{"id":13829,"date":"2018-09-04T09:18:56","date_gmt":"2018-09-04T09:18:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=13829"},"modified":"2018-09-04T09:18:56","modified_gmt":"2018-09-04T09:18:56","slug":"pii-132-not-being-a-conventional-parent-a-proven-parenting-success-secret-true-stories-ideas-you-can-use-part-1-of-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/pii-132-not-being-a-conventional-parent-a-proven-parenting-success-secret-true-stories-ideas-you-can-use-part-1-of-2\/","title":{"rendered":"PII 132 - NOT Being A Conventional Parent: A Proven Parenting Success Secret [True Stories + Ideas You Can Use] - Part 1 of 2"},"content":{"rendered":"

He\u00a0lost his wealthy father at the tender age of 7, and along with 5 siblings had to be cared for by a struggling mother<\/a>\u00a0(who was deserted by family members and her husband's friends)<\/p>\n

But by the time he clocked 16, he was already earning $3,000 to 5,000 USD monthly, writing for international clients from his humble dwelling in Nigeria's ancient city of Ibadan.<\/p>\n

Today, he's been featured as the \"Ultimate Nigerian Business Success Story\" on top platforms across the world, like Forbes.com and Business Insider.<\/p>\n

And despite being just\u00a0in his early 20s, he already owns a 50 acre (300 plots) parcel land with a thriving catfish farm business whch he runs on it, having invested some of his Internet earnings into the offline business.<\/p>\n

How did he achieve all this, when he started out with next to nothing you wonder?<\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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PII 132 -\u00a0NOT Being A Conventional Parent: A Proven Parenting Success Secret [True Stories + Ideas You Can Use] - Part 1 of 2<\/h1>\n

He\u00a0lost his wealthy father at the tender age of 7, and along with 5 siblings had to be cared for by a struggling mother<\/a>\u00a0(who was deserted by family members and her husband's friends)<\/p>\n

But by the time he clocked 16, he was already earning $3,000 to 5,000 USD monthly, writing for international clients from his humble dwelling in Nigeria's ancient city of Ibadan.<\/p>\n

Today, he's been featured as the \"Ultimate Nigerian Business Success Story\" on top platforms across the world, like Forbes.com and Business Insider.<\/p>\n

And despite being just\u00a0in his early 20s, he already owns a 50 acre (300 plots) parcel land with a thriving catfish farm business whch he runs on it, having invested some of his Internet earnings into the offline business.<\/p>\n

How did he achieve all this, when he started out with next to nothing you wonder?<\/h3>\n

Especially doing what he does working in a very difficult socioeconomic environment like Nigeria (with erratic power supply and Internet connectivity), PLUS having to deal with the discrimination from some potential clients, due to the negative image of Nigerians created by 419ers?<\/p>\n

Being the diligent student of success and human bevariour that I am, I have studied this chap for a while, since I first discovered him in 2014 or so. And here's what my findings tell me:<\/em><\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

1. He had exposure, very early in life to what is called TRIAL BY FIRE, and luckily for him, he USED it to build himself up for success.<\/h3>\n

Evidence that I'm right can be readily deduced from the following statement, he made in an interview published online:<\/p>\n

\"Losing my dad taught me a lot. It taught me tenacity: persistent determination. From the age of seven, other than God, I\u2019ve had to do most things on my own; no fatherly support or resources to make things \u2018manifest\u2019 for me. As a result, I grew up being highly independent and persistent. A fighter of sorts, I grew up learning that if you want something, you demand and fight for it; and you don\u2019t give up until you get it\u2026 because there is no dad who is going to give it to you. You either get it, or you don\u2019t. For me, this lesson is more valuable than anything else a father could have given me. When I want something, I go for it\u2026 and I don\u2019t give up until I get it. This tenacity is God\u2019s gift to the fatherless, and I\u2019m taking it with me all my life.\" - Bamidele Onibalusi, Source:\u00a0Losing my dad at 7 taught me how not to give up\u2014Onibalusi, 24-year-old celebrated guest blogger\/<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n

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Note to reader: I first wrote about this young man on my blog back in 2014, when an elderly Swedish lady who connected with me on Facebook told me that HE was HER idol. Since then I've written several pieces about him, a recent one being:\u00a0Choosing The Right Role Models for Success Achievement \u2013 What to Look For [Case Study: 21 year old Ibadan-based Nigerian freelance writer\/blogger, who earns thousands of dollars writing for international clients AND also makes money from a Catfish Farm Business he started 1 year ago!]<\/a><\/p>\n

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2. BUT\u00a0 apart from exposure to trial by fire, he also did NOT have any OBLIGATIONS to fulfill that could have distracted him from maintaining his focus on doing what was required to achieve the success he needed.<\/strong><\/em><\/h3>\n

This second factor is quire important - believe me. I know what it feels like to try pursuing success of this kind while having a family to support. It's much more difficult!<\/p>\n

This is why successful people strongly recommend starting as early as possible. And that's why I'm supporting my kids to do just that.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Sadly, too many Nigerian parents do NOT understand the need for this.<\/p>\n

They unwisely tell their kids to wait and finish school first!<\/p>\n

Bill Gates, Steve Jobs, Richard Branson, and many others including Robert Kiyosaki started long\u00a0while they were STILL in\u00a0school - and some even dropped out at some point to continue. Later, they came back and finished their schooling.<\/p>\n

Now, it might interest you to know that the young man Onibalusi, is today\u00a0sponsoring his own university studies<\/a>\u00a0using money he makes from his online and offline business.<\/h3>\n

Like I always say, if you lack money, there is a limit to how much formal schooling you can easily access in most societies.<\/p>\n

So learning to make money as early as possible in life,\u00a0can be to your advantage in so many ways. Smart parents will teach their kids to do it. There is just no better way to empower your child to excel in life as an adult.<\/p>\n

It may NOT be conventional or popular to insist that your kids learn income earning vocational skills on a 50:50 basis alongside their academics, on a daily basis, for instance.<\/p>\n

But the results you get, which will equip the child with useful real world relevant life skills that your child will OWN forever, will prove you right in the long run - and make your child grateful that you made him\/her do it.<\/p>\n

The true story linked below, provides a real life example of how I use the ideas I've shared above. Click the link or image to learn more.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

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PII 128 \u2013 Commandment No. 5 of 10 \u2013 You Shall Confidently Offer to Solve Real Life Problems For Your Target Audience [Features TRUE STORY of Teenager Who Started Making Custom Shoes for Himself Because Shoe Sellers Rarely Have Shoes Fitting His Size 46 Feet]<\/a><\/h3>\n

\"10-Commandments-Part5\"<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

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    PII 130: Proven Secret to Generating Repeat Purchases from Buyers<\/a><\/h2>\n

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    PII 131 \u2013 Commandment No. 6 of 10: You Shall Diligently Monitor and Measure Web Marketing KPIs [*Features Explanation of 6 Web Marketing KPIs]<\/a><\/h2>\n

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