{"id":11804,"date":"2017-04-14T04:39:44","date_gmt":"2017-04-14T04:39:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/?p=11804"},"modified":"2017-04-14T04:45:01","modified_gmt":"2017-04-14T04:45:01","slug":"domestic-violence-against-men-by-toyin-omoniyi-tylegal-nairaland-com-praiseworldradio-com","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/tayosolagbade.com\/sdnuggets\/domestic-violence-against-men-by-toyin-omoniyi-tylegal-nairaland-com-praiseworldradio-com\/","title":{"rendered":"[DVAM] Domestic Violence Against Men by Toyin Omoniyi (TyLegal) - NairaLand.com & PraiseWorldradio.com"},"content":{"rendered":"

[Starting yesterday Thursday 13th April 2017, I formally announced<\/a> my public service initiative to research, investigate and\u00a0publicize potentially useful information and education by competent expert authorities on Domestic Violence Against Men]<\/p>\n

The article previewed below was published by a female Nigerian lawyer, I find its contents most accurate, and recommend it to members of both genders,
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Domestic Violence Against Men by TyLegal: 2:22pm On Nov 19, 2015<\/h3>\n<\/blockquote>\n
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Other forms of abuse are where a woman manipulates her man into granting her wishes or goes about spreading negative rumours about him to his friends or even on social media.<\/p>\n

She might insinuate that her man beats her or does not provide for the family or that he is a \u2018two-minute man\u2019. She might also threaten to take the kids and disappear so that the man will not have any access to his kids. Women have also been known to drug their men or attack them in their sleep. If as a man, you are experiencing any of these, please get help fast.<\/p>\n

Other forms of domestic violence against men are:
\n\u00b7 Constant accusations of infidelity.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 Putting him down or insulting him.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 Seizing his medications as a form of threat.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 Trying to control what he wears, eats or how he spends his money.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 Verbally abusing him, be it in the presence of friends, colleagues or even within closed doors.<\/p>\n

\u00b7 Blaming the man for her violent actions or making him feel that he deserves such treatment.<\/p>\n

Towards the end she writes:<\/p>\n

This is not to give women ideas on how to abuse their men o. It is to create awareness that men also get abused and they also need to be protected. Men should be on the lookout to ensure that they are not in such a relationship otherwise it would shatter the man\u2019s ego and leave him a shadow of himself.<\/p>\n

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What a wonderfully balanced mind this Nigerian Lady Lawyer has!<\/p>\n

Read the full article at:\u00a0http:\/\/www.nairaland.com\/2748370\/domestic-violence-against-men<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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