00a0 \u201cNormal or healthier mothers are proud of their children and want them to shine. But a narcissistic mother may perceive her daughter as a threat. If attention is drawn away from the mother, the child suffers retaliation, put-downs, and punishments. The mother can be jealous of her daughter for many reasons: her looks, her [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[2852,1375,266,814,87,1440],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-14638","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-domestic-violence-against-men-dvam","category-excel-vb-solutions","category-my-dn-travel-news","category-my-ideas-for-making-nigeria-better","category-parenting","category-recommended-websites-articles"],"aioseo_notices":[],"views":870,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14638","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=14638"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14638\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":14641,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/14638\/revisions\/14641"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=14638"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=14638"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=14638"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}